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Deborah M. O'Connor

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Deborah M. O'Connor obituary, 1953-2021, Waterford, NY

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Deborah O'Connor Obituary

O'Connor, Deborah M. WATERFORD Deborah M. O'Connor, 67, passed away peacefully on February 21, 2021, at The Eddy Village Green with her loving sister and fiance by her side. Born in Albany on April 28, 1953, she was the daughter of the late Joseph S. Mahan Sr. and Patricia (Guiry) Mahan. Deborah grew up in Latham and was a 1971 graduate of Shaker High School. Following graduation, she went on to further her studies at Mildred Elley Business School. She began her career with the New York State Office of General Services and went on to work at the University at Albany until retirement. After retirement, Deborah earned her nail technician license and used her skills to volunteer her time giving manicures for elderly residents at a local nursing home. In this, she found so much joy. One of Debbie's favorite pastimes was shopping. She was a professional Marshalls and TJ Maxx browser (though she preferred Marshalls) and could often be found perusing around, searching for and buying anything pink. Debbie never left home without the essentials: an enormous purse, a bottle of Pepsi, some sort of candy and a hot pink lipstick. She had the most magnetic personality. People were drawn to her charismatic energy, her contagious laugh and her beauty - both inside and out. Her colorful personality always made for the best family gatherings - of which, she never missed. She was happiest when surrounded by her loved ones. Debbie was a bright light and if you knew her, you were the lucky one. Deborah is survived by her two sons, Casey (Pamela) O'Connor, and James (Leigh) O'Connor; her grandchildren, Jake, Casey, Avery, and Ozzie O'Connor; her siblings, Joseph (Paula) Mahan, John (Debbie) Mahan, Stephen (Lisa) Mahan, Patti (Dave) Borisenok, and Ronnie (Michelle) Mahan; her fiance John Dolan; her beloved canine companion Ava Rose, and by many loving nieces and nephews. Deborah's funeral service will be held on Thursday, February 25, at 1 p.m. at the Bowen & Parker Bros. Funeral Home, Latham. Burial will follow in Memory Gardens Cemetery. Relatives and friends are invited to visit with Deborah's family before the service from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. To remember Deborah in a special way, please consider a donation to The Community Hospice, 445 New Karner Rd, Albany, NY, 12205. Condolence book and memorial page at bowenandparkerbros.com.

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Published by Albany Times Union on Feb. 24, 2021.

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Rose Viggiani

February 18, 2025

Deb- I can´t believe it´s been 4 years:-(
I think of you all the time. I´m happy you´re at peace. I know you and your son Casey are together again. My heart goes out this family and yours.
Love Rosie

Mchelle

February 18, 2025

There was no one more sweet and more generous as Debbie! Missing you so much.

Rose Viggiani

February 22, 2024

Debbie,
I can´t believe it´s been 3 years since you passed. I will always remember your smiling face and loving nature. You are missed.
Love Rosie

Rose Viggiani

February 21, 2023

Debbie-It´s hard to believe it´s been 2 years. Rest In Peace sweet friend.
Love,
Rosie

Michelle

February 21, 2022

Oh Debbie, today its a year since you've been gone. Life is not the same, and how much you are missed dear one. I know you and Michael are together once again.

Nadine

March 4, 2021

Dear Mahan Family,

I am sad to hear the news of Debbie´s passing. Peace to all of you. May she Rest In Peace.

Nadine

Mike and Gerrie Flynn

February 26, 2021

For John Patti and family ... Prayers for you and your family during these very difficult times... We hope this saying brings some peace to all

Karen McMahon Cruden

February 25, 2021

I was so saddened to hear of Debbie´s passing .. far too young.. I know she will be so very missed by all of her family and friends.. I will always remember all the fun we had as kids! She was a bright light that will be sorely missed!
She will be in your hearts forever...

Brian M O'Connor

February 25, 2021

Joe and John,
Sorry to hear about the death of your sister. She will be in my prayers.

John Kearney

February 25, 2021

Joe, (Paula); John, (Deb) and families;
Lynda and I send prayers and condolences on the passing Deborah.
Rest in peace and God Bless!

Michelle Calabrese Koons

February 25, 2021

Debbie, my sweet little sister, you will be missed by so many! You were a bright light in everyone's life who knew you..I know you are in a good place, so save a spot for me! Until we see each other again, Rest In Peace my sweet and precious one. xoxo..me

Deb Wager

February 25, 2021

To John and Debbie's family our deepest condolences, our monthly trivia night will never be the same without our "Captain" you will be sorely missed. Rest in Peace
Bob and Deb

Nancy Rao

February 24, 2021

So sad to hear this. My Mom & I loved talking to you Debbie when you worked at Price Chopper...as your obit states you have a magnetic personality. You will be missed by so many

Danny Castellano

February 24, 2021

Deb, wishing we had more time together, we miss you. We will miss going out to restaurants and you'll always ask for regular butter instead of garlicbutter or sending a soup back because it wasn't hot enough or our boys drinking all your Pepsi.❤Thank you for all the good times when we would come up and visit with our boys. Rest in heavenly peace Deb.

Jane Mahan

February 24, 2021

Sending my deepest sympathy to the entire Mahan family during this difficult time. Debbie was a wonderful sister-in-law & I will always have fond memories. She can finally rest in peace but will be missed by all who loved her.

Mike and Nancy McNulty & Family

February 24, 2021

Casey, Jim, Joe, Paula, and Family: We are very sorry for your loss.

Rose Viggiani

February 24, 2021

My deepest condolences to the entire Mahan family for the loss of sweet Debbie. May she Rest In Peace

Sue and Bob Erno

February 24, 2021

Dear Joe and the Mahan family
So sorry to hear about Debbie.
Such a sad time for your family.
Just remembering Sherwood Drive. Lots of great memories
You are in our thoughts at this difficult time

Maureen Delsignore

February 24, 2021

My condolences to the family and John. Debbie always had a big smile for everyone. She will be missed by anyone who knew her. My prayers are going out to all of you.

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