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Stephen "Steve" Carney M.D.

1939 - 2019

Stephen Carney Obituary

Carney, Stephen "Steve" M.D. MCLEAN, Va. Stephen "Steve" Carney, M.D. died on December 14, 2019, in McLean, at 80 years old. He was born on April 3, 1939, in Brooklyn, to parents Ruth Pette and Stephen James Carney. His stepfather was Nicholas Pette. Steve is survived by his wife of 54 years, Mary Jane Carney, and their three children, Mary Frances (McGuiness), Stephen, and Michael. Steve was a highly respected dental surgeon. He graduated from the College of the Holy Cross in 1960 and from the School of Dentistry at Georgetown University in 1964. He completed his medical residency at Cornell Medical School in 1970. In 1979, he and his family moved to Albany, and for the next 25 years he built a successful Oral Maxillo Facial Surgery Practice. Steve and Mary Jane lovingly raised three children, and he never missed a swim meet, school play, or other family activity. He is famous for starting the Carney Olympics, a beloved but fierce family competition that continues to this day. When Steve retired in 2004, he and Mary Jane moved to Ponte Vedra Beach, Fla., where they enjoyed frequent visits from their children and the full-time presence of many old and new friends. Steve was famous to all who knew him for his humor, his story telling, and his piano playing, which he did often, for friends and family at gatherings. A lover of Irish music, he often played his favorite, "Danny Boy." He was predeceased by his mother, father, and stepfather. He will be well remembered and cherished by his wife, Mary Jane; his three children and their spouses, Mary Frances and John, Stephen and Kerry, and Michael and Chris; as well as by his three grandchildren, Lucy, Eloise, and Isla. The funeral Mass will be held on Saturday, December 21, at 10:30 a.m. in the Holy Trinity Catholic Church in Washington, D.C., with a reception immediately following at the 1789 restaurant, located above The Tombs where Steve met Mary Jane while tending bar in the late 1950's. There will also be a celebration of his life at a future date in Ponte Vedra Beach. In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to the College of the Holy Cross in Worcester, Mass., or to Iona Senior Services, in Washington, D.C.

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Published by Albany Times Union on Dec. 18, 2019.

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Nina Tow

February 25, 2021

I had the privilege of meeting Dr and Mrs Carney while they lived at Cypress Village. I was one of the caregivers and spent lots of time with Mary Jane while Doctor helped out at the local food kitchen, so like him, he was a wonderful man. After he discontinued services he sent me a beautiful letter of reference that I did not even ask for, always so kind. I was so deeply sorry to hear Dr Carney had passed on, sympathies to the family.
Respectfully,
Nina Tow

Marty and Peggy Gavaghan

January 16, 2021

So very sorry for your loss. Steve was a good neighbor and friend. Our thoughts and prayers are with Steve’s family.

Richard Thayer

December 24, 2019

My sincere condolences. When I opened my office just down the road from Steve's, it wasn't more than a few days before he stopped in and welcomed me. I'm not sure if it was faith or sympathy for a fellow Hoya, but he was generous in his support to help me succeed. I am grateful for his insight and advice over the years. I have missed him since his retirement and will remember him always.

December 20, 2019

Dear Mary Frances,
Your Dad's passing is sad news: The world needs as many Georgetown Dental alumni as it can get! I am sorry for your loss. Haven't seen you in many years, but please know that am thinking of you now, hoping you're able to find peace during what must be a difficult time.
Yours,
-Andy Alpart

Dick Chartrand

December 18, 2019

Steve was the best of us. He was bright, alert, certainly humorous, an able pianist. And obviously a well-qualified dental surgeon. He was fun to be with, always interesting. It was an honor to be his friend.
I just re-read Henry Cardinal Newman's well-known description of a gentlemen, brought to my attention by a good Jesuit priest Freshman year at Holy Cross. In these times where civility is lacking, Newman's words strongly suggest my classmate Steve. May he rest in peace.

Chuck Comeau

December 17, 2019

Our loss is heaven's gain. A lifetime of friendship and I look forward to singing Old Mamie Reilly with him in the sight of our God.

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