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Billie Worley Obituary

WORLEY Billie R. Worley, 65, went home to be with the Lord, Friday, August 24, 2007 after a brief, yet courageous battle with cancer. Billie was born December 6, 1941 in Coldwater, Michigan and moved to Jacksonville 46 years ago. She was a long time employee of State Farm Insurance. Billie is survived by her sons, Cameron Mayer (Carolyn Gray) and John Mayer (Karen Pulliam); aunt, Margie Newton (Lynn Haven, FL); dearest friend, Carl Helmers; and numerous other friends. Billie was a loving mother and loyal friend. She had an unshakable faith in God and her Christian witness touched countless lives. Anyone who had the pleasure of knowing her will sorely miss her bright smile, sparkling blue eyes, her compassionate heart and her love for the Lord. A memorial service to celebrate Billie's life will be held at 11:00 AM, Saturday, September 8, 2007, at Shepherd of the Woods Luthern Church, 7860 Southside Blvd., Jacksonville, FL. 32256. In lieu of flowers, the family respectfully requests memorial contributions be made to Shepherd of the Woods Lutheran Church, Billie Worley Memorial. ARRANGEMENTS UNDER THE DIRECTION AND CARE OF ETERNITY FUNERAL HOME. Please Sign the Guestbook @ Jacksonville.com

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Published by Florida Times-Union on Sep. 6, 2007.

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Sally Martin

September 21, 2007

Dear John and Cam,
I was so shocked and saddened to hear of your mother's death. John found my e-mail address in your mom's address book and let me know. I just want you to know that she was so special to our family. It was such a blessing to have her in our lives. I told John in one of my e-mails about how wonderful your mom was to us when my parents were suffering with cancer. We have a wonderful memory of your mother and our other wonderful neighbors bringing over a delicious meal for us when my father was near death. For the first time in many days, we gathered in the kitchen to enjoy that meal. It was during those moments that my father died. My brother and I are convinced that he chose that particular moment because he knew that we were happy and surrounded by loving friends. This is such a beautiful memory for us and I have a lifetime of others. Your mother was involved in my life since I was an infant. She was a wonderful neighbor and friend and she will be greatly missed by all who knew her.

Roy Batterman

September 18, 2007

"I'm desperate to see God's Hand in this death.
I saw His Hand on her life.
So I asked Him to help me understand
and this is what I believe He said."

To work so hard
for so many years
so that retirement is a viable option

and then find your life is ending instead
seems so

...wrong.



But that is looking at life
without seeing God's Hand.



I believe Billie 'thought' she was working
to save money for retirement.
But, perhaps God's intent for her working
was as a witness to her co-workers.

His purpose for her living next to you
was as a witness to you, her neighbors.

His purpose for her being your mother,
your mother-in-law,
your wife,
your friend,
was as a witness to you.

That was His purpose for them in her life.
That was His purpose for you.
And that was His purpose for us.

He wanted to show us Himself through her.


Thank You, Father, for showing us Yourself through Billie.

Thank You for giving us a light
in the darkness we call
life on earth.

Thank You for giving us people like Billie
who shine,
who radiate,
who glow with Your love.

Thank You that this life is not all there is.

Thank You for the hope of eternal life.

Thank You that whoever believes in the Son,
the Lord Jesus,
the Messiah,
has
eternal life.

Thank You that He let Himself
be nailed to a tree
in place of us.

Light us, Father.
Give us faith to believe.
Shine Your light through us.

May our countenance be different
because others see You in it.

Then we can know
that our life
was worth something.

Our life
was worth living.

It had value.
It had purpose.
It had meaning.

And it wasn't too short,
because it accomplished
Your purpose for us.

Thank You that the life of my friend
was full of purpose.
Thank You for loving me enough
to give me intimate time with her.

May I,
may we
who knew her,
respond to Your purpose
for her.

Her life
will have less meaning
if we do not.

May my life
complete the meaning
for hers.

May my life
give meaning
to the lives
of others
even as hers
did to mine.

Glory, all glory, be to Your unutterable Name.

Sue Wickham

September 11, 2007

Dearest Cameron, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We wish we could have been with you in celebrating your mothers life. We were there in prayer. It is so hard losing love ones as we all go through it in our lives. I want to thank you Cameron for your kindness too, to Jim and I. You being there when most needed, as you were for your mother too. That is what familes are and you are special in that way. Carolyn is very lucky to have you in her life and we wish happeness for you both. With our special love, Sue, Jim and family

Jenny and Dan

September 11, 2007

When we lose someone we love,
We hurt, but we go on...
Our loved one would want us to heal,
After they are gone.

Grief is a normal way to mend
the sadness in our hearts...
We need time to remember and
mourn before the healing starts.

Please know that we are here for you
in your time of sorrow and...
We will always be here for you
each today and every tomorrow.

Angela Bailey

September 10, 2007

Dear Cameron,

I'm sad I never met your beautiful and courageous mom. But now I understand better where your capacity for joy and compassion comes from...and your strength to face adversity. Her light is shining so brightly through you and John and all she touched.

Love,
Angela

Ginger Henderson (Dieterle)

September 10, 2007

Cameron & Family,
My sympathy to you and your family as you go through this difficult time.

Hillary Lyons

September 9, 2007

Cameron,

I regret that I did not have the courage to speak during the services for your mother yesterday. Though I did not know her, I do know you as a person of great strength. The individual you are today speaks volumes of the woman she must have been.

"Such a long long time to be gone, and a short time to be there."
- Box of Rain

love you, Hill

George and Lori Allen

September 9, 2007

Cameron and John, (Family and Friends),
Lori and I would like to wish you both...and everyone else that knew your mother as well....our deepest condolences and sympathies in her passing. Although we did not know her personally....the testaments and tributes that we heard at the memorial service gives us a small glimpse into the life of a WONDERFUL person. Death has touched both Lori and I.....so we feel that we are able to share in the grief of your loss as well as share in the HAPPINESS of the loving memories that your hearts hold for your mother. Please share in our comfort of knowing that our loved ones will live on enternally in the LOVE of our hearts. Cameron....we LOVE you!
Sincerely,
George and Lori

Linda Wierzbicki-Ewer

September 9, 2007

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007

valerie williams

September 9, 2007

Cameron,
I didn't know your mother and was unable to attend the ceremony due to being out of town,but want you to know that my thoughts and prayers have been with you and Carolyn since I heard of your mother's passing. Love you both, Val

Mindy Fixel

September 8, 2007

Dear Cameron and Family,
I am sorry that I was not able to be there today but I am visiting my son in New Mexico. My love, hugs and prayers are with you.I never met your mom but I know she had to be a wonderful woman to have raised you.
mindy Fixel
Jacksonville, Fl.

Cathy Williams

September 8, 2007

Cameron and John,

What a beautiful celebration of your Mom's life today.
I worked with her for a while at State Farm. When my sister-in-law went home to the Lord after fighting cancer, and I would be down about it, God would send Billie over to my desk and she would always have a word from the Lord to lift me up. I pray you will reap the harvest of her kindness.
She will be greatly missed and fondly remembered.

Stephen Fouraker

September 8, 2007

I'm so sorry not to have been able to attend the Celebration today. Cameron, I have been thinking alot about you and your mom. My mom passed after a long cancer battle when I was about your age. The loss is something you never get over. But the memories of your mom will always bring you joy!

Karen DeLoach

September 8, 2007

Cameron and Carolyn,

Although I cannot be there with you today to join in celebrating your Mom and her life, I will be thinking of you. I know that when your Mom passed, you entered a difficult period of life. I regret any pain and tears caused by your grief.

In knowing you, Cameron, I also know the very best parts of your Mother. I celebrate her time here with you, your brother and all of her family and friends. May you all find comfort in the love you share for her and each other.

Much Love,

Barbara Saar

September 8, 2007

Cameron and John,
I'm sorry to hear of your Mother's passing. You both are in my prayers. You both have your Mothers strength and courage. What a wonderful gift to receive.

Susan Ertker

September 8, 2007

Cameron,
I didn't know your Mother but I know that she was wonderful because of knowing you. You're a great soul. Words at a time like this are hard for me but I want you to know that I'm another creature on the path that loves you and wishes the best for you and Carolyn and your families.

Judy Perry

September 7, 2007

Cameron and John, please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I was a co-worker of your Mom at State Farm. I retired two years ago but I always stopped by to say hello to her when I was in the office. I will truly miss Billie. She was a blessing to all who knew her.

Mary Gable

September 7, 2007

Cameron & John,
I am so sorry for the loss of your mom. I worked with Billie all 20 years I have been at State Farm. I will truly miss her. I'm glad she got to enjoy the prayer blanket from my church, even if it was a short time. You are all in my thoughts & prayers.

Vicki Litchfield

September 6, 2007

Cameron & John
I am so sorry about the loss of your Mother, she was a very special lady and she will be missed. I will keep you both in my prayers.

Brian Rowland

September 6, 2007

Dear John; Karen; & Carl:

Mom was so sweet and kind to me, Kim and the girls. We are not only sad for you for your loss, but sad that we did not know her better. The times we were with her always left us knowing her as a sweet and caring person, and a real rock of faith.

I am so thankful I was able to know her for a short while and that she enjoyed the music we played together at Church and in the jam session we had a couple of years ago at our house.

I know I speak for my family when I tell you each that we are so sorry for your tremendous loss. She is certainly Heaven's gain.

Much love,

Scott Perry

September 6, 2007

Cameron and John
No bond is as great as that between a mother and her children. You have my deepest sympathy as you go through this sad time.
I have worked with Billie during her intire career at State Farm, and talked with her daily. She was one of my Gator buddys and we talked Gators after every game. I will truely miss her. The two of you are in my thoughts and prayers.

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