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Robert Stemmer Obituary

Robert “Cookie” Stemmer, 77 of Whiting passed away January 7th, 2020 in the Community Medical Center in Toms River, NJ. Born in Wilkes-Barre, PA, Cookie lived in the Trenton area for most of his life before retiring to Whiting. Cookie was a Trenton Policeman for 16 years before working and retiring from the State of NJ Lottery Commission as an Investigator. He was the General Chairman of the P.B.A “Anything May Happen” Police Show for 7 years and was the originator of the band the “Cookie Monsters” and even performed on the Al Albert’s Showcase in the ‘70s. Cookie was an accomplished softball player in the ‘60’s & ‘70’s & was named to the 1970 All World Industrial Team. Cookie was widely and best known as the world’s biggest and most loyal Yankees fan and would regularly tell stories of Mickey Mantle’s Tape Measure Home Runs; besides his family, they were the greatest love of his life. Predeceased by his parents, Joseph and Anna Stemmer, siblings Joseph Stemmer, Nancy Ford, and Molly Helmick, Cookie is survived by his wife of 54 years Lorraine Stemmer, 2 sons and spouses, Robert M. Jr. and Lisa Stemmer, Scott and Lynda Stemmer, a daughter and spouse Lorri and Ron Cefalone, 5 grandchildren, Kyle, Peyton, Emily, Ryann, and Dylan. Funeral Services will be held Saturday at 11 am at the Hartmann Memorial Home 2830 Nottingham Way Mercerville NJ. Burial will be in St. Mary’s Cemetery Hamilton Twp. NJ. Calling hours are Saturday from 8:30 am to 11 am at the funeral home. In lieu of flowers donations can be made to the Multiple Sclerosis Foundation or the St. Jude Children’s Hospital.
Published by The Trentonian from Jan. 9 to Jan. 10, 2020.

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Rose Murdza

January 18, 2020

LORRAINE and Family,so sorry for your loss Cookie was a great man may he RIP. Rose Murdza ( Elizabeth Ann Seton Church)

Judy Filipponi

January 15, 2020

So sorry to learn of Cookie's passing. He was truly a very caring man to those in need. May he rest in peace.

Sandy Delgado

January 14, 2020

Dear Lorraine and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of Cookie's passing. I have very fond memories of him as a child, always known as his CandyBear. You are all in my thoughts and prayers at this very sad and difficult time.
Sincerely, Sandy Delgado (Young)

Robert Applegate

January 13, 2020

So sorry to read of Cookie's passing. We were friends since kids in East Trenton and on Trenton Police Dept.. May god watch over you during this trying time.

Larry& Rosemary Marinari

January 12, 2020

Always a smile or a joke my wife Rosemary have known Cookie since Norte Dame HS and St Joes I reconnected st the monthly ND luncheon. I know how he loved his family we are all going to miss this great guy

Patricia Rodeawald

January 11, 2020

Dear Lorraine and family
I am sincerely sorry for the loss of one of the best guys in the world. His smile was infectious and I had lots of fun talking about my Red Sox and his Yankees. Hopefully some of the old players are up in heaven where they can talk baseball all day.

Cynthia Rodeawald-Grove

January 11, 2020

So shocked and sad to hear of Cookie's passing. Now who will I talk with about the Yankees on Facebook? Rip Cookie. Say hi to all the Yankees up there and to your fellow police officers. Will miss you friend.

January 10, 2020

Dear Ron, Lori and Peyton, So very sorry for your loss. Prayers and thoughts are with all of you and your family.
Pattie Zamorski

Lisa Gerickont

January 10, 2020

Thinking of you and wishing you moments of peace and comfort now and always.

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Kathleen Suydam

January 10, 2020

Lorri, Ron and Peyton, My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time. It certainly sounded like your Dad was quite special and certainly very accomplished!! Kathleen ~ Borough of Manville

Ray & Mary Stout

January 10, 2020

Lorraine and family. Please accept our sincerest sympathy during the loss of your loved one. Cookie's humor and great personality will be missed, as well as his singing of the songs of Al Jolson and Bobby Vinton. We had good times as kids and so on which leave me with great memories. Again, our condolences. Ray and Mary Stout

Tara O'Neil-Leeser

January 10, 2020

Stemmer family, My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I have such fond memories of Cookie. He was a great man.

Della Rosati

January 9, 2020

Dear Lorraine, Robert, Lorri, Scott & Families,

Cookie was unique, one of a kind. He loved his family, and was so proud of all of you. He was his grandchildren's biggest fan! I feel blessed to know him. His passing leaves a big void for many. Heaven has some great entertainment in store with Mollie & Cookie!

Sending you prayers and my heartfelt sympathy,

Chip White

January 9, 2020

Stemmer family, my thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. Been a long time since I've seen or talked to any of you, and I know what Cookie meant to all of you guys. My deepest sympathy.

Jane Bilik

January 9, 2020

You are in my thoughts and prayers. So very sorry for your loss.

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