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Jill Appleby Jill was born in Tacoma on August 14, 1957, and passed away on May 31, 2013 after a three-year battle against Ocular Melanoma. The only daughter of June and Austin Appleby, Jill grew up in Tacoma, attending Delong Elementary, Hunt Junior High, and Wilson High School, from which she graduated in 1975. Jill attended the University of Washington, where she was a member of Gamma Phi Beta. She graduated in 1979 with a degree in Communications. Jill then made her home in Gig Harbor, where she raised her family. She was a life-long Husky and long time season ticket holder. Jill loved the outdoors -- skiing, the beach, camping, and golf. She was an avid runner, competing in the 113th Boston Marathon in 2009. Jill spent her last seven years with the love of her life, Mike. From trips to Hawaii to riding in a hot air balloon, they lived life to its fullest. She loved being with him at their homes in Manhattan Beach, CA and in Bellevue, WA. Jill was preceded in death by her parents June Shields Appleby and Austin F. Appleby, Jr. She is survived by her daughters Britt and Marci Neufer, her partner Mike Wells, brothers Wayne (Lorraine) and Scott (Kat), numerous nieces and nephews, many dear friends, and her beloved dog Raider. In lieu of flowers, please make a donation in honor of Jill to the Melanoma Research Foundation: CURE for Ocular Melanoma. A memorial service for Jill will be held on Saturday, June 8, at 5:00 pm, at St. Marks Lutheran Church by the Narrows, 6730 N 17th Street, Tacoma. "Somebody should tell us, right at the start of our lives, that we are dying. Then we might live life to the limit, every minute of every day. Do it! I say. Whatever you want to do, do it now! There are only so many tomorrows." --Pope Paul VI

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Published by News Tribune (Tacoma) on Jun. 5, 2013.

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Lorraine Appleby

January 26, 2025

Not sure why Jill but I was thinking of you today. I sure do miss you and selfishly wish you could still be here. With tears streaming down I just want you to know that I love you. Here´s to hoping your extended journey is full of light and promise
Lorraine

Shelley Russell Germeaux

June 24, 2013

I have just learned from a mutual classmate from Wilson and Gamma Phi Beta that Jill had passed away. I am very sad to hear this as I remember Jill being so vibrant and full of life. She had a great laugh and was fun to be around. We lost touch after college so I did not know she was ill. My deepest condolences to Jill's family and friends, she will be very missed.

Sharon Cantrill

June 10, 2013

Britt, Marci -- other family and loved ones. Your mother was a gift! Many treasured memories -- whether at church, EP or at your house. The center of her world was her kids! I pray you are comforted knowing that she is in Heaven and the many friends to help walk this road with you! I'm sorry I missed her memorial -- heard of her death the following day. Bless you!

Victoria Lewis

June 9, 2013

Rest in Peace Jill.

Pay & Barry Keffer

June 8, 2013

Jill, the last time we saw you was in 1977 when we left for Panama. I wish we had stayed in touch. I really enjoyed. The time with my beautiful fun cousin. At least we were in touch with eAch other for the last month of your life and now I am back in touch with Wayne and Scott and the rest of the Appleby family. Love you my cousin.

Lorraine Appleby

June 8, 2013

I am writing at the time if your memorial service.....So sorry I can't be there my darling sister ...the tears are flowing (for me) because I know I will not see you on Earth again...but until that time......

Lynda Williams-Richards

June 8, 2013

Jill was such an example and role model for me, someone I always admired, the big sister I never had. She always took care of my brothers for me too! Her enthusiasm for life, no matter what she was doing was infectious. Jill, you will be greatly missed.

Danna Billings-Olsen

June 8, 2013

Jill,
I have such great memories of hanging out together from Wilson High School. One of the best though was when about 5 of us decided last minute to walk the March of Dimes Marathon!! I don't know how we made it, but somehow we all survived. It was when they first started those kinds of fund raisers and none of us came prepared at all. We were soooo sore the next day and so tired. I loved the shirt you wore to one of your dr. appointments (you had posted it in facebook)...it said Cancer sucks! I saw it when my sister was dying from brain cancer. Boy, that shirt says it all!! I know I haven't seen you in a long time, but I will never forget your smile and happy spirit! Rest in peace my friend.
Earth cries...heaven sings.

June 7, 2013

Hi Jill,
Happy,fun,smiley,cute and so nice. That's you girl. Your soul is soaring and your spirit is alive and well.
Love you,
Nancy Wood-Coogan

Jessica Wells

June 7, 2013

I love you Jill so much. I just wish I could have spent more time with you and wish that we did not live so far away from each other. But I will see you again one day in a very special place. You ment a lot to me and I will miss you very much. I love you.

Terri Stewart

June 7, 2013

Jill handled her devastating diagnosis with grace and courage. I was amazed by what an upbeat, caring, loving person she was. We met up at the Boston Marathon in 2009, and she was so enthusiastic about taking on the challenge. Jill was a wonderful role model to her kids.

June 6, 2013

Jill you made everyone's day and life better by know you. Now you will make everyone's life better in Heaven when you get there also. RIP Jill you will be missed and never forgotten..

Bob Pietzke

Karyn Sweeting

June 6, 2013

I met Jill in Bible Study about 8 years ago. Never have I known a woman with such a strong faith which has been witnessed thru her many struggles, personal and health. Her smile could light up an entire room! She saw me thru some of my own personal struggles and helped me grow in my faith. I am so blessed to be able to call Jill my friend. My prayers are with Mike, the girls and all of Jill's wonderful friends who will miss her terribly.

Dennis Isackson

June 6, 2013

I attended all three public schools with Jill. Although I had not seen her in years, I remember her as having had lots of energy and who was a very nice lady. My prayers go out to Jill, her family, and her friends.

Joel Wells

June 6, 2013

I went to Wilson with Jill. I had several classes with her over those years. I always loved her zest for life. She was fun to watch as a cheerleader and all I have are great memories of her. She was always nice to everyone. Times were different back in the Wilson days. We had a good class and she was a huge part of that. I am so glad that Jill and Mike connected in those last years. How cool is that...The cheerleader and the quarterback. Together in the end. God Bless Mike and her Family. Rest in peace Jill.

June 6, 2013

So hard to find the words..... You will be missed, but not forgotten. We have our memories !
Growing up as your neighbor, that was the best!
To a gem of a lady !
Joan Sherk-Cassaw

Wendy Hatheway (Bysegger)

June 6, 2013

Jill and I were acquainted during our high school years in Tacoma, and knew each other best as Gamma Phi sorority sisters at the UW. We lost contact over the years, but I will always remember her bright smile and enthusiasm for life. My heart goes out to her family. God's peace to all.

Linda (Bihler) Osborne

June 5, 2013

I graduated from Wilson High School in 1975 with Jill. She was one of the kindness individuals I have met. She leaves a great hole on earth but rises to heaven as a supreme addition. God Bless You Jill and your family.

June 5, 2013

Jill Appleby, you were joyful and gracious - the type of person that will not be forgotten soon; if ever.

June 5, 2013

Until we meet again....rest in peace....my old friend. Love You, Jan

Julie Pappuleas

June 5, 2013

Sweet Jill...We grew up in the same neighborhood... we attended the same schools... you were always there in your cuteness. You will be greatly missed little one...

June 5, 2013

It is always hard to find words at a time like this. I have fun memories of times with Jill and I will cherish them. Her smile has not changed and I know that she lived a full and happy life. Her spirit will live on in her children and those who loved her. As the song says, "Old days, good times I remember..."

Jan Lauterbach

June 5, 2013

I'll always remember her sparkle and smile. RIP Jill.

Sue Rosi (Redding)

June 5, 2013

The littlest girl with the biggest smile and larger than life personality. She made the reunions fun and was the best class of '75 cheerleader. **

James Tone

June 5, 2013

So sorry to hear of Jill's passing. I have not seen her for a number of years, but every time I did, her smile brightened my day. My condolences to her family.

Sheryl Hall

June 5, 2013

I am so touched to hear of Jill's battles. I knew Jill from an early age and she was always an inspiration with her beautiful smile and bright eyes. She will leave a hole on this earth where she walked!

Psalm 116:15 Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of his saints.

- Sheryl Hall, Tacoma WA

Raymond Shea

June 5, 2013

Always nice to me since Hunt
RIP Jill peace for ever .

Jessica Wells

June 5, 2013

You will be missed so much Jill Thank you for taking care of my dad.

Kathie Campbell

June 5, 2013

I was classmate of Jill's at Wilson High School. Jill was energetic, smart, fun, beautiful, and always seemed upbeat and happy. I'm saddened by her loss. My heart and prayers go out to her family and friends.

Jim Robinson

June 5, 2013

Rest in Peace Jill. Move on to the good Lord knowing you made the earth a better place by your loving and caring ways ! Heaven is getting a fine new addition . I will miss you!

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