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Matthew Stickler Obituary

MATTHEW D. STICKLER Matthew Dean Stickler died on January 19, 2005, in Tacoma, the same town where he was born in 1943. He grew up in the North End and attended Stadium High School and the University of Puget Sound. After college, he traveled and worked his way through Europe for a year returning home to enlist in the Washington Army National Guard from which he recently retired as a Chief Warrant Officer 4. He had an enthusiasm for life that included learning to fly airplanes, sailing on American Lake, stream fishing, carpentry, playing chess, collecting fine wines, gardening, ski racing and competitive auto racing for which he won numerous trophies. His most recent passions were working for Clover Park School District in grounds maintenance and as a ski instructor for Snoqualmie Summit Kids Club. He ws preceded in death by his father Dean Stickler. He is survived by son Robert Stickler and Robert's mother Maggie Kelly of Tacoma. Additionally, he is survived by mother Helen Nelson and sister Mary Church of University Place and nephew Matthew Church of Parkland. A service to honor his memory will be held on Saturday, January 29, at 3:00 p.m., at the United Church of University Place, 3912 Grandview Dr. W. Inurnment will be at the family niche at St. Luke's Memorial Episcopal Church in Tacoma. Remembrances in his name can be made to Boy Scouts of America, Pacific Harbors Council, 4802 S. 19th St., Tacoma, 98405, or to Bridges: A Center for Grieving Children, 310 N. K St., Tacoma, 98403.

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Published by News Tribune (Tacoma) from Jan. 23 to Jan. 24, 2005.

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Cyndie Archuleta

February 1, 2005

Matt, I'll never forget your smiling face and our talks in your office and those cups of coffees you so graciously offered me when I was stressing out. Thank you for all the times you listened and understood. Where did the time go my friend, all the lunches we missed out on and the laughter of sorts we could of shared. Safe Journey my friend, you are missed.

Mary Church

January 27, 2005

Matt was my older brother, and he always did a terrific job of it! He was protective, caring, and always great company. We shared many good times together as children and as adults, and I cannot imagine going through the rest of my life without him. He was my best friend. Everyone has their faults, but in his case they were few and far between -- he truly was an exceptional person. I love you, Bro.

Judi Goodwin-Uekman

January 25, 2005

I had the opportunity to work with Mr. Stickler in the Orderly Room of HHD STARC as a weekend soldier. His experiences, humor, insights and his enjoyment of life was truly evident. I was proud to be part of his Guard family.

Darrell Joque

January 24, 2005

We talked at Christmas time about skiing together one last season. While I am sad not to be able to ski with you, I know there is a lot more snow where you are at now. So long old friend.

CathyJo Cathy

January 24, 2005

I'm honored to say Matt was a friend of mine and a comrade in the Washington National Guard. In addition to his attributes already listed, he was also a wonderful cook. Matt, you will be missed. CathyJo

Freeman Pruitt

January 23, 2005

Matt was a truly good man. He would light up your day with his presents. We will miss him at the race tracks.

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