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Thomas Paul Rowland (1975-2011) (Printed as written, by Thomas P. Rowland) Thomas Paul Rowland, 35, beloved husband, father, son and brother, passed peacefully from this life into the arms of his Heavenly Father on February 23, 2011. Surrounded by his loving family, Tom's 15-month courageous battle with leukemia ended. Tom was born December 21, 1975, in Tacoma, WA, to Thomas William and Geneva Rowland. He graduated from Bellarmine Preparatory High School and then Washington State University, where he was honored to serve as President of Sigma Nu Fraternity. Tom earned his law degree, with honors, from Gonzaga University, where he also served as an Associate Editor of the Gonzaga Law Review. Following graduation, Tom practiced law with Eisenhower & Carlson, PLLC of Tacoma. Unable to ignore the call to public service, however, he was honored to have the opportunity to serve as a Staff Attorney with the Washington State Office of Insurance Commissioner, where he was employed until his death. By most standards, Tom's life was unremarkable. That all changed when he met the love of his life, Karen. It was love at first sight and they shared nearly a decade of wonderful memories. More than anything, Tom and Karen enjoyed celebrating their wedding anniversary each July 4th in Scottsdale, Arizona. But in the final years of his life, what Tom enjoyed most was spending time with the other love of his life his two-year-old son, Jack. Although cancer took Tom's life at far too young an age, he feels so grateful for the brief time he did have Karen and Jack on this earth and eagerly awaits the day when his family will be reunited with the Lord in the Kingdom of Heaven. True to his strong, quiet nature, Tom preferred to keep his battle with cancer a private one. However, it should be known that he exemplified courage, dignity, and hope throughout his battle and reminded his family daily of the preciousness of life. Tom was a fighter and wants his dear son to know that no obstacle, even cancer, can take away one's heart, mind, faith, and hope. The Rowland Family would like to thank Tom's primary oncologist, Dr. Thomas Baker as well as his transplant teams at the Seattle Cancer Care Alliance and UW Medical Center. A heartfelt thank you is also extended to the Office of the Insurance Commissioner for their undying support; generous donations of leave time, and genuine professionalism and friendship in a time of need. Lastly, the countless number of family, friends, and individuals who provided meals, cards, blankets, financial assistance, and other means of support during his battle with leukemia will forever be remembered. These overwhelming and selfless acts of love demonstrate the true meaning of "People for others." Surviving Tom is his loving and dedicated wife, Karen, their son, Jack Thomas, and his three stepchildren Caleb Bartro, Joseph Sewall, and Julia Sewall. His loss is also profoundly felt by his parents, Tom and Geneva Rowland of Fircrest, WA, and his two sisters, Stephanie Nolan (David) of University Place, and Paige Puryear (Jessie) of Port Orchard. Affectionately known as "Uncle Tommy," Tom leaves behind an admiring nephew and three adoring nieces. A celebration of Tom's life will be held on Friday, March 4, 2011 at 3:00 p.m. at University Place Presbyterian Church, 8101 27th Street W., University Pl., WA 98466, reception to follow. A private interment will be held at New Tacoma Cemetery. Tom dearly loved and supported Bellarmine Preparatory School and it was his earnest desire that his young son, Jack, someday follow his academic footsteps. Remembrances in Tom's name may be made to the Jack Rowland Scholarship Trust at any Key Bank location.

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Published by News Tribune (Tacoma) on Feb. 27, 2011.

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March 4, 2011

A very sad and heart-breaking day. I'll always remember Tom as a solid, genuine guy.

March 4, 2011

I only knew Tommy as a little boy when I was living in Fircrest, but as I read the posts about him, and his obituary, I see how much i missed out. Karen (though we've never met), Mr. and Mrs. Rowland, Stephanie, and Paige, I'm so sorry for your loss. In reading about you in FB posts and the obit, I'm very encouraged by your faith in Jesus, and by the constant outpouring of love towards Tommy that you demonstrated throughout his courageous battle.
God's grace, peace and comfort to you during this difficult time.

Cam Caughlan
Tokyo, Japan

Bernie and Kris Hulscher

March 4, 2011

Dearest Karen and the Rowland Family,
Losing one's husband and son can cause a loneliness unlike any other, but having baby Jack near will help ease the difficulty of the days ahead.
With your fortitude and courage we are sure you will adjust to your new situation. We know you are greatful for the many happy years you shared with Tom.
May your strength in the Lord comfort you.

Thane Hisaw

March 3, 2011

To the Tom Rowland family:
I had the privilege of being one of Tom's many friends at WSU. What an amazing person Tom was! I will always remember him fondly as a genuine man of integrity and a dear friend. He will be missed tremendously. I'm very sorry for your immense loss, and I pray that God will bless and comfort you all with His goodness and love.

Dennis Stiffler

March 2, 2011

To Tom's family, words escape me in this time of sadness. May God bless you each and every day with His wonderful presence and His promises that never fail.

Franciscan Wound Care Center

March 1, 2011

We are saddened to hear of Tom's passing. When he visited us here, he would always light up when talking of his family. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Sarah Fessler

March 1, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with Tom's Family, now and forever. He was such a nice guy; I remember how he was in High School. I will MISS him dearly!!!

March 1, 2011

To my dear friend and co-worker Tom:

I am saddened to hear of your passing, but am glad to know that you are now in peace. You are very dear to me as a brilliant attorney and a good friend. I remember when you first started working with us, we took that picture of you sucking your thumb and you had that hat on that had a twirly thing on the top, and the skit that we did, you were our star. Your smile lit up the office every day. You attempted to keep your life personal but I never let you get away with it, I remember many times I would just plop down in your chair and start gabbing. Thank you Tom for being a great friend, you are, and have been missed. Peace be with your family now and forever.

Jodie

Kristi Garnsey-Yee

February 28, 2011

My younger brother Jon grew up with Tommy. Tommy was often at our Fircrest home and my brother at his nearby home. I remember Tommy as one of the sweetest, smartest friends of my brothers. They went to HS and WSU together. I am deeply saddened to hear of Tommy's passing. My thoughts are with the entire family. I am reminded that life is short and precious.

A Friend in Indiana

February 28, 2011

Karen:

Your strength and love for Tom have been an inspiration to us all.

Tom: Rest in peace.

Alan Michael Singer

February 28, 2011

To Tom's family and other loved ones, I wish each of you comfort and strength both now and in all the days ahead. You are never alone. Tom touched all our lives, and will be remembered for his singular bravery, intelligence, strength, professionalism, character, and charm.

Cheryl Sheehan

February 28, 2011

Dear Karen,
May the peace and love of God be with you and your family today and everyday. May your hearts be blessed with warm and beautiful memories. We are so sorry for your loss. Love- Jim & Cheryl Sheehan

February 28, 2011

Dear Karen,You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time and always. GOD bless, Suanne Eaton

February 27, 2011

Dear Karen, I am grieved to hear of your loss. I know that the "God of all comfort" will sustain you in the days ahead. You are in my prayers. Connie Ulmen

Kathy Davis

February 27, 2011

Search Light Moms wants to tell you how sorry we are for the passing of your Thomas. If there is anything that we can do for you please let us know. We as mothers understand the day to day pain as we search for answers.
Love and Blessings,
Search Light Moms
www.slmoms.com

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Lisa Palmer

February 27, 2011

Tom, Geneva, Stephanie, Paige, Karen and Jack; We are so very sorry for the loss of your beloved, Tommy. We have kept you all in our thoughts and prayers daily since his illness, and we will continue to be here for you. With sympathy and love,
Lisa (Fleming) Palmer, Bill, Josh & Nathan

ILO GROBINS

February 27, 2011

Dear Geneva & Tom and All FAMILY,

My heart goes out to You...I know words
don't help much, but hopefully prayers and thoughts will. I will not be able to attend the celebration of Tommy's Life.. but my heart will be with you,

Love & Hugs, ILO Sather GROBINS

Gaylyn

February 27, 2011

Dear Rowland Family,

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, may you think of many happy memories now and in the days to come.

Sincerely,

February 27, 2011

To the Rowland family and extended family our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Joe Harrison Jr

Mike Kreidler

February 27, 2011

Karen and little Jack - We, at the Office of the Insurance Commissioner, have had Tom and both of you in our thoughts and prayers for these many months. We are now so saddened. He was a valued co-worker, attorney and friend. We will miss him so much. Now, our heartfelt best wishes goes out to you.

February 27, 2011

Paige,
I am sorry to hear about your loss. Praying that God will grant you peace to ease your heart! God is our refuge and strenght....Psalm 46:1 Connie Bowe and family(Chesapeake VA)

Jennifer Streun

February 27, 2011

May peace be with you and strength in your family.

Amy Stansfield

February 27, 2011

Dear Paige and Family, thoughts and prayers are with you.

Holly Elton

February 27, 2011

Karen, Baby Jack, and family: I am so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. My prayers are with you all at this time

February 27, 2011

I'm sad to learn of Tom's death. May he rest in peace. May his family be consoled. I remember him in my prayers.
Br. Paul Cawthorne, S.J.

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