Kevin Moynahan
May 22, 2024
All of us can only aspire to be a good of a person and physician as Jay Smith. He was a legend, and he is missed by all of us.
Jamie Kroeger
April 3, 2024
I am confident that I speak for many interns, residents, and medical students who would also be writing a similar entry here if they knew Jay had passed. He was one of the finest, a role model for medicine that we carried with us for many decades after leaving our training. He personally contributed to the very best of the University of Arizona medical center years and will be sorely missed.
Katherine Camilleri
March 2, 2024
Dear Jay, it has been my privilege to have known you for the last 40 years. I will always remember and appreciate how, way back in 1983, when I first came to Tucson to attend the U of A (all the way from the tiny island of Malta !) - I met Shannon through tennis, and then what a pleasure it was to meet and get to know you and Sandy. Our friendship deepened over those college years, I enjoyed and appreciated so many kind invitations not only to delicious evening dinners with your family, but also to join you on an amazing Grand Canyon hike, on a wonderful camping trip to Mexico... special memories, unforgettable experiences of a lifetime, that I shared with such joy, with you..
And in the years that followed my college graduation I returned many times to Tucson, a place that became very special to me. Even on my honeymoon, which sparked a new dimension to our friendship because Paul too immediately felt a warm and strong bond with both of you, and this allowed us to meet all together many times after that - both in Tucson, also with our children, and here in Belgium when you visited us, on a trip to Europe. Wonderful, wonderful memories over so many years.. Paul always talks about how you bonded over country music , and Don Williams in particular .
Jay, you and Sandy are without question among the most important and special people to have been a part of my life. Your humility, your soft spoken and gentle ways, your lovely smile, your sense of humour, your broad knowledge and intelligence, your varied interests and skills... So many qualities, I am so very grateful and humbled to have had both you and Sandy in my life. With great fondness and affection, I will always remember you, Jay.
Dearest Sandy, Shannon and Shawn, wonderful friends; my most sincere condolences, from Paul and the children too. A big hug to you all.
Sally Mettler
February 18, 2024
Dear Sandy, My sincere condolences to you, your daughters and family. You will not likely remember me, but I was the nurse manager at FPO when you were there for a while, perhaps in the 70s or early 80s? I truly admired you and your kind and professional manner with patients. It seems that you and Jay enjoyed a good life together...lovely. Wishing you peace, Sally (Heinisch) Mettler
Mitchell Halter
February 18, 2024
I had Jay as a facilitator/mentor for our small group of medical students. He was a kind and insightful man that shared his philosophical approach to medicine and, more importantly, shared his mistakes so that we wouldn't be prone to repeat them. My condolences to his family and friends.
Joseph Alpert
February 15, 2024
One of the very best physicians I have known in my long career. Also, a wonderful caring and empathetic human being. Joseph Alpert
Beth McCullough Russell
February 14, 2024
I met Jay at Club Camera and was impressed by his images. I also saw a show he had at St. Phillips of Colorado Aspens that was arresting. I knew he spent a lot of time with the subject and he had to be connected to nature to create these images.
At Club Camera I shared an image and the judge panned it. Jay came up to me afterwards and told me to resubmit the image because it was a good image. As one of the best photographers in the club, I was touched by this remark and did what he said. He was right!. He impressed me as a dear fine man, which reminded me of my father, a southern gentleman. His wonderful face was heart-warming.
I am sad for all of us and especially his family. My love to all of you.
(I wish I knew you better!)
Connie Bell
February 14, 2024
Dearest Sandy, Shawn and Shannon, I am so sorry for your loss. Jay was always to friendly and kind to me. I remember him with great fondness.
~Connie Bell
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