Mark Robert Brey

Mark Brey Obituary

BREY, Mark Robert, 59 (formerly of Tucson) passed away September 9, 2011 in San Rafael, CA after a long illness. He was born in Milwaukee, WI on November 19, 1951 and was preceded in death by his younger brother, Christopher in 1978. He is survived by his wife, Melanie; parents, Robert and Carol Brey of Tucson; sister, Gwen (David) Huck; nephews, Caleb and Jason (Rebecca) Huck all of Buffalo, NY. Mark graduated from Catalina High School and attended the UofA. After a Memorial church Service in San Rafael, his cremains will be scattered on a peaceful hillside overlooking the Pacific Ocean looking toward Hawaii, Mark and Melanie's favorite place to vacation. We love and miss you Mark. You will be in our hearts forever. Arrangements by NEPTUNE SOCIETY.

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Published by Arizona Daily Star on Sep. 22, 2011.

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November 23, 2011

This is very sad news. I am so very sorry that I have let time slip away and did not contact Mark earlier. Now it is too late. I met Mark at a photo lab in Washington DC in the late 70's, along with Paula Ptacek. Mark was such an open, warm and fun loving person. He moved to Corte Madera, and was gracious enough to let me and me girlfriend and her son stay with him for 6 weeks while we found our own place. His dog Rootboy was such a wonderful faithful Golden Retriever! I am so sad that I did not stay in touch, and can only say to Melanie I am so sorry for your loss and that I did not know he was ill. If you still live in the same house I will make a point of coming by to say hello. Paula and Melanie I am on Facebook as Ken Jones.

Ken Jones

Hank Kaspar

October 11, 2011

Mark was my best friend for 43 years. I will miss his companionship, humor and guidance. He showed incredible courage in the face of adversity, forgiveness when wronged and more love for his family and friends than can be imagined. I will miss him dearly, and will never forget him.

Jane Goodwin

October 8, 2011

The others here plus my colleagues at Cal Performances wrote my exact sentiments for Mark and about Mark and Melanie. I missed him and was sad when he no longer worked with us - always so helpful and there for you - now there is a deeper sadness but his memory will live on. Thanks Mark for our conversations - your unbounded love for the arts and Hawaii amongst many things!

Gwen (Brey) Huck

October 1, 2011

Mark was a great big brother. He always made it a bit easier going through the usual trials and tribulations of growing up. What I really loved about him was his friendship. What most big brothers wouldn't allow he didn't seem to mind - especially during our high school years he let me hang out with he and his friends (some good guys) and I even dated one for quite a while. Unfortunately after he moved to D.C. we weren't as close which I now REALLY regret. I love you Mark and always will. Thanks for everything.

Liz Baqir

September 30, 2011

Mark was one of the sweetest, smartest, funniest men I've ever known. During the years we worked together, seeing Mark was always one of the highlights of my day. I can't believe he's gone and I will miss him terribly. May the four winds blow you safely home, friend. With love always,

Paula Ptacek

September 25, 2011

I met Mark in Washington, DC, in 1977, when we both working at the same phogography lab. We became instant friends and I treasure all the many happy times we spent together. Mark was the brother I always wanted and finally had, he was always there for me. He had the rare combination of relaxation and energy, and his love of life was apparent in everything he did. After he moved to California I missed him terribly, but we still had our marathon telephone calls. How happy I was when he called to tell me, "I met this really wonderful women, her name is Melanie," and then went onto tell me about his first meeting with the love of his life. From then on my friendship wasn't just with Mark, but with Melanie also. I will miss him everyday of my life. My prayers are with his beloved wife, Melanie, his parents, Carol and Bob, sister Gwen, and all of us who were lucky enough to get to know this fantastic, wonderful man, who will be missed by everyone who knew him.

Kurt Bahti

September 25, 2011

Mark grew up in the same Tucson neighborhood as I did. We were good friends but lost contact after high school graduation. He was always one of the 'nice guys'. The world will not shine quite as bright without him. May God welcome him with open arms, I know he will. We'll keep his family in our prayers.

Kim Crooks

September 22, 2011

I have such fond memories of Mark. Growing up in the same neighborhood and attending the same schools. In high school he always had his dog in the car with him wherever he went. Such a kind soul.
To his family I wish love and light.

claudia aron ross

September 22, 2011

What a beautiful obituary for a beautiful man. I will cherish my memories of Mark, and always remember how much I enjoyed being in the presence of both Mark and Melanie, to witness what a truly loving blending of souls was all about.

Peter Rudy

September 22, 2011

So sad to hear this news. I'll never forget the Christmas Eve when he and Melanie put bells on their dog for their evening walk and my young sons, already in bed, heard the bells ringing and were convinced Santa Claus was on his way. Or the time Mark had to explain to me why he was getting out of his car dressed in full Renaissance garb. Rudys young and old will miss Mark's warm smile and gentle manner. Our thoughts and prayers are with Melanie and his family.

September 21, 2011

Mark was a wonderful colleague at Cal Performances. He was a thoughtful and gentle soul. We loved to talk about Early Music, especially Jordi Savall, and the fact that we both were raised in Milwaukee. It was clear that he loved Melanie very much. He is greatly missed.
Christina Kellogg

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