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Joey
January 13, 2025
Good lord do I miss you Mom. I would do anything for just one more hug and a smile. The world down here just isn't as bright without your light. I love you.
March 19, 2018
Savannah,
Thank you for the kind thoughts and memories. You are loved.
Savannah
March 14, 2018
I keep my stuffed animal Max, and my pillow you helped me make, in my living room. I think of you every time I look at them. I miss you all the time❤ I'm sorry I never got to say goodbye... But I miss you and I love you❤
Eileen Conway Davison
August 15, 2016
I can't believe it has been 5 years since you earned your wings, and yes you truly earned them! Yesterday as we attended mass at the Irish Fair the emotions were high as that is where we were exactly 5 years ago when we learned of your passing. :( Life certainly goes on but my heart aches thinking of all you have missed though I believe you do see and even have a hand in some of what goes on. You would be smiling down on that beautiful Granddaughter of yours as she is truly a beam of joy and is now heading off to college. You would be her biggest fan, so very proud of all her accomplishments. Mom (Nana) still talks of you and stories the two of you shared - not to mention she calls Sarah "Pam" all the time. :) It is nice to know Heaven gained a beautiful angel, but we sure the hell miss you down here!
Until we meet again-
Eileen & Nana too!
Sarah
December 7, 2015
Mom, I pray that You continue to look over us and grace us With peace at this time of need. We miss you and Love you so much- we need you and the Lords Extended love at this time. Please be With us ,Mom, I pray that You continue to look over us and grace us With peace at this time of need. We miss you and Love you so much- we need you and the Lords Extended love at this time. Please be With us
September 18, 2014
Dear Liz, we are so grateful to finally know who was so gracious enough to have Moms obit online permanently. Thank you!!
September 15, 2014
I cannot believe I am now getting responses to Pam's Obit!! I paid to have it keep going and hoped to make connections to Greg or Jeff, but am now overjoyed to get a message from Pam's beloved Grandaughter!! Oh, Taylor - you were and ARE loved by the BEST!! She will be with you, ALWAYS!! You are one blessed wee girl!!
Liz O'Malley, with love!
September 12, 2014
Happy Birthday Mom- missing you just as much today as I have everyday for the last three years. I hope you dance on stars with all of the others that greeted you the day you had to leave us.
February 15, 2014
miss you
-tay
September 12, 2013
Happy Birthday Mom
Love and miss you
Taylor
June 5, 2012
Grandma I haven't written one of these yet for ya but I can't explain how much I miss you. We were best friends did everything together you loved me so much I know that. I hated seeing you in pain it hurt me to know that I couldn't help you. Once I found out you had cancer my heart broke into a million pieces I loved being with you at the hospital and shalom we had some pretty good times there. I didn't like going there sometimes because I hated to see you cry when you were in pain and i just wanted to fix you you have always been there for me and that summer was the time i needed to be there for you I'm so happy for you that you aren't in pain anymore. Everyday is a struggle for me because I don't get to see you remember that I'll always be your Tay babe and how much you mean to me grandma. I know you're watching over me and you're always with me love you with all my heart -Tay
Taylor
June 4, 2012
Hi grandma I know you are watching over me everyday and in glad youre in a better place now I'm so glad you are gone from all the pain I hated seeing you like that because it hurt me to see you like that I miss seeing your face everyday and calling me tay babe and asking how my day was everyday but I know you're reading this and are listing to my prayers my heart hurts to know that you're gone but I know you're out of pain love you grandma <3
November 24, 2011
Happy Thanksgiving Mom. I am thankful for having you as my mom and as Taylor's grandma for all of the years we were blessed to have you. I love and miss you so very much.
September 13, 2011
Pam, Greg & Jeff, had the exceptional and, even then, unusual experience of going to a one room grade school. I believe 8 grades were taught there. I was off at one time and went to school with the Voeltz kids as a guest - 2 days in a row. This is such a lasting memory. The teacher, an older woman, would give each row of kids, by grade, their instructions. Sometimes she would direct older kids to help. Each day, chaos ensued and the teacher would sit at her desk at the front and stare at all the children - No instruction. The children would realize they were being too loud by the teacher's demeanor. The 1st day, I mouthed to Pam (across from her but a row adjacent - as a yr younger) "what is she doing?" Pam side mouthed back, "We need to quit being loud." We all sat there in silence, with the teacher staring at us angrily for what seemed to me then - a long time. Different schooling to me for sure - but I am positive I knew, even then, this was a way of educating that wouldn't last. Yet, I know these 3 familial students exceeded well.
Liz O'Malley
September 13, 2011
I SO enjoyed the pictures included in this guest book - Sue, that is you with Pam in the top row of pics, far right!! I think I would know you, if I saw you in Bemidji! xoxoxo Thank you SO much for enabling me to get the most wonderful gift from Pam for my 60th - thanks with words just do not work..... Love!
Sarah
September 12, 2011
Happy Birthday Mom
Miss you more and more everyday
Xoxo
Sarah
September 12, 2011
Happy Birthday Mom
Missing you more and more everyday
Xoxo
September 12, 2011
Happy Birthday Pam. Miss you
Lizann O'Malley
September 8, 2011
Oh - surely, if my heart is broken, I know yours are in bits....I was Pam's good friend when we were little girls, teens, and fledgling adults. Our mothers were best friends and after my own Mom died of cancer at 53 years old, I brought my first BEST boyfriend out to meet Pam's Mom for her approval. I was in Pam's wedding. Though Pam was only a year and some months older than I - she was always my guide - always more wise and mature. She was truly a teacher. I love her, then and now, with my whole heart and soul! I turned 60 in May and by happenstance too odd & astounding to account for here, Pam contributed to a memory book a friend put together for me. She did this in her own beautiful handwriting and I cannot say how much I cherish this! My Dad always, most rightly, thought Pam "the best of the best" (my Mom & Dad were Renae's Godmother & Godfather)and she and Joe came to his 80th Bday party in Eden Prairie at my sister Sarah's house. We were so joyful to be together and she tried so hard to get me to visit her Mom in SD, but it wasn't to be. I wanted to go SO bad, but just couldn't. I talked to Mary V., though, and it was a very special conversation. Pamela Voeltz Dudley is in heaven - we have no idea what that means, but we can be absolutely assured this is true. I, for one, will always pray to her, to pray for me and my intentions to Our Lord - I am so sad she is gone, but grateful she will be there as my guide, my additional hope, my heart. Blessings to you all, forever.
Your are loved
Liz O'Malley
Kate Oertli
August 30, 2011
Dearest Sarah, Phill, and Joey,
I am deeply sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. Taylor, I know you were very close to your Grandma too and I can only imagine how much you all will miss her. If only words could take away the sadness you feel, I would write you a novel. Please know that I am thinking of you during this difficult time and I wish you peace and love. If there is anything I can do, please don't hesitate to call.
With love and sympathy,
Kate Oertli (Galvin)
Crystal and Jada Madsen
August 25, 2011
I wish i could have spent more time with you. You were the best at everything you did and cared so much about everyone. Know that u were loved by many and will be missed dearly. You have touched the hearts of many:) I miss you very much! Love u bunches, hugs n kisses mwah!:)
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Roberta Singerhouse
August 21, 2011
To the Dudley family, I met your mother through Pat Conway, she was a nice and fun lady, my mother and Pat had many laughs with her, it's hard to understand God's purpose in taking her at such a young age, but you need to know that she made her mark here on Earth, she loved her children very much and even though you might want to have her for a longer time, rest in peace knowing that she will be watching you and loving you always from heaven, so sorry for you loss, your mother was a wonderful woman. Roberta Singerhouse
Lou & Mary Ann Zinkan
August 20, 2011
Life is made of memories. Memories that you leave behind to those who love and will miss you. We will always cherish those memories. Our prayers are with you Phillip, Sarah, Joey and Taylor.
Jeanne Gelbmann
August 20, 2011
I met Pam at Sholom Home, when I invited her to come out of her room to meals. For the first few days, she would ask the caregivers, "Is Jeanne out there yet?" before coming out. Before long, I was asking the caregivers, "Is Pam out there yet?" I will never forget the wonderful times we had. She became such a dear friend in such a short time. My sympathy to her entire family, who always made me feel welcome. Pam, among my favorite memories are Sorry, puzzles, Scrabble, Bennett's and Happy Hour! I love you.
Bob & Nancy Tillman
August 20, 2011
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
August 18, 2011
I remember at my mom's memorial, Pam stood up and said, "Margie always made me creamed tuna on toast. I will miss her making me creamed tuna on toast." Well ~ they are together now and my mom is making Pam creamed tuna on toast! You will all be in my prayers. Pam will be missed.
Robin Pettis
August 18, 2011
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Know that you are in the thoughts and prayers of many. Those who love you want to do whatever we can to carry you through this difficult time. God bless you and bring you comfort.
Lynn Wakeling
August 18, 2011
Sorry you didn't get to know Savannah better. She is turning into a beautiful young woman. She is always in your heart.
Mel & Kathy Luepke
August 18, 2011
Phil, Sarah and Joe: We are so sorry you lost your mom so soon. We would have liked to be there, but we are in thought and prayer. We were so blessed to have known Pam, she was a wonderful person and she will be missed.
August 18, 2011
Phillip, Sarah and Joe...I am so very sad about the loss of your mom. What a shock, the same age as myself. She was such a giving and hard working lady. My prayers are with you during this difficult time. God Bless all of you and the rest of the family.
Laura Bateman
Heidi Voeltz-Leist
August 18, 2011
Even though it has been many years since I've seen my cousin Pam, I have fond memories of her and Renee when I was growing up. Please know we are praying for you and our hearts go out to you during this time.
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Amy Kustrich
August 17, 2011
Sarah and Phil, I am so sorry for your loss. Your mom was a wonderful person and she will always be with you!
Savannah Wakeling
August 17, 2011
Grandma.....
I didn't get to spend as much time with you as I wanted to. You have always been on my mind. I will love you and miss you forever.
Your granddaughter,
Savannah Grace Wakeling
August 16, 2011
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Sandra from Sholom
August 16, 2011
I am sorry for your loss. I only knew Pam for a short time but found her to be a very caring person. while I was caring for her she was worried about me being 8 months pegnant and standing too long. I will miss her a lot.she was a very special person.
Janet Tillman
August 16, 2011
She was a beautiful gift of sunshine, joy and love to everyone. God's Blessings, Janet Tillman
Holly Folk
August 16, 2011
Each time I got to be with her when she came back this way, she always left a wonderful impression, and lasting memories, of the beautiful and wonderful person she was. She will be missed by many.
Our thoughts and prayers to all...
Chad and Holly Folk family
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To Sarah,Taylor,Phil,Joey,Your Mom,Grandmom,was a very loving person,and my thought's are with you on the day's to come.She has left you all with a lot of great memory's .You all will hold in your .We Love You Connie Jones and Family
Pam and Sarah Mary
Renee
August 16, 2011
"perfectly perfect in every way"
August 16, 2011
To Sarah,Taylor,Phil,Joey,Your Mom,Grandmom,was a very loving person,and Our thought's are with you on the day's to come.She has left you all with a lot of great memory's .You all will hold in your in your Heart's We Love You Connie Jones and Family
Mary Tillman
August 16, 2011
Pam was a beautiful, loving person. She will be sorely missed by all who love her.
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