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Thomas Pilot Obituary

Union Local #49

Pilot, Thomas M.

Loving Husband, Father

Brother & Friend

Age 47, of Inver Grove Heights. Preceded in death by parents Lowell & Joy Pilot;
grandmother Gladys Jacobson. Survived by wife Barb; 3 children Michael, Kristina & Matthew; 2 brothers Dave (Claudia) & Doug (Yvonne). Funeral Service 10AM Saturday at GOOD SHEPHERD LUTH-ERAN CHURCH, 7600 Cahill Ave E., Inver Grove Heights. Visitation 9-10AM Saturday at the Church. Arr. ENGLISH-MEEKER & KANDT FUNERAL HOME

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Published by Pioneer Press on Dec. 2, 2005.

Memories and Condolences
for Thomas Pilot

23 Entries

Cheri, Jess & Janelle Paczosa

December 20, 2005

Barb, Mike, Matt, Kristi:

I only recently learned of Tom's sudden passing. I can't express how saddened we are for each of you. Tom/Dad was one of the best fans of his kids that I know. I know he is on each of your shoulder's cheering you on through sports, school, your daily routine. Embrace his spirit as your angel is watching over each of you. He's there to talk to whenever you want to. Memories are so bittersweet now but will become more enjoyable later. Your loss and grief is so horribly raw right now, but know you must work through your grief, love yourself and each other, help each other, laugh together, reach out and let others know you need them--they so much want to help but are looking for direction from you. Time does heal, you will never forget your dad/husband, there will be good and rough times ahead, but in time--not a few months from now but more time--you will smile again, life will be a little easier, the pain won't be so horrible, but you will come to realize just how lucky you were to have your dad/Tom a part of your life on this Earth. Kids, remember the values and principles that your dad placed in your hearts and minds! Your dad would want you to continue on the same paths that he started you on...don't forget that.

Your friends, Cheri, Jessica, and Janelle Paczosa

Jacob Niederer

December 10, 2005

Dear Matt,

I heard about the sad news about your Dad. He was always at all our Thunder games. I'm sure he'll still be watching you.

My prayers are with you,

Jacob

Tom & Jan Niederer Family

December 9, 2005

Dear Barb, Matt, & Family:

We have just learned the sad news of Tom's passing and can't seem to find words that adequately express our heart-felt sympathy for you. Tom was a good man and a fixture at all our AAA Thunder hockey games. We shall miss him greatly and pray for his comfort in God's care!

Tom, Karen & boys Beattie

December 8, 2005

Barb & family:

We were blessed to get to know Tom over the last year, we always thorougly enjoyed his company! If we can assist you with travel, etc. for Matt in the future we would be happy to. Our hearts and prayers are with you.

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Dan & Carol Hanlon Family

December 8, 2005

Dear Barb, Matt, and Family:

Our family met Tom, Barb, and particularly Matt since our son plays hockey with Matt on the AAA Thunder team--a great player by the way! We're very sorry to learn of Tom's passing from this life into the next, and the grief that Barb, Matt, and your family must be feeling. May God Bless you during these difficult times.

Michael Wohl

December 8, 2005

Dear Barb,

We met Tom and Matt during the Thunder AAA hockey season this past year. Tom was a key member of The Thunder parents and I learned alot about how the boys hockey leagues worked through Tom. Out heart goes out to you, and we especially have Matt in our thoughts and prayers. Please if there is anything we can do for your family, or for Matt specifically, I hope you do not hesitate to let us know.

Jeff Wilson

December 7, 2005

Dear Barb - I just heard about this today. I cannot express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. Many people here have you in their thoughts and prayers.

Jeff Wilson & Family

Eagan

Deb Copeland

December 6, 2005

Barb

I am so so sorry about the loss of your husband. You and the kids are definately in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. All of us at West are thinking about you. Take care of yourself.

Deb Copeland, West

Renee Ruder

December 5, 2005

Barb, Kristi, Mike, and Matt,

I am so sorry for your loss... he was a great person. Kristi we are great friends and you know if you need to talk 2 me you can you have my number and my s/n and Barb you and I are very close so if you ever need anything just give me a call or talk to me at school. Mike and Matt I am sorry for your loss he was a great father to the three of you. Good Luck to the four of you!

Much Love,

Renee

Judy Ackman

December 4, 2005

Barb

I just heard about your loss and am so so sorry. You and the kids are definately in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. I think about you often and wonder where life has taken you and miss you at work as I always enjoyed working with you. Please know that the Lord is with you and will carry you and your family through this-He never gives us more than we can handle.

Valerie Ritter

December 3, 2005

Barb.........I can't begin to tell you how sorry I am to hear of Tom's passing. Please know that from deep in my heart come thoughts & prayers to help you & your family through this difficult time.

God Bless,

Val

Bart ,Deanna,Breann,Daniel Swedin

December 3, 2005

Barb and Family, we are all so very sad for your loss. Tom will truly be missed. It was nice to see you smile again at Kristina's (Hat Trick)hockey game. Stay strong and remember Tom's friends are your friends, we'll be there when you need us. Love the Swedin's

Teresa Dambowy

December 2, 2005

Barb and Family,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my prayers.

Teresa

Val Carraher

December 2, 2005

Dear Barb,

I'm just so sorry to hear this very sad news. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this terribly difficult time. I think I can speak for all your friends at West when I say how deeply sorry we all are.

God bless you and your children.

With deepest sympathy,

Val Carraher

Tim Cadwell

December 2, 2005

Barb, some of my greatest memories are with the times I had with Tom! One of his nicknames was, "Gump", named for the famous goaltender in the NHL named Gump Worsley. I wish I could be there and share some more fantastic stories with everybody about the great times and life I shared with Tom. I am truly sorry for you and your family and this time.

Tim

Bob & Jan Haller

December 2, 2005

Dear Pilot family:

My name is Bob Haller. I have been the driver for the Tri-City Storm since the beginning of the franchise.

I regard each of the young men on this team as a son and love them as if they were my own. Words alone cannot possibly express my feelings upon receiving word of Michael's father's death earlier today. Michael is a very special person and one of my favorites. Although I have never met the other members of Michael's family, please accept the heartfelt sympathies of both myself and my wife, Jan. Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time.

With Love,

Bob & Jan Haller

Kearney, NE.

BARB MIKE

December 2, 2005

Barb,

I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.

Art, Debbie, Alisa and Andrew Tuquilar

December 2, 2005

Dear Barb and Family: We are so deeply saddened to hear about Tom. You and your family are in our hearts and prayers during this difficult time. Bless you all and take care.

Kim Kuehn

December 2, 2005

Mike & Faimly

I am so sorry about your loss.My prayers are with you. May your father rest in peace.

Love Kim, Jessica, & Curt Kuehn

Julie Gackstetter

December 2, 2005

Barb & kids - there are no words anyone can say to bring you comfort during this sad time. Please know that none of you are alone. I will always remember Tom as a father who loved to watch his kids play hockey. He will always be their biggest fan. I hope you will find peace and comfort in all the happy memories your family shared. Your family will be in my daily prayers.

Brenda Coleman

December 2, 2005

Dear Barb, I am so sorry for you and your family, I feel your pain so much. Dave & I will see you at the funeral and will always stay in touch. Stay strong and you will get through this.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you,

Brenda Coleman & Dave Matsch

Pat Britt

December 2, 2005

Barb,

Your friends here at West are thinking of you.

Pat Britt

Heather Pederson

December 1, 2005

Barb and family,

I was so sorry to hear of the passing of Tom.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

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