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BENJAMIN JAMES HARKINS  
Of Washington, DC died peacefully February 7, 2015 at The Washington Home, Washington, DC following a stay at the VA Hospital for a fractured right thigh. He was born in New Jersey in 1930. Survived by Donald D. McArthur, husband and partner of 38 years; sons, Jeff Harkins/Leslie Buettner, Woodbridge, VA, Michael Harkins, Fairfax, VA, David Harkins/ Dean Harwager, N. Las Vegas, NV and Andrew Harkins/Evan Kavanagh, San Francisco, CA; and granddaughter, Elizabeth Harkins, Burke, VA. His 4 sons were from his marriage to Rosemary Curtis who died in 1994. He was preceded in death by parents, Amanda Matilda Taylor and Amos Edison Harkins, brother, Edison Harkins and sister, Ruth Zasowski. Ben earned a Bachelor's Degree in Business from Rider University, Lawrenceville, NJ before entering the U.S. Navy as a LTJG. Ben spent his military years as a Frogman (now called Seal). He was a Master Gardner in Lovettsville, VA and Jupiter, FL and volunteered at the Jupiter Hospital. He was a member of the garden club at the Franciscan Monastery, DC and volunteered at Food & Friends in DC. He worked at United Virginia Bank, Alexandria, VA, LeHane Outplacement, Leesburg, VA and as a Realtor with Long and Foster, Leesburg, VA. Interment will be at Arlington National Cemetery with Full Military Honors at a date to be announced.

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Published by The Washington Post on Mar. 9, 2015.

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At one of Don and Ben's famous Pizza Parties- Winter 2014

Korie Twiggs

March 13, 2015

It has been such a privilege to have this wonderfully warm, blunt, hilariously funny man as a beloved neighbor. Rest in Peace dearest Ben- xoxo

Pizza night at Don and Ben's house 2014

Korie Twiggs

March 13, 2015

Rich Nelson

March 11, 2015

Dear Andrew and family, so sorry for your loss. Lots of love.

Kathy Mc

March 10, 2015

I miss him, too. It is hard not to pick up the phone and call him and talk about the Farm, Jane or gardening. Love you all - Don and the 'boys' Kathy McGuire

Toni and Wayne Parker

March 10, 2015

Oh heart, if one should say to you that the soul perishes like the body, answer that the flower withers, but the seed remains. ~Khalil Gibran

Ben will always remain in our hearts.

McCarthy

March 9, 2015

I am so sorry for your loss. May the Most High God comfort you as you mourn the loss of your loved one. (Psalm 83:18)

March 9, 2015

It is never easy to lose a loved one, I pray you find comfort in God's promise found at John 6:40 which says that soon we will see all our loved ones again. My deepest condolences to the family.

March 9, 2015

May the peace of God be with Mr. Harkin's family & friends as they mourn.

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