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DAVID H. JACOBS

DAVID JACOBS Obituary

DAVID H. JACOBS
On March 20, 2014, David H. Jacobs, MD, of Potomac, MD passed away suddenly while in Las Vegas, NV. He is survived by his devoted wife, Charlotte; and three adoring children, Aviva, Ilana and Benjamin. Also survived by his brother, Jonathan (Robin); brothers-in-law, Boris (Robin) and Fred (Rhoda) Feldman; and many loved patients and friends. A service and celebration of his life will take place at 10 a.m. on Sunday, March 23 at the Judean Memorial Gardens, 16225 Batchellors Forest Road, Olney, MD. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in memory of David H. Jacobs to American Physicians and Friends for Medicine in Israel (apfmed.org).

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Published by The Washington Post on Mar. 22, 2014.

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Allan S Horlick

March 16, 2025

I was literally telling my wife just this week that David Jacobs literally saved my life. He also mentored our son when he finished med school. David made a positive impact on countless lives and he will always be remembered fondly.

Dr. David R. Rogowski

March 16, 2025

Dr. Jacobs was an excellent physician with an extraordinary diagnostic acuity. He truly cared for his patients and was always looking for ways to improve one´s health. I always looked forward to my visits and truly miss him. A true gem he was.

Nancy Sheintal

June 28, 2024

I thought it was very strange that I have been thinking of Dr Jacobs and his family lately. But when I opened legacy.com to see how many years it has been since his passing, I see that I am not alone in thinking about him all these years later. Reading through the many tributes to David I see why he left such a tremendous impression on me. He was extraordinarily kind, caring, and devoted to his family and his profession. No one who knew him could ever forget him.

Beth Machlin

May 9, 2024

My husband and I were patients and just reminiscing about Dr. Jacobs. He was an extraordinary doc and changed my life when he figured out my years of sinus issues were from a raft of allergies.

Sylvia H.

February 5, 2024

I still think of Dr. Jacobs often and miss his care. There will never be another like him for me. I credit him with my two children. He had a hunch and got me diagnosed with a genetic predisposition for clotting that had resulted in 3 miscarriages. I had my first baby at age 40 and second at age 42. I think he wanted tme to share in the joys of family life he knew. I hope Charlotte, Aviva, Ilana and Ben are well. They are lucky to have had him as a husband and father.

Michael Baratz

August 19, 2023

Dr. Jacobs cared for me for the 16 years i lived in DC ... he truly made you feel like no other doctor I have ever seen...since leaving DC in 2002 no doctor I have seen as ever come close to the caring person he was ...may he rest in peace...

Tawia Addo-Ashong

March 29, 2023

Missing Dr Jacob's dedication and genuine care for his patients. He was one of a kind.

Henry Kerali

March 16, 2023

Dr Jacobs will forever remain in our memory. He was the most caring doctor I ever met. He was dedicated to the well being of his patients!

Jason Daks Belser

March 16, 2022

Jacobs Family,

I thank you for sharing Doctor J with me. I have yet to find a competent doctor and friend. Doctor J was a teacher of his field. His wisdom was shared in every visit and him time was never hurried. He is remembered in many ways and sayings.

#selah

Gary Hahn

March 16, 2021

Thinking about Dr. Jacobs and his family as we approach the seventh anniversary of his passing. May his memory continue to be a blessing to all who knew and loved him.

March 7, 2021

It's hard to believe Dr. Jacobs passed away almost 7 years ago. He was one of a kind. I attribute much of my excellent health to Dr. J and his passion for preventative care. Blessings of strength for family and friends to continue moving forward and honoring his memories. Rest in peace Dr. J.
Sandy

Mary Levy

March 16, 2020

David was such an incredibly skilled and caring doctor. It may be silly, but somehow I think he would have known about and warned his patients regarding Co-vid19 long ago. My deepest sympathy to his family today and every day.

Judy & John Jankowski

March 18, 2019

We give thanks: remembering is a gift of love passing back and forth among yesterdays.

May David's memory be for a blessing!

Anne Njuguna

March 17, 2019

How I miss Dr. Jacob! He was not only my doctor but also my friend and confidant. I havent found anyone quite like him. You are forever in my heart, Dr Jacob.

Raluca Focsaneanu

March 16, 2019

Sad anniversary! Unfortunately, they don't make them like him anymore. The "quality" of healthcare has dipped at all time lows. His patience and insights are sorely missed. May he rest in peace.

Mindy Jacobd

March 16, 2019

David was one of a kind. He is mossed

Terri Shawe-Mendelow

April 25, 2018

I did not have the good fortune to meet David, but I am lucky to now be part of the family through the marriage of David's daughter, Ilana and my, son Michael. I know that David's legacy lives on through his family and friends.

Felicia Pickering

April 24, 2018

The other day I went to a new doctor, and they asked who my GP was, and I said Dr. Jacobs (sigh). I still think of him as my doctor, even 4 years later, and probably always will. We miss you Dr. J!

February 28, 2017

I think of Dr Jacobs frequently and miss his sense of humor and his willingness to listen. Sandra Belfor

December 25, 2016

Remembering Dr. Jacobs...Douglas and Mary Ann

Eric Siegel

December 24, 2016

I was moved to tears when I learned of Doc Jacobs' passing. He treated people not ailments and looked at a patient as a whole person. Once during our post-exam meeting he asked me if was depressed in any way. When I seemed puzzled he noted that in all the time I had been his patient I had not been in a serious relationship with anyone. It was so typical of him ... seeing his patients as complete human beings that he wanted to see healthy not just physically but also mentally and emotionally. I've never found another doctor like him.

Tiffeni Key

August 20, 2015

I was a rep with Pfizer and I used to call on him when I liced in DC. I was about to refer my Mother to him. Exceptional doctor and such a down to earth but brilliant man. Rest in peace!

Jason Belser

June 29, 2015

After three unsuccessful attempts to find an internist close to Dr. J. I finally realized I had to settle for someone maybe half as competent, and caring . Dr. J didn't practice medicine; he taught it. Henceforth, I advocated for my care in my medical records from Dr. J. To this point I'm satisfied. However, there is only one DHJ. Jacob's family, I know the last year has been hard. I lost my mother June 6 2014. Loosing her and Dr. J in the same year was difficult. They both were confidence givers.

June 28, 2015

It has been about a year since I heard of Dr. Jacobs passing...and still I think of him often. We are now living in CA...and I we have yet to find a new internist ...no one will ever take his place in our hearts ...he was the best of the best...and my husband and I received the very best of care with him..for over 10 years....you never know what you have sometimes until it is gone....I just wish I had told Dr. J. how much we trusted and valued him ..
Mary Ann

June 12, 2015

Just learned of David's death. We were in med school together. I remember him well for his intensity and intelligence. He was also fun loving and a great person. A true loss, my heart felt condolences! Petra Schneider-redden

Frank Fara

June 2, 2015

A true mensch. I knew and loved him while medical students at SIU. One of the brightest, most perceptive people in our class. M

Alice Middleton

May 6, 2015

I just learned today of the death of Dr. Jacobs from a friend of mine who, like me, knew him years ago. My husband was a patient of Dr. J many years ago, as was I. Sadly, my husband was one of the patients who Dr. J was not able to save. But the care and concern that Dr. J gave to my husband during the 12 months that he lived post-diagnosis was incredible. I will tell one brief story for the benefit of his family: It was about six months before my husband died that Dr. J and his son Ben stopped by our house on a lovely spring Saturday afternoon just to give encouragement to my dear husband who was distraught about his serious diagnosis. Ben played with our son who was about Ben's same age while Dr. J, my husband, and I sat in our living room discussing the gift that my husband had been given: the gift of knowing that his time on God's earth was very limited. That conversation and subsequent ones made bearing the heavy burden of my husband's cancer just a little bit lighter for both of us.

When Ben and Dr. J were leaving (in a sporty little convertible with the top down), I, knowing that Dr. J always asked his patients if they wore a seat belt, noted that Ben, who was below the weight limit for sitting in the front seat of a car, should have actually been assigned to the rear seat. Dr. J just winked at me and said something to the effect that "you only live once."

Dr. J's picture in this obit reminds me of his quick wit and the twinkle that was always in his eye.

I'm sorry that I was not able to keep him as my doctor.

Even though it has been over a year since his untimely death, I'm sure his family continues to miss him every day. My deepest sympathy to you. May he rest in peace eternally.

Nedda Walkup

April 5, 2015

The last time I saw Dr. Jacobs was in 1997. He was the best doctor I have ever had and I have seen many all over the world. He was very special to me. A brilliant and honorable man who tried his best to help me. I hope his care will continue to be of use in the future as I pursue treatment of a rare cancer, a neuroendocrine tumor (carcinoid). I didn't fully appreciate until much later the value of his knowledge and how thorough and professional he was. This will remain with me always. My deepest sympathy to his family and friends.

Bill Savedoff

October 20, 2014

The last time I saw Dr. Jacobs was in 2001 before I left the DC area. He was a remarkable person and a remarkable doctor. Knowing that I was coming back to DC and having a range of questions that none of my doctors back home really seemed to be addressing, I had the brilliant thought of calling him up and getting an appointment. I knew that I would be able to get a thoughtful hearing, holistic reflection, and good supportive answers. I was so sad to hear the voice message say "the late Dr. David Jacobs." Dr. Jacobs was never late. I miss him.

July 29, 2014

I just learned of Dr. Jacobs death. The world is a sadder place without him. The first time I went to Dr. J I was nervous and my blood pressure reading was high. "I can fix that right now," he said. I sat there stunned as he began soft shoe dancing and singing "nothing could finer than to be in Carolina." It worked. I knew from that point on having him as a doctor was going to be fun. It was like having a second job, as he left no stone unturned as I gathered a whole team of specialists for various minor maladies and my written physical examines covered more and more pages. He was funny, tenacious, thorough, caring and fun to be around.

Nikhil Desai

July 25, 2014

I was out of the country and just came to know this.

Six years ago, he gave me some two hours or more of an evening conversation, a free consultation, full of stories.

He promised to save my life. I never got back to this area long enough to see him again.

I hope someone is working on a biography of him or at least collecting stories from his friends, family, colleagues, patients, or passers by like me. I do not remember much that he shared in those two hours but I came out feeling as if two old friends had just met. I wondered if he was always like that or what clicked - a half-hour initial consult turning into talking about not just "patient history" but his work, interests, politics, I don't remember the specifics.

Claire Tamburro

June 11, 2014

The news of Dr. Jacobs' passing was a shock this morning. Dr. Jacobs was a kind, generous man who took a personal interest in his patients and oversaw the management of every aspect of care given and recommended. His expertise and gentle, fun-loving manner were second-to-none. His staff reflected this same philosophy of personalized care. Dr. Jacobs will be greatly missed.

Robert Feldman

April 22, 2014

On returning from a trip overseas, I was shocked to learn of Dr. Jacob's passing. He helped me in immeasurable ways. I'd like to share just one story that exemplifies Dr. Jacobs as a physician. During one of my appointments, I told Dr. Jacobs that I always passed out at the dentist's office when I received novocaine shots as a kid. Because of the fear of passing out, I had gone 25 years without any pain relief whenever a dental procedure was performed, but could no longer stand doing this. Dr. Jacobs decided to test to see if I was allergic to novocaine and I was highly allergic, but only to novocaine not the other "caines" now in more common use. Still, the association between numbness and passing out was so strong, I hit the ground even when the dentist didn't use novocaine. What did Dr. Jacobs do? He made an appointment for me at his dentist, came to the appointment with me, held my hand, and talked me through the numbing injection -- all on his own time without charge. The result: I didn't pass out and I've been fine at the dentist ever since. What a truly caring doctor. And this is just one of many examples. I will miss you.

April 12, 2014

Still stunned at David's passing. Such a great physician and a friend who saved my life..May he rest in peace. Mike Oxley (McLean, VA

Peter Bonner

April 11, 2014

I just received the news today that our amazing and precious Dr. Jacobs had passed. I first saw him for a physical nearly twenty years ago. I remember experiencing a man unlike any doctor I had ever known. David paid attention, noticed everything – empathic, engaged, uncompromising, challenging – tracking me from the first greeting in the waiting room to the final hug on leaving. On a first visit, his intensity could be discomfiting, until you knew it was all in service to finding out how he could best help. No complaint was trivial, no evasion unnoticed. Others have mentioned his love of sports; he brought all his players to the field in every interaction. His curiosity was unparalleled, connecting a health issue, by turns, to some obscure journal article or a Times article. I will remember him most as an irreverent, funny, hilarious man, making light of the most ignominious tasks, making bearable the deadly serious advice. I envy those in heaven, the ones who will enjoy his constant presence now. What gales of laughter will come inspired by his antics there? How will he challenge them?

Jay Houston

April 11, 2014

I am shocked and saddened at this news.

Living in the Virgin Islands 30 years ago, I had a problem and called friends here in Washington to recommend a doctor, was given Dr. Jacob's name, and for all these years he has been my Doctor, confidant, and nagging advisor. He had no love for my lifestyle, mainly my fondness for good food and several drinks a night, and constantly lectured me about this, always ending with that I am an old fashioned southern boy who doesn't like doctors medicine or spiritual or psychological help, and he that he understood but didn't approve, and then a hug, and sending me out with instructions to see about 3 specialists every time, and it was a lucky time when I would follow through with one.

He oversaw my prostate cancer, and directed me to great doctors, he was interested in my marital problems, and the last time I saw him he was pondering how he could help my business, always interested, always concerned.

Beginning after my first child was born, he always told me that his job was to keep me alive till I got my kids (now 12 and 14) out of college, and on their own, he liked to promise that, after that, he would give up on me, that I could just lead any lifestyle that I wanted. Joking of course, but all these years I have known that Dr. Jacobs "Had my Back".

He is not here to fulfill that promise.

Jay Houston

Alexander Mark

April 10, 2014

I had only met Dr. Jacobs as a colleague six months ago and I was immediately impressed by him both as a physician and a human being. I passed by his office a week ago on Friday, noticed the door was closed but only yesterday did I find out about his passing. He will be missed...

Tal Solovey

April 5, 2014

Dr. Jacobs helped me when no one else could and saved my life. I am forever grateful for all he did for me and I will miss him as my doctor and my friend. Thinking of his family in this difficult time.

Stan Rosen

April 3, 2014

Dr. Jacobs was so much more than a great physician. His passion for care was unparalleled in the profession. He was the first primary care physician I had who took my physical, mental, and spiritual health to heart. He tried so hard to help me become the person he knew that I could be. It is with regret that only after we parted ways, I finally implemented his treatment plan. I know that he would have been proud to see me as I am today. May his memory and soul be treasured forever.

Freddie Broadway

April 3, 2014

I cannot believe that he is gone. He was more than just a doctor to me. He always told me that he loved me like a son. I will always remember the discussions we had in his office. He will be missed. He told me in 1992 that he came to the East Coast to straigten it out. I am sure he did what he set out to do.

Cecilia Alava

April 2, 2014

So sorry to hear the bad news. He was my Dr. for 9 years. The last time I saw him, he looked healthy. Had to imagine him dead!

Chantal Beale

April 2, 2014

Dr. Jacobs was a unique doctor. He didn't just want to know how you were doing health wise, he wanted to know how you were doing emotionally. He asked about friends, family and loved ones. He went out of his way to help his patients and for this reason, among many others, I will miss him.

David Sanford

April 2, 2014

I spoke with David just one month ago. I had left a message on his cell phone. He called me back shortly thereafter. I told him that my wife was due to deliver in 2 weeks and we needed advice about whether to induce. We spoke at length and he gave, as always was the case, sound, thoughtful and wise counsel. When I went to him thinking I had heart disease, he knew instinctively that I needed an upper endoscopy as my symptoms were more likely related to acid reflux. Of course, he was right. When I last met with him a few months ago, he told me of his travels and work in Israel and sent me an article about that great work.

There are few people I can even imagine missing as much as I will miss David. He was a true humanitarian, a lively, engaged, spirited, supremely insightful soul. He will be sorely missed by so many. I cry thinking about his loss and what it means for his family, his office and the community large and small. I will be forever grateful for his being.

Bashar Masri

April 1, 2014

It is so sad to learn of the great loss. Dr. Jacobs is a terrific doctor and a unique person. I will always remember his great sense of humor and his continued support beyond his medical profession. He will be greatly missed in the US, Israel and Palestine.

Susan Fritz

April 1, 2014

I was shocked and deeply saddened to hear the news of Dr. Jacobs' passing. He was my physician for the last 14 years and, as so many have already expressed, was such sincere and caring professional., but also had a great sense of humor. My heart goes out to his family and everyone in his office. My thoughts and prayers are with you. His passing is an enormous loss. I will miss him dearly.

Susan Fritz

April 1, 2014

Jerry Coursey

April 1, 2014

I'm so sorry to hear about David's death. He was an excellent doctor and a great advocate for me. He was a wonderful spirit, I will miss him very much. I was very lucky to know him.

Jason Belser

April 1, 2014

Dr. J, was the kindest man I have known. He was much more than a physician; a coach,and friend he was. Dr. J was an angel to his patients. He never rushed in conversation and care allowing one to feel engaged and connected. He was always clear and present. He was demanding,but in the right way; for peoples lives and families depended upon his care and expertise.

His love for family and baseball we shared, which we routinely ended visits discussing both. A big hug from a small man is how they ended. I wish I could have another.

Dr. J,
RIP

Eugene Giannini

April 1, 2014

My deepest condolences to the Jacobs family and his dedicated team. David was a huge part of my personal and professional life for the last 20+ years. His high standards and dedication to his family and patients were ideals very few doctors can ever achieve on the level he maintained. I am a better (and healthier) husband, father, doctor and friend because of him. His passing leaves a void in my life and in our community.

Paul Mitchell

April 1, 2014

The news reached me late while traveling much against Dr. Dave's advice to slow down after retirement. In addition to being a superb doctor the best one could ever find, he was intensely interested in me and his patients as human beings. It was always the after examination that was most interesting where we would talk about life, work, travel, art, running and a myriad of other topics. It was always a fascinating time which often included his threats to fire me if I did not shape up - something that always sticks in my mind whenever I stray from his medical advice. Every visit ended with a huge hug. I was just coming to Washington again after almost three years and looking forward to another appointment, and talk - one that will now be sadly missed

George Doumar

March 31, 2014

I am so sorry, what a shock to see that Dr. J has passed away suddenly.

Alan Noznesky

March 31, 2014

Can't believe it...my most profound condolences. Funny thing, Dr Dave would never disclose the names of patients, of course, but I recognize some of the names in this guest book as friends and old acquaintances. He certainly had a wonderful community of patients in the practice, people who in their own right, you would trust judgement and opinion. It is reassuring to see we all had David as our doc. Godspeed, Dr.

Jeff Birrell

March 31, 2014

I am stunned and feel a deep, unending loss. David was my friend and my doctor for 23 years. I just learned about his passing and just cannot write more now. My deepest sympathy for his loving family. The man was brilliant; now the path of life is just a bit more dim.

Jairo Santana

March 31, 2014

I am sending my heartfelt condolences to his family, staff and patients. I knew Dr. Jacob's for more than 15 years. I couldn't agree more about what others have said. He was the best doctor that I ever met. I will truly missed him.

March 31, 2014

David Jacobs was my oldest friend, as we first became close at age 7 competing at the Illini Sports Day Camp. A few years later, after I was admitted to the U of Chicago Lab School and knew nobody, he made it his business to introduce me to everyone
and make me feel welcome. Later we were
high school competitors and
teammates, he the point guard and I a
shooting guard.

Senior year we made plans to go to Florida for spring break. The night
before we left, another player landed on my ankle and broke it.I saw David on
the sideline thinking our trip was off.
He went with me to the ER and waited
through the x-rays and the annoying cast they fitted on the ankle. I can still see him laughing and yelling "if
I have to carry you on the plane, we're
going to Florida in the morning!"
We went and had a ball, my limping
notwithstanding.

Later we both, separately, lived in Israel, he first...his wistful letters whetting my appetite to check the place out.... and
developed a love for that tortured and
inspiring place that endured over the
decades for both of us.....perhaps his
greatest lament about Israel was his
futile quest to find his favorite meal:
an utterly plain burger, soft bun, no
condiments in sight, and peeled cucumbers on the side. Middle Eastern
food didn't do it for him.

A few years later, back in the States
and preparing for his Medical Boards,
he drove 6 hours to be with me at the
Shiva for my mother, who died prematurely at 49. He stayed for the
evening, then turned around and drove
back to med school....look up mensch in the dictionary and it will say SEE DAVID JACOBS.

We didn't see each other the last number of years, as David married well
and started a practice and family in
DC, but we talked on the phone.

Both being inveterate jocks, we could
appreciate a sports metaphor, and as
we crossed the 60 barrier we knew we
were playing in the fourth quarter and
the dreaded end zone was up ahead.

That being said, he was taken out way
too early. This is an ache that won't
go away soon. Rest in peace, haver sheli.

In Chicago, his friend David Shopiro

Cyndy Kennedy

March 31, 2014

David was such an amazing cat; I never found another Doctor that came anywhere near bringing the same brilliance, devotion, or heart to his practice. I loved sitting down with him at the end of an appointment. Never once did one of these visits occur with out him saying something about how he adored his wife, or how happy and lucky a man he was. I recently moved back to DC and had the pleasure of renewing my "Dr J" appointments, and his bear hugs and eye twinkle would be the highlight of the (sometimes bad news-filled) visit. If I am this heartbroken, I know I can never imagine the loss for those who had the pleasure of sharing his life and his practice. I hope it helps to know how adored he was by all of us, and how much we will miss him too.

Jelena Pantelic

March 31, 2014

Whilst on extended stay in Europe, I only learned of Dr. Jacobs' demise last night. I am stunned by this loss. It is his family, his patients and also my loss. He nurtured me as he would a member of his dearest family, having actually saved my life by an early breast cancer diagnosis. Visits to his office were a socially uplifting events, although the news were not always stellar -- but he knew where the silver lining was. With his trusted medical colleagues and his office full of devoted coworkers I was guided to health. There are no words to express the gratitude and human love my family and I felt for this incredible human being. I was privileged to have been his patient and recipient of his knowledge, lovely smile, unforgettable jokes and love he bestowed upon his patients. It would be a poor testimony to David if I said I feel lost now -- although at this moment I confess freely I do. I am gathering my strength "the Jacobs way" and trying to live my life to the full. I would like to express my eternal gratitude to him, and my most sincere condolences to his family. Goodbye David, your American-Serbian-Jewish friend.

Alison & Michael Taylor and Garrett Davis

March 30, 2014

Dr. Jacobs was our family doctor. He engaged with us at a level we had never experienced previously and he played a significant role in our individual and collective health and well-being. His passion to ‘leave no stone unturned' revealed the causes – ultimately leading to resolutions – for some chronic health concerns. It is hard to imagine not having Dr. Jacobs to turn to as a resource and an advocate. We will miss him dearly. Our most heartfelt condolences go out to his family and to his office staff.

Barry J. Nace

March 30, 2014

I'd like to add something a little different about Dr. Jacobs who we all know was a terrific doctor. I was a catcher in college and he was pitcher drafted by the Cubs. He hurt his arm and when he heard that I was a catcher he wanted to throw to me as part of his rehab. So he would come to my home and just beyond my backyard we would have our sessions near the tennis courts of Kenwood Country Club. He could pitch! I am so sorry to know he is gone and my deepest sympathy to his family!

Kathryn Martin

March 30, 2014

It's hard to put into a few words the impact that Dr. Jacobs had on my life. In a relatively short period of time (18 months), Dr. Jacobs dramatically changed my life and I would go so far as to say saved it. Through his counsel, guidance and his top-flight team, I am a much healthier and happier woman. I didn't think it would be possible and I had essentially resigned myself to living with my various, chronic ailments. The change was so dramatic that my husband started to see Dr. Jacobs ten months ago, and now he is well on the way to being considerably healthier and happier. What I will miss most of all, though, is the loving yet tough way that he treated his patients. He truly cared about us and would often call on the weekends just to see how we were doing. He pushed us to be the best we could be and I often find myself thinking about my choices (what to eat, whether to exercise, whether to have dessert, etc.) in the context of what Dr. Jacobs would think. Like all of the others who have provided their thoughts below, I am truly saddened and shocked by the sudden loss. However, I feel so blessed to have known him and I will remember him fondly forever.

Elvira Agron

March 30, 2014

I am so sad about Dr. Jacobs passing away. I still find it hard to believe. He was my doctor for about 25 years. And he was not just my doctor he was a friend. He saw me through many stages in my life. He was always available when I needed his advise, and called even if it was a weekend. I was just talking to my sisters about him recently about what a great doctor I had. Even though he's gone he will always live in all of us that knew him. And I'll never forget the last advise he gave me on my last visit. It was so funny. That's the way he was, a little tough but kind and caring. I'll miss him. I wish you all a lot of strength and may you find peace in knowing so many people loved him.

Dan and Irma Maldonado

March 29, 2014

Dr.Jacobs will truly be missed by us. It is no exaggeration to say he was one of the great diagnosticians - zeroing in on health issues no other doctor, even specialist, would have suspected and found even with the best techniques - from a rare parasitic disease to a microscopic thyroid growth. We can truly say that he saved our lives - stepping in, taking charge and laying down the law. He was a deeply caring and committed physician - the epitome of what doctoring should be about. He was one of a kind and irreplaceable. Dr. Jacobs was all about his patients and we knew he loved us. What more could we have asked for. We loved Dr. Jacobs.

Irma and Dan Maldonado

Tatiana Lawrence

March 29, 2014

We were very sorry to hear about Dr. Jacob's death. He was our doctor for over a decade, and saw us through good times and bad. We saw him last September. We had no idea it would be the last time.

RIP Dr. Jacobs. We miss you.

Bill Kyburz

March 29, 2014

When relocating to Washington in 1982 and looking for a local doctor, I was blessed to have connected up with the young associate of another DC doctor -- that young associate, Dr. Jacobs, was excited to tell me about the art work he was collecting for his future private practice and his vision for practicing medicine. I feel honored to have participated in that young doctor's vision over the past 32 years. In all the years following, he never lost that enthusiasm for what health care should be or his focus on caring for his patents. Yes, I was one of those patents he would occasionally threaten to fire as a patient; but he would just as quickly write out a humorous “prescription” that you could never take to your pharmacy to be filled. On a Thursday, when my wife received a diagnosis from a specialty doctor that didn't “sound right” to Dr. Jacobs, he called and within two hours had a Monday morning appointment for her in Baltimore with a world leading expert in that specialty area. The outpouring of appreciation written here by all, is not only about the success of his vision, but the humanity and caring of the man. Dr. Jacobs, you will always be in our hearts – and we will always remember your warm, caring smile!

Dr mindy Jacobs

March 29, 2014

I am a psychologist who worked with David for many years. He loved and cared about all of his patients with a passion. His approach to being their doctor was pure and driven to sometimes saving, but always enriching their physical and mental health. I will miss his passion and authenticity. Dr mindy Jacobs, Washington, DC

Jeffrey Gehrs

March 28, 2014

Well, I was dodging calls from the office about my annual physical just a few weeks ago. I quit desert for lent hoping that and some exercise would help, thought I would call next week. You see Dr. J wanted me to loose some weight (me too) and after 25 years of being his patient I didn't want to disappoint David or be fired.

It is impossible to describe the impact that Dr. Jacobs had upon family and myself. During that time he has unraveled several puzzles in my family's medical issues- all with positive results. He discovered and treated thyroid issues in my wife that enabled us to have our 3rd child, Charlotte. He prevented our eldest daughter from having unnecessary gall bladder surgery when he detected her allergies to gluten and dairy. Well, the list could go on but Doctor J's uncompromising leadership, honesty and not on my watch attitude made him the world's best Doctor for me.

Now, like everyone who knew him, I wish I could hear his laugh, receive his council and get one more hug.

Jeff Gehrs

Alan Rosenbloom

March 28, 2014

David was truly an amazing physician. At a time when the entire health care system is designed to prevent doctors from serving as anything more than specialized practitioners in narrowly defined clinical specialties, David somehow refused such an approach, demanding instead a full understanding of each patient's health care needs and indeed of his or her life and providing exceptional health care and wise life counsel to all. Although I had only been his patient for two-and-a-half years, he literally saved my life in several ways. I cannot express how deeply I've been affected by his passing, and can only imagine the devastation it has brought to his family and friends. I truly hope that all of you who knew David well will, over time, find that your memories of a life well lived will dull the pain of his loss and that those memories will continue to enrich your lives.

Steven and Jennifer Marks

March 28, 2014

Dr. Jacobs changed our lives for the better in so many ways. Whether by addressing a modest condition that improved daily life or serious issues that required more immediate healing, Dr. J helped us like no other doctor. We will miss his genius, enthusiasm, and friendship. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Victor, Linda, Denise, Victor Jnr Bonsu

March 28, 2014

Dr Jacobs was recommended by a friend and eventually he became family doctor to the whole family. With time he knew everyone intimately and we blossomed under his care. He was a brother to the adults and uncle to the kids and we could discuss everything with him. In addition to his thorough medical care we got books, advice, bear hugs, counselling, and lots of love …... We walked out of his office feeling like it was a bright summer day back in Ghana, even in the darkest winter night. We are confounded by our loss but God knows best and we know he is in a better place. We will always love and remember him and strive to emulate his passion. He will always be in our hearts and eventually this pain and disbelief will turn to gratitude and laughter. We pray for his family and especially for God's peace for them.

Sophia Kirby

March 28, 2014

To The Jacobs Family,

I will always keep the memories of Dr. Jacobs with me. He was a man of great integrity who cared deeply for everyone. I will especially miss our conversations about life and the importance of family. He loved talking about each of you and I feel as though I know you. Thank you for sharing him with us. May God bless, and keep you always.

Andrea Green

March 28, 2014

I first went to see Dr. Jacobs back in the late 1990's. He had been recommended to me by a coworker as someone who could figure out anything that was wrong with you. Sure enough, I went to him and was properly diagnosed and started my journey of what it means to really have a doctor who knows you and cares about your life and health. It is interesting to me that I have so many memories with him and his caring for me. Just the other day I was telling a coworker about the time that Dr. Jacobs brought out a giant massage machine to help my lower back pain. Wielding it with aplomb and expertise. And I remember the time I was so tired and worn out that during my appointment he told me to just go ahead and fall asleep and gave me a blanket and let me sleep right there in the exam room. For a very long time. An entire afternoon. It was one of the nicest things that anyone had ever done for me. And that it came from my doctor? Well, it showed me what caring meant. I still keep a hand written note that he gave me many years ago of my health "homework." He saw that I needed someone to tell me what to do to take care of myself. I proudly crossed off each item and, though one item still remains on the list lo these many years later, he got me back on a path to taking care of myself. I am even still caffeine free to this day because of Dr. Jacobs. Just one of his many lingering recommendations.

I looked forward to the time at the end of each appointment where I went to his office and talked. Really talked. And always came away better for it.

I will cry as I write this, and my brother may comment as well, but Dr. Jacobs also cared for my brother over the years and during some very difficult times. The trust they had for one another. It is a great loss for our family. My brother is the one who called me just now to tell me the sad news. I am so sorry to his family for their loss and want them to know that my brother and I rank among the legions of patients who were healed and helped at his hand.

If he were that good to us, I can only imagine the gaping hole he leaves in the rest of this life.

With deep sympathy,

Andrea

Barry Nigro

March 28, 2014

Dr. J was unique. My son saw numerous specialists for years without positive results. After six weeks with Dr. Jacobs, more tests than anyone thought were needed, and a hug, he changed everything. Among other things, he prescribed surgery for my son, which happened today (with success). When the surgeon told us the news about Dr. J, we were stunned. Dr. J can't be replaced. He was a special man; he made a difference.

Susan McMath

March 27, 2014

The Members and fellow colleagues of the Greater Washington Asthma, Allergy & Immunology Society (GWAAIS) send our condolences to the family, staff and patients of our dear friend and colleague. Dr. Jacobs will be missed by all.

Daniel Neal

March 27, 2014

Dr. Jacobs was incredibly important to me and my family. He was, for many years, the completely trusted physician and friend to my wife and me. Dr. J. created and shared a wise and caring medical practice that meant the world to us. His candor, concern, humor and advice was always treasured, as will be his memory. Dr. J.'s influence will live on in our family, and we will strive to follow his guidance for a happy and healthy life for as long as we carry on. Thank you Dr. Jacobs - David - for your many life-sustaining gifts to us and all those around you. Your family is in our thoughts, and we thank them for all they did to support you as you supported us. Rest in peace.

Danny - Eva Biran and the girls

March 27, 2014

We are still in shock to believe that our beloved friend is gone. Our beloved friend with his great heart will not call us anymore to just talk with us as he used to from time to time. It's so difficult to believe it. Just a few days before the terrible news he called me to check how we were and shared with me his idea to have a clinic in Sderot where he could volunteer and offer his services to people who don't have he means. This was David! I always called him the best doctor but he was so modest he did not believe it but I know very well that a guy at our embassy in Washington ows his life to him! There was not a single time when I asked David to help other people and he didn't do it immediately with his big heart and his willingness to help. He was always happy always with his great sense of humor and we loved to be around him and his beloved family. He will always be in our hearts and we loved him very very much

March 26, 2014

Dr. Jacobs was the most extraordinary doctor and healer that we ever had. I will always remember his humor, as well as the thoroughness he brought to everything he did medically. May his memory be a blessing. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family. Know that he was beloved as a doctor, and as a friend.

Regina Schofield

March 26, 2014

I met Dr. Jacobs 18 years ago when all other doctors had dismissed my symptoms. As others have stated, he was my friend, my coach, my physician. We all share the pain in your loss. My prayers are with you. He loved his family and as recently in January, mentioned how beautiful his wife is. He took joy in his children and took care of his patients. We have lost a giant amongst us.

David & Chip Dec 2012

Chip Kerby

March 26, 2014

I was a new patient in 2001. David's first words to me were “If you don't do what I say, I'll fire you!” How does one respond to that kind of honesty? I smiled of course – really, you couldn't help it. At the same time, I remember thinking “what kind of doctor is this?”

Over the years, I learned. He practiced medicine as a zealot, and never, ever was a stone left unturned. His occasionally brusque exterior was illuminated by simple acts of kindness - a phone call here, a note there, and probably the most humorous physical examination reports ever written. If David sent you to a specialist, a somewhat bemused reaction would inevitably follow - SPECIALIST: (raising eyebrow and smiling) – “Oh YES, I know David!”

And how can we forget the merry prankster? Most people fear the prostate exam, but David and his “really big glove” routine always put the patient at ease.

Like so many others who have written, he saved my life. Twice. I loved him for his passionate advocacy. I feared him for his uncompromising directness. I envied him for his startling intuition. Above all, I trusted him.

I will miss him so much. Where will we ever find another doctor who gives bear hugs?

My deepest condolences to David's family, his staff, and his friends. And to my fellow patients, let's remember him fondly – he would insist on it!!!

Catherine Jones

March 26, 2014

Dr Jacobs was not just a customer to me as a pharmaceutical rep, but he was a great friend to me for 6 years. He always was concerned about me and was always there for me as a friend, a mentor, a coach, and an educator, even if it was to make me laugh. He thought so highly of his family that I felt like I actually knew them. I love you Dr. Jacobs, I miss you, and our hularious secrets will forever be safe with me. I know you are shining down on me and I laugh sometimes when I hear your responses to my tears. I promise I will continue to do great things as you always believed in me. You will forever be in my heart.I could never say I love and miss you enough. I'll see you again one day my dear friend.

Bill Sheldon

March 26, 2014

Dr. Jacobs healed me when others failed. I will never forget him saying "I will find out what is wrong with you, and I will make you better". And he did. He has been my primary doctor ever since. He was an extraordinary man, and an even more extraordinary doctor. I will miss him greatly. My thoughts and prayers with his family.

Douglas Browning

March 25, 2014

We are shocked and saddened to hear of the loss of David Jacobs. My wife and I have been his patients over the last twenty years, and he has provided profound benefits to our lives. Our hearts go out to his family.

Sylvie Spielman

March 25, 2014

I was so sad to hear of Dr. Jacobs' sudden passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you Ben, your mother and sisters. May his memory be a blessing. Warm hugs to all,

Ron Faucheux

March 25, 2014

What a shock it is for someone who devoted his life and career to health and living to have such an untimely passing. Dr. Jacobs was a brilliant physician and caring professional. He changed many lives for the better. He is already missed by all who knew him and depended on him, certainly by this one saddened patient.

March 25, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers are with the David Jacobs family.
From David's Colleagues and Friends at the Greater Washington Asthma, Allergy & Immunology Society.

Paul Battaglia

March 25, 2014

David was my friend and doctor for 27 years, and I never left his presence without feeling better about myself. He had uncanny medical sense that was bested only by his view of life. He loved his family, his staff, and patients, who were also his friends. Heaven has gained an extraordinary new citizen.

Bill Greer

March 25, 2014

David epitomized the role of the primary care physician. He was relentless in exploring every symptom of a potential health problem. He was holistic in caring for all aspects of his patients' well-being. He focused intensely on preventing disease and, when an illness was found, taking every measure to ensure it was cured. David's care for 20 years saved my life and gave me the opportunity to enjoy a long and healthy one. He said his goal was to help me live to age 100. How incredibly sad it is that his own life ended so short of the gift he sought for his patients.

I don't know if there is another primary care doctor as good as David. My wife and I will search long and hard for one. Perhaps his stellar staff, so well schooled in David's gold standard of care, can recruit one or, more likely, two or three to sustain his exemplary practice.

In our spiritual discussions, David often shared his belief that God has a plan for everyone. As I puzzle over David's case, perhaps God was recruiting a heavenly healer. Let's hope the saints and angels and others on High are prepared for annual physicals more rigorous and demanding than they could ever imagine.

Good-bye my friend. You were special.

Nora Greer

March 25, 2014

The passing of Dr. Jacobs is a huge loss. He recently agreed to help me prepare for an eminent life-saving medical procedure. In the spring of 2015, I will be eligible for a kidney transplant, if my body is otherwise disease free. That operation was stalled in 2009 due to the discovery of breast cancer. With Dr. Jacobs, I finally felt much more optimistic about reaching that goal. At my first -- and what would be my only -- visit with him, Dr. Jacobs outlined a detailed diagnostic chart. I could have been scared away by all the tests he suggested, but I was actually pleased by the care and attention. I realized immediately that if anyone could guide me to a kidney transplant, it would be Dr. Jacobs. At that visit, his humanity, depth of character, intelligence, and humor filled the room. My condolences to all that loved and lost him.

March 25, 2014

He was more than a brilliant doctor -- he was a friend, coach, and powerful advocate. I am fortunate to have known him for 23 years, and I thank his family for sharing David with all of us.

Steve Arkin

Robert Shalett

March 25, 2014

Not only did Dr. Jacobs teach me many lessons in health, but many life lessons. With much love to his family and friends.

Gordon Pavy

March 25, 2014

David had been my primary care physician for 32 years, nearly half my life. I will not be able to replace him. We shared a love for baseball, both as lefty pitchers. Before a recent surgical procedure, he gave me a baseball to carry for comfort. I always felt total confidence in his care. He;s the only doctor who gave me books to read. I will always measure other doctors according to his standard of care, and I will miss him sorely as a friend.

Rebecca Bromberg Hall

March 25, 2014

Aviva - you and your family are in my thoughts. May his memory be a blessing...

Mike

March 25, 2014

One of the most talented physicians have had the privilege liaising and receiving advice in Patient management,

Deepest Condolences to the Family, friends, colleagues and staff at this difficult time

A most untimely passing

Rest In Peace David

Dave Lougee

March 25, 2014

David was one of a kind; a unique, authentic, and truly marvelous man.

My physicals and visits were immediately followed by a spirited conversation in his office that invariably included politics, philosophy, and spirituality. But they ended with a detailed lecture focused solely on my long-term health. They were followed a few weeks later by a 3-page single spaced letter memorializing every word, along with some lively adjectives. He cared deeply about his fellow man, and he channeled that into passionate advocacy for his patients' health. Like so many others, I came to love Dr. J.

My condolences to his family. Your beloved David embodied what it meant to live a meaningful life.

And condolences and thank you to his marvelous staff who treat every patient with so much care and dignity.

Carlos Bell

March 25, 2014

Dr. "J", would refer to himself as the Captin of the ship. And he most certainly was. It is funny that I'm now just understanding what he called, "a method of my madness." He wanted to push people to the limits so that they could change the parts of themselves that they feared to. I respected this man. I appreciated his words of encouragement and his never ending generosity. There could NEVER be another Dr. "J". I just wanted to say thank you.
-Love Carlos, Aniesha, Jubri, Star, & Santino

Crossing the Bar
by Alfred, Lord Tennyson

Sunset and evening star,
And one clear call for me!
And may there be no moaning of the bar,
WhenI put out to sea,

But such a tide as moving seems asleep,
Too full for sound and foam,
When that which drew from out the boundless deep
Turns again home.

Twilight and evening bell,
And after that the dark!
And may there be no sadness of farewell,
When I embark;

For tho' from out our bourne of Time and Place
The flood may bear me far,
I hope to see my Pilot face to face
When I have crost the bar.

Jill Garfinkle

March 24, 2014

Dr. Jacobs was the most incredible doctor I've ever known, and I count myself incredibly lucky to have come under his care several years ago. He's supported and cared for me through some very difficult times, and I don't know where I would be today without his care. The passion with which he fought for his patients, his steadfast determination to find what would help each of us, and the compassion and humor with which he delivered these to his patients - I've never known a doctor to be so completely present, focused, and generous with both his time and his spirit. I'll miss his brilliance, his tell-it-to-me-straight-ness, his humor, his kindness, and the chats and banter we had at each appointment. The world truly doesn't shine as bright now as it did only a few days ago. I'll miss my Dr. Jacobs, and I'll always be grateful to him.

To the Jacobs family, please accept my deepest condolences and know that my thoughts are with you. May his memory be a blessing, and provide you comfort.

Ruth Gavish

March 24, 2014

His spirit continues to live through his children, family and all the many people he touched and influenced in his life! May his memory be of a blessing!!
Ruth and Yigael Gavish

Anne Njuguna

March 24, 2014

My heart is heavy with grief upon hearing this sad news. Dr. Jacobs was more than my doctor; he was my friend and I felt loved by him as a father would his daughter. Dr. Jacobs cared for his patients with so much compassion, care, and love - something that is rare to find in today's world. He treated his patients like family, including my uncle who needed urgent care when he needed medical attention while visiting the US from Kenya. I will miss our conversations, his humor, the books he shared with me (and still treasure), and his sage advise on all aspects of life.

Dr. Jacobs will be sorely missed. May he rest in peace and may his family find a peace that passes all understanding.

Charlotte, I am indebted to you for sharing him with me.

Reda

March 24, 2014

You will always live in our hearts and prayers.

Tawia Addo-Ashong

March 24, 2014

I am deeply saddened to hear of Dr Jacobs' passing. He was a caring, and competent doctor who's only concern was our health and well-being. There are very few like him around. I will miss him sorely. My thoughts and prayers are with his family in what must be a difficult time. May his soul rest in peace.

Iantha Gilmore

March 24, 2014

My heartfelt condolences to Dr. Jacob's family. My husband and I are so sorry to hear of his untimely passing. He was the most passionate, caring, and dedicated physician I have ever known. His personal touch from the books he gave me to the conversations about family, health, and wellness inspired me to increase my health care focus. His humor, compassion, and forthrightness will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and may his memory provide you comfort and peace.

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