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Fahir Kirdar Obituary

KIRDAR FAHIR KIRDAR With deep sadness, our beloved, Fahir Kirdar, passed away on Friday August 21, 2009. He is survived by his wife Nazan, three children Mustafa, Noor and Ahmed, and his four brothers Nezir, Edib, Nemir and Jamil. Burial services will be held at 3 p.m. on Tuesday August 25 at the National Funeral Home, 7482 Lee Highway, Falls Church, VA 22042 (703) 560 - 4400. Visitation for condolences will be held at the family home at 6:30 pm on Tuesday, August 25 and at 6:30 pm on Wednesday, August 26. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to AFTA - Arts for the Aging.

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Published by The Washington Post on Aug. 25, 2009.

Memories and Condolences
for Fahir Kirdar

24 Entries

Serra Kirdar

December 21, 2009

Dearest Auntie Nazan, Mustafa, Noor and Ahmed and Uncle Fakhir,

There are no words that can begin to console us. Time has passed since the Uncle Fakhir's sudden death but I know that the pain, the shock and loss is still so devastating and so poignant.

I will always remember my uncle with such love and admiration. He was always the first one up, the most energetic and the one who would dance the night away...
I know life has taken an unexpected turn, but I feel that Unlce Fakhir is still there..still with us..I pray he is in peace and observing how loved he is by all who knew him.

We love you Uncle Fakhir. My love to you all. You are always in my thoughts.
xx
serra

December 7, 2009

In our minds and hearts your still with us. We so miss you. Nadia Diab

December 6, 2009

Dearest Fahir,

Words cannot express how much we miss your beautiful smile, your warmth, your unfailing friendship.

We think of you so very often and talk about the times when we were together, which of course evokes in us many smiles as well as tears. You were a true friend in every sense of the word, one that could always be depended on if ever the need arose -- a gentle giant, a man of great character.

There is and always will be a deep void in our hearts for your loss, but we are grateful for having known you during those precious few years you were with us.

May you rest in peace, dear Fahir.
We know you're with the angels.

Much love, Glad and Azer

Tunca and Meral Iskir

December 6, 2009

Dear Fahir,
It was so difficult to accept your absence, especially on your birthday. Tunca and I missed you so much. You have created big void in our lives. You are always in my prayers. I often remember foundly our discusions, when every body would be talking at the other end, you and I would go in deeper philosophical discussions at this end and I would feel so blessed having a friend like you. You will always missed so deeply, sleep in peace.

December 6, 2009

Dear Kirdar's,
Once more we are reminded, what a good friend we have lost
But what we miss his gentelness most
He was not only a friend, but a great dost.
Cigtays 12/05/09

Edib Kirdar

December 6, 2009

Dec. 4, 2009

My Dear Brother Fahir:
Your untimely departure not only shocked everyone and left big void among our family unity but also deprived us to celebrate your 70th year of birthday as your family hope to do. I vividly remember your black-tie 60th birthday party which I had opportunity to participate by coming from Arizona for the occasion. You were not only star at that day with your big familiar smile and energetic activities but also you provided environment for all to express how much were you loved and appreciated by your family and friends.
You’re unexpected and devastating news of Friday, August 21, 2009, was shocking and unbelievable at first to everyone. With inevitable fact of life we, your family and friends, had to say our last farewell to you on Tuesday, August 25, 2009 with deep sadness and broken heart. You again were able to bring us, all your family and friends together in your beautiful home but your physical absence created different and unwanted circumstance among all of us.
My dear brother; without any hesitation and with full determination and honesty, I can say that you will be missed not only by your immediate and enlarge family and friends but also anyone who had a privileged of knowing you in person. You were trusted, respected, loved and dependable person. You rest in peace. You will be living in our heart and memories.

Edib Kirdar

Tolga and Ala Cubukcu

December 5, 2009

Dearest Nazan, Mustafa, Noor and Ahmed,

Yesterday, on what would have been his seventieth birthday, and everyday, we continue to feel the terrible emptiness of Fahir's absence. But we are so very grateful for having known him, and the privilege to have been his friends. We will always hold dear his warm friendship, his grace and his enormous love for his family and country.

Haldun Abdullah

December 5, 2009

Dearest Fahir,
We, the boys from Waziriyah, remember you as a good and loyal friend. You shall always remain close to us, in our hearts and minds, where ever you may be.
Haldun Abdullah

TASKIN & ESIN ATIL

December 5, 2009

OUR DEAREST FAHIR:

WE WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU AND THE BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES YOU LEFT US WITH.

Ali Damirji

September 14, 2009

Dear Nazan,
We are writing to extend our deepest sympathies to you and your family. We were so very sad to hear about Fakhir, may god rest his soul, he was such a wonderful person and we shall all miss him dearly.

You, Mustapha, Noor and Ahmad are in our thoughts and prayers.

May God bless you and your family on this solemn occassion and always.

Nagham and Ali Damirji

Leila Kubba Kawash

September 8, 2009

Dear Nazan,
How saddened I was to hear about dear Fahir's passing. It is difficult to know that he is no longer with us, and even though I am in Lebanon and have not see him for a while as I have not been back to Washington in the last four years, I always thought he would be there when I visit again.
It must be so hard for you and the family and my thoughts are with you. Fawzi sends his deepest condolences to you and was so sorry to hear this sad news.
Leila Kubba Kawash

Walt & Didi Cutler

September 3, 2009

Dear Nazan: Walt and I were deeply saddened, indeed shocked, to learn about Fahir. He was such a lovely and charming man, with a special smile which always made us feel happy to be with him, no matter where we were.

I remember in particular a wonderful conversation we had with him recently at the Iraqi Ambassadors where he told us about his recent visit to Kirkuk.

We treasured our friendship over these many years, and, along with Fahir's many other friends, we will deeply miss him.

We send you all our thought as we know how difficult these days must be for you and all your family. Walt and Didi Cutler

Aylin Ozdogan

September 2, 2009

Dear Nazan -

I was greatly saddened by the news of Fahir's passing...

We have shared so many wonderful hours over the years. I will never forget the evening at the Eragan's when you both shared your poignant story about arriving in the US. It was such a special moment...

And I will never forget Fahir's endearing smile - and the warmth of his friendship.

Erin and I send our love to you and your children.

Love,
Aylin Ozdogan

Aygun KUMCUOGLU

August 30, 2009

Sevgili Nazan
Fahir bey'in kaybini buyuk bir uzuntu ile ogrendik. Fahir bey hayatta tanidigim en kibar , en centilmen insanlardan biri idi. Sana ve cocuklarina bassagligi dileriz. Mekani cennet olsun.

Yasmin Anez

August 29, 2009

Dear Nazan and children, we share your saddness of your hasband's and father's loss. He was well loved and admired by his friends. We pray that this difficult time may pass while
you dwell in reviewing his acheivements and his good deeds. He will be missed indeed.
Drs. Osvaldo & Yasmin Anez

Oksan Aytaman

August 27, 2009

Sevgili Nazan,

Acini, buyuk bir sokla dun ogrendim. Butun kalbimle paylasiyor ve seni kucakliyorum.

Nurlar icinde yatsin insallah.

Ercument Akman

August 27, 2009

Dear Nazan and children
I learned with deep sadness the news of Fahir Bey's passing. I also know that no matter what I express can not fill the void he left in our lives. However I also believe that keeping the memory of his selfless friendship alive in our hearts can help us live beyond this troubling moment.
Sincerest condolences to each and every one of you and your families.

Samir Sumaidaie

August 26, 2009

It was with shock and great sadness that I learned, today, of the loss of our friend Fakhir. A fine man and a fine Iraqi American. I was always impressed by his genuine gentleness, warmth and sincerity. This is a sad day for us.
My dear Nazan, our hearts go to you and the whole family. My wife and I wish you strength. We so value the friendship you offered us when we came to Washington. A friendship we hope to be stronger with time.

Anas and Marjan Shallal

August 26, 2009

Dear Nazan
Marjan and I are saddened by the news of Fahir's death -
He had such a wonderful spirit, full of humanity and gentleness. He will be remembered fondly.
We both wish you the strength to pull through this very difficult time.

R Bain

August 25, 2009

Fahir was a kind and gentle man. I was lucky to know him and have him as a friend. I will miss him. Oya and I give our sincerest condolences to his family. We loved him too.

August 25, 2009

Dear Nazan

We are writing to extend our deepest sympathies to you and your family. We were so very sad to hear about Fakhir sudden death, he was such a wonderful person. Every time we saw him, we would have long talks and share his remarkable sense of humor.
This must be very difficult for you. Please be strong and remember that you are in our thoughts and our prayers. May God bless you and your family during this time and always.

Iman & Noaman Al-Rawi
Amman August 2009

Janine Tursini

August 25, 2009

Dear Nazan,

I am deeply saddened by the news of your and your family's loss. Fahir always had a warm smile, laugh and hug that could light up a room.

I wish you all much strength and love in the days and weeks ahead.

How gracious of you to think of Arts for the Aging during this time. We are honored to accept donations to commemorate and honor Fahir. Thank you.

Janine Tursini
Executive Director
Arts for the Aging
301-718-4990

A Cigtay

August 25, 2009

Fahir in my book was the ultimate gentleman.Ever helpful, quiet,observant and kind. Loved his family passionately.
We will miss him a lot. I am sure now he is in a better place. Watching us with his michevious smile. May he rests in peace. May god help the family and friends he left behind. Cigtays.

Uns and Salwan Baban

August 25, 2009

Dearest Nazan,

Our shock was great!
We love you and Fahir so much!
Sorry for your loss, it is really our loss too!

We convey our condolences to dear Mustafa, Noor, and Ahmed!

May god bless his soul!

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