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HELENE BAROODY PAYNE (Age 72)  
Of Alexandria, passed away on November 10, 2015. She was a dearly loved mother of seven children, grandmother of 11, great-grandmother of one, and sister of seven. She inspired family and friends with her grace and quiet strength in the face of all that she endured, including most recently the lung cancer she discovered three and half years ago. Helene was born in Manchester, NH, and grew up in Alexandria, VA, where she graduated from St. Mary's Academy Catholic High School as senior class president, and captain of the basketball team. She married in 1963 and had seven children whom she raised alone. She is survived by her children, Mark Payne and his wife, Linda of Laguna Beach, CA, Michael Payne of Los Angeles, CA, Rachel Payne Schramm of Herndon, VA, Matthew Payne and Daniel Payne of Ft. Lauderdale, FL, Ruth Payne and her partner, Linda Wesp of Milwaukee, WI and Leah Payne of Tampa Bay, FL; her grandchildren, Josh and Sean Vineyard, Christopher Schramm, Sean Payne, Tyler Payne, Whitney Webster, Dylan Payne, Matthew Payne, Andrew Payne, Melia Edgecomb and Elise Payne; her great-grandson, Liam Elias Schramm; two brothers and two sisters. She was predeceased by her mother and father, Nabeeha and William J. Baroody, Sr., her sister, Anne and brother, William J. Baroody, Jr. Her family will welcome friends to celebrate her life on December 3, 2015, at 12 noon, at Blessed Sacrament Catholic Church, 1427 West Braddock Road, Alexandria, VA, with interment immediately following at Ivy Hill Cemetery, 2823 King Street, Alexandria, VA. Notes and remembrances for Helene's family may be forwarded care of her daughter Rachel Schramm at 12209 Westwood Hills Drive, Herndon VA 20171. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made in Helene's name to The Children's Home, 10909 Memorial Highway, Tampa, FL 33615-2511, (813) 864-1535.

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Published by The Washington Post from Nov. 20 to Nov. 22, 2015.

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JC M

December 7, 2015

I am so sorry for your loss and wanted to express my condolences. One can never be prepared for the void left when a loved one dies. Our Heavenly Father promises to give us the strength to live each day and says thru his word,at 2 Kings 20 :5 "I have heard your prayers,I have seen your tears,I will heal you." May the cherished memories of your loved one be a healing force of strength for you and your family to draw on during the difficult days ahead. With deepest sympathy,I share your sorrow.
Respectfully.

Denaire Healy

November 21, 2015

She was my second mom growing up! She and my mom taught me what true friendship was all about and what it meant to be strong through adversity. I know they are both together now enjoying a cocktail at the piano bar in heaven! Two such strong women that were angels here on earth and now in heaven. Hugs to all!

MARY EMERSON

November 20, 2015

I feel fortunate to have known Helene. She was a strong, caring, and funny woman. She did the best dolphin calls down at Vinoy Park!!

Mary Emerson

November 20, 2015

I feel so fortunate to have know Helene! She was such a tough, kind woman. She will always be an inspiration to those who knew her.

Barbara Blough

November 20, 2015

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

mary wright

November 20, 2015

Ruth and family,
Know of my prayerful support during this time of loss. May your memories sustain you for the rest of your life and that your mom is at eternal rest.

Jennifer Deckard

November 20, 2015

I was so happy to spend some time with Helen in August of this year.... Leah, Kristi , Jami and I made a short video for where we sang My Way by Frank Sinatra... It was hilarious and Helen just laughed!! RIP sweet Helen........❤

Chris Schramm

November 20, 2015

One of my favorite recent memories was when sitto got to hold her 3 day old great grandson. Such a great feeling and to see her so happy.

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