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Jerry Larkins Obituary

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JERRY LARKINS

JERRY LARKINS, 55, from Alexandria, VA, from complications from a stroke during an operation on December 27, 2006. He is survived by his nine-year partner, Howard Ducat; his brothers, Donald and Jack Larkins, and sisters Rosie LaPrad, Jane Liparoto and Jill Morgan and countless nieces; nephews; grand-nieces and grand-nephews. Jerry was originally from Monroe, Michigan, where he still has family. Memorial services will be announced at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the following: Capital Hospice, 9300 Lee Hwy. #200, Fairfax, VA 22031, Gay Men's Chorus of Washington c/o Federal City Performing Arts Association 2000 P St., NW, #730, Washington D.C. 20036, or to Foods & Friends, attn: Development Dept, 219 Riggs Rd., NE., Washington D.C. 20011

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Published by The Washington Post on Dec. 31, 2006.

Memories and Condolences
for Jerry Larkins

Sponsored by Howard Ducat.

22 Entries

Nelson Bennett

September 26, 2011

To all of Jerry's and Howie's dear friends: I'm sorry if my previous message here came as a bit of a shock to some. But I must sadly report that Howie Ducat (Jerry's Partner of 9 years) passed away on June 4th 2011 (I mistakenly said June 24th) as a result of a Motorcycle accident. As you can see from Howie's rather recent post, he never managed to fully heal after Jerry's death. Perhaps Howie simply needed more time...we'll never know. I hope and pray that Jerry and Howie have now found peace together.

Nelson Bennett

September 25, 2011

Was shocked to also learn of Howie's passing this past June 24th. May you both be at peace with each other.

Howard Ducat

December 27, 2010

Four years have passed... yet you are still with me every day.

Miss you terribly, Love you always, and thank you for making me who I am today.

Howie-Bear

Mona Smith

January 24, 2007

Jerry was a friend and mentor to me for a many years. With his wonderful ways he has touched the lives of so many people and he will never be forgotten. I will see you again someday Jerry - with much love, Mona.

Sam Luceno

January 15, 2007

An extraordinary person who, during his short time on this earth, has had a profound influence on so many lives and in so many ways will be sorely missed. Jerry will, however, remain always in our hearts and minds. Good-bye friend.

Leslie Miles

January 12, 2007

Jerry was my mentor as well as a good friend and advisor. In all my life, outside of my immediate family, I have never experienced this type of pain for the loss of someone close. He is now with God and we will neet again.

Roger Durkin

January 12, 2007

Speaking words of sympathy to and about anyone we have known who dies unexpentantly is reaching deep inside for a voice from our oun disclaimed mortality. Jerry was a competent professional administrator and a man whose inner self gave easily and willingly to people as well as projects.

Jack Washbourn

January 12, 2007

Jerry was the ultimate professional among professionals. To say he will be missed is not a true measure of our loss. Jerry I know that you are in a better place. We pray that your example will remain with us always and provide guidance to us all.

Hatsy Cutshall

January 7, 2007

For Jerry, the living and learning was always about people. He cared for us all at ASA so deeply, and he leaves behind an extended family here who all miss him very much, as a boss, as a mentor and as a friend.

Kim Williams

January 5, 2007

Jerry was a wonderful boss and friend to me at ASA. He was always there to guide or to give a thoughtful ear.
My heart goes out to Howie and all those who knew and loved Jerry. Let his memory live forever in our thoughts and actions.
Much love,

Rick Slusher

January 4, 2007

To Jerry's friends and family,
I had the privilege of knowing Jerry and working with him during his tenure with the Virginia Employment Commission. He was a professional in every sense of the word. His compassion and caring for all people enabled his success, not just with VEC, but in life. He will be missed.

David Jackson

January 4, 2007

Jerry, It seems like only yesterday since we meet. Twenty years has passed in the blink of an eye. I wanted to thank you for the Aids Ride. That for me was an experience of a life tiem. Your friendship and generosity will truly be missed. Rest in peace dear friend. Love,David

Millie Durham

January 3, 2007

To the family and friends of Jerry. He was a wonderful guy to work with. He was a professional, kind and wore a wonderful smile. Sincerely, Millie Durham, VEC-Alexandria.

Felecia McClenny

January 3, 2007

Jerry, I will always cherish the talks we had over lunch or dinner.The lessons you taught me when I came to the Virginia Employment Commission were invaluable. No more worry, no more pain....God takes care of everything....Felecia and Erin

Deborah Winston

January 3, 2007

Jerry was such an inspiration for me and all that knew him at the Virginia Employment Commission. He was a talented designer,developer & trainer and taught me every thing I know. He touched my life in ways I can't describe. He will be missed....Deborah Winston

Fred Scaggs

January 3, 2007

To Jerry's Family and Friends:

Jerry was a man of great compassion for those most in need. While working for the Virginia Employment Commission, he touched the lives of thousands of people who lost their jobs through no fault of their own. He will always be remembered as a kind and gentle man who put the needs of others before his own.

Peter Mocarski

January 3, 2007

To Howard and Jerry's Family
I worked with Jerry when he was with the VEC and always liked and respected him. He was a fine person.

Irma Rodriguez

January 3, 2007

Jerry, I know that God was waiting with open arms, you were so kind with me when I need it you.

Janet P.

January 2, 2007

To Howie & Jerry's Family,

May your period of grief be short,
and your memories long. God Bless
and Keep you each in peace and happiness.

lls member
Janet P.
Michigan

Wendy Dougherty

January 2, 2007

Jerry,
I know you are up there getting things organized in heaven. You taught me so much with your wisdom, humor, management style and love. One of God's angels has been called home. Wendy

Jen & Jayme

January 1, 2007

Jerry,

You graced our lives with your kind and giving heart. You imparted your wisdom and led us by example. You lent us your smile when we were not feeling cheerful. You encouraged us when we were weary. You helped to heal our broken hearts and spirits when we were hurt. You shared your love and home with us. For all of these things and more, we are eternally grateful. We will always love you and you will always be in our hearts.

Love,

Howard Ducat

December 31, 2006

Jerry -
You were and will always be my hero. Thank you for 9 wonderful years together. My life is changed forever because of you, and for that I will always be grateful.

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