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JOHN FRANCIS KIRKPATRICK
On August 14, 2012, John Francis Kirkpatrick passed away. He was the beloved husband of Patricia Kirkpatrick (nee White); cherished father of Laurie Badolato, Charles Bagley, Cynthia Taylor and Rebecca Meister; devoted brother of Ed and Bobby Kirkpatrick and beloved grandfather of Catena, Angelo, Willow, Aidan, Benjamin, Kaila, Nicholas and Amelia. Friends may call at the Schimunek Funeral Home of Bel Air, Inc., 610 West MacPhail Rd. (at Rte 24) on Sunday from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m. Interment is private. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the American Lung Association, Maryland, 211 East Lombard St. Suite 260, Baltimore, MD 21202 or the ASPCA, a check (made out to the ASPCA) to Linda Tiramani, 520 8th Ave, 7th Floor, New York, NY 10018. Further information and online condolences available at: www.schimunekfuneralhomes.com
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February 12, 2015
Let's have our anniversary dance tonight--"At Last" (ok?). You go everywhere with me. We're going back to Europe again this year!
Love Pat
Pat Kirkpatrick
August 14, 2014
I carry you with me every single minute of every day. And,I will continue to do so tomorrow and forever more. Until we meet again I love you! Your lived your life with love ,grace,compassion and cared for everyone you touched. You meant so much to all of us we miss you so.
becky meister
July 23, 2014
Happy Birthday! I wish that you were here to celebrate this day with us today! We love and miss you soo much! I know that you celebrated your birthday with us!
Pat Kirkpatrick
July 23, 2014
Happy Birthday Honey! There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of you and the wonderful life you lived and shared with all of us. You dedicated your life to helping others and it was such a part of the way you lived every day. You are always in my heart and thoughts. I love you so!
Cindy Lou;)
June 16, 2014
Hi daddy. I think of you daily and especially yesterday on Father's Day. I feel your presence with me often and feel so blessed to continue to have your guidance. I don't think I will ever stop missing hearing your voice, your strong hugs or your unique smell. I am also reminded of you and how a part of you still lives in us and through the many people you touched. This weekend Laurie and I had the opportunity to spend time with our cousins Maureen and Gwen who shared their stories of spending time with you and how they still talk about you often. I know that a piece of you lives in the many lives of the students and family you touched on a daily basis. I see so much of you in Nicolas. His beautiful singing voice, a twinkle in his eye, his sense of humor and gentle nature remind me of you. Laurie and Kaila have your eyes and melt my heart daily. I am so blessed and filled with gratitude to have had you in my life. I used to wish that I could of spent more time with you and I trust the greater Universal plan. You offered me the opportunity to experience that love expands and has room for all. That is the greatest gift you have taught me. I love you with all my heart and soul. Happy Father's Day.
June 14, 2014
My love, happy Father's Day! Thank God our kids had you for a dad! We were so very blessed to be able to share your life. I thought about you so much on Memorial Day and how proudly you served our Country. I know that you didn't get thanks back then. We thank you now. You would have loved Europe, especially Italy! You were there in my heart the entire time..just as you always are. I miss you so! Love you!
Pat
February 12, 2014
Happy 31st anniversary, my love. It is going to snow today, just like our wedding day! Big, big snow! Miss you every second of every day. Thank you for over 30 years of happiness and love. Couldn't have asked for a more perfect mate. Thank you.
Chuck Bagley
October 8, 2013
Hey John,
There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about you. You were always an inspiration to me. I like to think that I am following in your giant footsteps. I love you so much...It is still very hard for me to think about you being gone...but I know I will see you one day! I will miss you until the day I am with you! Love you, Chuck
Becky Meister
August 15, 2013
Dear John,
I have written this so hopefully I will leave fewer things out that I think are important and in the hopes that I will be able to say it all... So here it goes..
I am soo proud that you were my father and that I had the opportunity to spend so many important years with you. You have taught me more than you will ever know...
I learned what type of marriage I wanted by watching you and mom. Together you guys taught me what compassion, patience, love, and forgiveness should look like in a relationship. For that I am forever grateful.
Your ability to hold such a strong pretense when you were alive allows me to know that you still are around now. You are so powerful, and strong, yet kind and goodhearted. I loved that I was able to talk out my ideas with you b/c I believed whatever you said to be true and the right thing to do. You just had this amazing ability to make people believe that you were always right. I think this is what I will miss most between us. I just wish I could hear your voice even if it didn't come with any advice. Of course we all miss your singing.... but to me, your speaking voice was so demanding but yet gentle and I constantly wish I could just bottle it up for times of need.
You are truly missed more than I think you will ever know, and I am not sure what the greater plan is yet, but wish this lesson could have been learned in a different way. So many things I had hoped you would still get to experience here in the physical world but am comforted in knowing and believing that you are still around to be a part of all the special events. I love you always!
Pat
August 14, 2013
Honey, It just seems impossible that it has been a year. It seems so short since we spent those last days, hours, minutes, seconds by your side. Yet, it was so long ago... I know you were ready to go but, I was not..I would never be ready to let you go. But, as with everyone, the decision was your's and God's and it had to be. I will never stop wanting you here with me and will never be able to fill the gap that you left in my life. I know you are at peace and that gives me peace. I always have and always will love you so...now and forever.
God saw he was getting tired
And a cure was not to be.
So He put His arms around him
And whispered, "Come with me."
With tearful eyes we watched him suffer
And saw him fade away.
Although we loved him dearly,
We could not make him stay.
A golden heart stopped beating,
Hard working hands to rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us
He only takes the best.
Namaste'I love you.
Jackie Bagley
July 24, 2013
Happy birthday John. We just know you are surrounded with peace and love in heaven. Ben speaks of you often and we smile when thinking of you. Please continue to look over us. We miss you?
Love Always, Jackie&Ben
July 23, 2013
Dear John,
Happy Birthday! I hope you are celebrating how you would like today. We love you and miss you everyday! I hope that you received Amelia's kiss today! Sending much more your way!
July 23, 2013
Hi Honey,
Happy Birthday my love! I feel you by my side all the time. You always were, right from the beginning, the love of my life for eternity. Every day I will continue to live my life in a way that would make you proud and in a way that honors your memory. As you always said...all my love forever.
Chuck Bagley
June 16, 2013
You showed me how to be a real man!...You will always be in my heart till the day I see you again! I miss you so much...I am so proud to have been a part of your life! I love you John...Chuck
Rebecca Meister
June 16, 2013
Happy Father's Day! Not a day goes by that I don't miss you. I often find myself crying because I miss you, need you, or because a good memory has been triggered. The tears because I feel blessed that I was able to share that triggered memory with you are still hard but also comforting because I feel so lucky to have been a part of it. I so wish that you were here. You were the silent but powerful rock in the family. I wanted to 'celebrate' today by being as happy as possible because I know that is exactly how you would have wanted it to be. Please know that I will continue to try to encourage many more family celebrations in your honor (I know doing family gatherings was your favorite) and will love knowing that you will be there to enjoy it with us. I would do anything to have you back at home for mom and stand as the rock of our family... still trying to make sense of my belief that 'everything happens for a reason' I love to the moon and back!
Cindy Taylor
June 16, 2013
I know that you are always with me and watching over all of us with love. We are so blessed to have you as our guardian angel. I miss hearing your voice and being able to give you a hug. I miss you so much. Happy Father's Day! Thank you for being my dad. I love you.
Kaila Taylor
June 16, 2013
I think about you every day Grandad. I still can't believe that you are gone and we are celebrating Father's Day without you. I wish you could be here, Happy Father's Day.
Kaila Taylor
June 16, 2013
I think about you every day Grandad. I still can't believe that you are gone and we are celebrating Father's Day without you. I wish you could be here, happy Father's Day.
June 16, 2013
Happy Father's Day. Even though you are not here with us,you are still in my heart. I miss you. Love Nicolas Taylor
Pat Kirkpatrick
June 15, 2013
Happy Father's Day my love. Thank you for sharing your life with me and our kids. You made a difference in so many lives and your absence has left a huge hole in many lives..especially in mine.
All my love forever. Celebrate this day and many other milestones with our dads. You all showed us all what is is to love and to be loved. Hug my Dad and Mom for me.
chuck bagley
February 27, 2013
Its been a while...but I still miss u!I think about you everyday...why did you have to leave us? I hope you and mom will be happily ever after...miss you pal...always will!
September 15, 2012
Hon,
It has been a month. I am sadder than ever. I miss you so and want your arms around me more than anything else in the world. It has been a true honor to share my time on earth with you. Till we meet again..At last....Pat
August 28, 2012
Dear Pat,
We have so many fond memories of John....all the way back to "Single Again". We had great fun boating and singing (everywhere) especially when he sang at our wedding. John had so many talents, not the least of which was playing great golf.
Now the sadness has set in because we can no longer enjoy John's company. What a truly wonderful man he was. We feel blessed to have been friends.
Our love to you and to all of John's family.
Gary and Caroline Gilbert
Johnny's Girl
August 25, 2012
My dear love. I cannot believe that you are no longer here for me to hold. For over 30 years, I have loved you more with each passing day. The world has lost a brave, kind, compassionate, gentle soul. Our children have lost a father who loved them more than anything in the world. By example, you showed us all of how we should move through this world, with love, fairness, trust, kindness and concern for all living creatures. I have learned so much from you and was so lucky to be the recipient of your great love. I am so blessed that you chose me to walk through life with. I just wish it could have been for much longer. I would give anything for another minute in your arms. I never realized how very very sad a person could be until you left. There is a huge gap in my heart that can never be filled until you hold me in your arms and we dance to "At Last" once again. As always, all my love forever.
Summer of '79
Patty Viney
August 22, 2012
John,
You have a special place in my Heart. We have wonderful memories. I am very proud of our children, Laurie and Cindy, and our special grandchildren. We have been blessed.
From our days as "Big John" and "Sparky", I remember the guitar playing and your beautiful voice singing "My Girl" and "Three Times a Lady". I will always love you. See you in the after-life. Love, Patty
Cindy Taylor
August 20, 2012
Daddy,
I am so blessed to have you as my dad and I am going to love you forever. I believe you will always be alive in my memories. I look forward to you greeting me on the other side when my time comes with a big hug and a kiss. I love you with all my heart and soul.
Cindy (Brown Eyes)
Owen Johnson
August 20, 2012
"John, our paths crossed in many different venues, from Suitland High School, the golf course, Maryland National Guard and at every turn, you shared your joy for living, passion for helping others, especially the youth of our fine nation, and tremendous love for your family. The world is truly a better place because of you!!!"
Joseph & Jan Badolato
August 19, 2012
We are sorry to hear about John. Our prayers and thoughts are with your family. We hope you will think about all the wonderful memories from over the years. God Bless you.
love
Joe and Jan Badolato
Bob & Candace Davis
August 19, 2012
Eddie, Bobby, Pat and Family: We cannot begin to express our sadness and shock over Johnny's death. We just heard the sad news. Please accept our sincere condolences at this time.
August 19, 2012
My favorite memories of John were listening to him sing and play the guitar on Sundays after dinner. I admired the love he and Pat shared and will forever be grateful for having him as a part of my life. Thank you John, for being a wonderful loving grandfather to Ben and for the kindness and love you always gave to me.
Jackie Bagley
August 18, 2012
Dear Pat and family,
I was so sorry to hear about John's death. I just viewed the slide presentation. What a beautiful tribute to John and the family. I will always remember John's musical talent and his love of teaching. I am sorry i will not be able to attend the viewing tomorrow. Pat you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers for the next days and weeks. Be good to your self and pay attention to your feelings. Take care, Connie & Joe Mucha
August 18, 2012
Granddad was the greatest granddad in the whole world. He listened to me, and he took me out to toys r us and lunch on every birthday. I think he sometimes had more fun then me! Every birthday was happy and filled with joy because of him. I love you Granddad! I hope to see you soon. -Aidan
debbie kirkpatrick
August 18, 2012
As a member of the kirkpatrick family my fond memories of you john will always be remembered.My prayers and thoughts are with your family.Love Debbie kirkpatrick
The Department
August 18, 2012
August 18, 2012
A time to remember. John calling out to Frank through a temporary wall . Brach tell these kids about the term BIG APPLE. We traded classes for 5 minutes I did my thing John picked up my World Civ. lesson. We did not miss a beat. I will always remember those days. I miss you buddy. Love Frankie B.
August 17, 2012
My heart goes out to Pat and the family. John and I first met in the 60's. Our path's crossed over and over and over and over again. Until we both separated and ended up rooming together for many years. I was honored to be his best man when he and Pat married. Heaven is a better place knowing that he's there.
Brian Thorne
The Four Amigos at SHS
Tim Kearns
August 17, 2012
Sharon Krisher
August 17, 2012
Pat, I was so sad to hear about John...Kim told us at work...I only met John a handful of times but he exuded such warmth and compassion..what a nice man!!!! You and your family have my deepest sympathy...
August 17, 2012
So sad to hear all the years of joy,fun and friendship have come to an end, 50 some years, from the times at Fred's Inn, to the trips to the ocean, Dr. Rose's Psych 101 class, you were always A bright ray of sunshine. Thanks for sharing your love with me and everone you ever met. I will have wonderful memories forever, you will be missed. Prayers for all your loving family. Bud Welsh
Pat Gardner
August 17, 2012
My name did not show up but that is OK. I will never forget the snowstorm for John & Pat's wedding. As I said earlier I have known him way over 35 years and though have not seen him recently will miss him greatly. He was a wonderful friend.
August 17, 2012
John, you have been in my life for over 30 years! I will miss you buddy....I consider you one of my best friends and I will always love you! Im sorry, I cant type anymore, Im crying....just know that you are loved and will be missed dearly! Love Chuck
August 17, 2012
John was one of a kind I remember me and my daughter traveled in a major snow storm to see him and Pat get married! I sm so sorry this is such a shock. Marlene Vennell
August 17, 2012
I have known John for way over 35 years. This is a shock and my heart goes out to his family. John will be missed deeply.
Kim Brannan
August 17, 2012
Dear Pat and Family- I just watched the entire slide show and loved every minute of it. John was blessed with a beautiful loving family and was obviously so happy.
Thank you for sharing your memories with us.
Love, Kim
Cynthia Zanti Jabs
August 17, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you
Andrea Vennell
August 17, 2012
I knew John when I was a child in Crofton, MD. My Dad actually lived with John for a short time. I will always remember listening to John play the guitar and his kind and "peaceful" demeanor. John will surely be missed!
Andrea Vennell
August 17, 2012
I knew John when I was a child in Crofton, MD. In fact, my father lived with him for a short time. I always enjoyed listening to John play the guitar and always felt a "calmness" and "peacefulness" when he was around. What a wonderful man..you will be missed!
Freestate ChalleNGe Academy 2009
August 17, 2012
August 17, 2012
greg hoilman
August 17, 2012
Although My wife and I only met Mr.Kirkpatrick last year through his wife Pat our co worker and friend,Mr. Kirkpatrick left a lasting impression on us as a very warm and outgoing man with a friendly smile and likeable demeaner.Not many people that you meet in life just one time ,will leave such a lasting impression. May God's love and comfort be with Pat ,and family and friend's of this special man. Greg and Sheila Hoilman,Nottingham ,MD.
Tim Kearns
August 17, 2012
My friend and colleague. Miriam and I will ever treasure the sound of your voice filling the church at our wedding. I will never forget the halls of SHS with Ellen and Frank, or the laughs and beers we shared throughout the years.
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