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Michael D. Payne

1947 - 2024

Michael D. Payne obituary, 1947-2024, Washington, DC

BORN

1947

DIED

2024

Michael Payne Obituary

Michael D. Payne passed away peacefully on November 12, 2024, surrounded by family and friends. Born February 27, 1947 in Fargo, ND, he spent most of his life in Virginia. He leaves behind his significant other, Merle Tigert; three children from a former marriage, Frank, Jason (Rocio), Caroline (Kristin), Michael Manaugh, grandchildren Elliot, Leo, and Gracie; beloved sister Pam (Dennis); and beloved nephew and niece Tyler and Alison. Mike served in the Army and spent one tour in Vietnam. He was a lifetime member of the Veterans of Foreign Wars. Mike worked 37 years for the federal government, primarily at NIH. After his retirement, Mike devoted many hours serving others by volunteering at USO Dulles and Bethesda, Travelers Aid, Dulles Airport, and Wolftrap.
A memorial service will be held at Community United Methodist Church of Crofton, 1690 Riedel Road, Crofton, MD 21114 on Saturday, November 23 at 11 a.m., with a reception to follow. Inurnment will be at a later date at Arlington National Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Pancreatic Cancer Action Network at PanCAN (Pancreatic Cancer Action Network).org/donate" target="_new" rel="nofollow">PanCAN (Pancreatic Cancer Action Network).org/donate

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Published by The Washington Post on Nov. 17, 2024.

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David Mineo

December 29, 2024

I just learned of Mike's passing. He was truly a kind and honorable man. May he rest in peace and may God bless and keep him and his family always.

Rick Knight

November 28, 2024

The Payne's and my family lived in the same Spotsylvania County neighborhood, and Michael & Pam's Aunt Ruby was oftentimes a commuter companion with my Grandfather, Rudolph Jones, from D.C. to Fredericksburg. Being younger than the then teens, Micheal, Pam, and my brother, Randall [Knight], I still think about this one time when we were together at Granddad's house, affectionally called 'The Old Place', sitting in the kitchen joking, laughing, and just being Todd's Tavern neighbors although I wasn't "allowed" to hang out with them too often. I share my thoughts and prayers with the Payne family for their loss.

Ed Wilgus

November 24, 2024

I knew Mike from work at NIH as a colleague for his financial and audit support. Mike was good at his job, but what made him special was his comfortable and friendly way about himself. He was a wonderful person and I am sad to hear of his passing. Whatever his next journey may be, I am sure he was ready for it. My condolences to his family and loved ones.
Sincerely,
Ed Wilgus

Maria Elena Chladny

November 23, 2024

My deepest condolences Frank, Jason and Caroline. Thinking of you and your family as you celebrate the life of your dad. I am so sorry for your loss. Maria Elena

Molly & Harry Locock

November 20, 2024

No better friend!

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Steve Payne

November 18, 2024

Mike was my cousin. He was one of the sweetest, kindest, gentlest souls I have ever known. He was always upbeat with a quick and genuine smile. He
always found the positive in every situation. I always looked up to Mike and admired him as someone to aspire to. RIP dear cousin.

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Greg Pryor

November 17, 2024

I worked with Mike at the NIH for many years. He always impressed with his friendliness, kindness and professional knowledge. He was always helpful and never confrontational. He was an ideal colleague and workmate. I ran into him at Dulles after his retirement and his helpfulness and charm continued to shine. Mike was the consummate "good guy." He will be missed and my heart goes out to Merle and his children. Gone too soon.

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