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ROBERT CHRISTIAN SPEAKER (Age 73)  
Resident of Washington, DC, died peacefully on August 20, 2015, at his vacation home in Chincoteague, VA. Bob had bravely and gracefully endured brain cancer over the prior year.Bob was a life-long gardener, a student and steward of our natural world, and an enthusiastic traveler. Bob was a native of Neptune, NJ, where he earned his gardening credentials early, assisting with the small family farm as a child and then toiling in commercial blueberry fields as a teenager. Bob enjoyed a long and active retirement, filled with family, friends and his passions. He was a volunteer of nearly 15 years with the Washington Youth Garden at the National Arboretum where he was known as "Butterfly Bob". In 2007, Bob was recognized as a WETA Hometown Hero for his efforts.Nine years ago, Bob initiated an independent project with grandson Christian to restore native habitat to a portion of the Ma and Pa Trail in Harford County, MD, with a focus on plants attractive to butterflies. Bob's work recently culminated with the trail being designated as an official partner of the Baltimore Checkerspot Recovery Team and thus a potential site for re-introduction of the state-endangered Baltimore Checkerspot butterfly.Bob retired from the U.S. Census Bureau in 1993 after nearly 30 years, specializing in residency rules and reapportionment issues. He was a graduate of Miami University of Ohio.Bob is survived by his wife of 19 years, Amy Bishton; son Christopher Speaker of Owings, MD; daughter Francine Speaker of Oxon Hill, MD; son Jesse Speaker of Essex, MD; grandchildren Christopher Jr., Hannah, Christian, Ellie, and Abby. Also surviving are sisters Lois Speaker of Peachtree City, GA, and Ruth Sloan of Columbus, OH; brother Richard Speaker of Costa Rica; many cousins, nieces and nephews; and a multitude of loving in-laws.Memorial contributions may be made to the Washington Youth Garden, 3501 New York Ave NE, Washington, DC 20002 or the Chincoteague Cultural Alliance, PO Box 257, Chincoteague, VA 23336.An informal memorial service will be held on October 24, 2015 in Chincoteague, VA.

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Published by The Washington Post from Aug. 26 to Aug. 30, 2015.

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Nancy Luria

October 18, 2015

Bob could light up a room or the entire outdoors--he was that charismatic. His wasn't a selfish beacon, but one that shone from the delight in his soul for sharing all that he cared about. As an employee at the National Arboretum, I saw Bob come and go, doing the countless chores for the Youth Garden that brought him close to just a few of his passions: gardening, wildlife, and kids. Our brief encounters always raised my spirits. You just couldn't help but be uplifted by this man's joyful energy. Even the last time I saw Bob, wheelchair bound and knowing his time was short, he made me smile. Lives like Bob's truly continue through the people he inspired to make the world a better place though our actions and our compassion. I hope all who loved Bob may take some comfort in this as they cope with the loss of this amazing man.

Patty Dobzinski(Diffell)

September 26, 2015

On behalf of the Diffell Family formerly of Morningside Maryland I would like to extend our sympathy to Bob's family. We lived next door to Bob on Skyline Drive in Morningside, MD.

Christian Speaker

September 23, 2015

Gramps was a hero to me fighting cancer for a year. I will always love you gramps. Rest in peace. I love you.

Scott Aker

September 15, 2015

My condolences to the whole family. Bob was always an inspiration for me. He touched the lives of countless Youth Garden participants and I witnessed just a few instances of this. He had a knack for drawing kids into the natural world and cultivating their fascination for nature, all the while inspiring them to do great things with their lives. I will miss his quick wit, selfless caring for others, and reverence for nature.

September 14, 2015

Thank you for your endless dedication to the Washington Youth Garden. You will be missed by many. Blessings for peace and consolation to Bob's family.

Tanya Zastrow

September 14, 2015

I had the pleasure of working with Butterfly Bob at the U.S. National Arboretum. No matter how cold, hot, or rainy Butterfly Bob was there to work in the Youth Garden. His smile cheered up everyone he encountered and his efforts provided food and homes for pollinators of all kinds. He was a special person who will be dearly missed.

RODNEY MARCELLA BURTON

September 14, 2015

I did not know Mr. Speaker but as a fellow volunteer I extend my deepest condolences to his family and friends. Peace & Blessings to All.

September 14, 2015

I didnt know him but he seemed full of life and in great spirit. Rest in peace Bob.

August 30, 2015

Amy - my sincere condolences on Bob's passing. He was a gentle soul and always a pleasure to work with.My fondest memory of him was 22 years ago at Don Hirschfeld's retirement. I had my 3 month old daughter with me and Bob asked to hold her.With perfect ease he picked her up and held her to his chest. My daughter immediately snuggled her head into his shoulder and quickly fell asleep.She stayed that way for about an hour. Even though I asked several times if he wanted to give her up, he insisted he was fine and was enjoying it. He was a wonderful man. I know he will be missed. Take care, sincerely, Gail Leithauser

MA & PA Trail, June 2014

Kathi Santora

August 29, 2015

Amy, Bob was a kind man and I so admired his devotion to the natural world, especially on the MA & PA Trail. I am glad that I got to know him.

Richard Green

August 28, 2015

I'm so sorry for your
loss.May the most high God be with you during this time.(Palm 83:18)

George Pierce

August 28, 2015

I knew Bob during our Census days and he was a great workplace friend. Thought of him often but just lost contact. My sympathy and prayers to all.

Edison Gore

August 28, 2015

Please accept my condolences. Bob's was a life well lived.

Mike Green

August 27, 2015

Jesse and family, I'm sorry to hear of the passing of Bob. Please accept my condolences. Uncle Mike

Deidre Hicks

August 27, 2015

Amy - your love for Bob truly shined during this past year. I pray you find comfort in knowing that the two of you had a wonderful life together!

Jesse Speaker

August 26, 2015

I'm glad I had the privilege of having him in my life and Christian, Ellie Abby and Jessica ' s lives as well. I could not have asked for a better father, friend and roll model. He never stopped believing in me no matter where I was in life. He taught me alot about myself and life in general. I hope to be as good a father to my children as he was to me. I love you dad and I will miss you very much. Your pain has been eased. Be free and watch over us.

Bart and Laurie Wynn

August 26, 2015

Laurie and Iwill always cherish last summer when u guys invited us to come stay with u on our 4 yr anniversary,you cooked us a hardy breakfast and were helping on orphan caterpillar back to health,you were truly a kind,loving and caring man ,we will always think of u wen we see a butterfly drifting along touching others with its free spirit,Thank you Uncle

Ray and Ann Stencil

August 26, 2015

May you find comfort in remembering your dear mother this Mother's Day, and every day.

Bob and the family "Roberts", when younger

August 26, 2015

August 26, 2015

Amy: We are terrible sorry to hear about Bob passing ,we hope you are fine ,and plan to attend the memorial in October.

Fondly

Rachel, Naftali and Estee Lev

Uncle Bob with the rest of the Roberts in our family <3

Megan Wynn

August 26, 2015

I will share my FB memorial post that I wrote for Uncle Bob so more people with have the chance to read it:

Uncle Bob was such a bright light in this world. A lover of nature (birds and butterflies especially) and children; nothing brought more light to those twinkling eyes of his than those two things. Soft spoken (a rarity in our loud family) and sweet natured. An ice cream lover. Smart. A master of making goofy expressions...especially when children were around. A world traveler and liberal minded being. If I ever get the chance to see half the places he and my Aunt Amy visited, I will be a happy person. He had the best white beard I've ever seen....naturally when he came into my life when I was a kid, I thought he was a Santa Claus look-a-like. He will be so greatly missed by all of us, but so thankful that he is at peace now. I will miss getting one of Bob's amazing, secure hugs. You truly could feel the love he had for you all in a hug. I know Bob thought our family was something truly special and loved being a part of it, but Bob was just as special and we all couldn't imagine our family without him. Bob, I hope that your soul is flying high on the wings of a butterfly or bird right now and you are looking over all of us. I love you.

Bob & Jenny - showdown at WYG

August 26, 2015

Peggy Payne

August 26, 2015

Amy and family,
Bob was one great teacher, he taught most of
us in Population Division many things about geography. Always gentle and thoughtful person. Will miss him.

Bob at WYG compost

August 26, 2015

Mexico - on way to Monarch reserve

August 26, 2015

Mexico City with wings

August 26, 2015

Mexico City with birthday balloon

August 26, 2015

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