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ROBERT G. XANDER (Age 84)
Died on Monday, June 20, 2011, following an extended battle with cancer. He was the beloved husband of Hildegarde "Popey" Xander. Father of Carolyn S. Xander, R. Dennis Xander and his wife Linda; grandfather of Melissa X. Kennedy, Julie A. Carr, Kathryn X. Hawkins and Christy L. Marion; great-grandfather of Jaxon, Allison and Olivia. Mr. Xander is also survived by his sister Margaret X. Heflin and by many nieces and nephews. Mr. Xander was predeceased by his sister Anna Gunnell and by his brothers Albert Xander, Christian Xander and Victor Xander. He was born in Glenmont, MD, and graduated from Montgomery Blair High School in 1944. After serving in the U.S. Navy during World War II, he worked for C & P Telephone Co. until his retirement in 1986.Friends will be received at PUMPHREY'S COLONIAL FUNERAL HOME, 300 West Montgomery Avenue (Rte. 28, exit 6-A just off I-270), Rockville, MD on Friday from 3 to 5 and 7 to 9 p.m. Service will be held at St. Mary Magdalene Episcopal Church, 3820 Aspen Hill Road, Silver Spring, MD 20906 on Saturday, June 25 at 10:30 a.m. Interment private. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to the Johns Hopkins Kimmel Cancer Center, 100 N. Charles St., Suite 234, Baltimore, MD 21201 or to St. Mary Magdalene Episcopal Church at the above address. Please view and sign family guestbook at www.pumphreyfuneralhome.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Robert Xander
July 1, 2011
Xander family,
Please accept my condolences for your loss. Robert and I both worked for several years as PBX Installer Repairmen at the old C & P Telephone Co. I remember him well. He was one of the Good Guys.
An old friend from DUPONT
June 29, 2011
Carolyn, We are sorry to hear about your dad's passing. You and your family are in our thoughts. Jim and Debbie Downs
Deborah Paden-Levy
June 27, 2011
Dear Popey and family,
My heartfelt condolences to you. I am Becky and Bill Paden's youngest daughter. I have vivid memories of Bob from my long-ago childhood - the twinkle in his eye and his good-natured teasing. His fun-loving spirit is indestructible. Dennis - you may not remember - but you and I watched many football games at your Uncle Buddy's in Cranford, NJ - you always were nice to me even though I was an awkward and shy pre-teen. I remember your kind manner. And I remember Popey's friendliness and wonderful laugh. May your faith, your memories, your family devotion, and your friends help hold you up during this difficult time. Fondly, Debbie
Joanne Fusco and Anthony Murray
June 25, 2011
Dear Missie and Family,
May the memories of Robert, warm your hearts during this time of grief. This will always keep his soul on earth. With Deepest Sympathy on the loss of your grandfather, our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Joanne Fusco and W. Anthony Murray (Gawler's)
June 24, 2011
Dear Popey & family, the Xander family sure has been through a lot recently but we are a strong family and love each other very much! Don, Bob and Mark are together and will take care of us from a differentm better place. Love you Diane Xander, Joan and Mark Sullivan.
June 24, 2011
My friend Carolyn, As hard as the ending is, your Dad fought the good fight and did his best.I am happy for him that he had a wonderful family life and enjoyed many pleasures with your Mother in their years together. I remember on your 50TH B-Day he bought all of your guests any food they wanted at the Corner Pub. I always remembered that and thought how fortunate you were to have such a genorous father who in your own words was , your "Daddy". With understanding love, Candy
June 24, 2011
Carolyn (and family) I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your father. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. Mary Sloan.
June 23, 2011
Carolyn, my deepest sympathy on the loss of your father. Time will heal, but remember you will always have memories of you and your Dad.
Fondly, Fran Graybill (and Beth)
Cee Cee
June 23, 2011
Dear Carolyn,
I'm so sorry to hear of your father's death. We need to get together soon to celebrate his life.
Kathy Lingenfelder
June 23, 2011
Deepest Sympathy Carolyn and Family on the loss of your father. We will be praying for you.
June 22, 2011
Carol,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. I know your father will be missed.
Love, Gayna Schiesz
Patty Barila
June 22, 2011
Carol, Bernie and I are saddened by the death of your father. We send our love and support. Patty and Bernie
Jonathan Everett
June 22, 2011
Carol, Kelly and I are sorry for your lost. Our prayers go out to you and your family.
Trudy Marotta
June 22, 2011
Carol, we are so sorry for your loss.
Nick and Trudy Marotta
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