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Gary Riser
October 10, 2020
I am proud to tell all that Stan was one of my very special friends.
First, belated but the warmest sympathies to his family; you and the world has lost a remarkable man who enriched all that he touched.
The following are some stories the progeny may have not heard, but need to be remembered.
When I knew Stan, he was always gentle, loving, intelligent and determined. But when I met him he was socially very rough around the edges. I saw that rough edge become smooth after his initial involvement with international diplomats.
I taught him to water ski, unicycle, snow ski and juggle. One example of his determination to excel was when he held the water ski rope over his toe and juggled tennis balls he had stuck in his swimming suit. We rode our unicycles in the Oak Ridge Christmas Parade with 2 of his daughters; they must have inherited some of Stan’s determination to excel as they were able to go backwards, a skill I could not master.
Stan dropped out of the University of Toledo and joined the US Army; he got a great start by finishing first in his basic training class, thus able to choose to enter the nuclear weapons maintenance program — he finished first in that program as well and was asked to stay and work as an instructor. He took courses at UNM and was accepted in an Army program that sent soldiers to 2 years of school to finish their 4 year degree. After a year plus, he asked the Army to provide him an additional semester so he could also obtain a masters. They denied the request so he completed all of the BS and MS course work in less than one year. Of course while having a part time job, 3 kids and all obtaining As. After that, he became an officer and a gentleman and I met him in Oak Ridge, TN. (We were neighbors in Oak Ridge, and later lived close by in Albuquerque)
What a story, what a man!
In closing, I hope the family stays in touch; they are all special to me.
Gary Riser
Melissa Garner
January 23, 2020
Huri and family, I am so very sorry for your loss. My condolences, thoughts and prayers for you all. I loved working with Stan and supporting him as his admin. He will be greatly missed!
Gerald Hendrickson
October 31, 2019
Stan was a kind mentor with a sparkle in his eye and a chuckle on his lips. He took me under his wing when I was an intern. I am so sorry for your loss. The world is a little less bright without him in it.
Gary Laughlin
October 30, 2019
Stan truly was a renaissance man, with the kindest soul. Always the patient teacher, I learned a lot about arms control from Stan, not just at the policy level, but at a detailed and intricate implementation level; things that you can only learn from those who had his depth of experience. I will always cherish that and use his teachings as best I'm able. My sincerest condolences to Huri and the entire Fraley family.
Ron Kulju
October 21, 2019
Huri and family,
My condolences on your loss. I always admired Stan. For all his accomplishments, Stan remained humble and friendly and always willing to provide assistance. He will certainly be missed. I hope your current sorrows will be quickly replaced with fond and happy memories. May God hold you in his comforting hands.
October 21, 2019
Huri and family,
I am so sorry for your loss.
Margaret Jacobs
John Vonderheide
October 16, 2019
Huri and family, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Stanley was a great person and will be sorely missed. Fortunately, we all have great memories of him to celebrate and share. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers as you go through this transition. I wish that I was there to give you a hug, but know that I am hugging you long distance.
Claire Evans
October 15, 2019
Dear Huri and family,
My sincere sympathies. Stan was a warm and so talented man. What a life of accomplishments! Definitely one of the good guys. He will be missed. I pray that, in time, your special memories will comfort you.
Claire Evans
N. S.
October 15, 2019
My deepest sympathy to the family of Stanley Fraley. May you be comforted in knowing that our Heavenly Father cares for you. He will give you strength and courage to cope with your grief. Psalm 94:17-19
Christine Fraley-Steinbrecher
October 14, 2019
Dad, you will always live in our memories and our conversations. I am so proud to have had the privilege of calling you Dad. I love you and miss you so much.
Bridget and Clyde Rogers
October 14, 2019
Huri and family
Our greatest condolences -- Stanley will be missed.
LORI HEUSTESS
October 13, 2019
Huri and family - my condolences to you during this time.
Pat Dupree
October 13, 2019
Huri, so sorry to hear of Stan's passing. He was a great friend and colleague to Steve. Steve always said it was a pleasure to work and write with him. Much comfort to you and family. Pat
Doris Hoffman
October 12, 2019
A true hero!
D C
October 12, 2019
Huri and family,
Our sincere condolences - Stanley will be missed. He was a wonderful friend and we always enjoyed our time together. Know that you both are always in our hearts. Much love,
Dale and Caroline
Cheryl Fraley
October 12, 2019
I love you always Dad
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