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David Bender Obituary
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for David Bender
20 Entries
Daniel Silver
April 14, 2025
My sympathies to the Bender family, in hopes the thousand memories of David's life will overwhelm the grief at his loss and gladden your hearts - as David would devoutly wish for.
Lisa Goldman
March 24, 2025
I was a classmate of David´s at Hamden Hall and am sending my sincerest condolences.
Susan Narduzzo
March 14, 2025
Dear Sharon, Nina, Max and Entire Bender Family,
I am so sorry for your loss and my heartfelt condolences are with you all. David was a wonderful man and finding out after his passing was heartbreaking. Keeping you all in thoughts and prayers . Keep those happy memories close to your heart.
Sue & Dante Narduzzo
Genevieve
March 11, 2025
Our deepest sympathies from everyone at Oceania.
roxanne bartlette
March 7, 2025
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Helena Richardson and Carolyn Brooks Family
Ed Voccola
March 5, 2025
Dear Bender family, please accept our deepest sympathy. We are very sorry to hear of Davids passing. We have done business with Bender for many years and had a friendship with David. Gone too soon. May he RIP.
Sincerely, Annmarie & Ed (Whitney Mechanical Svs)
Bob Weber
March 4, 2025
I´m sorry to hear about Dave´s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Bruce and MC Solomkin
March 4, 2025
Dear Sharon, Max, and Nina,
Although we were unable to be with you, please accept our sympathy and condolences for your loss. David welcomed us into your homes with good humor and grace. His love of family, and of friendship, was appreciated.
We hope you find comfort in each other, and through the memories of the people David shared his life with.
Lynda Brown
March 4, 2025
Sharon, I'm so sorry to hear about David's passing. My thoughts and sympathies are with you and your family.
Tom and Cathy Fahey
March 4, 2025
Dear Sharon and family,
We are so saddened to hear of David's passing.
You are all in our thoughts.
Tom and Cathy
Michael Tubbs
March 4, 2025
My Condolences to Max Bender and family on your loss.
My thoughts and prayers are with you Max and your family.
JOE DESALVATORE
March 4, 2025
My condolences to the entire Bender family.
Joe DeSalvatore
Chris Bowman
March 3, 2025
To the Family of David
I am sorry for your loss of your husband, father, brother, grandfather, He was a friend, mentor and businessman to many of the plumbing and heating companies throughout Ct, He was a caring person to all.
David now will watch over all from above
MIKE DAIGLE
March 3, 2025
So sorry to hear that Dave Bender has passed.
He was a great man to work for, a true leader and a great person.
I am honored to have been able to work for him.
He gave me a job after fighting cancer for 14 months when others would not.
Thats something I will never forget.
That was 13 years ago, and I have excelled in my career at Bender.
I am proud to have learned from him and help grow the company he loved.
My condolences to the Bender family.
He will be missed by all.
JEFF GRAY
March 3, 2025
"To the Bender Family, my heart goes out to you for the loss of your Father. I know how much he meant to you & Nina. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. May your happy memories give you peace and comfort during this challenging time. Not six months ago did I also lose my mother and best believe there's not one day that goes by that I don't think about or want to call her."
"As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the remembrance of what a GREAT MAN he was and the love and support of family and friends. From what I've personally come to know, your dad was a phenomenal man and a fierce leader. What good memories you both must have of him. Use those fond memories to lean on, to remind yourselves of the diligence and joy he brought into your lives. Do know he will forever remain embedded in our hearts forever, CONDOLENCES!"
Christina Velgot
March 3, 2025
My sincere condolences to the family. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
deja robertson and adreanne good
March 3, 2025
my condolences go out to the family a beautiful person with a heart of gold riheavenly peace gone but never ever will be forgotten
Stuart Miller
March 3, 2025
Norman,
Sue and I are sorry for your loss. May David's memory be for a blessing.
Amoret Heise
March 2, 2025
Condolences to the family; so sorry for your loss.
Roberta Elliott
March 2, 2025
Sharon and family - I'm so, so sorry for the loss of my cousin, David, your husband and father. He was a wonderful man and will be missed by many, including me. May you be comforted by a lifetime of memories. Love, Robbie
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