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Joseph DeSena Obituary

Joseph A. DeSena, 86, beloved husband of Eleanore (Bernabucci) "Ellie"/"Nora" DeSena, passed away peacefully on Friday, March 7, 2025 after a long battle with Parkinson's disease. Born and raised in New Britain, CT, Joe was the son of the late Anthony and Rose (Yacobellis) DeSena. He proudly served in the Marines after attending New Britain High School. Joe was a well-known figure in the community, owning The Brass Pony Pub in Bristol for many years. Over the years he also owned Western Auto in Unionville, CT, worked at the White Birch Inn and H&H Motors in Plainville, CT. Joe met the love of his life, Eleanore, and they shared nearly 60 wonderful years of marriage. Together, they built a loving family. Joe is survived by his sons, Joseph (Joanne) DeSena of Queen Creek, AZ, and Michael (Erin) DeSena of Burlington, CT. He was a cherished grandfather, known as Bepa or Pepa, to his grandchildren Alyssa, Katrina, Anthony, and Samantha DeSena. He is also survived by his two sisters, Mary Ann Booth and Jean Abbatiello. Joe's family would like to extend their heartfelt gratitude to Tyson and the entire team at Shady Oaks Assisted Living for their exceptional care and compassion during Joe's final years. The staff's unwavering dedication and kindness provided Joe with comfort and dignity, making a significant difference in his life. Their support and attentiveness were a source of strength for Joe and his loved ones, and their efforts will always be remembered with deep appreciation. Family and friends may call on Wednesday, March 19, 2025 from 4 PM to 7 PM at Erickson-Hansen Funeral Home, 411 South Main St., New Britain, CT with Military Honors accorded at the visitation. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Thursday, March 20, 2025 at St. Dominic's Church, 1050 Flanders Rd, Southington, CT at 11 AM. Please go directly to church. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the cure for Parkinson's (https://www.parkinson.org/, http://www.michaeljfox.org/) Joe's gentle heart, warmth, kindness, and dedication to his family and community will be deeply missed by all who knew him. To plant Memorial Trees in memory of Joseph A. DeSena, please click here to visit our Sympathy Store.

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Published by WFSB on Mar. 11, 2025.

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Joe was a wonderful friend through Jr. High School and High School. He got me my first job, at Guida Dairy near his home, where I worked with him while I attended high school. Joe had a wonderful disposition, a very kind person.

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