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Aurora-McCarthy Funeral Home, Inc. - Colchester

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Colchester, Connecticut

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Graveside Service

Aug. 15, 2025

11:00 a.m.

St. Peter's Cemetery

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Steffanie Borst Obituary

Steffanie Lyn Borst passed away at home in Burlington, Vermont, on July 13, 2025. She was 46 years old. Steffy was known for her radiant spirit, sharp wit, and the rare gift of being able to laugh at herself, often joking that her collection of mobility scooters qualified her for her own weird little motorcycle gang. Though she lived with MS and faced increasing physical challenges, her spirit remained vibrant and undiminished. Her sense of humor was matched only by her remarkable passion for her work. Over her 23 years at City Market, many of them as Wellness Manager, Steffy poured herself into every challenge. She thrived on problem-solving and led with deep empathy. Her positivity never wavered, and she treated everyone with respect, no matter their role. She worked to ensure that every employee felt seen, heard, and valued. For over 19 years, Steffy was the beloved partner of Zak, they were best friends and true companions. Together they shared a deep devotion and a love for festivals, live shows, and time with friends. She was loved fiercely by many lifelong friends, who will miss her joyful spirit, tart honesty, and her uncanny ability to be personally offended by broad social trends. Many of Steffy's closest friendships stretched back to childhood, and she continued to form meaningful new connections wherever life took her. One of the places dearest to her heart was Shady Glen, the iconic diner near her hometown in Connecticut. As a child, she would go there with her Grammy Borst for cheeseburgers and milkshakes. For Steffy, it remained a place of celebration, gathering, and cherished memories. We believe she is now reunited with her beloved ancestors, sharing stories and smiles beyond this world. Steffy is preceded in death by her father, William V. Borst; grandparents William I. Borst, Eleanor Varney Borst, Fern Porter and Monroe Sayner; and her dear Aunt Mimi and Uncle Stace. She is survived by her partner, Zachary Cole Devino; her mother, Susan Sayner; her sister, Alyson Suzanne Borst, and Alyson's husband, Errico Zeno Bachicha; her loving aunt, Sarah Borst; cousins Rebecca Hoffmann and Ethan Hoffmann and their families; and uncles Steffen and Stacey Porter and their families. A graveside service will be held on Friday, August 15th at 11:00 a.m. at Saint Peter's Cemetery, followed by a reception at Phelps Hall, St. Peter's Episcopal Church. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to Protectors of Animals (https://poainc.org/) in memory of Steffy Borst. To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of Steffanie Lyn Borst, please visit our floral store.

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Published by WFSB on Jul. 28, 2025.

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15

Graveside service

11:00 a.m.

St. Peter's Cemetery

30 Church Street, Hebron, CT 06248

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Aurora-McCarthy Funeral Home, Inc. - Colchester

167 Old Hartford Road, Colchester, CT 06415

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