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Stephen F. Celmer obituary, Wallingford, CT

Stephen Celmer Obituary

Stephen F. Celmer, 69, of Wallingford passed away on September 29th, 2025. He was the beloved husband of 27 years to Victoria Averinova Celmer. Stephen was born in New Haven on January 4th, 1956, and was the son of the late Herman and Inez Suffredini Celmer. A 1974 graduate of North Haven High School where he played football, baseball, ran track, hurdles and was a high jumper; he later earned a bachelor's degree from the former Southern Connecticut State College. Steve retired from teaching at Platt Technical High School, Milford and during which time he also enjoyed coaching at North Haven High School as an assistant football coach, head cross country coach, head indoor coach and later was the head coach for the boy's outdoor track for over 30 years. Steve participated in the Nutmeg Games where he won numerous gold and silver medals. Steve was a member of both the Wallingford and Greater New Haven Community Chorus, enjoyed country music and fantasy football, was a collector of baseball cards, and was a devoted New York Giants fan. Most of all, Steve was a traditional man, his family was his everything and he loved them all unconditionally. Loving father of Veronica S. Celmer. Beloved brother of Marc A. Celmer. Also survived by his four-legged friends, his dogs Sassy and Rascal. The visiting hours will be Monday, Oct. 6th from 10:00 AM to 12:00 PM at The Havens Family North Haven Funeral Home, 36 Washington Avenue. A graveside service will follow in the In Memoriam Cemetery, Wallingford.

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Published by WFSB on Oct. 2, 2025.

Memorial Events
for Stephen Celmer

Oct

6

Visitation

10:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m.

North Haven Funeral Home

36 Washington Ave., North Haven, CT 06473

Oct

6

Service

12:30 p.m.

In Memoriam Cemetery

18 Maplewood Avenue, Wallingford, CT 06492

Funeral services provided by:

North Haven Funeral Home, Inc.

36 Washington Ave., North Haven, CT 06473-2309

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Doug Stingo

Earlier today

My condolences to the Celmer family. He was a great coach and I will always have fond memories of early morning training sessions running the streets of New Haven during the summer off-season.

Rest in peace Coach Celmer

Christine Livingstone

Yesterday

Condolences to Steve's family. He was a valued member of the Wallingford Chorus and selflessly blessed us all with his lovely personality and resonant tenor voice. He will be sorely missed. CL

Kenneth Giordano

Yesterday

Sending prayers to the Celmer Family and memories of lining the field for Track and field events. I´m sure Steve will be truly missed

Jacki Fuehrer

Yesterday

Prayers to Steve's family on his passing. I was a classmate of his from 74 and remember him being a great athlete and all around nice guy. May he rest with the angels now

Jay Messore-Shotwell

October 4, 2025

I was so saddened to hear Steve passed away.
My condolences to the entire Celmer family.
For many years Steve was my fellow seatmate in the tenor section of the GNHCC. His wit would always make me laugh. He would always give me the latest update about his Veronica, and at Christmas time I would get the latest picture of his daughter whom he loved beyond measure. Steve, I will miss you. If heaven has a chorus, I know you will be singing along. Rest in peace my friend.
With love,
Jay

Kirk Stankiewicz

October 3, 2025

Steve was a professional with his students and a friend and colleague to those of us that worked with him. His wit and wisdom will be missed by all.

Heather (Ryan) Smith

October 3, 2025

Stephen will always be remembered fondly by myself as well as all of his former students at Platt Tech for his excellent teaching and patience with us. He has a beautiful singing voice and would often treat us with his music. He will be missed by everyone who knew him.

Matthew Schoonmaker

October 2, 2025

Saddened by this news, coached Track & Field with Coach Celmer for 3 yrs when I was in College. RIP Coach

Steve Clayton

October 2, 2025

I am incredibly grateful to have had Steve as my track coach back in 2005-2008. After a rough freshman year he convinced me to stay with it and later on helped me transition to distance running where I had a lot of success. I don´t know if I would be here today without the outlet track and field gave me and he played a huge roll in that. My deepest condolences to the Celmer family. RIP.

Frank Raccio

October 2, 2025

I am sorry to hear of Steve´s passing. My condolences to his brother, Marc and the rest of the family.

David Evans

October 2, 2025

I am so sorry for your loss. He was my senior English teacher at Platt Tech in 1987. I remember he was a hard but fair teacher he made us work all the way to the last day. Rest Easy

Alincia Medor

October 2, 2025

Sleep peacefully Mr. Celmer!

Kiana Hall

October 2, 2025

Rest in peace Mr.Celmer you will be deeply missed.

Angela Skerrett

October 2, 2025

Rest in Peace Mr. Celmer. We always had the best times in your classes and I still remember your lessons about life and to always enjoy it. You'll truly be missed. Especially by the Platt Tech family.

Erin Hatt

October 2, 2025

I was a student at Platt Tech when Mr. Celmer was a teacher there. I didn't have him, but many of my friends and my younger sister did. He was an icon in his own way, with his quotes and countdown to retirement. May he rest in peace, and may his family know that he touched the lives of students for decades. He won't be forgotten.

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