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Alexander Milley Obituary

Alexander Milley 90, longtime resident of Winchester, died peacefully of natural causes in the presence of his family at his home on Thursday, April 16, 2015. Al was pre-deceased by his wife of 41 years, Mary Elizabeth (Murphy). Al is survived by his three children, Alexander (Sandy) Milley of Winchester, Mary K. Milley of Winchester, and General Mark Milley of Fort Bragg North Carolina, daughters-in-law Linda and Hollyanne and grandchildren Matthew, Alex, Mary Margaret, and Peter. Also, he is survived by his sisters June McCall of York, ME, Margaret Inman of Columbia, SC, and Moreen Heath of Somerville, MA along with many nieces and nephews. He was the brother-in-law of the late Sister A. Catherine Murphy CSJ of Regis College, Weston MA, and the late LtCol (Mass State Police) Thomas Murphy of Winchester. He was pre-deceased by brothers Peter, Harry, Tom, and Charlie and by sisters Doreen and Gladys. Alexander was born to the late Mary and Peter Milley in Somerville, MA on 27 April 1924 as the oldest of 10 children. He graduated from Somerville High School in 1943 and from Tilton Academy, NH, in 2014 as part of a deferred graduation honoring several WWII Veterans. Immediately upon graduation from Somerville HS, he enlisted in the U.S. Navy in March 1943 as a Navy Corpsman and was assigned to the 4th Marine Division. He graduated from Corpsman Training in Newport Rhode Island and joined the 4th Marine Division which conducted training at Camp Pendleton California and then in Maui Hawaii before conducting four assault landings in the Central Pacific. While assigned to the 4th Marine Division he participated in the island assaults on Kwajalean Atoll as part of the Marshall Islands Campaign in February 1944 followed by the battles for Saipan and Tinian in the Marianas Campaign in June and July of 1944. Alexander returned to Maui with the 4th Marine Division to prepare for the upcoming bloody battle of Iwo Jima which was assaulted by the Marines on 19 February 1945. Al and the 4th Marine Division were preparing for the invasion of the Japanese Home Islands as part of the assault force on Kyushu when the Japanese surrendered and WWII came to an end. Al was Honorably discharged in November 1945 with the rating of Pharmacist Mate Third Class and was awarded the Asiatic-Pacific Service Ribbon with 3 Bronze Stars along with the Presidential Unit Citation with 1 Blue Enameled Star and the World War II Victory Medal. Like most of the "Greatest Generation", World War II was a defining event for his entire life and Al always remained proud and humble about his service in some of the most significant battles in American history. Following WWII Al went into business with his brother Peter by opening up a small restaurant in Lexington which specialized in serving ice-cream and a variety of gourmet candies. Al and Peter sold the business and Al established a career as a food-broker for over 30 years working successfully for Babo Food Co., Barclay, Brown, and Jones Food Brokerage, and Dean Foods selling a variety of brand name foods throughout New England. Al was also heavily involved in many community activities in Winchester. He was a Winchester Town Council Meeting member, an active participant in the Knights of Columbus, a founding director and coach of Winchester Youth Hockey and long time coach of several teams in the Winchester Little League baseball system. Al was also a man of deep faith and a member of Winchester's Saint Mary's Parish and active as an Usher for Sunday Masses. Additionally, Al enjoyed spending summers with his family in Freedom and North Conway NH and York, ME Al will always be remembered as a devoted husband and father, loyal friend, successful businessman, and a very active member of the local community. He will be greatly missed by all those who knew him. and a very active member of the local community. He will be greatly missed by all those who knew him.

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Published by The Somerville Journal from Apr. 21 to Apr. 28, 2015.

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Gary Ells

September 28, 2021

Thank You For Your Service. You must be proud of your Son. Semper Fi

Irene and Louis Mondello

April 12, 2021

We miss al he was such a great guy

James Latour

October 3, 2019

RIP sir. I believe my grandfather served with Al in the 4th Marine Division as a Navy Corpsman. Al's history is very similar to my Grandfathers, Tuffield A. Latour (Tuffy) - died in 1965. I have a picture I would like to send to the family, preferably the son, Gen. Mark Milley (20th Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff). I believe this picture includes Mr. Milley (sporting a beard), my Grandfather - Tuffield A. Latour, and four other unknown individuals. My grandfather was a Fleet Marine Force (FMF) Corpsman and trained at Camp Pendleton, California, and Maui, Hawaii. My grandfather served in the Central Pacific as described in Al's obituary. If someone in the family can contact me at [email protected]. I will forward the picture to your family. My brother sent me a group photo he received from my Aunt. I learned all of this by watching in the swearing in of the new Chairman of Joint Chiefs of Staff, General Mark Milley. President Trump mentioned his father's service and how he was a Navy Corpsman serving with the 4th Marine Division. I found this history about my grandfather via the archives, muster reports (sent from my brother, SFC Tuffy Latour, Army National Guard, and he mentioned Al as being in the reports as well), the NY historical papers (http://nyshistoricnewspapers.org/) website and through family documents.
V/r SMSgt (Ret) James A. Latour

Irene Mondello

April 13, 2019

Hard to believe four years have gone by al lou and I miss you and often think about you you were a great person kind to your family and friends and most of all served your country when I think of you I think of all the fun times we had taking our day trips you are a person that never will be forgotten al till we all meet again love the mondellos xo

June 24, 2015

Mary Kay and Family - I am so sorry to learn of your father's passing... truly a wonderful man whose love shines through to all in MK's joy and laughter. We are holding you closely in our hearts and thoughts, The Puopolo Family

April 27, 2015

Sandy, Mary and Mark - the Kennedy family was saddened to hear of your father's passing. My parents always thought the world of your dad and mom. They made Winchester and the people around them better and will be missed. Please know our thoughts are with you - Paul and Annette

Kathy Rokes

April 23, 2015

Mary Kay and family - I was so sad to hear of Al's passing. He was a wonderful man who I thoroughly enjoyed spending time with over the past years. He will be greatly missed but will live on in your memories forever. My prayers and thoughts are with you now and always.

April 23, 2015

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. You have my deepest condolences.

Jennifer Korell

April 22, 2015

Mark and family May you be blessed and comforted in knowing and celebrating your fathers love and memories Keep his memory alive by your loving example We our church will keep your father in our prayers love Jen

April 21, 2015

Sandy,

So sorry to hear about your father's passing. At least he died knowing that he and your mother left such a beautiful family to carry on the love and the values that were so important to them. This is a legacy that I"m sure gave him great comfort in his final moments on earth.

Jim Shine

April 21, 2015

I'm sorry for your loss. May you come to know the God of all comfort. (John 17:3)

Donna Taverna

April 21, 2015

MK, so sorry to hear of your dad's passing. My dad also served in WWII in the Marines in Saipan, Guam, Iwo Jima and the Mariana's. God Bless him, and thanks for his service to his country and community. Best, Donna Taverna

April 21, 2015

We are truly sad to hear of Al's passing. May we extend our condolences to the entire Milley family.
Flo & Collin Allen

SGM_Eric Laub

April 20, 2015

Deepest condolences to the entire Milley Family: Thanks for your loved ones Honorable Service to our nation, May he rest in eternal peace at the side of our Lord. God Bless the Family in there time of mourning...

Vr
SGM ERIC J. LAUB
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April 20, 2015

our deepest condolences billy Belfast and anne

Beverly Jones

April 19, 2015

Truly an example of why it is called "The Greatest Generation." May he rest in God's eternal peace and thanks for reminding us that it is never to late to celebrate.

Irene Mondello

April 19, 2015

My dear friend Al Lou and I will miss you it was a gift to be part of your life the last two and a half years God bless you and your family they were lucky to have such a great father and we were lucky to have such a great friend.love the Mondellos

Dan wesinger

April 19, 2015

My deepest and sincere condolences. Dan Wesinger.

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