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Frederick C. Cabot

1936 - 2016

Frederick Cabot Obituary

Frederick C. Cabot of Weston, formerly of Newton, age 79, passed away at home on January 31, 2016 after a long illness. Beloved husband of Elizabeth (Kahlo) Cabot. Devoted father of Meg Cabot of West Newton and Katy Essington of East Greenwich, R.I. Loving grandfather of Nick, Elena, David, and Paul Rodriguez and Haley and Eric Essington. Cherished brother of Virginia Wood, Auburndale; Elizabeth Minot, Dover; the late Paul Cabot II, and the twin of the late Edmund Converse Cabot. Born in Needham, son of Paul C. and Virginia Converse Cabot, Fred graduated from the Charles River School, Milton Academy, and Harvard College, class of 1959, and received his Ph.D. from Harvard in 1966. He married Liz in 1964, and they moved to Middlebury VT where he taught English and American literature and writing at the College, then back in Boston, at Pine Manor College for 22 years, and after retirement, at Lasell Village for 10 years. Daughters Meg and Katy were raised in Newton. As an undergraduate he very much enjoyed rowing in the lightweight crew, and he coached that crew for several years, spending part of his honeymoon at Henley. Another great love was music, which led to his becoming a trustee and overseer of the Longy School of Music and the Boston Landmarks Orchestra. He sang in the choir at the Congregational Church of Weston and was a member of the Weston Library Music Committee. His life-long attachment to natural science and the environment found fulfillment in gardening, studying and predicting the weather, and membership in the CWRA stream team and the Weston Forest & Trail Association (of which he was also a trustee). He walked and cross-country skied on conservation trails and canoed and kayaked on the Charles River. At his vacation home in Starksboro VT, he found special pleasure in splitting wood and scything the meadow. He also enjoyed hiking mountains, biking, and playing tennis. Every summer he also spent time at a family compound on North Haven island, Maine, where he loved sailing and rowing, and picnicking with many nieces, nephews and cousins. He and Liz traveled extensively, including Papua New Guinea, Bhutan, New Zealand, the Galapagos and Machu Picchu, as well as Central America, Africa, and Europe. A memorial service will be held at the Congregational Church of Weston, 130 Newton Street, on Saturday, February 27, at 11 a.m. A gathering of family and friends will be held afterwards at Meg's. Contributions in his name would be welcomed to the Weston Forest & Trail Associatio

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Published by The Wayland Town Crier from Feb. 5 to Feb. 18, 2016.

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Sandy Bakalar

February 26, 2016

Fred was a wonderful friend and leader at Longy SChool of Music. He was gentle, thoughtful and loyal. We miss him.

Carol J. Bernhard

February 24, 2016

I can't tell you just how many times I've thought of Dr. Cabot over the years since I graduated from Pine Manor College. He was such a kind and gentle man, and a wise and passionate teacher and mentor. He was one of only a handful of people who have influenced my life and I truly cherish his memory. As others have said, it was a gift to have known him. My deepest condolences to his family and friends.

Carol J. Bernhard 92

Robin and Vincent Rougeau

February 16, 2016

Fred was such a warm and delightful person! We will treasure the times we spent with him when we gathered for drinks and dinners. Liz, we felt so graciously welcomed to Weston by you and Fred and we could not have asked for more lovely neighbors. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this sad time. Fred touched us deeply and we will miss him.

Christopher Wilkins

February 14, 2016

Fred was an enormously positive presence on the Board of the Landmarks Orchestra. My conversations with him were always interesting, vital and substantive. We shared two alma maters, and many common interests. We are grateful for his many contributions, and will greatly miss his spark and his kind encouragement.

Christopher Wilkins, Music Director
Boston Landmarks Orchestra

AYSIL KOYUNCUOGLU

February 12, 2016

My deepest condolences to friends and family.

Tom Selldorff

February 12, 2016

Fred was a quiet but very effective member of the Weston Forest and Trail Association Board of Trustees, a dedicated environmentalist and a very fine person. The Board of Trustees of the Weston Forest and Trail Association will miss his support and his counsel.

Jeff Makholm

February 7, 2016

Fred was a faithful and important contributor to the Board of Trustees of the Boston Landmarks Orchestra--which plays summer concerts at the Hatch Shell on the Esplanade and at other venues in the city with our many civic and artistic partners. Wise, clever, endlessly interesting and devoted to the orchestra's mission, he retired from the Board last year. We miss him and wish his family well.
--Jeff Makholm, Chair, Board of Trustees, Boston Landmarks Orchestra

gailen Jette

February 5, 2016

An old Vermont friend from way back when, I would like to say that Fred was the best of the best!! He was the jewel of all jewels, and a finer man I have never known. Be it tennis, biking, hiking, sailing he was always ready to go. Such a humble man!! His love of reading and writing were second to no one. One in a million, that was Fred. I will miss you forever, Fred

Lovingly, Gailen Jette, Middlebury, Vt.

February 4, 2016

Dr. Cabot was a top-notch professor and an even better human being. I can think only of a handful of people whose influence changed the course of my life. Fred Cabot is one of them.

Merrilee Campbell Bridgeman
Class of '88
Pine Manor College

Patricia Macvaugh

February 3, 2016

Fred was a dear friend and a wonderful mentor during my years in the Pine Manor English Department. One of my fondest memories is catching him in his office sketching. He never wanted anyone to see his work. Such a modest and talented man! I also cherish memories of our runs on the Pine Manor cross country trails talking about literature, students, and the beauty of our surroundings. My only negative memory is that he just wouldn't buy a new pair of running shoes until his toes were practically sticking out of the old ones. I forever hold the memory of this kind and gentle man in my heart.

Harry Cabot

February 3, 2016

Good guy Good guy

Elizabeth Cary Blum

February 3, 2016

In my role as director of alumnae relations at Pine Manor College, not a week goes by that an alumna doesn't ask me about Dr. Cabot or tell me how much they loved having him as a professor. He was an incredible, wise, passionate teacher and a generous and kind man that inspired so many. He and I served as Pine Manor trustees together, and I often looked to him for guidance and advice. It was a true gift to have known him. My deepest sympathies to his family and friends.

Liz Cary Blum '92

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