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June Jordan Precious Spot Doug Smith
July 16, 2025
Sorry for your loss Becky Bless Hope Pray Wish Guardian Arch Gabriel Michael Rafael GOD LORD Angel Armies SABOATH ZEBAOTH YAHWEY YEOSHUA YESHUA ZENITH Encamp Surround You Yours Blessings Of Three Heavens Amen Amen .
FRAN AND MIKE OGLIARUSO
October 6, 2008
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Ron Walker
September 29, 2008
Becky, good morning. I am so sorry to hear about Blaine and I apologize for not being able to be here personally to see him. Please be comforted in knowing that everyone that knew Blaine liked him and respected him. We are all better people because of his friendship.
Your in our prayers to GOD for comfort and strength.
Beth (Gable) Barnes
September 28, 2008
Dear Philip and Virginia Fengfish,
Please accept my sincere condolences for the loss of yet another child. A friend of Randi, she spoke to me about her brother, Blaine, and never stopped asking for prayers in his favor. She was a great inspiration to me and I hope to always have faith as strong as hers. May God strengthen and guide you (and your family) through this time of sorrow.
Walt & Deb Baker
September 28, 2008
Becky,
Sorry to hear of your loss. May God be with you in this trying time.
Helen Wood
September 27, 2008
So sorry to hear this. I remember Blaine as being a very nice person. I was executive secretary for the PA Jaycees for 25 yrs. He will be sadly missed.
Bill Baker
September 27, 2008
Becky,
I am so sorry for your loss. I just today received this news from my sister Dottie. Wish I could offer more than my condolences, but distance prohibits that. You and your family will be in my prayers,
steve barry
September 26, 2008
Becky,
You are in my prayers and thoughts. May God give you peace
and strength in this time of sorrow.
Joyce Smith (Emig)
September 25, 2008
I am sorry for your loss. Blaine was a high school friend who will never be forgotten.
Janice Freeland
September 25, 2008
Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during your time of sorrow.
Rick Schaffner
September 25, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Terry & Karen Rodgers
September 25, 2008
Becky,
So sorry to hear about Blaine. Hold on to your memories. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Terry and Karen Rodgers
Tanis & Mark Deisinger
September 25, 2008
Hello Becky and Family,
Sorry for your loss as Blaine was a good lifelong friend to to myself and many. He will be missed.
Robert Glass
September 24, 2008
Becky,
My deepest sampathies.
Jodi Elfner & Brad Holtzman
September 24, 2008
Dear Becky and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Blaine was an exceptional person and will be sadly missed. You are all in our hearts and prayers.
Mark Roberts
September 24, 2008
Becky and Family, I was deeply saddened to learn of my good friend Fangers passing.Many, many fond memories we shared.Simply too soon gone, he will be missed.May you find peace and comfort in the things that remain.
Allison Murter
September 24, 2008
Becky -
we are so sad to hear of Blaine's passing. He was a great fighter and source of inspiration to those here who cared for him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Allison (& Steve) Murter & the Staff of Weinberg 5B
Tim Beshore
September 24, 2008
Becky, I'm so very sorry to hear about Blaine, may the great memories you have help you through this time. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless
Deb Watson
September 24, 2008
Becky,
I am so sorry for your loss, but please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Also know that Blaine is no longer suffering and is pain free in God's house.
God Bless you and your family and give you strenght!
Vicky (Alban) Mathias
September 24, 2008
Becky,
So sorry to read about your loss. Not sure if you remember me from school and from Hanover Direct. I met your husband at Hanover Direct functions and around Abbottstown. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.
Ron and Sally Simpson
September 24, 2008
Dear Becky, We were so sorry to hear of Blaine"s death. Things seem to happen to good people for no rhyme or reason. We are sure though of God's never ending love and he will never forsake us. We are sure God had a good reason for taking Blaine home to be with him. We will miss this good neighbor. If you need anything, please let us know. Your Sutton Rd. neighbors. Ron and Sally Simpson.
Tisha Spillman
September 24, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. I saw Blaine every year at the Manchester/Mt. Wolf Parade (Tisha's Twirlers). He was always a very happy person. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Tisha (Glatfelter) & Jeff Spillman
Shirl, Rick & Marc Glatfelter
Joanne Kennedy-Smith
September 24, 2008
Becky & family,
I am very sorry to hear of Blaine's passing. He was a great guy and a terrific friend, and we all have wonderful memories to remember and share. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
A classmate and friend,
Joanne Kennedy-Smith
Jane Duke
September 24, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with Blaine's family. I only knew Blaine briefly back during his Cole Steel days but he left a lasting impression and I am sure he will be sorely missed.
Pat and Steve Bretz
September 24, 2008
Dear Becky:
Steve and I were so sorry to hear about Blaine. He was a great person and a dear friend. We are so sorry for your loss. We wanted you to know that you all are in our hearts and our prayers.
Kirk Wright
September 24, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I only knew Blaine a short time as a part time member of his Tuesday night golf team over the last couple of years. He never forgot to call me every March/April to see if I was available. It was a privilige to share those few hours with him and I know he will be missed by many.
Sandee (Reed) Baughman
September 24, 2008
Dear Becky,
I cannot imagine what you must be going through. I am so very sorry to hear about the passing of your dear husband. You are in my prayers. I think of you and wonder how you are. Your Friend, Sandee (Reed) Baughman
Carol &Alan Crowell
September 24, 2008
Becky and family,
Although you do not know us, you have our deepest sympathy. The loss of Blaine, will be sorely missed. We first met Blaine, the day he spoke at Dr. Hirsh's office, to other Cancer patients. As my husband, was just starting chemo treatments. I remember how strongly he spoke of you ,as his rock. That day, he gave my husband, a Lance Armstrong bracelet,with words of encouragement. My husband, put the bracelet on, that day and never took it off. The inspiration, as Blaine spoke gave us hope and strength to carry on. I remember at the Christmas party, how nervous he was to sing. That wonderful voice will not be soon forgotten to all who heard it. Having the pleasure of knowing Blaine is a honor. Again, please accept our condolences.
Dottie Emig
September 24, 2008
Dear Becky,
I am so sorry for your loss. You always kept a great smile on your face and I didn't realize your heart was aching inside. We last saw you at the family reunion with your mom and I briefly saw you going through the store at a later time but didn't get to talk to you. My heart aches for your sadness at this time and please take care of yourself. You will have many friends and family to help get you through this. Dottie
Ginny MacAvoy
September 23, 2008
Dear Becky, Archie and Jerry: We will always remember Blaine with fondness. We would look forward to the family reunions that you both worked so hard to provide. His love for you, Becky, was evident by his words and actions. May the Lord give you strength until you meet again. Love, Jody and Ginny
Betty Douglass
September 23, 2008
Becky, Jerry and Archie
I was so sorry to hear the news this morning that your husband has passed away. You have my deepest sympathy and you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Joe Zutell
September 23, 2008
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Victor & Judy Black
September 23, 2008
our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow...Fang (as we all called him) was a GREAT Friend and full of laughs...we love you my Friend..Rest in Peace
Mark and Diane Malinowski
September 23, 2008
My dear friend Blaine is gone, his darling form no more on earth is seen. He is gone to live just o'er the sea on a shore that is ever green. I shall miss him so. We all shall miss him so. Becky, please accept Diane's and my most profound sympathy for your loss. Blaine will be greatly missed by all who knew him.
Shawna Belcher
September 23, 2008
Becky and Family,
Sorry to hear about your loss. Blaine will greatly be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Julia Noel-Lewis
September 23, 2008
Becky, My heart goes out to you and your family. I know we lost contact over the years but I have thought of you guys often and still remember hanging out together. Take Care and if your ever in Lancaster don't hesitate to stop in.
Vicki Hughes
September 23, 2008
Dear Becky, Jerry and Archie:
Just happened across the news of Blaine in looking at the Evening Sun. You are all in my prayers as I know what a close relationship all of you had and how much you will miss him. My most sincere sympathy,
KIMBERLY BEARD
September 23, 2008
Becky and Family,
I am sorry to hear this sad news. He was a fighter and fought hard through his cancer and now this. I know that Blaine knew his Lord and Savior and was ready to meet him. He was a very kind, generous, loving person. I and we here at Wellspan are very glad to have met him. We will keep you in our prayers.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Kim
Stacy Janes
September 23, 2008
Becky,
I am sorry for your loss. Please know I am thinking of you and the family during this trying time. My thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless.
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no on can steal.
With deepest sympathy.
Joan Ramsey
September 23, 2008
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Debi and Mark Damon
September 23, 2008
Becky, We are so sorry for your loss. We have such great memories of our Jaycee time together. Blaine was a great guy and a lot of fun! Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you.
Kathy Neff-Totton
September 23, 2008
Remember
Remember me when I am gone away,
Gone far away into the silent land;
When you can no more hold me by the hand,
Nor I half turn to go yet turning stay.
Remember me when no more day by day
You tell me of our future that you plann'd:
Only remember me; you understand
It will be late to counsel then or pray.
Yet if you should forget me for a while
And afterwards remember, do not grieve:
For if the darkness and corruption leave
A vestige of the thoughts that once I had,
Better by far you should forget and smile
Than that you should remember and be sad.
The Neff Family
Charles & Marion Neff
Scott & Linda Neff
Kathy Neff-Totton & Steve Pugh
Darryl Foutz
September 23, 2008
Becky and Family
I know this is a time of great sorrow, and much time will be needed to heal. Just cling to the fact that he is with Jesus now, and there could be no better destination!
Darryl Foutz (IT in Roanoke)
Betty & Ed Pierce
September 23, 2008
Becky, we are so sorry to hear about Blaine. May God give you the strength to continue, knowing that he is a better place.
Rod & Sally Doughty
September 23, 2008
Becky: We are thinking of you and will keep you in our prayers.
Donna Jean (Reed) Bolger
September 23, 2008
Becky I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Your Friend
Maryann DiSanto-Sands
September 23, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with Becky, herr family & friends during this time. We will always have a fond memory of Blaine in our hearts & will cherish them. Blaine lived his life with zest, a smile, and respect that both friends & animals alike wanted to be around him. The spiritual believer, the singer/actor, the professional do-it-yourselfer and the ultimate gentleman. His attitude was contagious and this will live in all of us.
Best Regards,
Beth Himmelright(Elfner)
September 23, 2008
Becky - What a wonderful person we have lost. Blaine will be remembered for all his hard work and acts of kindness.
Keeping you in my thoughts during a difficult time.
Brett Donley
September 23, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, ""I welcome you.""
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......""My day was not in vain.""
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Joe/Juneen Fink
September 23, 2008
So sorry and share in your sorrows. Your tree of life is getting more bare but all the memories you share are living forever.
Mona Young
September 23, 2008
Becky, my thoughts and prayers are with you as you work through the coming days.
Jerry Atkins
September 23, 2008
My heart is with you Becky and family for your loss. May God be with each of you during this time.
Nita Weaver
September 23, 2008
Becky, I am so deeply sorry, you are in my thoughts and prayers. If you need anything, I am right around the corner.
Douglas Hull
September 23, 2008
Becky,
I am so sorry for your loss. Your "family" at HDI has you in our thoughts and prayers. And we stand ready to help you in any way we can.
Doug Hull
Rachel Cobb
September 23, 2008
Becky,
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during your time of sorrow.
Renee Norman
September 23, 2008
Becky, You and your families are in our hearts, thoughts and prayers at this time. Blaine will be remembered in the many memories that will continue on for a lifetime.
Love Renee & Sarah
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