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Smith, Ruth B.

Ruth Smith (Pahl) "Ruthie," of Kettering, passed away peacefully at age 92 on February 17, 2024 at Adira Rehabilitation Center in Yonkers, NY. The youngest child of Herman and Leona (Jenrich) Pahl, she grew up near Cleveland and in Dayton, graduated from Patterson Co-Op High School in 1949 and later in life from Sinclair Community College. She held a first-degree black belt in Judo, awarded in 1978 by the Kodokan Judo Institute in Tokyo, Japan. Ruth worked as a secretary at Wright-Patterson AFB, which is how she met her engineer husband John. She eventually became a full-time home maker until her children were older, upon which time she went back to doing temp work, taught self-defense courses for women at the YMCA, an attended Sinclair, earning an Associate's degree in English. Ruth was an avid outdoorswoman, home decorator, baker, gardener, dedicated church member, and lovingly devoted wife, mother, grandmother, sister, auntie, and friend. A casual extended family gathering was one of her favorite social activities. Surviving her are daughter Cynthia Rafferty (Paul) of Yonkers, NY, sons John Jr (Kyoko Hoshino) of Honolulu, HI and James (DeDe) of Kettering and grandchildren Alicia, Caitriona, and Michael Rafferty, and Austin and Sommer Smith. Ruth was preceded in death by husband John of 57 years, sister Betty Bockmann, brother Robert Pahl, and daughter-in-law Diane Smith. Visitation with family will be 9-11 am on Saturday March 2nd, 2024 at Fairmont Presbyterian Church, 3705 Far Hills Ave with memorial service to follow at 11 am. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to St Jude Children's Research Hospital, www.stjude.org. Condolences and media memories may be posted at www.flynnmemorialhome.com or www.tobiasfuneralhome.com

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Published by Dayton Daily News on Feb. 25, 2024.

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Paul Torres

August 7, 2024

Love and prayers to Ruth Smith family and friends also God bless you to Ruth Smith family and friends also I love my friend Ruth Smith forever very much also I miss my friend Ruth Smith forever very much also Rest In Peace. Amen.

Your best friend Paul Torres

P. S. Paul and Ruth are best friends forever very much.

Kimberly Voelker

June 28, 2024

Ruth, although I never knew you in life I know you must be an angel!! As I visit my parents buried close to you often, I locked my keys in my car. And was alone with no phone or help. At that very moment you sent your daughter and son in law (in town from New York stopping by your gravesite) to rescue me and drive me close by to my home to get my extra car key!! I believe God still sends angels when we need help the most. I live alone and have many health challenges. I thank you and God for sending your sweet daughter and son in law to my aid today. I cried when I got home because in this world strangers are not always so kind!! Thank You and may Jesus my Savior give you all many crowns!!

Deanne Harvey

March 3, 2024

Mike and I met John and Ruth when we joined Fairmont Presbyterian Church in 1972. We are so very sorry to hear of Ruth´s death. You have our deepest sympathy. Mike and Dee Harvey

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Fairmont Presbyterian Church

3705 Far Hills Ave, OH

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Fairmont Presbyterian Church

3705 Far Hills Ave, OH

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