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Robin Gue Willink
March 15, 2026
Wow! What a life. So many of the traits mentioned were already there at Walnut Hills...especially the quick,irreverent wit! Sending deep sympathy for your loss.
Holly Smith
January 30, 2026
Dear Jon and Liz:
I was greatly saddened to learn of Vicky´s death. She was one of a small group of friends who sustained and enriched my life at Wellesley. She was always the funny one, with a wit that overlaid and even sometimes disguised deep thinking. Vicky herself intervened in a courageous way during that time to enable my continued dedication to philosophy, an intervention that I´m now sure made a huge difference to the way my life turned out. I´m not surprised that she turned out to be a fantastic teacher, and contributed in such unusual and meaningful ways to philosophical writing. She was a light to everyone around her, and I can only imagine how devasted you and her current friends must be at her loss.
You and I met at Bellagio many years ago, where Liz and my (now deceased) husband Alvin Goldman were fellows. I still remember Liz´s wonderful account of the mini-front loaders dance she choreographed!
Holly Smith
Professor of Philosophy Emerita, Rutgers University
Helen Lauer
January 15, 2026
I learned feminist philosophy at Prof. Spelman's knee, through her valuable publications. Prof. of Philosophy at University of Dar es Salaam Tanzania
Mecke Nagel
January 14, 2026
Vicky's generosity was unparalleled. She was a mentor and member of SOFPHIA and a fabulous host and travel companion. I fondly remember our time together in Vienna where she had a prestigious fellowship. While I write on human play, Vicky exuded the ludic spirit, with humor and poise. Vicky Presente!
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Donna Gunn
January 10, 2026
I shall always remember Vicky´s kindness and wonderful sense of humor. She made a difference in each and every life she touched. My sincere condolences to her family, colleagues and friends.
Adrianne Andrews
January 9, 2026
Vicky Spelman was so very kind and supportive of me throughout my career at Smith College. I will always remember her with fondness and deep respect for the intellectual brilliance she gifted to the world.
David Ball
January 9, 2026
Vicky and I shared the same floor in a small building where we had our offices in our early days at Smith College. She liked to say, with a grin, "We shared a bathroom." Later, we were in an informal discussion group together and I remember some of her interesting, often unorthodox contributions. She recommended a book to me long ago that helped my thinking (not her book!). Above all, it is her smile that I remember.
Suzannah Fabing
January 7, 2026
Hello Jon,
It was my pleasure to have known Vicky since WHHS, so a lot longer than her colleagues at Smith. She always retained her sense of humor and her wry smile at the follies of fellow humans (self included). I know she was a beloved member of the Smith faculty and of her devoted students. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time..
Anna
January 7, 2026
It is hard to overstate the joy that Vicky brought to her students with her incredible sense of humor, unbounded curiosity, and clear love of teaching. I took my first philosophy class with Vicky, a course on the philosophy of design, and it not only changed the trajectory of my education (I majored in philosophy!) but changed the way I think about the value of education. Vicky showed me that philosophical inquiry has the power to elevate the mundane, give voice to the voiceless, and make the world a more just and beautiful place, one of the greatest gifts I can imagine. Sending love and peace to Vicky's family and to all those who were lucky enough to know her. May her memory be a radical and joyful blessing.
Melissa Coco
January 6, 2026
Dear family of Dr Spelman. Am so sorry to hear this news, and extend my condolences to you.
I took a class with Vicky while at Smith ( class of `89). She had quickly become a legend, and it was a privilege to get into her class! She is amongst the most memorable of my Smith instructors. It is a gift to have these memories become so vivid, she will not be forgotten.
Melissa Coco, LICSW
Jill de Villiers
January 6, 2026
The Philosophy Department has lost a beloved family member who will be sorely missed, and Philosophy has lost a guiding light.
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