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Phillip Esposito Obituary
He was born in Bronxville, N.Y. on June 24, 1974 to Joan and Thomas Esposito.
Phillip was a graduate of St. Anthony's School of Nanuet, N.Y. He was an Eagle Scout. Phillip graduated from Albertus Magnus High School, where he ran track and was co-captain of the Cross Country team. Phillip was his senior class Vice-President.
He attended the United States Military Academy at West Point, where he served as a Cadet First Sergeant and Company Commander, reflecting his personal commitment and leadership abilities. He graduated from West Point in May 1997, entering active Army service as a 2nd Lieutenant in Armor Branch.
Upon graduation, Phillip attended training at Fort Knox, Ky., followed by assignment to his first tank battalion at Fort Hood, Texas. He served with distinction in several leadership positions in the 3rd Battalion, 66th Armor before leaving active duty in 2000.
Phillip was employed as Project Manager of Solomon Smith Barney prior to 9/11. He was called up to active duty to support the National Guard efforts in New York City. Following this activation, he was transferred to the storied 42nd Infantry Division (Rainbow Division) at Fort Drum, N.Y., where he served as a company commander in the 101st Cavalry, N.Y. National Guard. In November 2004, Phillip deployed as the Rainbow Division Headquarters Company Commander, stationed at Forward Operating Base Danger in Tikrit, Iraq.
Phillip is survived by his wife, Siobhan Esposito (nee McMahon); and 19-month old daughter, Madeline Rose Esposito, the pride and joy of his world.
Phillip leaves behind his parents, Joan and Thomas Esposito of Pearl River, N.Y.; and his father and mother-in-law, Andrew and Margaret McMahon of Bardonia, N.Y.; his sister, Alyssa Craparo; and maternal grandmother, Carmela Pestone. He also leaves behind numerous aunts, uncles, cousins and friends.
"Phillip was a devoted husband, father, son and brother, who will be severely missed and remembered as a true American Hero, who loved his country, family and friends immensely."
The family will receive friends on Tuesday June 14, 2005 from 1-4 and 7-9 PM at Michael H. Higgins Funeral Home, 321 S. Main St., New City, N.Y.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, June 15 at 11:00 AM in St. Anthony's Church, 36 West Nyack Rd., Nanuet, N.Y. Interment will follow at St. Anthony's Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, the family would appreciate donations be made to their daughter's Madeline Rose Esposito Scholarship Fund at P.O. Box 9284, Bardonia, NY 10954.
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Memories and Condolences
for Phillip Esposito
Anonymous
September 28, 2021
Still not forgotten....
Charlie Gili
April 10, 2013
Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the Esposito Family know that we recently sent Care Packages to American troops in the war zones. Each box carried a dedication sheet that includes the name, service information and a photo of your loved one. We recognize that this is a humble tribute, but we wanted you to know that it is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals in the youth hockey community and beyond. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
February 6, 2013
In memory and honor of Phillip Esposito. We shall always be in his debt for his service and sacrifice.
Peggy Childers
June 8, 2012
To the family and friends of Capt. Phillip T. Esposito:
Always remembering Phillip. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
June 8, 2011
To the family and friends of Capt. Phillip T. Esposito:
Please accept my remembrance of Phillip on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
June 8, 2010
To the family and friends of Capt. Phillip T. Esposito:
Remembering Phillip on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Kenna Larra
June 17, 2009
”Honor and Remember” - “Project Compassion” We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,550 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com . If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely and Respectfully,
Kenna
Peggy Childers
June 8, 2009
To the family of Capt. Phillip T. Esposito:
Phillip gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Charlie Gili
February 8, 2009
Hello Mrs. Esposito,
Please contact me. Our organization has a small gift for your family in honor of your husband, Capt. Esposito. We would be honored if you would accept it.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of NYS Hockey Players Support Our Troops!
Mike Hartmayer
October 7, 2008
Dear Espositio Family,
I was so sorry to learn of your loss. I served with Phil and knew him to be an outstanding Officer. His passing is a loss to all of us. Peace be with you.
Cheryl A.Smith
June 14, 2008
TO A FALLEN HERO:MAY YOU REST IN PEACE! THANK YOU FOR FIGHTING FOR OUR COUNTRY AND FOR OUR FREEDOMS! YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN! MY CONDOLENCES GO OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!
May 4, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Capt Esposito!
Bliven Family
August 17, 2007
Dear Esposito Family,
I realize there is NOTHING that could be said to you that could ever ease the loss that your family has endured... I wouldn't even begin to try.
I simply felt the need to convey my deepest, heart felt condolences, to those that lived nearest me...
I SIMPLY HAD TO reach out to those that lived closest to me and let their families know that the sacrifice that their SONS & DAUGHTERS have made ARE NOT, and WILL NOT be forgotten, and were not made in vain!
We gladly add your beloved son to our prayers, along with ALL of our other fallen Sons & Daughters!
God Bless YOU and YOUR FAMILY, and "MAY THE PEACE OF THE LORD BE WITH YOU!"
PROUD UNCLE OF THREE (3) "CURRENTLY SERVING" U.S. SOLDIERS
James A. (U.S. Army)
Justin B. (U.S. Army)
Charles C. (U.S. Air Force)
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August 7, 2007
I don't pretend to know what to say or do that would bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON (KIA on 07/06/07) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
July 19, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Capt Esposito and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Chaplain Jim Luder
June 26, 2007
Phil was my Company commander in Tikrit. He was the most professional soldier I have ever served with.
Fran Allen
June 12, 2007
It's hard to believe taht 2 years have passed since you & Louis were killed. I know that our family is still in so much pain. It's hard for so many of us to live without him. My thoughts & prayers are with your family Phil. May God bless & watch over your family & may you & Lou watch over all of us.
Garnet Jenkins
June 11, 2007
In tribute to Capt. Phillip T. Esposito, with a Multitude of Thanks, for your Brave Young Soldier's Courage, Dedication and Service to our Country and for Freedom.
May Phillip Rest Safely, in God's Loving Care and may the Peace of God continue to be with the Esposito family.
Those who Made this Ultimate Sacrifice, So Many and So Young, shall Never Be Forgotten, my brother among them. Killed in action Vietnam in 1967.
"I will lift up my eyes to the hills- from whence comes my help?
My help comes from the Lord, Who made heaven and earth." ~ Psalm 121:1-2 ~
I am sincerely hoping that you continue to feel the thoughts of caring and support that surround you each day, as this Grateful Country Remembers Someone Very Precious to you, who is a Hero to all of us.
I am So Deeply Sorry for your loss.
Tim Dolan
February 19, 2007
May god bless him and I know the lord is smiling on him. I knew Phil for a number of years. The both of us crossed paths on 9/11 and served with the 101 CAV. A man of many stengths and few weaknesses. I actually remember running into him in Kuwait when I was leaving for R&R and he was coming into country. You couldn't tear the smile off of his face no matter how hard you tried! I would fight by his side for eternity if need be. God bless!
Jeanne Welsh
February 16, 2007
You are in my prayers.
--Jeanne Welsh (formerly of Suffern, NY)
Grant Sholes
February 7, 2007
I was one of the last ones to be with him before he left this world. I will never foget CPT Esposito. I pray every day for the family, and think about them everyday.
Todd Masura
October 18, 2006
My condolences to the Esposito family. I had the oppertunity of serving with Capt. Esposito in Ft Hood TX. His willingness to listen, get to know, and learn from his subordinates was unmatched by any other officer I served with.
ROBYN GARSIDE
August 4, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR YOUR DAUGHTER. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Sean Knudsen
June 26, 2006
I served alongside Phil at Ground Zero and in Tikrit at Forward Operating Base Danger. Phil was a great man and always will be remembered as an even greater soldier. I will always mourn the untimely death of this great person and I will always cherish the photo's and his memorable smile while we served together in Iraq.
I hope to one day visit with his family and share photo's and memories with them.
" Never Forget sir!"
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
June 12, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Esposito family in the loss of Phillip. I did not know Phillip, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. Phillip it has been a year since you were taken. You are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
SGM D
June 7, 2006
I had the honor of working with CPT Esposito while in Iraq. He was a great man and my heart goes out to the Esposito family. God Bless you all, I am so sorry for your loss.
Fran Allen
September 1, 2005
I did not know Capt. Esposito, but my brother in law Lt. Louis Allen died with Phil on that dreadful day. From what I've been told Lou admired Phil & was honored to be serving with him. Knowing that Lou was with a friend makes it a little easier knowing that he was in good company at the time of his death. Although it doesn't make it any easier to accept that they are gone. It is almost 3 months that they have gone & not a day goes by that my family doesn't think Lou & Phil. I wish to extend my deepest sympathy to Phil's family. My heart goes out to all of you.
Joseph Rollock
August 24, 2005
I was a soldier in CPT Esposito's unit for a short time. I did not know him long, but he was very instrumental in making sure a made it back to the US from Iraq in time to say goodbye to my mother before she passed away. He took the time to deliver the Red Cross messages of her sickness to me in person, no matter how late it was. He also made it a point to tell me that he could not begin to understand what I was going through, and the importance of family. For that I will always be greatful. I would like to offer my condolences to the family on their loss. God Bless.
Danielle Van Dunk
July 7, 2005
God Bless Capt. Esposito and all those that fight to keep our country free.My heart goes out to his family and may God Bless them. May we never forget those who serve us proudly everyday.
Debbie Anderson
July 6, 2005
My heart goes out to the Esposito family. I didn't know Philip personally, but my Husband Charles served with him and Lt. Allen in Iraq. They drilled on many occasions in Staten Island over the years. My heart and thoughts are with the family. Lets pray for the other soldiers and thier safe return home.
David Lancellotti
June 29, 2005
I spent 4 years with Phil at Albertus Magnus High School in New York. We were in every class together from Freshman year on. I hung with the "popular" crowd, while Phil was more interested in his grades and making something productive out of himself. Senior year, he was the only member of my AP Biology class who was not afraid to be my lab partner. I wasn't known to be the most serious student, but that didn't matter to Phil. Throwing caution to the wind he took the chance of failing out of the advanced biology class with me, and took me on as his lab partner. Needless to say, we passed with flying colors and he taught me something about the frivolous nature of your typical high school hierarchy. Phil was my friend, and I learned more about not judging a book by it's cover in my experiences with him at Albertus than I ever could have from actually reading those books. God bless you Phil. There are more people than you know who will mourn your passing.
Joseph Kopser
June 26, 2005
Phil was my company XO when I was in command during 1999. We stayed in touch ever since and he was a fantastic friend. I don't think I ever heard him say "no" the entire time I knew him. I want to thank the Oregonian for putting this memory book together for all our sake.
Dena Friend of Lou Allen
June 26, 2005
What a brave and noble man Phillip must have been. I never knew him but to be so friendly with Lou means that he also must have been the "cream of the crop." I am so sorry for your loss. May God Bless you all!
Mark Molinar
June 25, 2005
Phil was my plebe year roommate and someone that truly influenced me in my first year at West Point. Phil's love and dedication for the Army and our nation cannot be matched. My deepest sympathies go out to the Esposito family, his wife, and daughter.
John B. McCabe
June 23, 2005
To the McMahon Family:
Sorry for your loss. Your friends from the O&R Lovett Generating Station.
Josephine Livoti
June 22, 2005
To the Esposito Family:
My prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
God's Blessings.
(Cousin of Louis Allen)
CPT Mark Walsh
June 22, 2005
Phil was a professional mentor and a good friend to me. He was such an unbelievably professional person with great proficiency and potential. He taught me my job, and was eager to do so. 'Charlie Niner Two'... will be greatly missed. It was an honor to be one of his pallbearers. May he rest in peace.
Joshua Lalanne
June 20, 2005
I used to work for Phil in the Citigroup building when he was a project manager for a SSB cutover. I remember when his wife came to visit with his child. I also remember what a strong and dedicated man he was and still is. He lives inside the hearts of the people he has touched.
George & Chery Spicer
June 19, 2005
We both are sorry. and are thoughts and prayers are with you.
Cheryl ( Seeley ) Spicer formally of Suffern,N.Y.
Diane McKiernan
June 18, 2005
To the Esposito Family:
I work at West Point and meet all the cadets 2nd or 3d day they are here to collect data. I was aware of your son since he was an Albertus grad as I was. Tommy Collins was my classmate and had wonderful things to say about your son/husband. I am so sorry. Peace be with you.
Cousins of Louis Allen
June 17, 2005
Our thoughts are with you and yours as we work our collective ways through this tragedy.
cpt eric schultze
June 17, 2005
I can not even tell you the sorrow I feel for your loss. I met Phil back at Battery Park during 9-11 when I was the Commander of C Company 101 CAV. Phil was always a gentleman and a professional, a mentor and and friend. His professionalism and his love of his country and family were something we should all try and emulate. I feel that I am a better man for having met Phil and a better Officer for having had the honor of servfing with him. He is sorely missed and will always be our inspiration. May God's blessings be with you all.
CPT Chris Hoffman
June 16, 2005
I am currently in Iraq and served along side CPT Philip Esposito and 1LT Louis Allen in the 42ID. I would just like to say that these men were truly patriots and soldiers in every sense of the word. They strived to be professionals and set the example for others to follow. My heart goes out to their families and friends. Their work will never be forgot!
"Rainbow Sir! Never Forget!"
Kira and Donna Handy
June 16, 2005
Capt. Esposito -
Any friend of Lt. Lou Allen is a friend of ours. Friends on earth, friends now in heaven. Look after each other and watch over the ones you left behind. You are a true hero.
Richard Henry
June 16, 2005
I worked with Phil at SSB and respected him to the highest degree possible. At one of the worst moments in my life Phil was there with words of encouragement and hope for the future. I miss his selfless nature and dedication to doing what he knew was right. I feel that we shared a bond that those who have served know; a bond that can make strangers into friends. Phil's memory will live with me forever. It was my privilege and honor to know a man with such strength of character. My prayers are with his family and friends.
Stacy French
June 16, 2005
My prayers to your family and friends. I met Capt.Esposito at Fort Drum prior to deployment to Iraq.My Fiance Sgt Randy Burckhard was serving with him and the 42nd ID.
This definitly hits close to home. I am sorry for your loss.
barbara&mike howard
June 16, 2005
never knew how many lives he touch
and just how much he was loved!only knew him as my landlord,father and husband he will be missed much more than words can say i will pray for him
Charles Rock
June 15, 2005
From all of us at Rock & Rosmarin (where your cousin Christina Latimer works) May God bless your family.
Sgt. Kevin Mroczkowski
June 15, 2005
Capt. Esposito, thank you for your bravery and courage - it has been my honor to serve with you.
Sgt. 'Ski
Leda Carmody
June 14, 2005
I am sorry for your loss. I thank you for raising a son, to be proud of! I will pray for your family. God Bless and keep you.
John Wintenburg
June 14, 2005
My youngest son, Sgt. Matthew Wintenburg, D/1/101 CAV, currently serving in Iraq knew both Capt. Esposito and Lt. Allen from that unit in Newburgh. He said he always felt safer and more confident when they were around as they looked after their troops. He said, "They were the finest officers he knew." He also said he thinks of them everyday. And, so do we.
Karen (Donohue) Casey
June 14, 2005
A Very honorable and selfless person. Had the great fortune of attending high school with Phil. The world is less one more extraordinary person. You will never be forgotten
Christina Latimer
June 14, 2005
Dear Siobhan, Madeline and Family,
I am sorry for the loss and pain that you are experiencing right now and please remember that your family is in our prayers. We will see you tonight at the funeral home and if there is anything that you need please don't hesitate to ask. Love, Christina Latimer and Family.
Mary & Pete Johnson
June 14, 2005
God Bless You and your family for your service and sacrifice.
Susan Johnson
June 13, 2005
Thank you brave soldier for your selfless sacrifice for the freedom of others. I am deeply grateful and profoundly humbled by your courageous service to our great nation and others in need. May God bless your loved ones and bring them peace and comfort.
Elio Irizarry
June 13, 2005
I had the pleasure of working with Phil for Salomon Smith Barney. It's a shame that we have lost such a wonderful human being. I clearly remember Phil always greeting me with a smile, being positive and upbeat. The world is a lesser place without him. I pray God give his family the strength to deal with these tough times, especially his little girl and wife.
Henryk Zaleski
June 12, 2005
Captain, may your next mission be eternal joy.Rest in peace.
Gail Brandt
June 11, 2005
I don't know Phillip or his family, but felt I must thank him for keeping our country free.
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