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Michael Gonzalez Obituary
ARMY SPEC. MICHAEL L. GONZALEZ
AGE: 20 SPOTSWOOD
Army Specialist Michael L. Gonzalez died Thursday, Aug. 28, 2008, in Iraq of injuries sustained when an improvised device exploded. He was 20 years old.
Born in New Brunswick, he lived in Spotswood most of his life.
Michael was assigned to the 18th Military Police Brigade, 95th Military Police Battalion, of the 340th Military Police Company. His home unit was the 430th Military Police Detachment in Red Bank. He enlisted in the Army during his senior year at Spotswood High School, and left for basic training after his graduation in 2006.
While in high school, Michael worked as a cashier at the East Brunswick ShopRite, and prior to that at Spotswood ShopRite. He also worked for Lenny Home Improvement, Frank's Pizza and for GNC in Freehold Raceway Mall, where his powers of persuasion were legendary. He loved skateboarding, paintball, working out and weightlifting.
He was predeceased by his maternal grandparents, John B. and Lillian Leiby, who both died in 1991.
He will forever be remembered and cherished by his parents, Pedro and Ida Leiby Gonzalez, and his adoring brother, Troy, at home; his dear paternal grandparents, Maria and Alberto Gonzalez; his beloved girlfriend, Tiffany Loving, and his cousin, who was like a brother to him, Jonathan Nourse, as well as many aunts, uncles, cousins, and extended family and friends.
Friends can call from 4 p.m. to 8 p.m. only today (Friday) at Brunswick Memorial Home, 454 Cranbury Road, East Brunswick. For directions, please visit www.brunswickmemorialhome.com. Funeral services will be held at 11 a.m. Saturday at Spotswood Reformed Church, 429 Main St., Spotswood. Due to the large number of people anticipated, the funeral services also will be broadcast live at the Cafetorium of Spotswood High School, 105 Main St., Spotswood.
Michael will be cremated, and his cremated remains will be buried at Arlington National Cemetery, Arlington, Va., with full military honors at 10 a.m. Wednesday, Sept. 10, 2008.
Memorial contributions can be made to the U.S. Adopt a Soldier program, Adopt a U.S. Soldier, 7440 S. Blackhawk St., Suite 15-106, Englewood, CO 80112 (www.adoptaussoldier.org), or to any local food bank or blood bank.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Michael Gonzalez
P. Gonzalez
January 22, 2025
Happy Birthday Michael.
Wish you were here.
Debra Estep
May 30, 2022
In remembrance and with my heartfelt thank you for your sacrifice.
John W
June 24, 2019
May you forever rest in God's arms. Thank you for your service, and your sacrifice to our country.
God Bless you, and your family.
Zulma Martinez
August 25, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family always. Thank you for your service, courage and the ultimate sacrifice you gave to save our country. God Bless You. RIP
Barbara Anderson
August 24, 2013
Michael-we have never met but Justin loved you like the brother he never had so I know you were one fantastic young man! You and your family have made the ultimate sacrifice for our great country. You will always be loved and will never be forgotten. Our thoughts and prayers for you and your family!
Rita Green
August 24, 2013
To Ida, Pedro & Troy
You are in my thoughts and prayers. I never knew Michael but he had to be an incredible young man after knowing you. He is a hero to all of us...I love you...
Andy mcmullan
August 24, 2013
Although I didn't know you for too long I was able to tell right away that you were a good guy.
Marc Ciccone
August 24, 2013
God bless you Michael for the courage, determination and sacrifice you and your loving family made to serve our country with honor. Thank you.
Gabrielle Pall
April 15, 2013
Michael You will be always remembered.
While at the Capitol Hill in February and waiting to meet Sen Lauthenberg I searched for your name on the board for fallen heros and found you...
RIP Michael.
April 13, 2013
In memory & honor of Michael. You have not been forgotten.
Nestor
September 6, 2012
I remember when i used to play basketball with you. i could never beat haha. you were one of my first friends when i moved to spotswood and you offered me your friendship. We miss you mike. Rest in Peace
Zulma Martinez
May 27, 2012
Know that you are being thought of not only on Memorial Day, but everyday. RIP
May 26, 2012
YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
A relative of your friend Amanda Appi
Zulma & Joe Martinez
August 29, 2011
Michael, though we have never met, know that you are in our thoughts and prayers, and so is your family. Rest In Peace.
Peggy Childers
August 28, 2011
To the family and friends of Spc. Michael L. Gonzalez:
Please accept my remembrance of Michael on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Cathy Crafton
January 4, 2011
To the family of Spc. Michael L. Gonzalez, we we send our deepest sympathy, as well as our overwhelming gratitude for your son's service to our country and this greatest sacrifice in protecting our freedom and liberty. There are no words to ease the pain of losing a child and we pray that God has put his arms around all of you and given you some measure of comfort. Cathy Crafton, Atlanta, GA
julia branson
November 26, 2010
with all love's and wishes love you all he is in are hearts love you guys
Peggy Childers
August 28, 2010
To the family and friends of Spc. Michael L. Gonzalez:
Remembering Michael on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Bonnie
May 31, 2010
To the Gonzalez Family~
I remember and honor your son Michael for his courage and sacrifice. God keep you.
Elizabeth Raab
May 6, 2010
To the Gonzalez Family.
Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of your son. Heroes are few and far between. Know in your heart and mind that your son is standing proudly watching over you from heaven. May God Bless you and Keep you during this time of sorrow. I will forever keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
A Military Mom.
Cindy Woodard
January 14, 2010
To my new friend Ida, I am so glad that we got a chance to talk. We do share many things and with the passing of our Michael's though this horrible war, we loved our boys with our hearts and souls. We have raised two True American Heros. Thank you Cindy
Lucy Swinsburg
August 29, 2009
Pedro, Ida & Troy,
You have been in my heart every day, but especially this past week as this one year anniverary came around. Michael's brave, selfless sacrifice will never be forgotten, and his spirit lives on in you all. God bless you always.
Lucy
Peggy Childers
August 29, 2009
To the family of Spc. Michael L. Gonzalez:
Michael gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Dan and Laurie Broman
August 28, 2009
Dear Ida, Pedro and Troy,
We just want you to know that our hearts are with you on this one year anniversary. In fact, not a day goes by that you are not in our thoughts and prayers. Michael's sacrifice will never be forgotten, nor the one that you have made by raising such a fine young man and soldier willing to answer the call. We are humbled by it.
Know that God will carry you always and that He will never leave nor forsake you.
We love you!
The Broman Family
August 28, 2009
Michael
May you rest in peace, and know that there are many people thinking of you on this one year anniversary.
Once again R.I.P. HERO.
Thoughts and prayers,
Joe and Zulma Martinez
340th MP CO FRG
August 28, 2009
1 year is gone but it's just time the place you hold with me in my heart my brother is forever R.I.P. GONZO Love you 8-28-08
Steven Rivera
August 28, 2009
Hey Gonzo,
I'm sending you and your family some love. I'm here in Bucca with Rick and a handful of others from the 430th MP family. I just want you and your family to know that your missed but never forgotten. Your my hero... until we meet again brother, protect us all.
Que Dios te bendige,
Sgt. Rivera, Steven
430th MP
Mary Styrczula
August 27, 2009
Coming up on one year Mike. I know all is great for you in Heaven. :)
Your adopter,
Mary
sean dolan
August 13, 2009
A real New Jersey Hero
debbi
July 18, 2009
Michael, soon it will be a year that you will have left God's earth for higher ground. The death of a child is something you never get over so please let your parents know that you are now ok. God has a way of giving us signs when we're still and I pray that God has allowed those signs to come to your parents and family. As a Gold Star Mother I know the pain of the death of a child. I also know that it's not the death we remember but the life you lived and loved. May that life be celebrated and remembered forever.
Your parents aren't alone and there are many who are there for them. If they ever want to talk to others who have gone through the death of a child or loved one in active duty please do contact me.
May God continue to provide His love and comfort to your family and friends.
http://goldstarfamilysupportgroup.com
In memory of my son
SPC Harry (Buck) Winkler III
KIA 11/12/2006 Samarra, Iraq
CO-A 2/505th PIR 82nd Airborne
Joseph Vichot
June 23, 2009
Your in my thoughts and I won't for get you. Rest in peace brother. May God bless and comfort your family always.
Doc
Joe and Zulma Martinez
May 31, 2009
Always in our thoughts, especially during this Memorial Day. May you Rest In Peace, Michael.
Filippo Accettullo
May 25, 2009
RIP Mike, you will always be missed
Debbie Reed
May 13, 2009
This is YOUR Memorial Day although you have always been on my mind. You will NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. My deepest prayers to your family.
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
April 24, 2009
My heartfelt sympathy to the Gonzalez family and friends in the loss of Michael. I did not know Michael, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Michael you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten. While at Arlington National Cemetery I attended Michael's service.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"TO LIVE IN THE HEARTS
OF THOSE YOU LEAVE BEHIND
IS NEVER TO DIE"
~Robert Orr~
Gabriella Pall
March 1, 2009
The shock of the news was one of the worst anyone can hear...I knew Michael through my grandsons Matthew and Cory and his mischievous smile still pops up in my mind. My heart goes out to you Ida,Pedro and Troy.No parent should experience the pain what you bearing and will bear for the rest of your life loosing him. You all are in our thoughts and prayers and in the vicinity if you ever need some support.
Michael will be always remembered.
Rest in peace Michael.
Lucy
February 28, 2009
Michael, It's hard to believe it's been six months since the day we got the news that you were gone. You would be proud of your family, they've dedicated their lives to honoring you and keeping you alive in their hearts and actions. You are a true hero, I know. The little boy I used to give M&M's to when he came to work with his Dad grew up to be an incredibly brave and honorable young man. Our loss is Heaven's gain. Thank you is not enough.
George Shagawat
February 11, 2009
Dear Ida, Pedro, Troy, & everyone who loved Michael,
There really are no adequate words.
We must all be grateful to him and acknowledge his ultimate sacrifice. We can take comfort in knowing where he is now, how much he is loved...
and always will be.
Brian Scott
January 22, 2009
Happy 21st Birthday brother. You will always be on my mind for the rest of my life. You are the embodiment of a true American hero making the ultimate sacrifice in the service you volunteered for. Miss you guy.
SGT Brian Scott
Carol Wanas
January 1, 2009
Ida, Pedro and Troy Please accept my deepest sympathies. Mike worked for me at Shop-Rite and was always full of life and fun to be around. I remember when Mike first decided to join the army he was on a mission and no one could talk him out of his decision. The army was his destiny and he was stead fast to make a difference in the world. I wrote to Michael during boot camp and he was so very proud of all of his accomplishments and so very proud of his choice to serve. I am very lucky to have known him.
T Starman
January 1, 2009
I offer my deepest condolences for your loss.
Toni Roman
December 28, 2008
to the Gonzalez family. my name is toni roman and my big brother anthony roman was with michael on that day he lost his life.My heart and prayers are with you and your family always.And may GOD bless yous always and may he rest in peace.
Harlan & Gabi Malter
December 27, 2008
Most of our experiences with Michael revolved around our kids Matthew and Cory who were lifelong friends with Michael and Troy. While Cory and Troy were inseparable as best friends, Michael was a little older then Matthew so we did not see him as much. However, we always heard about Michael. We heard the secret whispers between the kids about some plan to do something “fun” in the neighborhood, with Michael the ring leader. Whenever I had interactions with Michael, (and now I know I am dating myself!) he always was very polite and respectful but with a sparkle in his eye that said he was up to something, like Eddie Haskell form the old “Leave it to Beaver” show. But no matter what the kids did, they always came back home smiling and laughing from an afternoon of just “being boys.”
As we moved away from the neighborhood just a couple months before 9/11, I received most of my reports of Michael’s doings through get togethers with Pedro and Ida. Suddenly this wild little boy was turning into a focused young man. First came the job at a very young age, not just to have something to do, but because Michael had a goal, he wanted a car, and he would do what it took to achieve it. Then he wanted to transform himself from that thin lanky little boy I remembered into a muscular substantive young man, and he went full force, with dedicated exercise and diet. Finally, his teenage goals all set AND achieved he had set his mind already on his adult life; he would be a police officer. But he would not just fill out an application and hope; he would join the Army, serve his country and be rewarded when he returned as an honored policeman.
On one hand it is ironic that the little boy who liked to create mischief as a child would one day go on to serve as a force of good, of order in Iraq, and a desire to serve the same community he once played in as a public servant, sworn to protect the children who now played on the same streets he once did. However, upon reflection, it all makes complete sense. Michael did not do anything “just to do it.” We live in a time where many youth walk around like zombies either deaf to the world on their IPods’ or blind to their obligations with their Xbox. Michael did not choose this path. Michael chose to live his life. Making goals and achieving every one he set. In the end, every person who he met, remembered Michael, because he was someone who forced you to live life or move on. Michael’s life stands as a testament to his parents, as it was they who instilled in him a burning desire to live life with a passion. Most importantly, his life stands as an inspiration to Troy, to make the most of every moment, every opportunity and to find passion in his life no matter what he chooses to do.
While Michael may not have lived as long as many of us may, we should ALL strive to fill our lives as fully and passionately as Michael did in his.
Frank Kneski
December 24, 2008
To my beloved brother Mikey. I remember as if it were yesterday when you and i first met at meps in bay ridge. When we went to basic and then we were split up at the 43rd, a week later we ran into eachother again and after that we were in the same btc, and the same platoon. We were also in the same unit the 430th we were inseprable but now I know you will always be there watching over me and the rest of the crew. Take care brother you will be missed deerly Love you
Martin Dempsey
December 23, 2008
To the Gonzalez family:
The oupouring of tributes and kind words I continue to hear about Michael gives witness to the fact that he touched the lives of so many students and staff, and that he clearly was a special young man.
At a time when his tragic death must be especially hard to bear, I hope you will take some small solace in the fact we are keeping Mike in our thoughts and prayers. I can assure you that his life has had and will continue to have a positive impact on all who knew him and I applaud your efforts to advocate for the continued treatment and care of his fellow soldiers. I hope we can all pay lasting tribute to your son through our own efforts in making the community he cared so deeply about a better place.
God Bless you all.
Dorothy Mazzi
December 23, 2008
I remember Michael as a child, He was so happy and very funny. We got to show him Arizonia and introduced him to our two grandchidren. Tony, my husband loved to tease him. He thinks about Michael and often talks about how he was as a little guy. We followed his childhood with conversions and pictures from his mother.We were amazed at how big he got and proud of what he accomplished with his life. We loved him very much for he was the son of Ida and Pedro who we loved as well. He was a role model to his brother Troy. We were in shock to hear about his death, It seemed like a bad dream and we will forever miss him. I know that Michael is in a better place and God will love and watch over him. I also know that we will all meet again in Gods kingdom and pray that this will bring comfort to his family.
Danny Oh
December 23, 2008
Gonzo,
I think about you everyday. I miss you man. I know you are watching over us cause you know how much we need you. That's why I talk to you right before each mission. You're my hero. I don't know how I can thank you.
Love,
Oh
JoAnn Mattei
December 22, 2008
Hey Mikey,
It's Rick's mom, I'll never forget our conversation at GNC, about how mad you were that almost everyone else in your unit was being deployed, except for you and Rick. You both couldn't wait to go - made me crazy! For two guys that never knew each other until your paths crossed at Ft, Mommouth, I couldn't believe how much alike you both were - from having the same type of personalities - to Mustangs - to having mothers the same (young) age ~ lol ~ and everything in between! Braveheart is what comes to mind - You are a HERO and inspiration to so many!!!
I try to look at Life as a Journey ~ the only things that really matter are your family, friends and the people that you meet along the way... some stay close no matter what, and Micheal, you will live forever in our hearts - we all miss you :(
To my new friend Ida, I love you like a sister, call me anytime ~ I'm here for you, we've got some gallons of coffee to go through!!!
May God Bless you and keep you strong
Dani Reitsma
December 20, 2008
Mike I miss you every single day and always think about you. You always knew how to cheer me up whenever I was in a bad mood and that goes for everyone else around you. Just being around you would make me happy. You really were an amazing person and will never be forgotten. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family. I know that you died doing something that you loved. I miss you and will never forget about you ever.
Carol Strommen
December 20, 2008
My dear friends Ida, Pedro and Troy, we had some great memories in NC with Michael. The massive waves, swimming with the boards, campfires and special moments nobody can ever take away from us. Michael always brought us joy, laughter and excitement. He was always looking to do something, go somewhere, didn't want to miss out on anything, he enjoyed life to its fullest. We thank God for the times we had and someday, I believe, we will all be back together again. Much love for you all, the Strommen family.
Laurie Broman
December 20, 2008
To Pedro, Ida, Troy, Abuelo, Abuela, Tiffany and all who loved Michael,
There is a picture in my daughter's Precious Moments bible that shows a gate that says, "heaven" with an angel on one side and a little girl with tears in her eyes on the other. The caption over the picture is, "No Tears Past the Gate." I can't help but think of the verse in Revelation 21:4 that says, "And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow nor crying. There shall be no more pain, for the former things have passed away." That is where Michael is. Though we cry, one day God will wipe our tears away as well. We can take comfort in that.
With love,
The Broman Family
dee greaves
December 20, 2008
i would like to give ida,pedro and troy , my deepest sympathy, all i can say is that he will always be watching over you. Michael is in a better place now,he will be a hero forever. God Bless Him
anthony roman sr.
December 19, 2008
first of all i want to give pedro, ida, and troy and the whole gonzalez family, my deepest sympathy, all i can say is that he will always be watching over yous, and the roman family will always be here, if you need someone to talk to,and with all do respect, and with your permission my son anthony roman, and my intire family have embraced your son michael as our son also, he will always live in our hearts, and prayers forever, may he rest in peace, and may gods prayers bring your intire family comfort always
Sgt. Chris Bierman
December 19, 2008
Michael Gonzalez,
A student, a man, a soldier
But most of all a "friend" who is hero for all of us.
Chris Greta
December 19, 2008
I never met SPC Gonzalez, but through HeroBracelets.org, I've gotten to know his family. He was a very lucky guy. I know he will be missed by a great many people.
Chris Greta
Director HeroBracelets.org
Kenna Larra
December 19, 2008
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Joseph Schwartz
December 19, 2008
When I had Mike as a Graphics student, he wasn't outstanding. He'd come to class late sometimes and he didn't always get all his work done. But one thing that stood out about Mike as my student was that he understood what the class was about - that he could come in and be a little creative, have a little fun and express himself... HE GOT IT! Not many of my students get this about my classes, so I appreciate that he did.
My story about Mike is that he was constantly eating, always walking in with food or talking about food. he would even make fun of himself sometimes about it. One time, he ordered several pizzas for lunch and had them delivered to the school for himself and his table. There were no rules about having food delivered, so there were no objections - he just wanted pizza, so he ordered it!
For one project in class he had to set up a photo shoot of himself for a "fake" Rolling Stone magazine cover. He chose the subject of food and took a photograph of himself wearing a big "M&M" costume, holding a pizza box. He placed that image into a background of a pizza shop and even turned the Rolling Stone masthead into art by placing an image of a pepperoni pizza into it. I still use it as an example of how to get the project done and have fun at the same time.
Mike's sense of humor will be missed by all. It is a truly tragic loss for anyone who knew him, but also for those who had yet to meet him.
Kathleen Phelps
December 19, 2008
This year Michael will have Christmas, with God and his Angels.
God bless you.
Rima Michaels
December 19, 2008
I taught Mike his senior year at SHS. He was always so positive, even in the face of challenges. When he enlisted at the end of his senior year, he was so proud to serve his country - he gave me an army sticker which still hangs in my classroom and will remain as a tribute to his dedication.
William Nemeth
December 19, 2008
We use to skate everydayy.....Go to partys...ima miss you man..great memorys...see you on the other side
Michael Curto
December 19, 2008
The History Department at Spotswood High School attended the electoral college ceremony in Trenton on Monday, 12/15. Each and every student on the field trip stopped by Michael's name plate at the War Memorial Theater in Trenton to pay their respects. Each student and teacher there, regardless of whether they knew Michael peronsonally, spontaneously acknowledged and honored Michael's legacy without prompting. It was a nice sight to see.
Frank Yusko
December 19, 2008
greetings to all who knew and cared about Mike. I was his teacher at Spotswood High. We will be installing a memorial in Mike's honor in front of our school for Memorial Day.
Ida (Momma Gonzo) Gonzalez
November 28, 2008
Today is 3 months Michael is gone. I have made a tribute to him. Please take a look.
www.tagged.com/mommagonzo
In Memory of Michael ~ (Debra Estep)
November 24, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Michael, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
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Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Spc Rivera
November 20, 2008
Gonzo..its not the same man..i miss u..i keep thinken bout how everything used to be..its tough..im going to visit you tomarrow..its going to be hard...just know everywhere i go and the rest of us we know your watchen over us..
Srgt.Michael D. Rivera rest in peace
roberto burgos
October 30, 2008
The soldier stood and faced God,
Which must always come to pass,
He hoped his shoes were shining,
Just as brightly as his brass.
"Step forward now, you soldier,
How shall I deal with you?
Have you always turned the other cheek?
To My Church have you been true?"
The soldier squared his shoulders and
said, "No, Lord, I guess I ain't,
Because those of us who carry guns,
Can't always be a saint.
I've had to work most Sundays,
And at times my talk was tough,
And sometimes I've been violent,
Because the world is awfully rough.
But, I never took a penny
That wasn't mine to keep...
Though I worked a lot of overtime
When the bills got just too steep,
And I never passed a cry for help,
Though at times I shook with fear,
And sometimes, God forgive me,
I've wept unmanly tears.
I know I don't deserve a place
Among the people here,
They never wanted me around,
Except to calm their fears.
If you've a place for me here, Lord,
It needn't be so grand,
I never expected or had too much,
But if you don't, I'll understand."
There was a silence all around the throne,
Where the saints had often trod,
As the soldier waited quietly,
For the judgment of his God.
"Step forward now, you soldier,
You've borne your burdens well,
Walk peacefully on Heaven's streets,
You've done your time in Hell."
thank you michael my deepest sysmpathy go out to your family my god bless you and them we also lost someone in iraq Spc.Michael D.Rivera .. i know your pain god bless
FREEDOM IN NOT FREE IT`S PAID FOR BY OUR HEROS like MICHAEL L GONZALES,MICHAEL RIVERA AND ALL THE REST OF OUR HEROS GOD BLESS THEM ALL..
SSG DALEICH SMITH
October 23, 2008
MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY SPC. GONZALEZ. EVEN THOUGH I NEVER MET YOU I HAVE SERVED PROUDLY WITH MEMBERS OF YOUR UNIT. I'M TOLD YOU WERE ONE OF THE BEST AND THAT DOESNT COME LIGHTLY. YOUR NOW GUARDING HEAVENS GATE MY FELLOW BROTHER-IN-ARMS. REST WELL....
SFC Mindy Wolfburg
October 10, 2008
I served three months with SPC Gonzalez with the 340th. Though I didn't know him for a long time the conversations we did have were about family. He talked with a genuine smile on his face and you could tell he was tracking on his life and going to make something of himself someday. He was an Honorable man who would make his family proud. He stood by the Army values and was a team player. He had a great attitude and his commonsense lead others to want to follow in his footsteps. He was well liked by everyone and a Soldier to admire. He will be missed always.
Mindy Wolfburg
October 10, 2008
I served three months with SPC Gonzalez with the 340th. Though I didn't know him for a long time the conversations we did have were about family. He talked with a genuine smile on his face and you could tell he was tracking on his life and going to make something of himself someday. He was an Honorable man who would make his family proud. He stood by the Army values and was a team player. He had a great attitude and his commonsense lead others to want to follow in his footsteps. He was well liked by everyone and a Soldier to admire. He will be missed always.
Danita Alvarado
October 7, 2008
To The Family of Spc. Gonzalez:
Ida, Pedro and Troy. Hearts Apart of Ft. Monmouth extends our condolences and heart felt smypathy on the loss of your first born son. I know the depth of your loss hurts your deeply. My prayers are with you for peace. Continue your work for Michael's memory.
PVT. Kenneth "K.Roc" Brant
October 2, 2008
To Spc. Michael "Mikey.G" Gonzalez:
I miss you man and I will never forget you. I hold you dear to my heart as a friend, and as a brother. May you rest in peace.
To the Gonzalez Family:
You are in my thoughts and prayers. I'm am truly sorry for your death. Words cannot describe how I feel for I could not imagine how you do. You couldn't have raised a more respectable, kind-hearted and sincere young man. May God bless and may He watch over you and your family. Thank you for the kindness you have shown me too.
Peace
Ida Gonzale
October 2, 2008
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All Gave Some, Some Gave ALL!!
We are proud of you Michael.
Love Dad, Mom and Troy
Marco Gallegos
September 29, 2008
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
SGT Brian Scott
September 25, 2008
This is SGT Scott who was SPC Gonzalez's team leader in Iraq and was with him at the tragic moment. I am just trying to do everything I can to honor him and his amazing family who I had the privilege to meet, unfortunately under these circumstances. Gonzo, as alot of us called him, was an amazing soldier and was the best gunner I have ever worked with. He had achieved that goal by working hard and learning as much as he could. I am so glad and also saddened that he and I had started to grow so much closer in the few weeks prior to Aug 28 and that he had really proven himself to me and everyone else around us. I am going to miss him and think about him and honor him for the rest of my life.
PFC Liza Fontaine
September 23, 2008
Gonzo.. We miss you soo much here. I still remember when the 1SG brought us into the chapel that day. It hurt soo much knowing that we lost a brother. Your always going to be our brother. A 1st PLT Shocker. I painted a mural for you on the wall outside your room door. Alex picked the quote out. We know now that everytime we go out on missions, we have another angel watching over all of us. We miss you & love you soo soo sooooooooo much. Rest in peace. <3
SGT. Jonathan Tomko
September 20, 2008
I only met Spc. Gonzalez a few times at the 430th MP Det. before he transfered to the 340th. I am greatful for the sacrifice he made, and would like to thank his mother and father for raising one of the finest AMERICAN's, I have ever meet. You and Your family are in our prayers.
Kathy Parks
September 19, 2008
We will always hold a place in our hearts for our good friend Michael,
God bless you and your family.
Love the Parks Family
September 17, 2008
To the Gonzalez family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Michael was your pride and joy and he will continue to be so in your hearts and actions.
Prakash family
Stephanie Rafoss
September 16, 2008
Prayer for Peace
Lord, make me an instrument of your peace;
Where there is hatred, let me sow love,
Where there is injury, pardon;
Where there is doubt, faith;
Where there is despair, hope;
Where there is darkness, light;
And where there is sadness, joy.
O Divine Master,
Grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;
To be understood, as to understand;
To be loved, as to love;
For it is in giving that we receive,
It is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
And it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.
Amen
CPL Bessette
September 16, 2008
To The Family of SPC Gonzalez:
I am deeply saddened by the loss of your son, along with his fellow soldiers here in Iraq. I had the pleasure of serving with your loved one, and I can say that he is truly missed. Not a day goes by over here when someone does not mention "Gonzo." He was a kind person who could always put a smile on your face.
He loved being in Iraq, and serving his country. I know he died for what he believed in. He was an excellent soldier who was always ready to give a helping hand to others.
I have many fond memories of 'Gonzo,' that I will never forget. May he rest in peace. Godspeed Gonzo.
September 16, 2008
Jacqueline Gordon
September 15, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with the Gonzalez family. Please remember that Michael will always be in your hearts and the wonderful memories of Michael will strenghten you during this very difficult time and always.
Isaac Rivera
September 15, 2008
May God bless your family!! I will keep them in my prayers.
NATHAN REYES
September 15, 2008
MAY THE LORD OUR GOD HOLD YOU IN HIS ARMS OF PEACE AND MAY YOU FOREVER LOOK DOWN AND BLESS THOSE WHO HAVE BLESSED YOU. YOUR HONOR WILL CONTINUE TO LIVE IN MANY HEARTS AND SHINE THROUGH THE TEARS WE SHED. REST IN PEACE.
Christopher Arroyo
September 13, 2008
The Gonzalez Family I'm truly sorry for the loss of your son I used to be in the 340th Mp Co. My prayers go out for you.
SHIRLEY DONEY
September 11, 2008
REST IN PEACE SPC. GONZALEZ, TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SOLDIERS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU
Janice Oswald
September 11, 2008
To the family and friends of fallen hero SPC Gonzalez....I am so deeply sorry for your loss. May God bring you peace and comfort during this very difficult time. You are in my thoughts and prayers. He will not be forgotten. God Bless You.
September 11, 2008
hey bud, its me longo i hope you are doing nice up there and i am glad that you are a high speed soldier and thank you for eveything you have done in your short time here. but god bless you bro.
September 10, 2008
THANK YOU!! GOD BLESS!!
Williams
September 10, 2008
I would like to say that I am deeply sorrowed by the lost of SPC Gonzalez. I had the opportunity of serving with this Soldier. I am currently an NCO in the 430th MP DET. I remember when SPC Gonzalez came to me for the first time and kept saying, SGT I want you to put me on the list to deploy. Several times, he was not needed. He called me daily (almost to the point I had to ask him to just let me call him,lol) asking if there was any update on whether he could be put on a manifest or not. I remember the day I called him and said we need you to SRP. He was excited and was like, I'm ready to go SGT. He really actually did die for what he believed in and doing what he wanted to do. Of anything that I could say about this Soldier, Mr. and Mrs. Gonzalez is that he was eager to serve the country and go on to protect overseas. That is very rare because there are Soldiers that only go, when their time has come not because of sheer desire. I want to say that it was an honor to know this Soldier and may his soul rest in peace. God Bless your family during your time of grief.
Christina & Jackie Barclay
September 9, 2008
Ida, Pedro, & Troy,
We are very saddened by Michael's passing. We are honored to have known him as a friend of the family. He will always be our American hero.
Love & Prayers,
Christina & Jackie Barclay
TCNJ Students
Monroe Twp., NJ
Dawn Ellars
September 9, 2008
To the Gonzalez Family, My deepest condolences on the loss of your beloved son & hero. I am so sorry to hear about Michael. I was one of Michael's teacher his senior year at Spotswood H.S and I have taught Troy as well. He had such a positive vibe about him and will always be remembered. Please know you are in my thoughts & prayers!
SSG Jason Tucker
September 9, 2008
I rode home with him in his flag draped casket. Although I never met him, it was an honor to be in his presence on that flight. I will never forget the sacrifice he made.
Roy Goderstad
September 9, 2008
Michael served his country with honor. I worked with Michael almost daily. He will be missed deeply.
A1C Roy J. Goderstad
McGuire AFB, NJ
RIP PFC Aaron J. Ward 4/28/89 - 5/6/08 (KIA)
Gary Tolle
September 8, 2008
Michael, I just wanted to say thank you for your brave and honorable service to a grateful nation, a nation in mourning for our fallen hero’s. You like so many other soldiers chose to serve our nation when needed most and with your life you protected the very core of what America stands for. My nephew PFC Aaron J. Ward also made that sacrifice on 5/6/2008 when he was killed in action in Iraq. As I mourn for my nephew I mourn for you and so many other brave soldiers and know that you all will forever be in my thoughts and prayers, we as a nation will never forget you. I stand tall and salute you Michael and from the bottom of my heart I thank you for the nights we at home could sleep without fear and know that we are safe. To the Gonzalez family, words cannot express the pain we now share, but our families will forever have a bond and we will be thinking of Michael and your family and will keep you in our thoughts & prayers. Please accept my heart felt condolences and my prayer that god help you cope with this tragic loss and may the memories of your HERO carry you through each day. From one Gold Star family to another!
MSG John T O'Brien
September 8, 2008
To the family of Spc. Michael L. Gonzalez,
I had the privilege of serving with the men & women of the 340th MP Company, 1st Platoon during their first deployement and I although I never met Michael, words cannot express how deeply saddened and how affected I am of your his passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Rest in Peace Spc. Gonzalez and God Bless the 340th!
Sincerely,
MSG & Mrs. John T O’Brien
September 7, 2008
Spc Gonzalez GOD BLESS you always. My husband worked very closely with you and said you were a great soldier, your family should know that.
sherry halas
September 7, 2008
I may not know you and your family but there are many family's that would like to thank your son for he courage and love of this great country he fought for and died for. From my heart i will keep your family in my prayers
Paul McDermott SFC US Army Retired
September 7, 2008
Michael dead? By no means.He is with God,and his spirit lives on in our hearts as a shining example of the courage and tenacity of those brave men and women who put the lives and well being of their fellow Americans above their own lives
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