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Christopher G. Patton Obituary
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Chris LaVine
June 17, 2024
Thought of you today. You are in the same cemetery as my father. I'll be heading there this week to visit. You are missed.
December 4, 2019
Thank you Patrick. It means a lot for people like you to honor our Chris. I am Chriss granny and we miss him a lot.
Patrick Martin
December 3, 2019
God bless SPC Christopher Patton. Today, I was going though some old military trunks (Im a retired USAF MSgt). I came across the tag of a 5K run for Fallen Soldiers while I was deployed to Iraq in 2008. Before the run, we had to pick a name of a fallen soldier, I selected Chris because the day of his death (1 Sep) is my birthday. So I ran the 5K in his honor, Im was not much of a runner, but I swore I would not stop until I completed the run to fully honor Chris and the ultimate sacrifice he made for his country!! Chris is a HERO!!! RIP Brother
Joshua Dodson
May 27, 2015
CG Patton, dearly missed, never forgotten. You are my brother, I talk to you almost everyday. I know we will see each other again. Love you bro
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Adam Henderson
May 25, 2015
Thinking of you today buddy.
August 24, 2014
Always
May 26, 2014
Thinking of you and the sacrifices that you and your family have made on this Memorial Day
Joshua Dodson
August 23, 2012
As we approach his 5 yr anniversary, it still breaks my heart to see him taken so early. He was not just a soldier, he was my friend and brother. He was the friend that some could only speak about. I miss him dearly and only wish I could do more for him. I want the Patton family to know he honored your name, every second he could
Peggy Childers
September 2, 2011
September 1, 2011
To the family and friends of Spc. Christopher G. Patton:
Please accept my remembrance of Christopher on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Carrie Ann Byrne
September 2, 2011
In my thoughts and prayers. As we approach the 10 year anniversary of 9-11 I can't help but think of why your life ended. You are a true HERO SPC. CHRISTOPHER G. PATTON. You will NEVER be forgotten.
Adam Henderson
September 1, 2011
Missing you today CG Patton!
Sharon Warren
September 3, 2010
Your ultimate sacrafice will not be forgotten. I am so sorry Patton family and friends...you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sharon Warren
Carrie Ann Byrne
September 2, 2010
SPC. Christopher G. Patton will always be remembered. So very sad too of all the recent KIA's that are happening all around.
Continue watching over us Christopher. You are such an angel. We thank you for all that you sacrificed. Your family is constantly in our thoughts and prayers . . . and may each day they think of you . . . they smile while they reflect on sweet memories of you.
God Bless all those who gave their life.
God Bless those currently serving.
Prayers to the family for healing and strength to carry on.
Carrie Ann Byrne
Peggy Childers
September 1, 2010
To the family and friends of Spc. Christopher G. Patton:
Remembering Christopher on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Brittany Johnson
May 31, 2010
You'll truly be missed. I just can't believe your gone.
Moises Escareno
March 31, 2010
Dear Mama Patton,
I Miss him so much theres not a day that goes by that I dont think of him he was a great roomate and he was a one true best friend that i can count on I love him like a brother. He was my big brother I hope he understands that it wasn't my choice or decision to get hurt things happen. I didnt want to leave him there. I will never forget the day I found out chris had passed I had just came out of surgery @ BAMC when a chaplain came in and told me if I had knew a Christhoper Gabriel Patton. I replied with a quick yes. That's when the chaplain told me. I miss him dearly. A week prior to our deployment we had talked about him coming to california and all the cool spots. He told me that I should come down to georgia and he would show me all the cool spots there. Im still planning to go to georgia. I would love to go hang in his hometown.
Kurtis Tripp
December 9, 2009
i served in the same platoon with patton in iraq....he was one of my friends and became close to him while we were in iraq......i will miss himdearly........i think about him every day.....
spc. Kurtis Tripp 1st Cav Div, 2-5 Cav, Aco., 2nd platoon....
Deborah Findley
September 11, 2009
Melanie, David, and sons,
THANK YOU !!!
Peggy Childers
September 1, 2009
To the family of Spc. Christopher G. Patton:
Christopher gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Melanie Patton
March 30, 2009
From Chris' mom to Adam Henderson. I would love to talk with you but you left no contact information on this page. Please e-mail me at [email protected] and I will give you my phone number.
Adam Henderson
December 24, 2008
I remember going by Chris's room late at night in Iraq, just to talk about nonsense or books that we could exchange between ourselves. Stopping by his room at Ft. Hood and doing the same thing. The day before he left us he stopped by to talk to me while they were back at Liberty refueling and refitting. Nothing was ever specifically determined when I had exited service after we redeployed but I dont know, all I do know is that he talked about desiring to be home, hang out with his little brother and other ambitions he had when we had our last conversation. That makes me wonder.... Please contact me if you do not mind.
Kenna Larra
December 11, 2008
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Bobbi Stewart
October 10, 2008
Dear Patton Family:
Firstly, I'd like to express my condolences to you, and apologize also that I'm so late in sending them (I myself have been over seas for the past year and just found out). Secondly, I would like to congradulate you on raising such a wonderful man; which for anyone who knew Chris knew he was very much a special person.
I've known Chris for many years, however it wasn't until middle school when we became friends, between having classes together, we also did OM and some other clubs. Chris was the kind of person who would give the shirt off his back to anyone who needed it, he was incredibly intelligent and caring. During our teen years when so many of us are trying to 'find ourselves' and trying to fit in with the 'cool kids' Chris was always true to himself, and the values his parents so lovingly instilled in him. I remember when everyone else was trying to be cool and fit in, he didn't care about the usual High School drama, he was always true to himself, and that was a quality of him I always admired.
He was a wonderful person, friend, son and soldier. It is a true unjustice to this world that he left so young (as with many soldiers), it was a better place with him in it. I can truely say that I'm a better person for knowing him, and his memory will live on in this soldier (sadly will so many others).
To Mr and Mrs Patton, you did such a wonderful job raising him, he has touched many lives with the values you taught him, with the compassion and love you showered him with. You should not only be proud of him but yourselves, there should be more parents like you out there. And I am truely sorry for your loss.
Very Respectfully,
SPC. Bobbi "Hope" Stewart
U.S. Army, Ft. Sam Houston, TX
Class of 2005
Keel and Kaye Germaine
September 2, 2008
Dear David, Melanie, Josh and Nick,
Keel and I want you to know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers. We know the next couple of weeks are going to be gut wrenching as you reach this one year mark. We think of all of you often and know that any "scab" of healing is going to be ripped off as you walk through the next few weeks especially.
I want you to know that I think of Christopher every time I see a yellow ribbon for our troops, the stars and stripes, news about the war, or a story about a fallen soldier. I thought of him every time I saw "USA" on a jersey or gymnastics champion. I thought of Chris every time Michael Phelps took a stroke and came up and caught a breath, with our flag on his swim cap. I think of him every time our national anthem is played. I have thought of him and y'all especially every time I have looked at a calendar and seen that it was the 1st of the month and have counted each time, how many months it's
been since September, 1, 2007.
David, Keel has spoken of how your candor and honesty have touched his heart and how he can't imagine living through what you both have. I know this may sound silly, but I've been crocheting, and have sent some rectangles to a group that puts afghans together for wounded soldiers, in memory of Chris. We love you all and humbly thank you for Chris' sacrifice and for the hole that's in your hearts on our behalf. "No greater gift..."
Warm hugs and love,
Keel and Kaye
September 2008
In Memory of Christopher ~ (Debra Estep)
September 1, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Christopher, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Jane Collette
July 23, 2008
David and Melanie,
I just found out from Ruth about Chris and I am so sad for y'all. I only got to meet the boys once and I think that was 12 yrs ago. How proud you must have been for the wonderful son that you raised and then for him taking a stand for our freedom and the sacrifice he made. My prayers are with you my friends. I love you very much, even though we haven't been in contact in so long. May God continue to comfort you and never forget that one day you will be with him again in heaven. What a great time he must be having up there.
Love you!
Jane Collette
Sandra Davis
July 17, 2008
Twenty-two years ago today was a wonderfully happy day in our family. Our second grandson, Christopher Gabriel Patton, was born.
You brought so much joy over the 21 years you were on this earth...I remember how you would never admit to being tired; you would just fall asleep over your food when you were in your high chair! You would always smile--unless you were crossed and then we had better watch out! You loved talking and did it very early. When you and your brothers flew to Texas to visit, you were always ready for the next adventure whatever it was. You never failed to say "thank you" or "please" and many times you gave me a hug and said "I love you Granny". for no reason at all..I cherish every memory. What fun we had when we went to Washington together....you even drove the Ducks on the Potomac! When we all went to Disney World for Christmas in 2003, you and Josh pulled me aside and sweetly said it was the most fun Christmas you ever had. I am so glad! More than you will ever know, we all miss you...today especially.
Happy Birthday Chris. I hope Mama (my mother) is making you the Pound Cake you love so much and you are celebrating together around the Throne where we will all join you one of these days!
Much, much love, Granny
July 3, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Patton!
Ginny Gilbert
June 29, 2008
There are not enough eloquent words to express my deepest sympathy for the loss of your son and the great sacrifice he made in defense of our country in battle or in his mere presence, his loss is the same. May each day bring your family more closure and peace.
Warmest thoughts and prayers.
Leah Marchese
June 24, 2008
David, Melanie, Josh, and Nick:
Chris will always be a hero to me and I am so grateful for all that he did for us. His bravery will never be forgotten and the lives that he has touched will never be the same. He smiles down on you, knowing that one day you will all be reunited. I can not wait for the day I will be able to say thank you to him. My prayers and thoughts are with you guys through out this time and forever. I am blessed to have known Chris for the time that I did. With much love and care...
Brenda
June 12, 2008
I did not know Christopher but I just want to say - Christopher - thank you for your ultimate gift - our freedom! God Bless you and grant you peace!
Emily Foster
June 1, 2008
Hey, Chris Patton. I'm going to feel pretty silly saying the whole "I didn't know you personally, but I'm sorry, etc etc" bit - LOL. So here goes my version.
While a year your junior, I did see you quite often in HS. One time I remember you singing Metallica's Sand Man in the talent show, but most importantly, we were in German Club together, which is where I sort of got to see your personality shine. I remember the time I shaved my head into a mohawk and you complimented it, which was the first(and last) time you spoke to me.
If I had to say I had a crush on anyone in HS, it would have to be you. So, no, I can't say anything really romantic in this entry, since I didn't know you at all, although I always wanted to.
GL wherever you may be now, best wishes in the afterlife, reincarnation, or what-have-you.
Kelly & Jessica Johnson
May 26, 2008
Dear Melanie,David,Nick and Josh,
Somehow,I was on the internet and came across Christopher's news. Just want to say that my family is deeply sadden at the loss. It is now 12:08 am Memorial day-was it coincidence or not I do not know. Our prayers are with you all, I looked at his picture and see a strong young man that obviously was proud to wear the uniform that he was in. Is it possible to communicate again via e-mail. Would like to touch base with all of you. I wish I and my family could hug each of you and say Thank You for his service to all of us here
Dan Rafuse
March 11, 2008
David and Melanie,
I was just leaving a note for close friends of ours who lost their 23 year old son a year ago today and i decided to look for Christophers Legacy.WOW ! I'm moved to tears.Again. How special it is to see what all these people wrote to you guys about your son.And many who you've never even met.
You must miss him so much.I know that's a pitiful understatement.I can only imagine.
My prayer is that you two(and me also), would know just even a small taste of what Chris must be feeling,seeing,hearing. What would he like to say to you ?
Forgive me for being presumptious.You may have already heard. Oh God ! A taste of tomorrow,Please!
You are loved and thought of often.
God is able.....
Deborah Plott
February 14, 2008
Dear family of our fallen hero. I did not know you personally, but I wanted to extend my appreciation for the sacrifice you and your son made for our country and for the freedom of others around the world. I know you will miss him greatly. Know that many people love you and are praying for you. May you find peace and comfort of family and friends for the rest of your lives on this planet. Your son, brother, grandson, and friend will never be forgotten. WHAT A MAGNIFICENT SON!!! I am sure he was. I, for one, am so grateful to families who sacrifice so much.
Linda flannery
January 12, 2008
Remembering and honoring this brave young soldier. May his family find comfort in their loving memories, and know all of America shares their sorrow. My flag flies in honor of Spc Patton.
mom of 2 Marines, widow of Army Ranger
Joy Randall
December 18, 2007
Dear Patton Family,
Although I do not know you personally, you have been part of my life for sometime. Judy is a dear friend who has shared about her precious family, so I feel like I know each of you.
Chris was part of my life in an indirect way. Judy gave information about how to show appreciation to the troops, so my 4th and 5th grade girls’ Sunday School class had taken Chris’s troop as our “thank you” project. The girls had colored cards for Fourth of July and we had gathered items to send in our care packages. Most of all, though, the girls were learning how close the war is and how it touches us; and they were learning how to pray for our county and for our soldiers. We had talked about Chris and his troop many times. We were preparing to send a package to him, and I knew that after I got the call about Chris on early Sunday morning, I would have to tell the girls. I would like for you to know that Chris’s life has impacted them in a profound way.
It was an honor and a privilege to see the out pouring of love and gratitude not only for his service to our county but also for the life he lived. It was such a wonderful testimony of God’s transforming and limitless grace to hear the many people share how Chris had influenced their lives in a positive way.
We are praying for you and hope you will find comfort in knowing that his “light” was bright and illuminated our world in a myriad of ways.
Blessings to you.
Your Sister in Christ,
Joy
Carol Brown
December 2, 2007
Melanie, David, Josh and Nick:
23 years ago Judy and Bill Foster came into my life. My son, Heath and Wil, were in daycare together. A deep friendship was forged through those two young lives and continues today. As the Foster's became part of my extended family, your family also became a part of my life. I sorrow with you in your loss and wish that I had "known" Chris instead of just heard about him. I was overwhelmed by the outpouring of love, respect and homage paid to Chris for his selfless act of serving--not only his God, but each and everyone of us as citizens of this great nation. I have been forever changed to be a part of such a reverent, loving display, not only by family and friends, but by the Freedom Riders for their part in the events of the services. May God's loving arms continue to enfold you as you walk this journey. My prayers remain with the entire extended family.
Tim Patton
November 30, 2007
Dear David, Melanie, Josh, and Nick,
Words cannot express how my heart breaks for you all. I’m not sure how to pay tribute to Chris or how to express my condolences. Ony of my favorite exhortations is, “God wants to live big on the inside of you.” And that’s what I’m reminded of when I remember Chris. Everything I recall Chris did, he did big. He loved big, he played big, he worked big, he hugged big. But he was gentle and humble: even when boasting he was going to beat us all in croquet, it was a sweet, playful boast. Your Chris was a giant among men. Jesus teaches us to be loving, forgiving, serving, and giving. Chris loved big, he forgave big, he served big, and he gave big. I’m so glad God allowed me to know him and to spend even a little time with him. All the times I spent with Chris were wonderful times. And if I ever meet someone who doesn’t believe giants ever walked the earth, I will tell them, “You never met my nephew Chris.”
Melodie Patton
November 30, 2007
Chris was the brother that I never had.
He looked out for me like I was his little sister.
He played with me; he laughed with me.
He taught me all of the card games that I knew and still know.
He was an awesome cousin, an awesome witness for Christ, and an awesome servant for our country. He showed me the true meaning of sacrifice, the true meaning of love. He showed me what it was like to love your country so much to give your life fighting for it. And that reminds me so much of Jesus Christ: He loved the world so much that He died for it; that He died for our sins....the sins that we should have paid and died for in the first place. He never had to do it, He was never forced to do it...but He did. Because He loved us. Chris was such a great example of Christ....he did exactly that. He showed me humility, kindness, faithfulness, love, patience, joy, and grace. He has inspired me so incredibly much to be a better child of God....to serve my Father willingly and with a cheerful heart. Not because of what a benefit it would be to me...but so that it may be a benefit to the people I'm serving and to give glory and honor and praise to His name. Chris also taught me to stand up for what I believe in, and I will try to be a much better witness for Jesus. Chris will always remain in my heart, and I will always remember him.
I love you so much, Chris. Thanks for being my true brother and for teaching me so many things....and that is only by God's grace! Thank you for serving our country.
In Christ,
your cousin, Melodie.
Thomas Whitfield
November 28, 2007
Dear Patton Family,
You have my deepest sympathy for the lost of your son Chris. Your son was a true American Hero and I enjoyed every minute I spent with him while I lead him on the battlefield. Patton was a the type of person that always found a way to make the platoon laugh and was friends with everyone he came in contact with. He will be missed but will live on in our hearts.
1LT Whitfield
2nd PLT Leader
Melanie Ellis
November 5, 2007
Dear Patton family,
Judy has told me so many stories that I feel as if I knew Christopher. I can not image what your family has gone through. My deepest sympathies for your loss. There is not a day that goes by that you are not in my thought and prayers.
Monique Miller
November 5, 2007
David, Melanie, Josh & Nick:
I have tried in so many different ways to express the deep despair that I feel for you and the boyz. Sometimes it just cannot be grasped into words but only by the touch. I love you all so dearly and think of you each day.
Much love and prayers,
Monique, Eddie & the boyz
Proud mother of a U.S. Marine
Brent, Renae, Skyler, Brody and Kalee Weber
November 4, 2007
Dear Pattons,
We consider it an honor and a privilege to have known and been related to Christopher. We thank him for his service to our country and protecting us and our children. What an honor to die as a Christian soldier. He is a Hero!
Being family we feel your sorrow but we can't feel the total depth of your pain. We pray for you daily wishing you hope in the midst of sorrow and comfort in the midst of the pain. We know and believe that only the Lord can totally comfort your hearts. May His hand be more real to you now than ever before.
We Love You All,
Darlene Penner
November 2, 2007
Dear David, Melanie, Josh & Nick,
I did not know your sweet & precious Christopher personally, but smile at the memories Melanie would share of him during bible study and the stories I have heard of him over the past number of weeks. What a magnificent son, brother, man, soldier and follower of Christ! My heart aches for each of you. I pray that our God of comfort & love provides you with all that your hearts need each and every day.
Twyla & Les Brickman
November 2, 2007
David & Melanie,
Les & I can't begin to express our sympathy for you and the rest of your family. As a mother, I can only imagine the deep sorrow and loss you are experiencing. No human can console you...only the Lord so rest in Him and His purposes. I know that Christopher was such a joy and blessing to you and you are so proud of him. Hold on to that.
Dolly & Miguel Villalobos
November 2, 2007
Dear David, Melanie, Josh and Nick,
I dont have the right words in my mouth but I hope the thoughts in my heart make up for my inadequacy.
Your loss has touched so many people. We cry with you , feel for you and wish we could take your pain away. We know no one but God can do that so I'll leave that job to Him.
What I do want to do is say how proud we all are of Chris - he is truly one of our heroes now. He is one of the brave who allows the rest of us to stay free. He is one who sets examples, raises standards and makes a place better just by his haveing been there.
Because of that , this is not only a tribute to Chris, it is a tribute to David and Melanie and his brothers for helping him becime the great man he was. He was raised up in a God fearing, loving home and his life and death became a true testimony to that.
I hope you all continue to heal and take comfort in having had the priveledge of having Chris with you the time he was on this earth.
You are much loved.
Julie McIver
November 2, 2007
Melanie, David, Nick & Josh,
I just wanted you to know that you pass through my thoughts & prayers every day. You have touched more lives than you know with your faith & love in God & your family. When I think of Chris, I think of him in his black top hat, black leather jacket, black long shorts & knee socks walking around the track at Central during the football games. He always had a smile & sweet words for me. He will not be forgotten.
Rhonda Wagoner
November 1, 2007
To my precious cousins- parents & family of Spc Christopher Patton, May God's comforting arms and unfailing love blanket around you all each and every day. You are always in our thoughts and prayers! What wonderful young men you have raised! Christopher, Josh and Nick have been so blessed to have you as parents! What an example of honor, strength, courage, support and blessing you were to Chris & are to Nick and Josh, as well as everyone that you are around. Thank you Spc Christopher Patton and to all of our precious service men and women who are fighting for us now and who have given their lives so that we may remain free and safe in our country. We love you all so much! Chris,you will always be remembered & we honor you today. Rhonda Wagoner & family
Sherman & Ann Shelby (& Family)
November 1, 2007
Dearest David,Melanie,Josh & Nick:
Words escape us for the pain that you are enduring! Our thoughts & prayers seem miniscule but know they are large and heartfelt. The loss of Chris is unfathomable, unbelievable, unfair and painful – beyond belief, as we humans see it.
I think of Chris in many ways and see his face in many people – strangers but constant reminders of Chris and his albeit short, a powerful life with lessons to each of us. My 13 year old grandson, who really only knew of Chris through our friendship with you his parents and brothers, has the program from Chris’s funeral on the wall as you enter his bedroom. It serves as a reminder of the example of what a young man can aspire to be and of the many wonderful qualities he heard about from those who knew and loved Chris. Chris continues to serve as a shining example of his upbringing and the unconditional love of his family and friends. He once played a mute king who was able to express himself with only his face and body language but we know that now he is talking it up with THE KING and I’m sure he is bringing laughter and joy abundantly even though we wish it was here with you.
You are the most compassionate, caring and loving family we know and WE LOVE YOU! God Bless each of you and you know where we are for anything!
Eli Foster
November 1, 2007
These are my notes for my words at Chris' funeral:
I am Chris’ cousin Eli and I have been given the opportunity to reflect on Chris’ life. I take this opportunity very serious and dove into the task of continuing to discover on a deeper level, my cousin Chris.
Gen. 1:27 states, “Genesis 1:27 27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them. “ I believe that there are 4 distinct characteristics of God’s image that are readily apparent in Chris’ life. I brought an item to represent each characteristic of the image of God in Chris’ life. I want to continue to comeback to each of these four characteristics, because I believe that in these God is teaching us about himself through his son Chris. These four characteristics are Commitment, Passion, Originality, and Loving-kindness
1. Commitment- Commitment isn’t a half-way thing, it is an all the way thing. It is all encompassing and it is standing by a person or your convictions regardless of the outcome. Chris was committed through the good times, and bad, through the ups and down. Christopher Patton was a man who exemplified commitment. I am holding in my hand a pin that the family received last night (hold up star pin). This pin is the Gold Star, and the Gold Star has been handed out since World War II to family member if they lose a loved one in battle. This is a symbol of Chris’ commitment to the military. I want to tell two brief stories about Chris’ life and his commitment, when Chris was in high school, he joined the football team, not because of his tremendous love for football, but because he could get in good shape and be a part of a committed team. While on this team Chris often heard his Coach say encouraging words about a player on the team. Chris would hear, “Way to go Lurch, keep playing hard, Lurch. You other boys, take a look at Lurch’s example.” Chris heard this and it pushed him to work harder, because he wanted the coach to talk about him, the same way that he was talking about Lurch. He would come home and tell his mother, “wow, there is this guy Lurch that the Coach keeps talking about and saying that he is doing such a good job, I want to work hard and be like Lurch.” Well Chris continued to work and he continued to hear about Lurch during practices. Then one day about 6 weeks later, Chris was getting a drink of water at the end of practice, and the coach came up and patted him on the back and said, you really looked good out there today, Lurch. All along Chris was striving and committed to be like Lurch, when in reality, Chris was Lurch.
The other story of commitment for Chris was his commitment to the military. Many of you know that it was Chris’ desire to join the military from early in high school. After he joined the military he became a driver in the infantry. Now many of you know that Chris is a big guy and he had a lot of equipment and it made it difficult to drive with all of that equipment at his height, but Chris was committed. He shared his desire to be in a more supportive role, but he would do whatever his superior officers wanted. He stayed committed as a driver through good times and bad, because he valued commitment. For me Chris’ life paints a picture of God’s commitment to us, through ups and downs he is steady with us, and Chris was steadily committed to His Lord and his commitment to the military, driving or no driving.
2. This brings me to the 2nd characteristic of Chris. Chris was passionate. I mean really passionate. Nick told me that if there was anything that Chris wanted, he just went for it and he would not let any obstacle stand in his way, whether it was something he believed in, a job that he wanted, or a physical attribute. (Show the ipod). I brought this ipod, because one of Chris’ greatest passions and loves was music. Now if you know Chris, you know that he had most of his music on his Xbox 360, but we will just show the ipod as a visual. Chris adored music. He loved playing music, he loved listening to music, he loved the bass, and he loved other instruments. I spent all morning yesterday listening to various musical selections just to get a better picture of Chris. He had a passion in his soul for music, especially rock music. This passion drove Chris, and in every area of his life this passion shone.
Another great passion was his desire to join the military. From early in high school he declared his passion for joining the military. He knew exactly what he needed to do to fulfill this passion. It was his passion and hearts desire to serve in the infantry, and serve our country. This was a great passion for Chris.
Another passion that his brother Nick was telling me about was for healthy eating that when other members of his family were eating ice cream for dessert, he would eat applesauce. I also learned that this passion would carry over in the classroom as he would argue with any student about topics and fields of study that he enjoyed.
He was passionate about movies, video games, music, and serving his country. This drove Chris deep from within him. I am assured that it is this passion that he wants us to know. He wants us to find what makes us passionate and to go for it with all of our zeal. This passion was given to him from his heavenly father and it is this trait that exemplifies being made in God’s image.
3. Original- (Bring a box/plane) Now I have a Box because of what Josh said about Chris. He told me that one word to describe Chris is original. He said, “that some people think outside of the box, but Chris thinks on a completely different plane.” Chris was a Cat Man stuck in a Dog family. He often lived life his own way and he was not dissuaded by others opinions of him. He was a big guy and in high school he wore his leather jacket and had his tattoos and his long hair and goatee. He was an intimidating physical presence. He dressed how he wanted and he did not care about the stereotype that someone else placed on him, because he was and always will be Chris Patton. It is this originality that often surprised and impressed his teachers. When he would come to class they would expect a slacker who did not address them with respect and did not care about class. In fact he was exactly the opposite. One of the most polite people in the entire class and he would often score well academically. This Originality is one of the traits that Josh admired most about him. He was truly Chris Patton. A Cat Man in a Dog family. He was unapologetically the man that God created him to be. He was Chris Patton, not his brother. He was totally unique and God’s servant. This is what his life is teaching us, we don’t have to conform or be someone else, God has made us uniquely in his image and as such we should happily show that image to the rest of the world.
4. This brings us to the final aspect of Chris that I want us to remember. Chris was a loving man. Chris loved deeply. The last visual sign is this shirt (Hold up shirt) that I made for him. It says I Love Kiiitiies. Chris loved cats, he even admitted it at basic training. But it wasn’t only cats that Chris loved, he also desperately loved his family.
Josh told me that Chris loved so deeply that every time that Chris would see him, Chris would greet him with a huge bear hug, that would completely engulf Josh, whether Josh saw it coming or not did not matter. Chris loved deeply. This love was not just reserved for his family and his cat, Chris also loved others. One of the funniest stories that I read about Chris was posted on the facebook page. One of his friends was talking about how Chris after school was so kind and loving and giving everyone a ride home. Finally after Chris had given everyone a ride home, Chris drove passed his brother Nick and two of his friends. They were waving feverously to Chris to get him to stop and give them a ride home. Well Chris being the loving guy thought they were just waving to tell him hi. Chris obviously waved back and kept on going. His friend laughed and laughed when he realized they wanted a ride, but Chris just thought they were saying hi. In Chris this love poured out to friend and stranger alike, but he especially loved his parents and his brothers.
Chris Patton, made in God’s image shows us about (star pin) commitment, (ipod) passion, Originality (box/plane), and (T-shirt) loving-kindness. I will deeply miss my cousin whom I love whom has taught me about my savior and redeemer in these four ways.
I leave you with these words from Josh as he gives us the picture of hope.
Josh said, “It is kinda like when you were little and on vacation. You see we used to take vacation and drive a long way and when you were little you didn’t really care about the trip, you just cared about the destination. Chris, Nick and I would see who could fall asleep first on the trip to make the trip go by quickly until we got to our destination and we would get out and enjoy vacation. My brother Chris, it is like we are back on that trip and he is the first one asleep. One day I will be asleep and Nick will be asleep, but we are all looking forward to the end of the trip when we will come together and celebrate our vacation.”
This is the sure hope for those of us who have life in Jesus Christ we are all headed to that eternal vacation. Chris may have beaten us to falling asleep, but we will all arrive there together and awaken to the greatest vacation ever, and the words, “Well done, my good and faithful servant.”
These are my notes from the gravesite:
1 Corinthians 15:51-57 51 Listen, I tell you a mystery: We will not all sleep, but we will all be changed-- 52 in a flash, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, the dead will be raised imperishable, and we will be changed. 53 For the perishable must clothe itself with the imperishable, and the mortal with immortality. 54 When the perishable has been clothed with the imperishable, and the mortal with immortality, then the saying that is written will come true: "Death has been swallowed up in victory." 55 "Where, O death, is your victory? Where, O death, is your sting?" 56 The sting of death is sin, and the power of sin is the law. 57 But thanks be to God! He gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.
During Committal
Genesis 2:7 7 the LORD God formed the man from the dust of the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life, and the man became a living being.
On Sept. 1, 2007 the breath of the Lord was taken from Christopher Patton, what we see before us is his body, but this is not Chris. This is dust, from ashes to ashes and from dust to dust. We commit this body back to the dust from where it came. And we know that this dust is just a shadow of that resurrection body that we are clothed with in Christ. It is that glorious body that we await. It is that glorious resurrection body that you have promised and we know that you, oh Lord, will not disappoint. So we deliver this perishable body back to the dust in the unshakable assurance that you are clothing Chris in a new imperishable body of Righteousness.
Keegan McIver
October 31, 2007
It is still hard to put into words what a person like Chris represents. Loving, kind, funny, smart, and unique are a nice broad way to describe him. Hilarious, brilliant, honest, distinct, brave, unconditional, talented, focused, beautiful, courteous, diverse and versatile are more adjectives that Chris embodies always. Forever, because he lives within all of us who were fortunate to know him. His life was not superficial, it was full of meaningful thoughts and purpose, together with an explosive personality, and surrounded by a supportive family. He was always the loving honest friend he had always been throughout our personal friendship. He was so talented. He played football, acted, orchestra then on to a bass guitar. He was probably the first person who introduced me to the wonderful world of music. And Monty Python. And to the fact I wasn’t invincible on any video game controller. He was definitely one of the people who made me comfortable being myself. And it helped that we had a very similar sense of humor. All we used to do is laugh when we were hanging out whether I just saw a movie with him, or spent the day, or night, or two nights, I believe I over at his house for a long weekend back in middle school. Needless to say we were close. His death, was untimely, maybe I’m just stingy because I wish I could see him like I used to. Thinking about it, gives me a hurt feeling like there is a void that wasn’t there before, because I knew there was always somebody to turn to, or think about, like Chris no matter how long we had been away from one another, a solid figure worth molding your life around. A real hero. I will always have him within my heart though. I know he still loves us too. Chris, Christorpher, Lurch, Chrars (Chicago language), those were the names I used to call him by, I loved him, I love him. Mom, Dad, Nick, Josh, I love you. I love you Chris.
Heather (Foster) Proctor
October 31, 2007
My dear, dear, dear family.
Wow. It is hard to know what to say, still, even as time passes. I love you all so much and it was an honor and a privilege to be able to be with you during the funeral service and for the days preceding it. I was so touched to see the love and affection that you all have for each other, something I have seen all my life from you...
I admire each of you for your honesty, your affection, your senses of humor, your involvement in each other's lives, your passion. Thank you for being my family. You are in my prayers.
Much love,
Fred Davis
October 31, 2007
“The noblest fate that a man can endure is to place his own mortal body between his loved home and war’s desolation”.
Robert Heinlein, Starship Troopers
Any words that I can express fall far short of what you must be feeling. Just know that I love you and that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that God holds you in the palm of his hands and gives you peace.
“but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.” Isaiah 40:31
Moises Escareno
October 31, 2007
Mama Patton & Family
It was such a great honor to have Patton as my best friend and roomate back in Ft Hood. I'm really sorry to hear about his passing. I wish I could have been there for him. I remember the last time I saw him was on the day of my accident I didn't say anything to him cause I was getting treated for my burns I just saw him take a glimps and walked away I figured I was in pretty bad shape and he couldn't stand seeing me like that so he walked away. I have so many memories and stories to share. I'll be glad to share them with the whole Patton family. Again Im sorry to hear about your lost of a great son not only did you lose a great son on September 1st but I lost a great friend and I will truly miss him. I want to thank you Mama Patton and Daddy Patton for raising a great son.
Love
Screemo
Edward Dake
October 31, 2007
At the request of the family, I wanted to share the words I spoke on September 15, 2007. The first section is the Scripture I read that the service at the Atlanta Vineyard. The second section is what I shared at Georgia National Cemetery.
Atlanta Vineyard Service:
John 15:13 -
Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends. (NIV)
Psalm 23 -
A psalm of David.
[1] The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not be in want.
[2] He makes me lie down in green pastures,
he leads me beside quiet waters,
[3] he restores my soul.
He guides me in paths of righteousness
for his name's sake.
[4] Even though I walk
through the valley of the shadow of death,
I will fear no evil,
for you are with me;
your rod and your staff,
they comfort me.
[5] You prepare a table before me
in the presence of my enemies.
You anoint my head with oil;
my cup overflows.
[6] Surely goodness and love will follow me
all the days of my life,
and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever. (NIV)
Romans 8:26-39 -
[26] In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groans that words cannot express. [27] And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints in accordance with God's will.
[28] And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. [29] For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the likeness of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers. [30] And those he predestined, he also called; those he called, he also justified; those he justified, he also glorified.
[31] What, then, shall we say in response to this? If God is for us, who can be against us? [32] He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all—how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things? [33] Who will bring any charge against those whom God has chosen? It is God who justifies. [34] Who is he that condemns? Christ Jesus, who died—more than that, who was raised to life—is at the right hand of God and is also interceding for us. [35] Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? [36] As it is written:
“For your sake we face death all day long;
we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered.”
[37] No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. [38] For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future,nor any powers, [39] neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord. (NIV)
Georgia National Cemetery Service:
My name is Edward. Melanie's younger brother, Brother-in-Law to David and Uncle to Josh, Nick and to our fallen hero Chris. I am a seminary graduate and an ordained minister. As a former hospital chaplain, I've ministered to and among some of the most hurting people imaginable. I've done my best to be God's representative to those in pain and suffering and those experiencing the death of a loved one. I've cried with strangers and with friends. I've prayed with them and held them in the midst of the most traumatic times in their lives.
BUT…these experiences all pale in comparison to when I heard the tragic news of my nephew's death in Iraq. I'm here before you today as a grieving Uncle. I'm here before you today as a minister of the Gospel of Jesus Christ and I hurt with you.
In the past two weeks, my heart and mind are flooded with the memories of Chris with the pain that there will be no more memories added to that precious bank…and I weep. The tears flow freely from my eyes and my body is racked with uncontrollable sobs as I cry out to God wondering about this event and the purpose behind it. I know many of us expect ministers to be stoic and many of us expect ministers to have all the answers. I'm here before you today admitting that I don't have any answers. None that wrap this event up in a nice package and make it easy to accept.
Through these two weeks, which have been among the most agonizing of my life…I have consoled myself with two things: The first, that I know God is hurting with me. The second, that from the moment that Chris' heart beat for the last time, he was immediately and permanently in the presence of his Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.
Let's look at the first. God is hurting with me. God is hurting with you. Why? Because DEATH GRIEVES GOD. Death was not supposed to be part of man's journey on this earth. God's perfect plan for mankind was one of unending fellowship and joy with our Creator. BUT when sin entered this world it brought with it death.
I take solace in a quote from a pastor friend of mine, John Claypool. In writing about the loss of his 10- year-old daughter to leukemia in his fine work “Tracks of a Fellow Struggler.” He says with sincere honesty that “I have found no answers to the deepest questions of this experience.” I can appreciate his honesty and his openness to confess this. I hope you can hear my genuineness when I tell you the same. There are unanswerable questions we, I, have been asking of God these past two weeks since I first received the call of the news from my sister. While there are questions that will probably go unanswered, please hear me when I say that these questions are normal. Implicit in them is a longing for an answer. Implied in the asking of these questions is the reality that there is One who can answer them. Many of us feel guilty asking these types of questions, but I believe with every fiber of my being that God understands. Didn't God Himself in the form of Christ agonize and ask these types of questions in the garden of Gethsemane? Didn't He scream in the midst of His suffering on the cross a question that warranted no answer? “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” I'm confident that Christ, being fully human and fully God, felt the agony of that forsakenness. Felt the pain and the suffering of abandonment. Much like, perhaps EXACTLY like, the feelings we have felt in the past few weeks. So ask away. There may not be answers now, but ask and He will hear you. Take comfort in knowing that He is there to listen and God has promised His comfort, His presence to help us endure through the unanswerable times in the coming months as we remember Chris and his joyous life with us on this earth.
Yes, it was far too short... many hopes and dreams have been shattered. Our lives will never be the same without Chris, our friend, our cousin, our nephew, our grandson, our brother, and our son.
These past few weeks have flooded my mind with so many memories and I have realized that our lives wouldn't be what they are now had we not had 21 years with him. Some of the images that flash in my mind is the memory of when I held him as a newborn baby in Ft. Worth in 1986. Then I remember his precious little smile when he came to my wedding in 1988. I see him at family Christmas gatherings, excited about new gifts and having fun with his brothers. I see him being the king who couldn't speak in “Once Upon a Mattress.” I see him grow into the man he became. The man of integrity and character who loved his country and volunteered to defend her and our freedom. I see him playing with my son during our visits to Ft. Hood. I see him full of vigor and life. Was he ever full of life!
Melanie told me of a story which was a prime example of his love of life and his characteristic wit and humor. Chris enjoyed putting his name on the rear-end of his running shorts when he was exercising. He always put CG Patton. His initials and his last name. Well, “CG” in the military can also stand for “commanding general” and Chris loved running down the road with “CG Patton” displayed for all to see. People who were running by him would salute, thinking that this person exercising was a commanding general. Once they would run past Chris, they would turn and give him a strange look. A look of astonishment--that this soldier was young. Certainly too young to be a commanding general! Yet he enjoyed the surprise and informed his family that these really were just his initials and he was just marking his clothes for simple identification. Riiiiggghht...
In reading many responses this week on the internet about Chris and his life, I reflected on a number of aspects to Chris's character. You've heard from Eli earlier today on a number of these traits. While Chris Patton showed commitment, passion, originality and love to his family and friends, I'm here today to proclaim with assurance that he was committed to Christ as his Savior and his passion for Christ was evident in his life. And that is the second truth that has consoled me... that Chris is in the presence of his Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.
He would not want us to be remembering his life today without bringing out the fact that he knew Jesus as his personal Savior and would want you to have a personal relationship with Christ as well.
Chris is a hero to many of us here today and I am certain that while Chris would downplay the honor he has received today and he so rightly deserves, he would say that Jesus Christ is his hero. I read a quote on the Patriot Guard website this past week, and after sharing it with a number of people, they suggested I share it with you. Here is the quote:
“Only two defining forces have ever offered to die for you: 1. Jesus Christ. 2. The American G.I. One died for your soul, the other for your Freedom.”
I am struck by the truth of those words. Chris died for our freedom and Christ died for our souls. It is my obligation as a minister to share with you the validity of this statement and to tell you that while painful we who know Christ as Savior are surviving now only because of His grace through this most-painful time in our lives. It hurts. It is painful and it breaks our hearts. But “Just like a broken leg, a broken heart heals slowly and cannot stand much touching right after the break.” This is where we are today. We have a broken heart that is raw and painful to the touch. Through the hope and the power of Jesus Christ, the broken heart can mend. While it may never be the same, it can mend with time.
I would like to close with the words of King David from the book of Psalms. I think you'll see that many of these feelings are so like what we are experiencing...
Psalm 42
[1] As the deer pants for streams of water, so my soul pants for you, O God.
[2] My soul thirsts for God, for the living God. When can I go and meet with God?
[3] My tears have been my food day and night, while men say to me all day long, “Where is your God?”
[4] These things I remember as I pour out my soul: how I used to go with the multitude, leading the procession to the house of God, with shouts of joy and thanksgiving among the festive throng.
[5] Why are you downcast, O my soul? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Savior and
[6] my God. My soul is downcast within me...
[7] Deep calls to deep in the roar of your waterfalls; all your waves and breakers have swept over me.
[8] By day the LORD directs his love, at night his song is with me—a prayer to the God of my life.
[9] I say to God my Rock, “Why have you forgotten me? Why must I go about mourning, oppressed by the enemy?”
[10] My bones suffer mortal agony as my foes taunt me, saying to me all day long, “Where is your God?”
[11] Why are you downcast, O my soul? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Savior and my God.
In this Psalm I read anguish. I read unending tears night and day. I read loss of appetite. I read feeling abandoned. I read downcast soul. I read suffering and agony. But twice is mentioned putting our hope in God.
This is my prayer for you, for me, for all of us through the darkest valleys of this experience that even though we hurt, even though we anguish and weep and feel abandoned. Even though we have downcast souls and are suffering to the point of agony, we can still put our hope in Jesus Christ, God's Son.
Nancy Penton
October 31, 2007
Dear David and Melanie,
Josh, and Nick,
We were so saddened by the death of Chris in Iraq. As we sat with you in your home and met members of Chris' family and friends, we were amazed at the influence one young man can have in his lifetime. Chris was truly remarkable. It was so good that you, Melanie, insisted that Chris have pictures taken the last time he was home. The pictures could never replace Chris, but they are precious memories. Thank you for sharing your stories with us and calling us your friends. We are still here for you and have not forgotten your grief and loss. None of us knows how many days are awaiting us in this life. Chris lived his life to the full with enthusiasm, passion, and zeal. He is an example to all of us of one who, like Jesus, laid down his life for his friends. We are here for you and pray for you as you live with the big gaping holes in your hearts, the void that Chris left when he "fell asleep first." Looking forward to the day we will all "wake up" in the next life in heaven with the saints who have gone before us.
Sincerely,
Allen and Nancy Penton
Christian Fuller
October 30, 2007
I had to honor to know Chris through high school and was blessed to be around such a great person. Our circle of friends could always count on Chris to brighten our day, especially with his contagious laugh! It would be easy for myself and all of Chris's friends to write a novel of experiences that we each had with him and that we will dearly miss.
Chris was a very good friend to me. But I know that it doesnt end there. Not only was Chris a good friend, he was a brother to some, a soldier among few, an American of this great nation, but most of all a Christian who serves the Lord in all he does. God bless such a honerable person and may we all strive to acheive the great things that Chris has done for the world.
Pat Brannon
October 30, 2007
David, Melanie, Josh, and Nick,
I know that words cannot express the essence of a life, the love for a child, or the warmth of a brother's presence. I cannot imagine the loss all of you feel, but I am convinced that the God of all comfort has made Himself very real to all of you. What an honor to know that Christopher's life was given for the cause of freedom for so many others. I am grateful to you, David and Melanie, for raising a young man who was willing to sacrifice his life for my freedom. I didn't know him, but from all the messages I have read, he must have been quite a special soul. May the Lord give all of you His peace and joy as you trust in Him. My deepest sympathy to you as you make your way through the grief of such a great loss.
Pam Blalock "Ridley" PGR
October 30, 2007
Our family's deepest condolences on the loss of Christopher. He was an amazing young man, with a Patriotic heart and the courage to live his heart's directive. He will not be forgotten. You coninue to be in our hearts and prayers.
Uncle Eddie, Aunt Cindy, and Ryan Dake
October 30, 2007
David, Melanie, Josh, and Nick:
Even though it has been eight weeks weeks since Chris died, the shock of it still crashes into reality and rocks our senses. So many times each day, we think of each of you and how Chris's absence affects you individually, collectively.
The information about Chris's death is familiar now, but far from routine. Thinking of what happened September 1 and in the days that followed, a tsunami of emotions and memories rages. Then, the older memories surface--the good times with Chris--Christmases, summers at Six Flags, each boy's graduation party...a zillion memories! "JoshChrisandNick"--that's how it always was spoken in our home--as if it were one big, wonderful word! Three parts of one entity. Ryan learned how to sign his cousins' names early on and they were always signed together ("J/C/N") as one unit.
Chris is now one of our family's "treasures in heaven," and we look forward even more to that day when we are met at heaven's gates and reunited with him and others who have loved Jesus on this earth.
David/Melanie: You have been amazing parents to watch in action. You set a high standard for godly parenting. Josh/Nick: You are incredible brothers! Your three-way bond with Chris exemplified love and brotherly affection.
We love you all so much, and cherish the connection our families share.
Keturah Ogletree
October 30, 2007
I can never truly know the pain your hearts feel... but in my spirit I groan and cry for you in my prayers. Thank you for giving to the world such a wonderful, brave young man. I cannot wait to see him in eternity and thank him for all he did for me. I love you both Melanie and David. Know that you are in my prayers. Love always, Keturah Ogletree
Gretchen Cunningham
October 28, 2007
We feel so grateful and blessed for our journey with Chris. We will always have our fond memories and moments that will warm our hearts and leave a smile our faces. It means so much to us that he was our son's best friend. Our prayers for your family will continue.
Love always,
Gretchen, David, Courtney, John, and Adam Cunningham
Glenda Rinehart Jordan
October 28, 2007
To the Patton Family:
Thanks for sharing Chris with our family through the years. For a short while, he will be with us in our memories, until we will all be together again.
I remember
· Watching Chris and my son, Matt Rinehart, enjoying Cici’s in their early years. They would track how many pieces of pizza each of them ate.
· Late nights at IHOP before the boys had their licenses.
· Chris enjoying my breakfast concoctions (fresh fruit juices) when they woke up at 1 pm.
· Chris’ meaningful participation in the church Bible study that met in our home each Thursday evening.
· Chris’ dry sense of humor that often caught me off guard.
Chris has always been a joy and a blessing. It was my honor to have Chris in our home. May God continue to richly bless the Patton family. You are in my prayers.
Thomas Carmody
October 24, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Patton family in the loss of Christopher. I was at Christopher service, and my heart is saddened for your loss of such a fine young man and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so dear. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched in so many ways as I saw how loved Christopher was. He is truly a hero and he will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you from my heart all the best and know he is looking down watching over you and all of us as he did when he was with us.
God Bless You and Keep You.
Tom Carmody PGR
Fire Chief 801 "Chief"
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Greg Moon
October 24, 2007
David, Melanie and the entire Patton family; please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of Christopher. The world is a lesser place without his presence, you can be proud that you raised a true hero in every sense of the word. May God grant you peace and understanding in this difficult time.
Jan and Joe Johnson
October 22, 2007
Please accept our condolences. We are truly sorry for your loss. Our son was also 1st Cav and we lost him in April 2004 on their first deployment.
Al Burns
October 21, 2007
To the family of SPC. Christopher G. Patton. I am sadden by the loss of Christopher. I was at the funeral and burial with the PGR and I will never forget it. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jeffrey Goodiel
October 21, 2007
David and Melanie, it is such an honor to have come to know you through the heroic life of your son Christopher. I so admire your strength and grace and the way you have raised such 3 fine young men. Thank you for allowing me into your home and into your lives and to humbly stand in honor and sincere reverence for the ultimate sacrifice Christopher gave to a grateful nation. He is a true American Hero and has earned the right to stand among this country's greatest heroes at the side of God.
I am here if you ever need me.
JayDub
PGR
Luane Thomson
October 18, 2007
Dear David & Melanie,
As I read Melanie's emails this evening, the process of grief, the people who have touched your lives in these past weeks, I am again in humble awe - as I was at your beloved son's funeral. After 25 years of walking with Jesus and being 48 years old you just don't expect to have your faith and walk challenged at a funeral - but mine certainly was. My faith was challenged, as yours has been, in the fact that I was at the funeral of a lover of God, a young man who had given his life for my freedom. I was challenged in what I hold dear, what I call precious, what I am willing to sacrifice for. And in the midst of it I found there were no clear answers, but there was faith in the goodness of our almighty God. Your lives and the life of your dear Christopher have touched so many of us, in deep profound ways. I pray that God's loving kindness and grace will continue to sustain you and your family.
Chip Oehring
October 18, 2007
Spc. Patton. Thank you for your service and sacrifice to our country and way of life. The freedom that we cherish comes with a price and God has blessed us with heroes who are willing to pay it. My children understand the meaning of freedom because of heroes like you. You will never be forgotten. May God welcome you into that special place He has reserved for those who serve.
To the Patton family, may God bless and comfort you in this time of loss.
Johnny, and Shelley Bradford
October 17, 2007
Melanie,and David we are so sorry for your loss. No words I can say will every be right but know he is in a better place, and is in God's Army now. Thank you Christopher for you service to our Country and it's People. Rest easy Sir. You will not be forgotten. PGR
Carolyn Rush
October 14, 2007
David, Melanie & Family,
Your precious son,Christopher, will always be our hero. Thank you for allowing him to sacrifice his service for us and our United States of America. We will forever be in debt to all of our service people and they will never truly realize how much we appreciate all that they do to preserve and protect all of us.
God bless each and everyone and may you have a peace within you knowing that Christopher was a true Christian and believer. God will always be watching over him and his comrades.
Lovingly and with deep respect,
Carolyn & Guy Rush
Jonathan Awbrey
October 13, 2007
I am very sorry for you loss. I was friends with Chris when we where young. I went to lake lanier islands with you guys once. Life progressed and Chris and I drifted apart and lost touch. He was a genuine stand up guy and the world could use more like him. God bless you all.
October 13, 2007
You are cordially invited to attend the “Celebration of Life” Event as we honor and recognize the lives of Our Community Members and Fallen Soldiers we have lost during 2006-2007.
The program includes, a DVD Pictorial Memorial Tribute, Music, Candle lighting, Balloon Release, and Refreshments. Each family receives a personalized ornament to place on a Christmas tree as a remembrance of their loved one.
Families who have experienced loss find this event a wonderful time of remembrance and healing. We would love your family to be apart of this event as our Community joins together to recognize and honor your loved one during this Holiday Season.
We will be honoring all the Fallen Soldiers that were assigned to Fort Hood Texas. If you are not able to attend and would like to send a favorite photo, please feel free to do so.
RSVP By Website www.col2007.com
Call Celebration of Life Staff at 254-245-7061
Barbara Vandergriff
October 13, 2007
Melanie,David,Josh & Nick,
My heart aches for all of you. I know that this is a very difficult time and your grief can be overwhelming at times. Our precious Jesus is your comforter.
Thank you for raising Chris the way you did it is such a testimony for all to see his life. How convicting it is to know that such a young person had such PASSION in life and for serving his country.
I was so touched and humbled by all of the acts of sensitivity and kindness shown to you all by the ARMY and the PATRIOT RIDERS. It was something I've never experienced before.
Please know that I love you all and I am praying for you.
Love,
Barbara Vandergriff
October 13, 2007
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
Allen & Cindy Vaughn
October 7, 2007
Melanie and David, we are so sorry to hear about Christopher. You are in our prayers.
Cristy Nickel
September 28, 2007
Melanie & David & Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I pray that you will find comfort and peace in God's love.
Alisa
September 26, 2007
Although I never knew Christopher, I thank you for sacrificing your son, husband and father for me, my family and our country. May God continue to guide you through this time of need.
nina anderson- Gwinnett Sheriff's Dept.
September 25, 2007
I am sure you are deeply saddened right now, yet you should be so proud of Chris's character-to place himself in harm's way at such a young age. My children also attend Central Gwinnett, and the loss was felt. God's speed in healing your heart.
Christopher and Tamara Cox
September 24, 2007
Please accept our deepest sympathies for you and your family. We are forever greatful for your sons service.
Jennifer Nabors
September 23, 2007
Dear Melanie, my mom told me today about the loss of your son. She had just spoken to your mom yesterday. I'm so very sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jennifer
Tom Gugliuzza
September 21, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Patton family in the loss of Christopher. I did not know Christopher, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Christopher you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Kat Orr
September 20, 2007
I am deeply, deeply sorry for your loss... there are no words I can say to take away the pain... but know that your family is loved and cared for. WE WILL NEVER FORGET. Ever.
Debbie Showalter
September 19, 2007
Dear Dave and Melanie,
My heart and condolences go out to you and your family. Although you don't know me or my family, we are united in that we also have a son who has served twice in Iraq and is due to return a 3rd time. Moms of military children have a heart tie because we understand each other.We are so proud and thankful for Chris, and I grieve with you in his loss. My prayers and love are with you! Squeeze that quilt! In Jesus' Love and Service, Debbie Showalter, Proud Military Mom of Staff Sgt. Kyle E. Showalter USAF
Michael Gaul
September 17, 2007
I knew Chris from our trips to the State German Convention when he was at Central. He was outstanding even then. I am sad beyond words. Please accept my condolences.
Joshua Long
September 17, 2007
I am forever greatful for soldiers and men like your son that are keeping this Country safe. As a OIF Veteran myself, I know what its like to lose a friend and loved one. My families thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of need. God Bless
John & Nancy Baldwin
September 17, 2007
Dear Dave & Melanie:
Words cannot express our sorrow and dismay at learning this news. We were not even aware that Chris had joined the service.
You and your whole family have been in our thoughts and prayers since Saturday, and will continue to be. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help out.
We are so glad the Post fittingly honored Chris with their front page tribute on Sunday. His devotion to service honored his family, his friends, and his countrymen far above our collective ability to repay.
Dept. A Dingle(GCSD) and Family
September 17, 2007
Our Prayers and Thoughts are with you at this time.
Diane Smiley
September 16, 2007
I am a friend of Anne Faupel and Isaac Thomas, neighbors of Christopher's grandmother. We remembered your family in our prayers at choir rehearsal at our church, Covenant United Methodist, last Wednesday. I have a grandson who is going to Iraq for the 2nd time the end of the month. I can only imagine how you grieve Christopher's loss!
Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Dietz
September 16, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family during this very difficult time.
September 16, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Patton and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
John and Sally Hendry
September 15, 2007
Greater love has no one that this, that he lay down his life for his friends.
Barbara Bennett
September 15, 2007
To the Family of Spec. Chris Patton:
My thoughts and prayers are with you as you work through your grief. My son, Joseph, went to Central and knew Chris and knows Nick. Joseph, who is in the Army and deployed to Afghanistan, sends his thoughts to you.
Chris chose to live with honor in a world that truly needs that honor; he made a difference where others just exist. Now he rests with honor.
God speed Chris and God bless you, his family.
With sympathy,
Barbara Bennett
Amanda Stevenson
September 15, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May God comfort you and your family . Know that Chris is at peace and looking down on you all. May God Bless you all.
Jason Crowder
September 15, 2007
My thoughts and prayers goes out to the family and friends of Spc. Patton. He will be miss. Thank you for what you have done for your country.
Cpl Crowder
U.S. Marine Corps June '02 to June '06.
Brian & Sharon Siegmund
September 14, 2007
We are truly sorry for your loss of Chris and this tragic time of sorrow shared by the family. Finis & Dorothy Dake (grandparents) are members of our church and we are praying for God's comfort for your entire family. We are also a retired military family and we realize that our Nation has lost one of it's finest true "Heroes" and Chris will not be forgotten.
DARLENE & MELVIN NASH
September 14, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Steven Cooley
September 14, 2007
May God bless you and your family in your time of loss.there is no better person than a military person or military family.
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