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Mary Fudala Obituary
This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.
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Tom Fudala
January 9, 2020
I love you so much Mom. I'll always remember how you cared for me when, as a child in our first home across from the ball park, I had poison oak so many times that I was considered allergic to poison oak...you stayed up with me so many nights putting calamine lotion all over my face and arms. And, I'll will never forget you and Daddy's devotion to my music. You and Mrs. Helen Mathews, rotating, would drive to Richmond every Monday evening, all those years, so Patsy and I could take lessons in piano and accordion, respectively, at Don Warner studios. You taught all of us love, devotion, honesty, and all good values. My brother, sister, and I always came first with you. There isn't a day that goes by, Mom, that I don't think of you and pray for you in heaven. Please pray for us here on earth, Mom, so we may see and be with you and Daddy forever in heaven when our time comes.
Reboucas Family
October 9, 2008
We are sorry for the loss
Rick Wilson
October 7, 2008
Rick and I were saddened to hear that Mary had passed away. Celebrate the fact that she lived her life well. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Rick and Laura
Bridgette McCarty
October 7, 2008
She always gave us strength and laughter. She lived her life to the fullest and taught us all about the importance of faith and family. She was endearing and always remembered her family even in busy times. She never forgot to send a card with a prayer to remind us she was praying for us and loving us. She was wise and was blessed with a strong mind and a great sense of humor until the end. She always thought of others before herself and was so giving of her love. She will continue to guide us from the heavens above and may her life be an example to all of us on how to love, laugh and grow in faith. We love you GrandMary! XOXO
Your Granddaughter Bridgette Ann, husband Gavin and great- grandchildren Dylan, Morgan & Alexis McCarty
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Tim and Elaine and children
October 7, 2008
Robin, Roger and Tommy and family,
Your mother was the most kindest and sweetest of ladies.
She always welcomed company with smiles and conversation!
She really adored living up in the "mountains" with Robin. We will truly miss her. But there is so much of her everywhere still to enjoy always, especially through her family. Take care,
Martha Ryczak Whiteley
October 7, 2008
The news of cousin Mary's passing last Friday deeply saddened me. She was a part of my daily life for 18 years until I went off to college. She would "pop in" to my mother's kitchen almost daily to chat even if for only 5 or 10 minutes, and would announce her presence with her signature whistle. She and my mom never rang the doorbell or knocked on the door -- they just walked into each other's homes because they were so incredibly close at heart. My mother often said to me that Mary was "the sister she never had." All of my memories of her are of her either smiling or laughing -- I honestly cannot remember ever seeing her angry or upset. I'm sure Tommy, Roger, and Robin might testify to the contrary!
My mom and cousin Mary celebrated and endured all of their life experiences with the support of each other -- births, graduations, weddings, grandchildren, and deaths. Mom was there for Mary after she lost her husband, Andy, and Mary was the first one there to comfort my mother when she got the news of her father's death on October 2nd (1979). That was a day that I will never forget (I was with my mother when she got the news), and I will always remember, think about, and pray for cousin Mary every October 3rd -- the day she went home to our Father -- also my birthday. Tommy, Roger, Robin, and families -- you have my deepest sympathy and heartfelt prayers.
"Do not fear what may happen tomorrow. The same loving Father who cares for you today will care for you tomorrow and every day. Either he will shield you from suffering, or he will give you unfailing strength to bear it. Be at peace then, and put aside all anxious thoughts and imaginings." -- St. Francis de Sales
Sandy & Robert Clark
October 7, 2008
To Mary's family:
I've been reading through the memories already posted by others and can only wish that I knew Mary longer. What a special lady, friend, mom, grandmom, great grandmom and neighbor! Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family and extended family at this time. Please call on us if you need anything.
Brent, Michelle & Courtney Fudala
October 7, 2008
Life is but a stopping place,
a pause in what's to be,
A resting place along the road,
to sweet eternity.
We all have different journeys,
different paths along the way,
We all were meant to learn some things,
but never meant to stay...
Our destination is a place,
far greater than we know.
For some the journey's quicker,
for some the journey's slow.
And when the journey finally ends,
we'll claim a great reward,
And find an everlasting peace,
together with the Lord.
GrandMary We Will always Love and Cherish you.
Donna Fudala Marquardt & Family
October 6, 2008
Robin, Tommy, Roger & Families
I remember well visiting your parents at Christmas when I was a child. Your mom made the most delicious treats (especially her bourbon balls which we would always sneak). Your mom was also very close to my mom and had just spoken with her over the phone the day before she passed. I know she had a rough time during your dad's illness, but I'm sure she's keeping all those "Fudala" men in line until we are all together again. Take care and let me know if there is anything you need.
Robert Ryczak
October 6, 2008
Mary and Andy were family during my childhood and youth. Next door neighbors, they were always part of our neighborhood parties during the summer months when we gathered to cook out, eat on our picnic tables, listen to Andy play his accordion, dance, and enjoy our families. Mary was part of the neighborhood family who helped raise all of us kids in the neighborhood. She passed down to me many of Tommy and Roger's clothes as they outgrew them, so I always felt pretty grown up. She was a wonderful, loyal, loving cousin to my Mom and a very close friend until she moved away to live with her daughter, Robin. Mom sorely missed Mary's presence next door, knowing she could always count on Mary if she needed anything. Mary and Mom shared many times together serving our local Catholic Church. Mary suffered much through her husband's long battle with his brain tumor, but her strength and courage during those difficult times are examples we could all learn from. Her time of trial and suffering is over. She is at peace in the loving hands of God.
Maureen Ryczak Radford
October 6, 2008
I am so very sorry the loss of your Mom, Robin, Tommy and Roger. She was a very special lady to me. My prayers are with you.
Maryann Ryczak Casterline
October 6, 2008
What a kind, sweet and caring lady! She and her family helped to make my childhood so very special, as she was a great next-door-neighbor. She was my Mother's Best Friend in West Point. We will miss her so.
Jennifer & Mason Seay
October 6, 2008
We will miss Mother Mary. She was such a joy. Our thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends.
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