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Mary Elizabeth "Tooten" Houchens
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This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.
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Karen Houchens
June 2, 2010
I surely will miss you Aunt Tooten. You were such an inspiration to all. When I came into the family you welcomed me with loving open arms. With all being said I know that if you were still on the earthly earth you would have agreed with this passage:
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
August 23, 2009
To Elizabeth's family:
My deep sympathies to you. I had the privilege of getting to know Elizabeth when she cared for Mrs. Ruth Lane in Richmond. I rented the upstairs apartment in Mrs. Lane's home for about 5 years. What an amazing woman Elizabeth was! I am so sorry for your loss and I pray that God will comfort you now.
Sincerely,
Emily Masloff (Richmond, VA)
Theresa (Tee) Mack
August 21, 2009
To the Family - May you find comfort in your loving memories of your loved one. May God Continue to Keep & Bless You.
MARTHELIA HOUCHENS
August 20, 2009
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
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Beverly Houchens
August 20, 2009
Aunt Toonten
I will truly miss you, Thanks for all the good talks we had over the yaers. When ever I were feeling down, you will always talk to me and say the right things to make me feel so much better. You are the best Aunt anyone could ask for.
Janie Ragland
August 20, 2009
Louise, Corey and Thomas,
Elizabeth was one great lady. She will be sorely missed. She was a life saver with nanny, Betty Rupp, and I don't know what we would have done without her. I am so glad she got to visit me in Charlotte. I will keep the family in my prayers and think of you often. Please keep in touch and let me know how everyone is doing. Elizabeth would send me pics of Gabby every year and I would love for that to continue. Louise I don't get to Richmond often but if there is anything I can do, please let me know. I sure did love Elizabeth. Janie Ragland
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