Marilyn E. Siterlet

Marilyn E. Siterlet

Marilyn Siterlet Obituary

Published by Lewis E. Wint and Son Funeral Home - Clarkston on Aug. 16, 2001.
Marilyn E. Siterlet, 44, of Clarkston, Michigan, beloved wife of Al, died on Thursday, August 16, 2001, following a long battle with cancer. Visitation is scheduled for Saturday, August 18, 2001, 7-9 p.m., at Lewis E. Wint and Son Funeral Home, 5929 South Main Street, Clarkston. Further visitation is scheduled for Sunday, August 19, 3-5 p.m. and 7-9 p.m., at the funeral home. Further visitation is scheduled for Monday, August 20, 9-10 a.m., at St. Daniel Catholic Church, Clarkston. A Funeral Mass will be offered on Monday, 10 a.m., at the church. Arrangements entrusted to Lewis E. Wint and Son Funeral Home, Clarkston, Michigan.

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August 24, 2002

Cynde E. posted to the memorial.

September 15, 2001

Ruth Anne Dent posted to the memorial.

September 14, 2001

Brett & Pam Henry posted to the memorial.

Cynde E.

August 24, 2002

Happy Birthday Marilyn. I saw your dad a couple of weeks ago right after he and your mom came back from visiting your grave. I wish that there was a way for you to speak to them to let them know that you and Russell are ok.

Your parents are having a party today to celebrate their 65th Wedding Anniversary. You always livened up the party. I'm sure that everyone will miss you.

Cody & McKenzie look great.

Happy Birthday again.

Ruth Anne Dent

September 15, 2001

My baby sister Marilyn has left a everlasting mark on my life. She has given me the most precious gift one person could give another, she allowed me to care for her and her family unil her last moments. I remember bottle feeding Marilyn with my husband Bobby of 35 years. She was the only person in the family that could say the f---k word and make everyone laugh. She has left an imprint on everyones life and we will remember her forever. I cared for her in her childhood and I was able to care for her in her last days, for this I feel blessed.



Ruth Anne

Brett & Pam Henry

September 14, 2001

Aunt Marilyn meant so much to both of us. Her battle with cancer, although heartwrenching, has inspired us both to live life to the fullest as Marilyn always did. We will miss her amazing, never-ending sense of humor. We take comfort in the knowledge that she is no longer in pain.



Brett and I think about her everyday. As a matter of fact, he just shared yet another funny Marilyn story with me that unfortunately I can't put on this web site since his parents are likely to read it. The great memories that we revisit help us get through this difficult time. We love and miss Aunt Marilyn more than words can say.

beth & david tietmeyer-miracle

September 14, 2001

Marilyn has been such a special part of my life for the last 27 years. The love and laughter that she brought into my life is immeasurable. No one has ever made me laugh so much and I'm sure no one else ever will. I'm thankful for having the opportunity to know her mom, dad, brothers, sisters, husband, children, neices and nephews. She touched all of us in a way we will never be touched again and we will never forget her love.

Nancy Lemanski

September 14, 2001

We will always remember Aunt Marilyn and the special way she touched our lives. Especially this past year, she helped us through a very difficult time. Last year, I was diagnosed with breast cancer at the age of 33. We left the doctor's office and went straight over to Aunt Marilyn's house. She gave me her "Breast Cancer Bible". This is a book by Dr. Susan Love and told me to take it because I would need it. And from then on, she kept close watch on me through all my surgeries and the chemotherapy. Her knowledge and experiences comforted Jeff and I through the ordeal. Her strength and courage were truly an inspiration, especially when I had my "meltdown days." No matter how sick she was or how much pain she was in, you'd never know it. She was more concerned about me than her own health. We will always remember Aunt Marilyn and the special person she was to Jeff and me. She taught me how to fight this awful disease and in her honor, I pledge to pass on to others her story and mine in hopes of helping others through. I will beat this disease because she gave me the strength and courage to fight.

We will always keep the whole family in our hearts.

With love and prayers,

Nancy and Jeff (Mulligan)

Ian Henry

September 12, 2001

It is difficult to put into words what my aunt Marilyn meant to me. In reflection, she was one of the major forces in my development as a person. She personified love, fun and strength. She was always there when needed by those she loved. She lived her life to the fullest. She would take up any battle for those she loved.



When I think of aunt Marilyn and how she lived her life, I think of Dylan Thomas' "Do Not Go Gentle Into That Good Night". He wrote, "Do not go gentle into that good night,

Old age should burn and rave at close of day;

Rage, rage against the dying of the light.



Though wise men at their end know dark is right,

Because their words had forked no lightning they

Do not go gentle into that good night.



Good men, the last wave by, crying how bright

Their frail deeds might have danced in a green bay,

Rage, rage against the dying of the light.



Wild men who caught and sang the sun in flight,

And learn, too late, they grieved it on its way,

Do not go gentle into that good night.



Grave men, near death, who see with blinding sight

Blind eyes could blaze like meteors and be gay,

Rage, rage against the dying of the light.



And you, my father, there on the sad height,

Curse, bless, me now with your fierce tears, I pray.

Do not go gentle into that good night.

Rage, rage against the dying of the light."



It speaks to living life for all it's worth and leaving your mark. Whether it is sharing your love with friends and family, experiencing all our world has to offer or standing up for what is right. This is the life aunt Marilyn lived. Her life should serve as an inspiration to us all.

AL Siterlet

September 8, 2001

Dear Marilyn/Mom,

We will always think of you-

We Love you Mom-

We miss you Mom-

We need you Mom-

Please be with us stay by our side as we continue to heal and grow-

Mom/Marilyn you were the best-



We Love You------------------------



Your Husband Al, Your Son Cody, &

Your beautiful daughter McKenzie







We Love You----------------------

Lois & Dave Henry

September 4, 2001

We were lucky to be Marilyn's sister and brother-in-law and to be able to watch her grow from a small child into a wonderful wife, mother and, most of all, caring adult. She was a magnet, a people magnet. No matter where she went, she drew others to her. She had a genuine smile, infectious laugh and always treated those she met as they would want to be treated, even while she was the one who needed the most help. She fought hard for what she knew to be right. Her most difficult fight took seven years, as she knew her going wasn't right, especially for her husband and two children. She did everything in her power to bring as much enjoyment into your lives while she could. While we are all saddened by her leaving us, we cannot help but smile when we think of her and her passion for the good times in life. Remember her for that, and hopefully find comfort in also remembering that God doesn't count years, but the intensity and love of life. Marilyn was blessed with an abundance of both.



Lois & Dave Henry

03 September, 2001

Ken Caeti

August 23, 2001

To Al & Marilyn's sister Cara:

I am a friend of a friend of Cara's (Sue B.) and was saddened to hear of Marilyn's passing. Although I did not specifically know Marilyn, I too know of losing a spouse after a long illness, at a young age having lost my Lori 19 months ago (she was 41). My sincere condolences go out to you and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I am involved in a grief support group for those who've lost spouses and they have kids programs- please let know, when the time is right, if this would be helpful.

May God bring you comfort and peace in this terrible time of such loss.

Ken Caeti

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Lisa Sawyer

August 23, 2001

Dear Al and kids, I am so sorry for your loss. She was a great mom, wife and friend. She loved life and put up a hard fight for a long time. I know we all will miss her, but she is in a greater place now and the pain is gone. She will always be in my heart and you and the kids will always be in my prayers. If there is anything that we can do to help, please call.



All our love,

The Sawyer Family (John, Lisa, Jessica and Jamie)

Kimberly Elsey

August 20, 2001

Growing up with Marilyn and sharing youth experiences was great fun. She was outgoing & funny, always positive.I have the fondest of memories. My prayers to all that love her.

Cynthia Elsey

August 19, 2001

Just like the other unforgetable, unique "Marilyn", her candle burned out long before her legend ever will---and long before we wanted to let her go.

It's so hard to believe that someone so full of life and fun is gone. Marilyn fought so hard for so long to live. She didn't want to leave you and she stayed with you as long as humanly possible.

I'm sure that you now have your own special angel watching over you.

Teri Pessel

August 19, 2001

Al & Family I hope that you find this as comforting as we have in the past.

Safely Home

I am now at home in heaven;

All's so happy, all so bright!

There is perfect joy and beauty

In this everlasting light.



All the pain and grief are over,

Every restless tossing past;

I am now at peace forever,

Safely home in heaven at last.



Did you wonder I so calmly

Trod the Valley of the Shade?

Oh! but Jesus' love illuminated

Every dark and fearful glade.



And He came Himself to meet me

In that way so hard to tread;

And with Jesus' arm to lean on,

Could I have one doubt or dread?



Then you must not grieve so sorely,

For I love you dearly still;

Try to look beyond earth's shadows,

Pray to trust our Father's will.



There is work still waiting for you,

So you must not idle stand;

Do your work while life remaineth--

You shall rest in Jesus' land.



When that work is all completed

He will gently call you home;

Oh, the rapture of the meeting!

Oh, the joy to see you come!



I will always treasure the wonderful and fun memories of Marilyn and you and yours will always be in my prayers.

Love Teri Pessel

Rachel Freed

August 19, 2001

Al and family we were all so sorry to hear about the passing of Marylin. She was not only a neighbor but a good friend. And was always kind to everyone. She battled with the cancer for a long time and now she can be in peace yet always be with you still. She and your family will always be in our thoughts and prayers. And may she forever be your angel.*

Mark and Jane Griffin

August 19, 2001

Our hearts go out to you and your family at this very difficult time. We knew Marilyn through our neighbors, Lois and Dave, but have had her in our hearts and prayers throughout her struggle, and will continue to do so.



Mark and Jane Griffin

Nancy Hughson

August 19, 2001

Al & Family, I am greatly saddened today to read of Marilyns passing. I worked with Marilyn @ Leaseway some time ago & will never forget her smiling face & exuberant spirit. She is definately one of a kind & one of my favorite unforgetable friends. Blessings to you & your family & blessings to Marilyn for spending time with us all.

Sandra Kay Madeja

August 19, 2001

My prayers are with you and your family. I am a friend of Cara's. I am a massage therapist and I am offering to give you some time on my table to help tranquil your body, mind, and Spirit. My number is 248-333-7009. Please call me and we will arrange a time for you. Be a peace. Sandy Kay

Dave & Sue Schaner

August 18, 2001

Al, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We could tell by the number of friends you and Marilyn had giving support that you both are very special people.

Love, Sue & Dave

Jill Miracle-polenz

August 17, 2001

Marilyn made me feel important and included me in so much for just being her friends kid sister. She looked out for me when my sister Beth went off to college and still included me in so many ways. My heart goes out to all of her family and to those she loved.





Jill Polenz (Miracle)

Rean Turner III

August 17, 2001

Al . I`m very sorry to here about Marilyn. I hope you and your children and the rest of your family ,and her family fare well. I wish I or my family could do something to help you through this time. If there is, I hope you call us. We would be happy to help in any way we can with anything.Please feel free to call. Your old heating and cooling man, and friend Rean

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