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Mary Lausten Obituary

Mary R. Lausten A loving wife, caring mother, and a thoughtful friend. Our dear, sweet Mary entered into heaven peacefully on October 14, 2010 in Lakeport, California. Born July 4, 1939 in Mangum, Oklahoma to Joseph and Ola Burden, she was the youngest sister of eight siblings. Mary worked in banking locally for over 30 years. She made many, many dear friends during her years in banking and will always be remembered for her bright smile and infectious personality. She was a member of the Beta Sigma Phi and the Business and Professional Woman's Association. She enjoyed shopping, camping, playing bunkos and especially bowling. Mary was a very social person and loved gathering with family and friends. There was always a place for everyone in Mary's heart as well as in her home. She cared deeply for many. She will be dearly missed by her loving husband of 32 years Pete Lausten of Lakeport, CA,; sons Phillip Colwell of Sacramento, CA and Douglas Colwell of Tacoma, WA ; daughters Janet Colwell-Nolan and her husband Mark Nolan of Penryn, CA and Pamela Lausten- Kane and her husband Dan Kane of Lakeport, CA. She is also survived by her sister, Pauline Mitchell of Houston, TX; Brothers Dale Burden of Muleshoe, TX and BJ Burden of Cooper, TX; eight grandchildren; four great grandchildren; and many friends. Donations in honor of Mary may be made to the Lakeport Volunteer Firefighters Association, 445 N Main St., Lakeport, CA 95453. A graveside service will be held at 10:00 a.m. on Wednesday, October 20th at the Maxwell Cemetery, Maxwell, CA. A Celebration of Life will be planned for a later date. www.mcnarymoorefuneralservice.com Send Condolences www.appealdemocrat.com

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Published by Appeal Democrat on Oct. 16, 2010.

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Dixie S

October 30, 2010

My mom and grandmother had a special place in their hearts for Mary and her entire family. She was a one of a kind person with an infectious, ready smile that lit up the room around her. RIP. My thoughts and well wishes to her entire family.

Carrie Lauenroth

October 23, 2010

Pete, Pam & Family
We were so sorry to hear about Mary. She was such a sweet and wonderful person. Softball just won't be the same. Cherish your memories everyday.

October 22, 2010

Pete & Family,
It was my pleasure to have worked with Mary @ Lake Community Bank for many years
She was the image of "Live,Laugh,& Love"
My Love & Prayer are with you.
Louisa Wynacht Lakeport

Kathy Irwin

October 21, 2010

Pete and family...I am really saddened by Mary's passing..I will miss her infectious smile. She was quite a lady and a wonderful neighbor...

Jo Ann Brixie

October 20, 2010

Pam, I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Karen Vessey

October 20, 2010

One more White Russian in honor of Miss Mary the bowling Queen! She always made my day!

October 20, 2010

Mary will be missed by so many. She was one of the most funny, energetic, gracious, bawdy LADIES I've had the pleasure to meet. I was lucky to meet Mary while working a the bowling lanes. She could make any me LAUGH no matter what was going on, she had great sense of humor and shared with everyone. If I needed someone to confide in she was there to lend an ear and support with her wisdom. I will miss her. I was lucky to know her!

Jamie Mott

October 19, 2010

Mary's spunk could always bring a smile to everyone's face around her. I will always cherish my memories that you brought to my life. Mary you will always be missed and never forgotten. May you be at peace and a welcome rest after a long and gracious life journey.

Marcia Wells

October 19, 2010

Mary was truly one of a kind, and I will miss her deeply. In the near 20 years I have known Mary I never heard her speak unkindly about anyone. She was contagious with her laughter and being silly, you could never have a bad day with Mary!! My thoughts are with you all.

Erin Bitle

October 19, 2010

Thinking back on all the wonderfull memories the Lausten family has brought to my life and watching them threw the years bring happiness to others.. I am so sorry for your loss. Mary was a wonderfull woman and will be missed very much. I will miss her and her beautiful smile... Love to the family xoxo Love, Erin and family

Evie Sabini

October 19, 2010

Mary you will be greatly missed, I will miss you always being out at our softball games and being my other mom. Now you will be an angel above us watching us play ball. We Love you and you will always be remembered.. Love to the family.. Love always Evie, Ed and Zoey

Kim Sweeney

October 19, 2010

Mary will be deeply missed by all. She always brought a smile to mine and Ryans face. Im am so sorry for your lose, words cannot explain. We all have an angel looking down on us now.

Ron & Monica Azevedo

October 16, 2010

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

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