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Laura Wallace
January 10, 2021
Arthur said something unforgettable to me that I've never forgotten. After 9/11, I was in his apartment wringing my hands, terrified over this change to our world. Arthur said, "Yes, yes, I know what you mean. I agree that Western civilization is in it decline, but you see, that's what civilizations do--they rise and then they fall. But every generation finds a way to assimilate the horrors with which it is presented, and there always, always will be human happiness."
I'll miss him always.
Amanda Cottrell
January 17, 2010
Arthur was truly a gentleman and a scholar. I will miss hearing the cadence of his voice and the candor of his commentaries.
Willa Lawall
January 17, 2010
When our children were 6 and 7, they began regular attendance of the Charlottesville Society of AIA. It was a time of the Stockers' major activity in the Society. Their interest in Julia and Mark Lawall remained lively, and even in more recent years, when I encountered Arthur and gave him an update on Mark's career in Greek archaeology, he took great pleasure in the part that he and Marion had had in inspiring a future scholar.
Laura Wallace
January 16, 2010
Arthur Stocker's kindness, decency, and bone-deep courtesies were not quaint, but powerful. He found frequent reason to quote Plutarch: "Be not angry with the world, for it is neither your enemy nor your friend. Make your peace with the small part of the world you are in, and you will be happy." Wise counselor, wonderful conversationalist, loyal visitor and precious friend--he will be acutely missed.
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Stanley & Sheila Hazen
January 16, 2010
Our profound sorrow at losing Arthur. He was a loyal supporter of Williams here in Charlottesville.
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