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Robert Coulson
Robert Coulson, an international leader in the field of arbitration and dispute resolution, died on September 9, 2017, in Stamford Hospital, Connecticut, following a stroke. He was 93 and lived in Riverside for 40 years. He was president and CEO of the American Arbitration Association for two decades, and a tireless advocate for more efficient and equitable alternatives to litigation.
"Almost any human activity is more profitable than worrying a dreary lawsuit through the courts," he wrote in How to Stay Out of Court in 1968. "More often than not, some better method for resolution can be found."
He was born in New Rochelle, New York, to Abby Stewart Coulson and Robert Earl Coulson. He graduated from Phillips Academy, Andover, in 1943, Yale University 1950, and Harvard Law School 1953. He served in the U.S. Army during World War II in the Harbor Craft Company in England.
After law school, he practiced law in Boston and New York before joining the American Arbitration Association. At the AAA, he helped to expand the use of ADR in America and promoted arbitration through the International Council on Commercial Arbitration.
He was a lifelong sailor who started racing a Brutal Beast in Marblehead at age seven and owned many sailboats, from small boats to frostbite dinghies to a 40-foot cutter, the Finn MacCumhaill. He won the National Junior Sailing Championship Sears Trophy twice. At Yale his team won the national intercollegiate championship for a record three years. He sailed the Finn for 20 years, winning trophies on New York Yacht Club cruises, the Southern Ocean Racing Circuit, the St. Pete to Havana Race in 1950, and many other races. In Riverside he continued to win prizes with his 30-foot sailboat, Finn Ratoon, most recently last summer. He was a member of the New York Yacht Club and Riverside Yacht Club.
After retirement, he served as an arbitrator on commercial and labor disputes. He wrote several novels based on his offshore racing experiences and a memoir entitled A Cheerful Skeptic, Sailing Through Life. He enjoyed travel, painting, walking his dogs, some whom he took on local races, and volunteering in Greenwich, where he served on the Planning and Zoning Board of Appeals.
He is survived by Cynthia Coulson, his wife of 57 years; their sons Crocker, Cromwell, and Christopher Coulson; his daughter from his first marriage, Deirdre Macnab, and his brother Richard Coulson, as well as ten grandchildren: Saskia, Calder, Casimir, Capability, Callum, Maud, Calypso, and Neve Coulson, and Ian and Graham Macnab. He was predeceased by his son, Cotton Coulson.

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Published by Greenwich Time on Sep. 10, 2017.

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Dorothea Penizek

September 4, 2021

I will never forget Bobby.

Peggy Hersam

September 30, 2017

The Wilson family sends our condolences. Bob was a dear friend and fellow sailor of our father, Frederick (Rick) Wilson during college and beyond. He predeceased Bob by two months. A great generation of sailors and gentlemen

Dorothea Penizek

September 12, 2017

I send my heartfelt condolences to Cynthia and the rest of Bobby's family.
Oddly enough, even though I live in Austria,I thought of him frequently recently.
I enjoyed racing with his crew while I worked in NYC and have many fond memories.
Bobby was a wonderfully intelligent, humorous and optimistic person.

September 11, 2017

Barry and i are sad to hear of the passing of such a truly remarkable man and sailor our prays are with all his family
Susie Parkin, Riverside Connecticut

John Lombard

September 11, 2017

Dear Cromwell, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. I am glad that I had the opportunity to meet your father. He was a gentleman, a fine sailor, and best of all he leaves the legacy of a such a wonderful, creative family. All my best, John Lombard

Kimberly Crossman

September 11, 2017

Rick and I are so sorry to hear of Bob's passing. We enjoyed so many races against him, laughs, stories he told and his encouragement. Our prayers are with you.

George Friedman

September 10, 2017

I was saddened to learn of Bob Coulson's passing. We were colleagues at the American Arbitration Association for many years. He was my boss, mentor, and friend,and I shall miss him. His type don't come along that often.

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