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Jennifer Ann Vaughn Bates Jennifer Ann "Jenny" Vaughn Bates, 38, of Manassas died Saturday, September 18, 2010.
Jenny was a 1990 graduate of Potomac High School and received her bachelor's degree from George Mason University. She was a community services therapist and worked as an employment specialist for Prince William County Support Services. Jenny was active in the Virginia Rehabilitation Counselor's Association, supported Mental Health Awareness Services activities, and served on the Internal Diversity Committee of PWCSS. She was devoted to raising funds locally for Mothers Against Drunk Drivers.
At the center of Jenny's life were her two sons, Damen and Robbie. They were her heart and soul, and her goal in life was to enrich their world.
Survivors include her two children, Damen O'Neil Vaughn and Robert Wesley Bates, III; her mother, Doreen K. Vaughn and her husband, Gary of Spotsylvania County; her father, Anthony J. Futyma and his wife, Phyllis of Woodbridge; her brother, Jeremy R. Vaughn and his wife, Adrienne of Fredericksburg; and her step-sister and step-brother, Jennifer and David Newman of Woodbridge.
A funeral will be held at noon on Friday, September 24, 2010, at Covenant Funeral Service, Fredericks-burg Chapel with the Rev. Allen M. Fisher, Jr. officiating. A reception will follow at the Presbyterian Church of Fredericksburg. Interment will be private.
The family will receive friends from 6 to 8 p.m. on Thursday, September 23 at the funeral home.
Memorials may be made to the Jenny Vaughn Bates Memorial Trust fund for her sons at any local Cardinal Bank. An online guest book is available at covenantfuneralservice.com.
This obituary was originally published in the News & Messenger (Woodbridge, VA).
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September 17, 2020
Not an anniversary I look forward to any year and now it’s been 10...
We love you JVB and thank you for my strength lately as it’s been needed
September 17, 2019
Not a day goes by that I dont think of you in some way...
You are an amazing soul
Diana Meinecke
May 14, 2011
Jenny, I'm at a loss for words. I ran into a mutual friend of ours today, almost 8 months since you left us. I didn't know, I am so saddened by the news. We met 11 years ago at Bally's....we were workout buddies for a long time. We lost touch over the years, but I think of you often. I will pray for you, your children and your family. I will never forget you. God Bless.
deloris hamn
September 29, 2010
you will be missed everyday
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Duane Brawner (Potomac HS 85)
September 25, 2010
I am very sorry for your loss! Know that you in your family are in my prayers!
Monique Tribolet
September 24, 2010
It was such a pleasure knowing Jenny. She was such a great lady and was always there for others. She will truly be missed.
Veronica van Harn
September 24, 2010
I enjoyed being on the board of the Virginia Rehabilitation Counseling Association with you Jenny. You will be missed by me and many people associated with the board and the community at large. Sincerely, Veronica van Harn
Mrs Thomas
September 24, 2010
rest in peace .... You were chosen to go home too soon for our liking , however God has a plan ...
Kim Butts
September 23, 2010
Jenny,
It was a pleasure to get to know you back at Virginia Tech through your college roommates and continue our friendship. You were an absolute blast to be around and your smile was delightful and addictive. We always had fun and your laughter filled the room.
You were a great mom and raised your kids so well. Your friends and family know how important that was to you and will continue this for you.
You will be truly missed!
Mrs. N. Hysten and Family
September 23, 2010
To the family of Jennifer Bates: I pray that God will give you the strength that you need to get through this difficult time. Love and Blessings,
Guadalupe Faz
September 23, 2010
Jenny, all the Angels are Happy to have you, God greeted you with open Arms! We will never forget you, you were an Angel her on earth..
g faz
September 23, 2010
Jenny we will miss you it was nice having a friend like you and our kids playing together. I will always remember when my son got hurt you were the first one there to fix him right up. Thanks for being a great neighbor to me and the kids we love and miss you.. Love Tabitha,Whitney,Jasmine,Dimitri,and Marquis
Jennifer Van Fleet-Backus
September 23, 2010
Jenny, I am blessed that we were friends. You had the best outlook in life and that smile...WOW! We all couldn't help but to smile when you did and laugh when you laughed as they were both awesome. You will be missed dearly as you already are missed. Love you and I will see you when the Lord calls my name. ?
Shantel Ball
September 23, 2010
Jenny-
Girl you are missed and will be missed. I can't tell you the feeling I had today walkig down to your office but your strength came over me to do it, so thanks. I miss you, you smile, our chats, and of course your wonderful comments! You will not be forgotten.
Anne Washington
September 23, 2010
Jenny,
Your infectious smile, laugh, and genuine friendship will be the strength to keep your memory alive. The love and compassion that you shared will continue in the purest form of love,your boys, Damen and Lil Robbie.
We love you and may you be at peace now!
Kellie Mclaughlin
September 23, 2010
Jenny, baby girl you were taken from us to soon. I will miss you laugh & our talk's about "our" back in the day crazy stuff we pulled. I've been blessed to have known a wonderful friend as well a mother. U are now with our buddy Otis laughing & having a great time talking about ALL of the great time's the Potomac family bunch shared. We ALL Love & will forever miss you. Kellie Mclaughlin
LaTanya Montes
September 23, 2010
Jenny, I will miss our daily talks...we really became close and I appreciate your friendship. You had a positive impact on everyone's lives that you touched. Basketball will not be the same without you. You were an awesome mother and a great friend. I love you and miss you greatly. LaTanya J. Montes
IRENE MACK
September 23, 2010
RIP JENNY,I DIDN'T NO YOU,BUT YOU WILL BE MISSED,
September 23, 2010
Jenny I will miss our talks, our laughs and knowing that your just a phone call away. You are a wonderful woman and I will miss you greatly.
See you in heaven,
Dyanna Miller
Julie Carter
September 23, 2010
Rest in Peace Jenny.
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