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Buddy Hughie Obituary
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DeDe
February 20, 2025
I´m not an acquaintance, but through reading the book The Outpost, I got to know what a wonderful, selfless, kind person and soldier Buddy Hughie was. My condolences, and I know his purest soul is watching over his loved ones. Rest easy, Buddy Hughie.
Linda Dickson
March 4, 2023
Condolences
Hughleen Thorsen - Sgt. Buddy Hughie's Adopt a Soldier in Prayer
September 1, 2021
On this day and always, we honor Sgt. Buddy J. Hughie and his Gold Star Family for the sacrifices that they made in the war in Afghanistan that came to its conclusion one minute before midnight for Tuesday, 31 August 2021 evacuation date. Sgt. Buddie Hughie was "One of Ours." He was from the Great State of Oklahoma, an Oklahoma National Guardsman, an American soldier and medic ... One of Us ... One of Ours as the Nebraska author Willa Cather wrote about in her 1922 Pulitzer Prize winning novel on WWI. He risked his life and gave his life for others just as Jesus spoke about in the Gospel of John: "There is no greater love than this: to lay down one's life for one's friends." Sgt. Hughie is the son of valor and duty, bravery and heroism in his life and in his death. His service in Afghanistan mattered; his life mattered; he made a difference in the world that he was part of. May eternal rest grant unto him, Oh Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him; and may the God of all consolation shine his eternal light on his family and friends that mourn and remember him this day and always.
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Hughie Thorsen
October 12, 2020
Today, Monday, October 12, 2020, Sgt. Buddy J. Hughie has been inducted into the perpetual enrollment memorial at the Shrine of Divine Mercy at Stockbridge, Mass. in honor of Veteran's Day this coming November. Every day Masses and prayers will be said for Sgt. Hughie and for other members at the shrine. I enrolled Sgt. Hughie along with a friend of mine, Kenneth Michael Otte, who was killed in Vietnam on 16 January1967. May they both rest in peace today and always.
Blessings,
Hughie Thorsen
Omaha, NE
For information and photos of the shrine go to:
www.shrineofdivinemercy.org/welcome
Josie Brennan
May 25, 2020
I honor Buddy and his family yearly since he fell in Afghanistan. We trained together at Combat Medic school in 03-04. I wear his name in a bracelet to remind me of courage and unwavering love for others. May God Bless his family forever.
Tom Arnold
February 20, 2018
My name is Tom Arnold. I am an actor and comedian. I was in Afghanistan with Dax Shepard in 2007. We left the usual USO tour because we wanted to meet service men and women who didn't get to the bases for shows. We knew it was a dangerous area and the Taliban attacked and took the life of a young man. They were still shelling when they brought him back but everyone stopped and we were so honored to be a part of his hero's service. We took a few minutes then the wounded arrived and it was my job to try to do whatever I could to distract them while the medics worked. It was solum and intense and there was so much respect for Buddy and his comrades. A helicopter was able to land a couple hours later and we jumped on and ended up at Bagram. Because the family hadn't been notified and because of the location and circumstances of that firefight I couldn't get Buddy's name but I've thought about him at least once a week since. My friend Jake Tapper of CNN tweets pictures of fallen heros and I always take time to read their stories but there was something about Buddy's face that got to me last night. I looked at the dates, called Dax, checked the records and realized Buddy was our boy. He even had a Chicago Cubs hat on and I thought how our happy he'd be our Cubbies won the World Series. I'm grateful I got to go there and see Buddy and honor him. My thoughts and prayers are now and always have been for his friends and family. I will never forget Buddy Hughie.
February 16, 2017
Masses in honor of Sgt. Buddy J. Hughie will be said on Sunday, February 19, 2017, at 11:00 a.m. at Holy Cross Catholic Church in Omaha, NE and at St. Cecilia Cathedral also in Omaha on Monday, February 27, 2017 at 7:00 a.m. May he rest in peace for all of eternity, and with prayers for Sgt. Hughie, his family and friends.
HT Omaha, NE
Logan Duncan
May 30, 2016
Always thinking about you. Never forgotten.
Michael Callegan
October 23, 2014
Not such a happy birthday for us Buddy. But that's just me being selfish. I am so glad we got to know each other. I know you are very proud of the little man Cooper is growing into.
Until we meet again,
Michael W. Callegan
Father-in-law
Bonnie Callegan
May 26, 2014
I took Cooper by the cemetery this weekend. He asked about all the flags and then he went around reading all the headstones that had flags. He's such a smart boy! We love you and miss you and on this Memorial Day give thanks that you gave your life for our country.
Love, Mom-in-law , Bonnie
Deloris Hughie
February 19, 2014
One more year Buddy, wish you were here, one wonderful thing is we have the most wonderful memories and that is what we think about, they will keep you near and dear to all of your family and friends. You were one busy boy didn't want to miss anything. Always ready to go on to the next adventure. I miss you still, Lots of Love. Mema and your family
Rebecca Lundin
February 18, 2014
Tomorrow marks 7 years Buddy. 7 years without my best friend. Every year I tell myself it'll be better next year....but it's not. I miss you, Buddy...we all do.
Deloris Hughie
October 23, 2013
Today is your birthday and I'm terribly sad and miss you so much but I know I will see you again and we will celebrate. I put you a balloon on your stone today and sat there and visited with you and papa Kenneth by myself. This day has been hard for me. I love you. Mema
Nick Moore
October 22, 2013
Man Doc.. it's been forever... Gotta say man wish you were here still.. But Im glad your watching over us.. Otherwise I might be up there with ya now... Glad you made that rocket a dud the other night....
FOB Hughie dedication
David Brocious
October 16, 2013
I served with “Doc” as an ETT and am very grateful for the protection he gave us all while there including giving his life. "Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one's life for his friends."
Deloris Hughie
February 23, 2013
Six years, we still miss you, maybe more than ever. The daze I have been in has finally lifted and reality has set in. I miss your voice and your smile well I just miss you. The place in my heart for you is still as big as ever, but will see you someday and we will have a great time. Your little boy Cooper is the image of you, personality and smile. We love him so much, you would be so proud of him. We were blessed to have you and have many wonderful memories.
Love you, Mema Hughie
john linares
January 14, 2013
I spent 2 years working at FOB Hughie in Afghanistan. I am honored to have work at a base named after Doc
Chris Bellew
August 8, 2012
God I miss you man. 5 years later and it's still hard for me. While we where over there you helped me you kept me sane in a very insane place. I wish you was here now to help me again I could sure use your insight, but then again I already know what you would say "Don't worry Bellew it'll get better." And for the most part you was always right.. Things sure aren't the same without you around. God Blessed me with a wonder friend. I will see you again
Chris Bellew
August 8, 2012
God I miss you man. 5 years later and it's still hard for me. While we where over there you helped me you kept me sane in a very insane place. I wish you was here now to help me again I could sure use your insight, but then again I already know what you would say "Don't worry Bellew it'll get better." And for the most part you was right.. Things sure aren't the same without you around. God Blessed me with a wonder friend. I will see you again
Bonnie Callegan
February 25, 2012
After 5 years the pain is sill so fresh. We see so much of you in Cooper; He has your smile. He knows his Daddy Buddy and all that you stood for. You will always be in his life. We know that you watch over us and we will meet again one day in Heaven. Until then....You will never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
February 21, 2012
February 19, 2012
To the family and friends of Sgt. Buddy Hughie:
Always remembering Buddy. "Some gave all."
January 10, 2012
MAY YOU REST IN PEACE BUDDY.MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.YOU ARE TRULY MISSED BY SO MANY.THE SOLIDERS OF THE 678TH ENGINEER DET TRULY HAVE LOST A GOOD FRIEND.
Rebecca Lundin
November 18, 2011
My dear best friend, I miss you more and more with each day that passes. Everything I do for our veterans is in honor of you and I hope that I make you proud. You are so greatly missed by so many Buddy and I only wish for one more day. Thank you for your sacrifice, for watching over all of us, and for paying the price of our freedom. I love you and miss you so much more. Love always ... Becky Ann
October 23, 2011
Happy 30th Birthday Buddy.
Love & Miss You.
Mom-in-Law, Bonnie
Sgt. David Carter
June 10, 2011
watch over us Doc, miss u bro
Shannon Williams-Austill
May 30, 2011
The flag is flying in the sky
A daily reminder of who and why
We sit here remembering them today
These heroes that now lie in their grave.
While here on earth, the bravest ones
A soldier, a mother, a daughter, a son
The father's who went far off to war
To ensure our safety and so much more
To keep our children happy and free,
Someone must do this job, you see
So, today remember the soldiers who served,
Because this is one thing they truly deserve.
The loved one's that they have left behind,
The Gold Star mothers, like your and mine
We honor them proudly, every day
Our American Soldier...Proud and Brave
By Shannon Williams-Austill
I want to thank this soldier for their sacrifice.
And, I wish to extend my deepest regards to the loved ones they have left behind. Their service to our nation, has not gone unnoticed. They are our heroes, who paid the ultimate price for us, and that is something that every American needs to be reminded of and remember everyday.
The freedom we all have, we have because of brave young men and women who made a choice to defend and serve.
Today, let me remember your loved one with you.
Deloris Hughie
February 28, 2011
My Dear Buddy, Once again I see where your being remembered and God Bless all of them.It has been four years but only seems like days when you were taken from us but I see you everywhere I go, all the memories will always be with us. Cooper has his own little personality but he is so much like you and we love him so much. It has been one year since your papa died, I miss you both. Love Mema
February 21, 2011
You will not be forgotten. I was stationed with you at camp Alamo. Every year i give you and your family a toast
Carrie Moore
February 21, 2011
Sgt Hughie,
I did not know your personally, but you fought along side my husband, Shaun, and he was very fond of you. He had nothing but wonderful fun stories to share about you.
I pray for you, your family, and my late husband all the time.
Jackie Lowrimore Jr.
February 21, 2011
Buddy was a terrific person, a great friend, soldier, and a wonderful father. I had the privelage of serving with Doc, he was a good man. Buddy paid the ultimate sacrific for his country, Fallen But Never Forgotten!
Nick Moore
February 21, 2011
well another year has come and gone.. and another deployment happening right now.. wish they would have let me go.. they have way to many young bucks and need some more of the seasoned guys like us out there.. but everything happens fr a reason.. miss ya buddy
Nick Moore
February 21, 2011
Another year my friend.. the time flies so fast.. the unit definately isnt the same as it used to be.. seems like everyone has gone their seperate ways.. maybe this deployment will tighten the bonds of brotherhood amongst them again.. take care up there bro..
Peggy Childers
February 19, 2011
To the family and friends of Sgt. Buddy Hughie:
Please accept my remembrance of Buddy on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Bonnie Callegan
February 19, 2011
Four years have passed but your memory lives on. You served and died for your country. You left behind a beautiful wife and awesome son. Cooper will know of your heroism. He will grow up to be proud of his daddy! We miss you Buddy and thank you for all you did. Love you. Mother in "love", Bonnie
shane nelson
June 22, 2010
thank you Buddy,for your ultimate sacrifice for our country and our allies,your bravery will be remembered forever,i will think of you always when i see our country flag,and i salute you my friend,god speed-until we meet again..
Michael Callegan
May 31, 2010
Keeping the memory of our American Hero alive. SGT BUDDY JAMES HUGHIE although time passes the facts of your sacrifice will never change. Loved and missed by all.
Nickelas Talaese
May 31, 2010
Buddy,
I guess it has been a short three years, hasn't it? I barely remember the times that have passed, so much has happened. I just wanted you to know that I've not forgotten you, old friend. You were the older brother I never had, you were the person I wanted to grow up to be like. I miss you, brother, I truly do. I know you were doing what you believed was right and in the end gave your life for others. I would have never expected anything else from a man I love and respect as much as you. Thank you, Buddy. I wish I had had the nerve to tell you that I loved you like a brother, that I wished I had an older brother like you. I miss you, Buddy, and I always will.
May 31, 2010
On this Memorial Day we are remembering the true reason for the day, to honor those who gave their life for their country. We love you and miss you and honor you for what you have given to us. Until we meet again in Heaven...Bonnie
Deloris Hughie
May 26, 2010
My Dear Buddy, I see people are still remembering you, I'm so happy they are. We are having a memorial for you and Wayne Bollinger and others in our Church this Sunday. I've been looking through your things to take and it is hard to do. You have been gone three years, three months and a week today. Your Papa Kenneth died on March first but you know already, he is with you in heaven. I've been in a daze for three years and now my husband is gone to. I miss you both so much half of my heart is gone. You have given us the best gift in the little image of you, your precious son little Cooper. We love you and miss you and we are so proud of you.
See you soon, Mema
Michael Iezzi
March 1, 2010
Buddy,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Nick Moore
February 24, 2010
Hey buddy, 3 years since that night in J-bad when we all thought they were coming up with some more stupid rules for us to follow when they told us you had been hit.. hard to believe.. im coming back to poteau for good in a few days.. george is coming all the way up from oklahoma to help me move back down.. think i might just bring you a cold one (havent heard of anyone bringing you one in a while so im sure you probably could use one..) hope your keeping everything in line up there for us.. talk to ya later bud
Bonnie Callegan
February 20, 2010
Yesterday was a hard day for us. The three year anniversary of your passing. Know that we love you and think of you every day. Whenever I look at Copper I can see you in him. Thank you for such a beautiful grandson and thank you for sacrificing your life for the freedom of our country. You paid the ultimate price.
Love you.
Peggy Childers
February 19, 2010
To the family and friends of Sgt. Buddy Hughie:
Remembering Buddy on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Cheryl howard
November 5, 2009
Buddy this is your Aunt Cheryl, I think of you everyday wish I could have been in your live awhole lot more hope to get to meet your son......I was there 28 yrs ago and you was a beautiful bundle of joy " BUGS " thats what we called you with those big eyes...Im getting to know you more everyday reading all the storys about you I'm so very proud of you...
REST IN PEACE, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN,,,,, LOVE YOU ALWAYS YOUR AUNT CHERYL
Deloris Hughie
October 23, 2009
Today is your birthday, I woke up thinking about you; you would have been 28 years old. You were born a little after 5;00 am. You were a little over 5 pounds of joy. We loved you so much and you brought so much happiness to our lives. It has been two years and eight months since that dreadful day that time stood still for us. We miss you so much. We have many precious memories of you and were so blessed to have you. One of my most precious last memories is of you holding your son Cooper so tenderly with Alexis sitting by you on the couch. We love you and will see you soon. Mema and Papa, (Deloris and Kenneth Hughie
George and Buddy Friday, October 27, 2006, 4:43:34 PM
Nick Moore
June 22, 2009
hey doc.. been a while..me and George were looking at pictures over the weekend at the lake a had a beer for you.. then we almost got into a good old fashioned fight due to alcohol and emotions.. but its all in good fun right.. anyways man we miss having you around.. see ya when we get there
Julie Hicks
June 21, 2009
Happy Father's Day Buddy. Wish you could see what a wonderful, handsome little boy you have. I am so proud of you for everything you accomplished in your life! You were a Godsend to this family and to the soldiers that you helped. We miss you and love you so much.
Proud Mama
Shannon Williams-Austill
May 26, 2009
On this Memorial Day, I've set aside time to reflect on the past and remember that your family is now a Gold Star Family, too. Sgt. Hughie, thank you for you service and duty. Thank you for paying the ultimate sacrifice...to protect our country and our freedom.
Sister of Spc. Jeffrey S. Henthorn (Balad, Iraq Feb. 8, 2005)
God bless this special soldier and his grieving loved ones. Be by their side in their time of need.
[email protected]
Bonnie Callegan
May 25, 2009
On this Memorial Day, let us remember that we are honoring you and others like you that have given their lives for OUR freedom. We miss you Buddy!
Love, Mom-in-law, Bonnie
Duane Baay
March 17, 2009
To you Buddy (Sarge) and to your Family especially your Mom and Dad, I SALUTE you and Thank You for making your ulitmate sacrifice. As a former Lieutenant of Company B in Poteau, I never had to have your courage. I pray that I could have been half the soldier you were. God Bless and keep your family I pray I may shake your hand and give you a hug in Heaven. Our youngest son is in Afganistan and our hearts are with him every day. I hope you had a chance to meet that Big Teaddy Bear.O-Rah.
David Carter
February 28, 2009
Its been alittle over two years now Doc and not a day goes by where u dont seem to cross my mind. We carry on in your honor and hope that we can do you proud. Godspeed Doc
Bonnie Callegan
February 23, 2009
We will always remember you. Your love shines through in little Cooper.
Michael Callegan
February 20, 2009
Two years already?! What if? What if? What if?
Still remembering.
Proud father-in-law and good friend.
Michael Callegan
Peggy Childers
February 19, 2009
To the family of Sgt. Buddy Hughie:
Buddy gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Shena Billingsley
February 19, 2009
Remembering you and what you fought for today and always. We love you.
Safely Home
Michael Iezzi
February 19, 2009
Buddy,
Thinking and praying for you on the 2nd anniversary of your passing into eternal glory. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Kenna Larra
February 13, 2009
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Chamberlin Neff
December 24, 2008
Doc- You have impacted so many lives. Thank you for your ultimate sacrifice. God speed.
Shena Billingsley
November 14, 2008
Guess what Buddy? Cooper will be two on Sunday! He lights up a room with his smile, much like you. He is so silly and smart. He brings us so much joy. We all love you very much.
David Young
July 21, 2008
Well its been a while since the passing of Doc and feel i didnt know him as well as i would of liked. I served as the Admin NCO for his unit in Afghanistan and i feel i got to know him more after his death than i did in his life, and i can see clearly he touched all the soldier's who new him cause a year after his death you can still see the scars as visible in his unit as they were when they told us had happened. I find myself late at night thinking of the things we did as a unit and trying to remember everything only to find that some of the minor details have slipped away. But when i start thinking of Buddie and that day I cant forget a thing. When i am alone in the car or sitting by myself i find myself pondering on that day. I guess where i am going is that i cant imagine what his closest friends go through because i know what i go through and like i said before we werent close at all.
God Bless Buddie and all of his Friends and family.
June 20, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt Hughie!
James Taylor
May 25, 2008
I'm from Texas and didn't know Sgt. Hughie but I hold all the respect and honor for him that he deserves.
Miss you Bro
Nicholas Moore
March 10, 2008
Buddy was a great friend i wish i had got to see him more while we were in afghanistan but not everyone gets placed where they want.. but knowing Doc through Operation Southern Comfort during Katrina and just being around him in B. Co. during peacetime was still great times and nothing but good memories.. He was an outstanding soldier with the urge to save or help whoever he could and numerous people could give testiment to that.. We will miss you Doc.. and we'll see you soon enough!
Michael Callegan
February 19, 2008
I can't believe it's already been a year since Buddy willingly, bravely and galantly rushed to save another man's life. What is it in a man that drives him to aid those in need? How can one man heroically face such danger, while others run from it?
I can still see (in my mind's eye) me and Buddy standing in the back yard... talking. He has his head cocked to one side with that big white smile like he always had.
Although I can not believe this year has gone, it still seems like yesterday Buddy was here feeding infant Cooper and trying to figure out how to nestle him on his shoulder to burp him.
Sgt. Buddy James Hughie was a remarkable US Army medic but he was the World's Best Daddy for the two weeks he was able.
Carter (my other grandson...so young) sees Buddy ever so often. He just laughs and says " Hey Buddy, hey Buddy" Carter's mom says, "You see Uncle Budd?" "He right there" comes the reply as he points to where he sees his Uncle Buddy.
Our American Hero impacted many lives during his time on this earth. Would that we all have such a legacy.
Rest In Peace
Michael iezzi
February 19, 2008
Buddy,
Thinking and praying for you on the 1st anniversary of your passing into eternal glory. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends", John 15:13.
Bonnie Callegan
February 18, 2008
On the eve of the one year anniversary of your passing, it is still hard to believe that you are gone. We miss you terribly and think about you every day. Cooper is such a wonderful little boy. He is always smiling! You would be proud of him just as he will be proud of you, his daddy.
We miss you.
Your mother-in-law & Cooper's Nana.
Michael Mueller
February 11, 2008
God Bless Sgt. Buddy Hughie!
Hughie Thorsen
January 23, 2008
A Mass will be said in honor of Sgt. Buddy Hughie on Tuesday, February 19, 2008 at Saint Cecilia's Cathedral in Omaha, NE at 11:15 A.M. To view the church where this will take place, go to archomaha.com. With prayers and blessings to all of Sgt. Hughie's friends and loved ones in these days ahead.
Josie Brennan
January 22, 2008
Hughie, and I were in 91W(68W now)school, Combat Medic School. I remember his strength, his passion for medicine. He will never be forgotten in my heart. Nor, will his family.
v/r
SSG Josie Brennan
*Serving in Iraq w/101st ABN DIV "Rakkasans"
SGT Chris Henson
January 2, 2008
I knew Buddy through passing once at the alamo. I got there shortly before he and his friends went down range. I remember when he died the saddness that was on everyone's face at the alamo and I wanted to go through legacy and say goodbye to all of my friends I lost on our deployment. I didn't know you well buddy but you are in my prayers. God be with all of you through this time.
Hughie Thorsen
December 31, 2007
A Mass has been scheduled for Sgt. Buddy Hughie for the Christmas Season at Saint Mary Magdalene's Catholic Church, a historic church in downtown Omaha. It was announced in yesterday's church bulletin that it will be held on Saturday, January 5, 2008 at 12:05 p.m. and will be said by a priest who has said Masses previously for Sgt. Hughie. He knows a little bit about Sgt. Hughie's life from reading the articles I gave to him from the website "Faces of the Fallen." At each Mass he has talked about Sgt. Hughie especially how he had given his life for others and he used Sgt. Hughie's life as an example on how we are supposed to be in our lives........what we may be asked or called upon to do in our lives in order to help others. During this Holy Season of Christmas may God continue to bless Sgt. Buddy Hughie and his family and all those who love and miss him so very much.
Melanie Neely
December 22, 2007
My brother was also killed in Afghanistan, the day before they took Sgt. Hughie. I'm so very sorry for the loss of such a fine American Citizen as your son. I have to tell you that I was reading entiries, crying because I feel so sad for your family and I know the pain you're all going through as myself and my family are going through it as well. May god be with you this Christmas.
Melanie Neely
Sister of Army Ranger SPC. Ryan C. Garbs KIA 2-18-07
Rodney Derryberry
December 19, 2007
Buddy, we love you and will never forget you or your family. We been on alot of missions. Brother you are always with us and one of these we will meet again.
royce bilyeu
December 10, 2007
he was great person and was blessed to know him
He loved his baby boy!!
November 6, 2007
The smile that melted hearts
November 6, 2007
Buddy Hughie, My Son, My Hero
Julie Hicks
November 6, 2007
I love you Buddy and miss you more each and every day. I am so proud of the man you became.
Love you Mama
Hughie Thorsen
November 2, 2007
A Mass will be said in honor of Sgt. Buddy Hughie at Saint Cecilia's Cathedral at 7:00 a.m. on Tuesday, November 13 in Omaha, Nebraska for Veterans Day observances. A good friend of mine is the pastor of the church and I made copies of the article from the website Faces of the Fallen so that he would know who he was saying the Mass for. I also entered Sgt. Hughie's name with my family members and friends for the Honor Roll that will be shown on Nebraska Educational TV on Veterans Day. May God continue to bless all of you who miss and mourn their fiend, son, brother, husband and grandchild.
Michael Callegan
October 23, 2007
Today Buddy would have turned 26 years old. Little Cooper is now 11 months old and full of life. He has one tooth and is beginning to walk. Cooper is a jubilant little boy who has his daddy's radiant smile...and it's always on.
We miss our American Hero but we cherrish the memories and of course his legacy will be the fine young man Cooper grows to be.
Proud father-in-law, daddy & Popop.
cheryl cline Howard
October 20, 2007
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
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August 22, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
August 9, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt Hughie and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
July 8, 2007
Please accept the condolences of this military family. We will honor and his sacrifice by remembering him in our prayers of thankfulness for his service, and will keep his loved ones in our prayers that you find peace and comfort in the Lord.
Charlene Phillips
June 26, 2007
God Bless. I lost my brother August 4, 2006, My prayers are with you!
MSG Jack Peddy "Wildcat"
May 26, 2007
Let's see...how does the story go...While serving as a training advisor for the Afghan Army at Camp Alamo a new secfor platoon showed up at the gate. They looked a little rough. Are they any good? Do they know what they're doin'? Very soon those questions were answered and all doubt cast aside. We learned they were fellow Oklahomans and took them in becuase most of our own detatchment is from Oklahoma. I remember the days they left us in small groups to go "down range." I told them see ya later and that I would put my boot where the sun dosn't shine if they let anyone hurt them. They just luaghed as a Soldier should. To the men of Charlie Company my heart goes out to you for the loss of your commrade. My heart goes out to the family and most of all to his son.
Let it be known to all your father was a true warrior and a good man.
God speed.
Kimberly Maryfield
May 25, 2007
I'm so very sorry for your loss. "Doc" was a good friend to my friend Tom Dodson. I was truly saddened to hear of his death. I felt like I knew him as often as Tom and I spoke of him. I had also seen a couple of pictures of him on Tom's website.
I have read many internet articles on what a hero he was and how unselfish and giving he was. Please know that his sacrifices do not go unappriciated and that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
ROBYN Garside
May 13, 2007
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Mary Ghaney
May 9, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Sandy Bonesteel
April 14, 2007
As the mother of a son (my only child) who is enlisted in the Army, I want to send my condolences.
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
April 10, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Hughie family in the loss of Buddy. I did not know Buddy, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Buddy you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Gary B
March 31, 2007
This loss of a life leaves me tearful. The courage young men show in battle and the overwhelming concern for others cannot be taught, cannot be instilled. Rather it is a gift of God. May God Bless you and yours.
Joey Brantley
March 30, 2007
I am proud of all the support that I have seen for buddy and that he will not be forgotten. One will never be forgotten for he has made the greatest of sacrifice and lay down his life for his friends. I love you buddy and will see you soon. Rest in piece my best friend. I will forever support our troops and what you all do everyday.
joey
Kellie (Courville) Matte
March 29, 2007
My heart goes out to your family in your time of sorrow. We'll keep you all in our prayers.
Trudy Lowe
March 28, 2007
My heartfelt sympathies to your family. My heart breaks with each new name added to this list, and I am saddened by your loss. Know that you are surrounded by prayers, grace and the deep gratitude of all who live in freedom. My God hold you in his arms and grant you peace. Please find joy in the memories of your loved one and comfort knowing so many are holding you in their hearts.
Fred
March 14, 2007
It is with deep sadness that I am forced to honor the memory of another fallen Warrior. I ask the family and friends of Sgt. Buddy Hughie to accept the offer of my most sincere and heart felt condolences. I hope that you know that your loss is shared by a grateful America. Most of whom you have not met and in all probability will never meet. Our nation sincerely appreciates the sacrifices of your patriot.
Freedom is not free; it is paid for by our heroes!
I know the pain parents feel when they loose a child. I lost a son 19 years ago. It is a pain that defies description. It is a pain that never goes away. It is a pain that will never end. It is a pain that is all consuming. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
May God Bless and keep you today, tomorrow and forever!
Rest in Peace Brave Warrior; you did your duty with great honor, dedication and in the Highest Tradition of the United States of America.
Semper Fidelis
Jennifer Strock
March 8, 2007
Alexis- You and Cooper will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. My heart hurts for your loss. Please call me if you need anything. I love you very much!
Donna Keyes
March 7, 2007
May your treasured memories of Buddy comfort you during this time.
My prayers are for Buddy and his loved ones.
Cecil & Louise Johnston
March 6, 2007
We appreciate Buddie's sacrifice and pray you will be able to remember him with love. Know we have your family in our prayers.
Father Clark Shackelford
March 6, 2007
Long before entering the ordained ministry of the Episcopal Church, I was a military veteran of the Vietnam era. My heart goes out to those who have lost loved one in the present conflicts overseas.
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