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Donna Funny
September 6, 2025
I am so sorry I am just finding out about this he was on my mind and I looked up to see if he was still around and my heart is breaking I'm Donna from Philadelphia next to his his dad's house in Philadelphia and my heart is really broken I don't know if Ricky and them are still alive but my blessings go out to them they had a wonderful brother
Barbara Jean Tilly Graves
April 18, 2025
I will always remember you, my wonderful Brother in Love!
SFC Sam J. Koutouzakis, U.S. Army (Retired)
June 7, 2021
In July 1976, then CPT Blanding was my Company Commander when I attended Basic Combat Training at Fort Dix, NJ.
I recall vividly, my very first impression of CPT Blanding at our very first company formation. CPT Blanding was tall, very tall and possessed an imposing appearance. CPT Blanding had a habit of wearing his headgear, especially his helmet liner, just above his eyes which added to his daunting look. Since this was the first real Commissioned Officer I had ever had, I recall thinking to myself how professional and eloquent he presented himself. CPT Blanding was known by all the trainees and Cadre as a fair Commander who took care of the soldiers under his command and treated us with the utmost respect.
I distinctly remember a demonstration that CPT Blanding put on for the entire company. The company formed into a giant circle on the company grounds as CPT Blanding began removing his headgear and fatigue top. He went on to perform a martial-arts demonstration that had the jaws of the entire company drop.
We all eventually moved on to our respective assignments and I never heard of him again until today when I decided to Google his unique name and found that my very first Commander had fallen asleep. I feel bad as I retired in 1996, ironically enough from Fort-Dix, NJ and returned to my childhood neighborhood in West Orange, NJ. If I had known that LTC(R) Blanding was so close in distance to me, I would have definitely looked him up. I also noticed that LTC(R) Blanding went on to pursue his military career doing great and wonderous things but that does not surprise me, not in the least.
I want extend my most sincere condolences to the family and relatives of LTC(R) Zenola "Z" Blanding. He was a great man and soldier who cared for and looked out for his soldiers, and I will never forget him. Greek Orthodox Christians believe that once a body goes to sleep here on earth, the soul lives on and goes to heaven and into a place of everlasting life and peace.
May his memory be eternal...
Sue Landin
October 23, 2012
I will forever be endebted to Dr. Blanding for his guidance, tutelage and knowledge. Not only was he a brilliant professor, but he was also significant in my recovery from depression in the mid 90's. Dr. Blanding was significant in my diagnosis and assisted me in seeking treatment at the time. I learned so much from him during my time at Rowan University and am so very sorry to hear of his passing. He had a significant impact on my life.
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Lesley Bettis
April 28, 2012
Sybil and family. I send to you my heart felt condolences. I hope that your memories bring you comfort during this difficult time. May God continue to watch over you and bless you during your time of bereavement. I am thinking of you and your family.
Lesley D. Bettis and Family
Robyn Russell-White
April 27, 2012
God Bless you during this time and may he be a light unto you.
LeBron (Ralph) Williams
April 27, 2012
I'm very sorry to hear of Zenola's passing. I too have fond memories of Zenola, his kindness, his attentiveness, and nurturing spirit. He took time with my nephews and me. He made us feel like our lives mattered and that we had the potential to do great things. Be strong Zeki and Zake. Your father's legacy includes you. Don't let him down.
Robyn Russell-White
April 27, 2012
God Bless my cousins Zeki and Zach through this time. Uncle Zenola was like a father to me and my life was enriched by knowing, loving, and learning from him. I am very sadden but will forever cherish the memories. I would like Zeki and Zach to remember these words; He who has gone, so we but cherish his memory, abides with us, more potent, nay, more present than the living man. Hold tight to memories for comfort. Lean on your friends for strength, and always remember how much you are cared about. As you comprehend this profound loss, let yourself cry knowing each tear is a note of love rising to the heavens.
Like a bird singing in the rain, let grateful memories survive in time of sorrow.
Love you guys with all my heart,
Robyn
Brianne Cuff
April 27, 2012
I was so saddened to learn of Dr. Blanding's passing. I had the opportunity to have him as my professor for Abnormal Psychology in the Spring Semester of 2000 at Rowan University. Thorought the years, we had became very close friends. He was the first person I called when I was offered a position at the Division of Youth & Family Services in 2001 & when I was engaged in 2009. His kind & encouraging words always made me feel at peace. I will never forget his soothing voice & laugh. He ended every conversation with "Bless your heart Brianne". It is now my turn to say "Bless your heart Dr. Blanding". He was the most influential & intelligent person I ever had the priveledge to call a friend. I am honored to have known him & will never forget the life lessions he taught me. His spirit will never be forgotten.
Ayo Ayorinde
April 26, 2012
May Dr. Z. Blanding's soul rest in perfect peace!
All glory to God for your loving steadfastness Sybil. May the Lord's comforting presence remain with you!
Kara Sholas
April 26, 2012
I met Dr. Blanding many years ago when my friendship began with his daughter, Zeki. I knew him to be a patient and loving father. He was dedicated to his work and instilling its value in others. Although he will be missed we are fortunate to have our memories of the lessons he shared as his legacy.
May the Lord keep you in this time of loss.
Kimberly Williams-Donalson
April 26, 2012
So sad to hear of the loss of our beloved Uncle Z. I will always remember his kindness, generosity and warm spirit. To his daughter Zeki, I see so much of him in you. We were blessed to know him for so many years and while we are sad that he is gone, we know that he is at peace and that we will see him again someday. Condolences to the family and you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Kanisha Williams-Jones
April 26, 2012
My heart is heavy, but I will always remember my Uncle Z as one of the most kindhearted, softspoken and thoughtful of men. He was always ready to share an encouraging word and showed a genuine interest in each person he met. My condolences, thoughts and prayers are with the Blanding family as you celebrate a man that touched so many lives in such a wonderfully special way. May Uncle Z be at peace and at rest.
Joseph deLeon McDuffie Jr
April 26, 2012
It was a sad time for me to hear that "Zip" passed away. I have fond memories of his friendship and kindness during our undergraduate years at South Carolina State College in Orangeburg. Rest in Peace pilgrim -- your journey is done.
Alexys McLean
April 25, 2012
Aunt Punkin sorry for your loss Uncle Z will be greatly missed - I will never forget the fun times spent with the two of you and the "sock Puppet" :-) Lovingly submitted
Brian Stokes
April 25, 2012
It was my great honor to know Z. Blanding. He was instrumental in helping me start my college teaching career and always supported me. Z made a great difference in the world - a world which would be a much better place if we had more people like him.
Nancy Pontes
April 25, 2012
So sorry for your loss. Dr. Blanding was one of the most wonderful bosses in the world and I feel blessed to have known him. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
April 25, 2012
When Z came to the Psychology Department at Rowan University, I had the pleasure of working with him for almost ten years. He was a remarkable man and left an everlasting impression on me. His schedule was always full and we would laugh when he would show me his calendar so I could try and find a time to schedule a meeting. He showed kindness and caring at all times - no matter how busy he was, he always had time to talk and help in any way possible. He talked about his daughter and son and was so proud of them. I wish I could think of the right words to express my gratitude for having known him. He loved teaching and will be remembered by many students.
Janice Stokes, Egg Harbor Twp., NJ
cassandra freeman
April 25, 2012
Dearest Sybil,The time I spent with you and Dr. Z will forever be in my heart. to see how even in sickness Dr.Z showed his love,laughter,and wit.I will miss him. I just thank God He allowed our lives to touch and the precious moments we shared will always be remenbered. Your sister in Christ, Cassandra Freeman
Ph.D. Graduation Day!
April 25, 2012
My heart is broken by the passing of my wonderful brother-in law who was the brother that I never had. I shall always treasure our marvelous times together in Georgia, Florida, New Jersey, New York, and of course, South Carolina. Zeno was such a positive influence in the lives of his niece Robin and nephews Rusty and Chris. I am sorry for his early demise, but bellieve that we will all see each other again in Heaven.
toni jerkins & family
April 25, 2012
Sorry for your loss. We will keep you & the family in our prayers
Kymbah Dozier
April 25, 2012
To Sybil and Family,
I send my most sincere condolences for the loss of your loved one. May the Lord's peace comfort you and give you the strength you need to endure.
God Bless
Zenaida Lucas
April 24, 2012
Chelsea and I send you our sincerest sympathies for the loss of your loved one. We will continue to hold you up in prayer.
Love You, Zenaida & Chelsea
April 24, 2012
Chelsea and I send you our sincerest sympathies for the loss of your loved one. We will continue to hold you up in prayer.
Zenaida & Chelsea
KIm Galt
April 24, 2012
Sybil, I am so sorry to hear about "Z"'s passing. Although I only knew him briefly, I feel honored to have known such a man. In the few conversations I was fortunate to have with "Z", his intelligence,class, warmth , and charisma shined through. What possibilities the world would hold if there were more men like your husband. God bless and comfort you in your time of sorrow.
Joyce Myrick Brooks
April 24, 2012
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal--From a headstone in Ireland
My prayers are for God's peace and grace for the Blanding family as you celebrate Zenola's victory through Jesus Christ.
Joyce Myrick Brooks
SCSU Class of 1974
Len Williams
April 24, 2012
Good-bye my dear, dear friend "Z". Although I first knew you as a colleague at Rowan University, we quickly became very close friends. You possessed a very special blend of intelligence, charisma and warmth.
James Brown may have been the "hardest working man in show business", but you were the hardest working man I ever met.....period! I tried many times(with limited success) to get you to slow down, but you had too many causes that were very important to you, and, Z, you were all about giving.
I'll miss you, "Z". Rest in peace.
Denise Faulk
April 24, 2012
Sybil I'm so sorry to here about your loss may GOD be with you at this trying time I will be praying for you @ your family
Terri Harvey-Stephens
April 24, 2012
Sybil sorry for your loss you and your family are in our payers.
Alanna Y. Gibson
April 24, 2012
Dr. Blanding was such an intelligent man, yet so humble. Rowan University was impacted greatly by his knowledge. I am praying for the bereaved family. May God bless you!!
Mahaliah Perkins Sinclair
April 24, 2012
Sorry to learn of Zenola's death. We attended SCSU together and I still can remember his friendly smile. May God bring you peace during your time of bereavement.
Duane Leatherberry
April 24, 2012
Syble
We are so sorry to here about the lost of your husband Dr. Z God Bless You with Love,Peace and understanding
Love The Leatherberry's
April 24, 2012
I don't know and never heard of this man. But, what a life well lived.
Barbara
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