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Shirley Nash Obituary

Shirley Eleanor Nash, 93, died peacefully Thursday, March 11, 2010, at the Garden House in Morro Bay, her hand held, being told she was loved, her favorite Andres Segovia album was playing in the background, and her room was filled with flowers and cards from friends, family and the Marines. She will be deeply missed. Born in Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada in 1916, Shirley, came to Pasadena, Calif., as a child with her parents, Herbert Howgate Nash, an administrator at Cal Tech and Christina Eleanor Nash, a nursing volunteer. Shirley was the first of three children. In high school, she won recognition as a classical ballet dancer performing at the Rose Bowl, El Capitan, the Pantages, the Greek Theater and in movies with stars Margaret O''Sullivan, Fred MacMurry, the Marx Brothers and a flop starring Fibber McGee and Molly. After high school, she enrolled at Pasadena City College. In 1940, yearning to see the world, she quit school, sold her car and bought a steamship ticket to China. As the only American, her fellow passengers were Japanese diplomats being ordered home and German army officers recalled to Berlin. Shirley told how the atmosphere was very tense with the two groups barely polite to one another. Arriving in Shanghai, she worked as a daily newspaper reporter in the city guarded by Japanese tanks and barbed wire barricades. In November 1941, she boarded the last ship out of China before the war. A sister ship, with all her belongings, was blown up in the Philippines. While in China she meet a "China Marine" from the 4th Regiment of the Marine Corps, whom she married after World War II. Shirley returned home, joined the Marines, attended boot camp at New York''s Hunter College, then Quartermaster School at Camp Lejeune, North Carolina. Shirley scored the highest ever, to that date, on the Officer Candidate School test and became a first lieutenant, served as the disbursing officer in the transport department stationed in Washington, D.C. She traveled across the United States over 40 times on Marine Corps business. Upon leaving the Marines after WWII, she married Edward Ellery Kash, who had been captured by the Japanese, survived the Bataan Death march and spent most of the war in a Japanese prison camp. They lived in New York until divorcing, and then Shirley moved to Mexico City. They had one child, Pandora Noel Nash. In the 1950s, Shirley attended Whittier College on the GI Bill received a Bachelors and Masters with highest honors and worked as a college professor at Chaffey College for 25 years where she founded and headed the Interior Design department and taught architectural history. She utilized her dance and theater expertise at Chaffey, producing and choreographing numerous musicals including South Pacific, Oklahoma and Finian''s Rainbow. Every summer was spent traveling the world''s most unusual places. Shirley was the first white woman to explore Dutch Guiana''s Suriname River, and she did it in a dugout canoe just 5 years after locals stopped practicing cannibalism. She taught school in St. Thomas and St. Croix during the 1960''s and tromped through mosquito-infested jungles to photograph ruins in Uxmal, Chichén Itza, Mérida and Palenque decades before they became popular tourist destinations. Shirley became a scholar specializing in California''s estancia and adobe architectural history of the 18th and 19th centuries. She was part of a team of historians that catalogued many of the 19th century homes in southern California. Noted as feisty and finding ways to get things done, she once applied to Hearst Castle for permission to do on-site research of its architecture and interiors, but was declined. She then applied for a job as a guide and was hired, which allowed her to do her research and get paid too. She was married to Dwight Mossman, a southern California businessman, for 25 years. She was active in the National Trust for Historic Preservation, California Historic Society, Southern California Historic Society, Los Angeles Cultural Heritage Foundation, the Society of Architectural Historians, the Pasadena Historical Society, Ontario Historic Landmarks Society, Historical Society of Pomona Valley, the American Society of Interior Designers and the Retired Officers Association. An art lover, Shirley was an award-winning photographer, a skilled carver, weaver, mosaic artist and a basket maker using traditional Native American materials. Shirley moved to Los Osos in 1998. She became a Charter member of the Marine Corps League, Detachment 680 and helped in the early planning stages of the San Luis Obispo County Veterans Museum and the Toys for Tots campaigns. In 2007, she was awarded the Detachment''s Challenge Coin, a special recognition medallion, presented by the Commandant for her service to the League. Shirley is survived by daughter, Pandora Nash-Karner of Los Osos; grandson Eriel Shayne Nash of Los Osos; numerous cousins, nieces and nephews from King City, Oakland, Davis, and Etna, Calif., Bellevue and Olympia, Wash., Sidney, British Columbia; and Taipei, Taiwan. She was preceded in death by brother James H. Nash, M.D. of San Luis Obispo; and sister Phyllis Nash Barren of Bellevue, Wash. A gathering of family and friends will be held in early summer officiated by Richard Carsel and attended to by the Marine Corps League. Donations can be made to Hospice Partners of the Central Coast, 277 South Street, San Luis Obispo, CA 93401. "Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, champagne in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming ''˜WOO HOO'' what a ride!" That was how Shirley Nash lived her life. Tim Haley, of the Marine Corps League wrote, "Rest assured Shirley reported in to her final duty station standing tall and looking sharp and took her place among the formation of Marines. Mission accomplished Lt. Nash, well done. Semper Fidelis."

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Published by San Luis Obispo County Tribune on Mar. 21, 2010.

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Explorer. Teacher. Photographer. Scholar. Mother. United States Marine

April 15, 2011

You lived a remarkable life Mom. You were an inspiration in many ways. You were 93 and we shouldn't have been surprised at your death, but we were. It has been a year and I can't even begin to tell you how much you are missed.

Carol Zarek

May 6, 2010

Dear Pandora:
Your mom died when I was in France so I was just reading her fascinating life today. I knew Dr. Nash, her brother, as my husband
worked at Cal Poly Health Center. I imagine you miss your mother on Mother's Day as I miss mine, but the wonderful memories that fill your heart and your son, your mother's only grandchild, are a part of her with you still. Peace and blessings, Carol Zarek

April 2, 2010

Hi, Pandora,

What a woman and what a tribute! Suzie and I have been hugging and then hugging some more.

Love, Nancy

Mike Hurley

March 26, 2010

What a wonderful life.

Anita Glaab

March 25, 2010

What an amazing life! There should be a full length biography...

Lawrence Sinclair

March 24, 2010

Wow. What an amazing life.

Pandora Nash-Karner

March 23, 2010

Mom -- You are my inspiration and my hero. We miss you!

To all who have written in this guest book, she was a remarkable woman. Thank you for your kind words.

From her family.

March 23, 2010

I am awed reading about this amazing woman and everything she accomplished in her life. She's inspired me to get out and do more with my own. Thank you, Shirley, for blessing this world with your remarkable spirit. May your next adventure be just as phenomenal.

george martin

March 23, 2010

God bless, and rock on!

March 23, 2010

Wow. What a woman.

March 23, 2010

God Bless Shirley
What a Truly Amazing Life.
SEMPER FI, MARINE

Marisa Navarro, Rancho Cucamonga, Ca

April Winkle

March 23, 2010

I didn't know Shirley, but I work at Chaffey College and wanted to say that I wish I had known her. She must have been an amazing woman. I would have loved to talk with her and listen to her tell of her incredible life experiences. You were truly blessed to have her in your life.

March 23, 2010

She sounded like a wonderful Lady, stand Proud Marine!!

March 23, 2010

Semper Fi Ma'am

Gysgt Kate Harris

Hannah Robbins

March 23, 2010

oorah ma'm! thanks for everything you have done from one female marine to another! you helped pave the way and let it be easier for us female marines today! thank you and Semper Fi! -LCPL ROBBINS

Dan Sheehy

March 22, 2010

God bless Shirley, may you rest in peace.

Lisa Pierce

March 22, 2010

What a glorious life. If only everyone could have such a testimony to share at the end. I wish I could have known her. To her Loved Ones: My sincere condolences on your loss.

t r

March 22, 2010

Semper Fi, Marine. You did it right.

Dian Barber

March 22, 2010

Shirley, thank you for the brilliant and awesome example of a beautiful life filled with learning, adventure, service and love! I wish I could have met you in Palenque and listened to your stories and done some shots of tequila with you!

George Bonser

March 22, 2010

What a treasure to humanity this woman was! The world is a little poorer for her passing. Our condolences to her family.

The Bonser family, San Jose

Sara L.

March 22, 2010

What a stunning woman! What a life! You just don't meet people like this anymore. My heart goes out to her family during such a loss.

Sara H

March 22, 2010

An inspriation. A reminder to live each day to the fullest and experince it all! Thank you for the fine example.

March 22, 2010

What a truly amazing life. Semper Fi, ma'am.
Kevin Sadaj
USMC 89 -93

Rose Culver

March 22, 2010

What a wonderful life-- God bless you, Shirley!

Robert Harrington

March 22, 2010

Instead of mourning this Wonderful woman,we should celebrate a Life lived to the fullest! I am sorry I never met her though.

Sandy W

March 22, 2010

Semper Fi, Shirley! You still shine for us. I know the countless memories will keep your family cloaked in your love. Thank you, Marine.

March 22, 2010

Wow. Now, THAT'S how to live a life! What an interesting person she must have been. RIP.
R.S., San Francisco, CA

beth champion

March 22, 2010

She was quite simply an amazing woman. An inspiration to anyone who lives a life unfulfilled.
Shirley embodied the qualities that every little girl should aspire to attain.
Bravo, Mz. Nash. Bravo!

kate turner

March 22, 2010

i'm honored to read about her . . . to even know her in this small way is a gift . . .

SGT James Copley

March 22, 2010

Wow... What a life! Semper Fi, Shirley! "...they will find the streets are guarded by United States Marines!"

Bonnie Miller

March 22, 2010

Wow. What an amazing woman, with an amazing life. I hope he family knows, even though she will be sorely missed, she made a difference in this world. THIS is the type of person we should be reading about or seeing movies about. Semper Fi!

Dave M.

March 22, 2010

Simply amazing. All these words and this woman is still beyond them. This is how life was meant to be lived and though never meeting this extraordinary woman, she has my eternal respect. May she rest in peace.

Michelle Seglem

March 22, 2010

Wow! I want to live my life like she did!

Maggie Falk

March 22, 2010

What an amazing woman! May your afterlife be as fulfilling!

Willy Noman

March 22, 2010

Wow! Well done! This evening I will share this brief description of your incredible life with my family and toast your name with a glass of milk.

Michael Johnson

March 22, 2010

I had never heard of Shirley before, but, having read her obituary, I am as honored to know her now as I would be had I known her for years. A truly remarkable woman. A truly amazing spirit. The world is better off for having had her in it.

Carl Payne

March 22, 2010

The very definition of a United States Marine. An inspiration, even today. I wish they made more like her.

March 22, 2010

Now thats the way to live life!! RIP

Steve

March 22, 2010

I'm at a loss for words, what an amzing woman.

Megan Vancil

March 22, 2010

What a truly memorable and amazing life! My deepest sympathies to Shirley's family, and may she rest in peace.

Lou Soltvedt

March 22, 2010

Our country has lost another treasure. I wish I could have met you.

Trevor H

March 22, 2010

You touched the lives of many and enriched the world around you.
Shirley Eleanor Nash, I salute you.

Chrisa Williams

March 22, 2010

Shirley sounds like the kind of woman anyone would be honored to know. May she be granted the accomplishment of her True Will.

Damon Taylor

March 22, 2010

an inspiration, short and simple

mike dash

March 22, 2010

not sure resting is in this womans vocabulary.
and we sure as he'll could use a few more like her.
there you go girls there's the bar. good luck you'll need it.

Pankaj Shrivastav

March 21, 2010

Namaste,

My condolences to this feisty lady's family and friends. I am not American, but people like Shirley Nash transcend countries, beliefs, traditions and genders, they define Human spirit in its finest detail. She was obviously an inspiration during her life time and will remain so in her death.

May her soul rest in peace.

Kevin Christley

March 21, 2010

Semper Fi. You made us proud, Shirley!

Toya Nosduh

March 21, 2010

She one hell of a women. I would call her a feminist, she empowered herself to be and do what she wanted.

March 21, 2010

Rest assured she will never be without family wherever she is."SEMPER-FI"

March 21, 2010

A truly remarkable lady, she lived life to the fullest. Semper Fi, Ma'am.

March 21, 2010

don't cry because she's gone, smile because this cool lady got to live out a full life, and you got to know her.

Mark Wise

March 21, 2010

Wow, What a woman, what accomplishments and what zest for life!

My condolences to Shirley's family.

Rest in peace, Shirley!

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