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GRETLER, LARRY J. Larry J. Gretler born April 10, 1948, passed away at the age of 62 on October 21, 2010. He is survived by his dear Mother Janet Gretler, two sisters, Mary Ann Gretler and Cathy Messer (Joe Messer) and brother-in-law Bill Hohmann. Larry has several nieces and nephews. Larry peacefully lifted to heaven Thursday night surround by family and friends, at Sharp Memorial Hospital. He loved peanut butter and everyone loved him!! Larry a Kearny Mesa High School graduate, owned his own small business. Was a member of Fraternal Spiritualist Church in Kennsington, and a member of Alchoholics Anonymous. Our family would like to thank the Sharp L-Vad team, Drs. and nursing staff for his extended life, Yolanda for her life long support, and Mary Lou and family for the care and friendship they provided. On behalf of the Gretler Family we ask that you Smile when you remember Larry. Many people knew Larry, prayed with him, laughed and cried with him. He was truly 'one of a Kind' sort of guy, a good human being. Larry was the "Big Time". He will be missed by all of us. Featheringill Mortuary 6322 El Cajon Boulevard, viewing Thursday, 4-8 p.m. October 28th. Services Friday, 10:30 a.m., October 29th. Reception at 12 p.m. Friday in Tierrasanta, Villa Portofino Clubhouse, 10690 Esco-bar Drive, San Diego, CA 92124. Memorial: Fraternal Spiritualist Church, 4720 Kennsington Ave., November 7, 2010, at 5 p.m.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Oct. 26, 2010.

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Thomas and Nita Welsh

October 21, 2023

Gone, but, not Forgotten Larry...Rest In Peace. Tom and Nita

Michael Salisbury

June 2, 2023

Larry and I laid carpet together. He had good heart. We became friends.

Cathy Gretler Messer

October 19, 2022

Thinking of you brother Larry and missing you. I feel loving heart with me.
Cathy jo

Frank Canson

October 20, 2019

He was one of my surfing buddies. We shared a lot of fun times together at the beach as well around the neighborhood. I will always remember that Renault he had and when we use to go surfing one of us would have to get out and walk up that hill from I-5 to Claremont Drive because it didnt have quite the power. I knew he wanted to be a fireman, I went down and took the test to give him the support he asked for. Thanks Larry for all that you did.

mike J.R. andrews

November 16, 2010

rest in peace

November 15, 2010

Larry es mi amigo siempre!

Julio

Frank Canson

November 1, 2010

Larry and I go back to High School days where we spent a lot of time surfing and having a great time doing what young males do. I know Larry wanted to be a fireman ( I took the test with him)and I know he will now have his wish. Larry was a good friend. Frank Canson, Temecula, Ca

Jullienna Horne

November 1, 2010

Larry was one of the sweetest men I met. Every time I saw him at church he light it up with his wonderful warm and friendly smile. His since of humor was outstanding. I will miss him dearly. He showed us that even thought adversity you can still have something to smile about. Thank you for being a wonderful example for me. Love you dearly Larry.
Your Friend Julie

Bill Shipley

November 1, 2010

Larry when we grew up as young children we had the world to ourselves. Like all kids we had our differences, but learned to live with it. I am glad I had the chance to talk with you recently and remembered our past and talked about our future. In the Autumn of our lifes we see the ones we love are now being taken from this Earth and enjoying the after life that was promised to us. JoAnn and William Shipley

Cathy King

October 31, 2010

I was honored to have met Larry at church about a year ago..Larry always had a quick bright smile & the best hugs ever. My condolences to his family

cathy MESSER

October 31, 2010

larry would have liked his services. i am sure he was looking down with a smile. felt the love. We cried, we laughed, we talked and we hugged. I miss you larry and love you much!!! little sis Cathy jo

Penny Quirk

October 30, 2010

Larry was a sweet and kind man who always had something nice to say. His presence will be missed at church. We love you Larry!

Barbara Shafer

October 30, 2010

Larry was a dear, dear man and so very gentle. I'll always remember his sweet smile and how happy he was to see every one. "Take care, my friend, and let your shining star in heaven lead us on our way!"
We will miss you. Love, Barbara Shafer

Linda Palos

October 28, 2010

My heartfelt condolences to Larry's family and many friends, loved ones. Larry will be greatly missed, always had a kind word and smile for all who crossed his path, and he crossed paths with many souls. Love and miss you Larry I know I we will feel your love light shining on us.
Linda P.

Linda Palos

October 28, 2010

My heartfelt condolences to all of Larry's family and friends, for we are all missing him already, though I know his presence will always be felt by all that loved him and those he touched my merely being himself a kind loving soul. God bless us all Linda P.

Rodie Campbell

October 27, 2010

Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy.
Our sincerest condolences to the Grelter Family.
We will miss our dear friend Larry,
Rodie & Marcia Campbell

Lindy Engstrom

October 27, 2010

Larry waa a happy gentle man. He was a great hugger due to his enthusiasm for the task I wiil always remember him as my Padre baseball buddy. We only made it to one game together but now he can go with me all the time. Missing you, Larry. My prayers are with your mom and family.

Mike Puraty

October 27, 2010

My friend Larry didn't believe in long goodbye's. My family will always remember our unique friend and like him, always with a warm smile. You'll never be forgotten Larry. Rest in Peace my friend.

Tom Waters

October 27, 2010

Mrs.Gretler, Mary Ann and Cathy: What a great guy Larry was to all of us that had the fortune to know him. I have such fond memories of us growing up together, playing baseball and hanging out together. Needless to say, we did a few things to get in trouble, but Larry's smile and sense of humor always made things better. He will always be remembered for being a wonderful person and a friend.....

October 27, 2010

Shared many good times with this TRULY nice guy....RIP, Larry!!

Richard (Dickie) Field

October 27, 2010

I am consumed with thoughts of Larry and I growing up. I am sure these thoughts will go on for ever.
God Bless You and may you Rest in Peace

Pat Graber, RN

October 27, 2010

I will miss Larry's big hugs and that wonderful smile. May your wonderful memories of Larry help you through this difficult time. He will be dearly missed by all. (Pat Graber, RN - 5West PCU, Sharp Memorial Hospital, San Diego, CA)

Jennifer Wheeler

October 27, 2010

Larry was a very sweet man who will definitely be missed! I knew him through Cardiac Rehab and although he had his health problems he always had a smile and a compliment for everyone. He will make a gracious and loving Angel. Love you Larry!!

Mary Ward

October 27, 2010

Oh my, Larry, you left this Earth to soon.We had so much fun in school playing in the canyons with Richard Fields and who knows who else.(can't remember)I had not seen you in a long time but I remember you well as a kind, sweet and always a friend. School Dances were very fun too. May God Bless You my old friend and be at Peace

EDITH CHAMBERS

October 26, 2010

I REMEMBER LARRY AS A VERY GRACIIOUS MAN WHO WAS A VERY NEAT NEIGBOR AND ALWAYS A READY FRIEND

Schauf Richard

October 26, 2010

Larry was a chip of the old block. He was Max's son in all respects..sweet, gentle, funny, great sense of humor.
I never knew a person who didn't like Larry because he was the most likable person you could imagine. Larry is in heaven today and we will all miss him.
My regards to Janet and the family.

Love,
Dickie Schauf

October 26, 2010

With our Heart felt Condolences to the Gretler family, we will surely miss our dear friend Larry. May God Bless & Keep him.
Rodie & Marcia

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