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Jeffrey Hayes Obituary
This obituary was originally published in the Star Tribune.
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Charlie Nichols
June 9, 2025
Hard to believe it's been 15 years. Jeff stays in our conversations and hearts when the Holly gang gets together!
Dennis Fay
February 22, 2024
All my brothers that served and just did their job. I salute you for your service.
John Hiemstra
October 25, 2019
Jeff was my favorite gun pilot to fly with in our unit, D Troop 3 Sqd/5th Cav, during the summer of 1971 in Quang Tri, Vietnam. He was a very competent pilot, unflappable in combat, and a cheerful friend when relaxing over a beer after a hard day flying. May he rest in peace.
Cynthia Vandenhoek
September 20, 2013
Thinking of you today Uncle Jeff..... Until we meet again <3
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Ed White
September 14, 2013
Jeff had many friends in the Nam. I am proud to be one. Jeff was a warrior and a great man. He will be sorely missed.
now just an old cav dude...
George Branigan
August 27, 2013
How do I say goodbye to a brother? I had the honor and privilage to fly combat with Jeff,many times.His skills as a snake driver were superior to most others,and he saved me more times then I can count.We lived not far from each other when we came back to the world,in Ft.Lauderdale.Those were good years too.He and Linda,and My wife and I were the best of friends.I knew George,Lois,and Bill and Tom.Tom,Jeff and I would play handball whenever we got the chance.Those were fun days.I guess I'm still in shock that Jeff is gone now.I have pictures of him from Vietnam,talking to us and smiling and laughing.Goodbye my dear friend and brother in arms.I hope to see you at Fiddlers Green when it's my turn to lift off one last time from the main active.You were always a hero to me bro...
Wm. Scott and Sheradee Peyton (Hayes)
January 20, 2011
Dear Lynne, Aunt Pam, Nicole and Tyler.
Though we've never met in person, it was very hard and very sad to hear that Uncle Jeff had passed away. It brought home the fact that when you feel a need to go meet someone or to make a phone call, you should really take the time to do it. We are not assured that there will be a tomorrow. But we will treasure the one phone call and the kind voice on the other end that was our Uncle Jeff. At the same time we also learned of Bill Hayes (father to Wm. Scott and Wendy Sue)and Lois (Grandmother) had also passed away. All three were a great loss. If things could be done again, we'd sure make time to sit and talk, and just get to know our family. For now, we pray for comfort for each of you who grieve.
"Blessed are they who mourn for they will be comforted"
Love,
Scott, Sheradee and Children.
Chris Roff
June 30, 2010
I extend my sincerest sympathies to his family. I worked with Jeff a couple years and always enjoyed his sense of humor and presence. He had many interesting stories and a good perspective on life. He will be missed.
Robin Viestenz
June 21, 2010
My sincerest sympathies to all of Jeff's family. He was always pushing me to overcome obstacles and believe in myself, both professionally and personally. Jeff was a dear friend and will be missed, but not forgotten.
Charlie Nichols
June 17, 2010
Nicole, Tyler, Pam, Lois and Lynne, please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss.
Jeff and I were friends since grade school. Chronologically, a long time, yet it seems like yesterday.
I remember him as having a great sense of humor, concurrent with a serious side that assured accomplishment. Jeff will be missed.
"The hour of departure has arrived and we go our ways; I to die, and you to live. Which is better? Only God knows." --- Socrates
Linda Gerkensmeyer
June 16, 2010
Aunt Lois, Pam You are in my thoughts and prayers. We will all miss Jeff. I will always remember the good times we all had since kids.
Bruce Carstens
June 16, 2010
Nicole and Tyler, We are offering our deepest sympathy to you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of mourning.
Bruce and Susie Carstens
Ruby Hayes
June 16, 2010
Ive only spoke to Jeff a few times on the phone but he was my husbands brother. My husband Bill Hayes spoke of Jeff often and he was very proud of Jeff's accomplishments. My deepest condolances go out to his family at this time. Wish I could do something to help.
Cynthia Vandenhoek
June 16, 2010
It saddens me to recieve this tradgic news. Jeff Hayes is my uncle and My grandfathers brother. (Bill Hayes) passed away last year on july 15th,2009 in penticton Hospital BC Canada. We Burried him on his birthday last year on July 21,2009. At this time me and my Grandmother Ruby Hayes would like to send our deepest Condolances. It isnt the easiest to say goodbye to a loved one and I wish I could take away all the pain that this family is experiencing. Although me and my Uncle Jeff didnt have the closest relationship due to us living in different countries we still were able to maintain a relationship. We have had a few conversations on the phone and I remember him wanting to take me and Tyler out sight seeing and to disneyworld but He said I had to get to Flordia 1st!. He was more than willing to let me stay there and more than willing to do what he could to help. I heart goes out to my great grandma Lois and to Pam, Tyler, Nicole, And Lynne. I would Hugs you guys so tight right now if I could. Please tell the family Im thinking of them. Me and Ruby Hayes wish we could be there.
Jamie Reid
June 16, 2010
My Deepest sympathy to the family and friends of Jeffrey Hayes. You are in my thoughts and Prayers. May you find comfort in happy memories you shared and from your family and friends.
Daryl Losh
June 15, 2010
Good-bye Old Friend. I will miss you. My deepest sympathy to Lois, Pam, Lynn, and Jeff's children.
Amy Vejar
June 15, 2010
My most sincere sympathies to Jeff's friends and family. I knew him only at the workplace but enjoyed him tremendously.
Donna Johansen
June 15, 2010
I would like express my sympathies to Jeffery's family. While I did not know Jeffery, I do know Lynn my thoughts and prayer to all who loved Jeffery.
Gretchen Nyquist
June 15, 2010
Aunt Lois, Pam and family. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. We go back a long way and I remember only good times, a lot of laughter, pranks and trouble ( thanks to Jeff and Tom). I wish I could be there but I am in spirit and love.
N MASON
June 15, 2010
From all of Jeffs Friends at St.Bart's with sympathy on the passing of a dear friend. We will miss you Jeff, but we will never forget you.
NTJSPTDG
Nancy Mason
June 15, 2010
I am so sad to hear that my friend Jeff has passed on. I am grateful though that the pain and suffering are gone too. I will always remember Jeffs strength in life and his battle to overcome .Lynne, just know he loved you so much and we are here for you in your time of sorrow. I will always remember . Nancy Mason
Marianne (Hodge) Domako
June 15, 2010
I would like to extend my deepest sympathy to Jeff's family. Jeff and his family have been life long friends through the friendship of our parents. Last fall I had the pleasure of meeting Lynn and visiting with Jeff and his mom. I am so glad that timing worked out and we could visit. Again, my sincerest sympathy for the entire family. Jeff will always be remembered fondly and with great friendship.
Dixie Doerr
June 15, 2010
Aunt Lois, Pam, and family. Oh my, I am so sorry about Jeff. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of grief. I do wish I could be there with you to celebrate Jeff's life. It was a good and full life. I considered him my brother. May God be with you.
Love to you all, Dixie
Sheldon Modrow
June 15, 2010
My deepest sympathies,to another brother who served in Viet Nam.
Sheldon Modrow, Champlin,Mn
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