JOSEPH PERRY

JOSEPH PERRY obituary, Suffolk, VA

JOSEPH PERRY

JOSEPH PERRY Obituary

Published by Woody Funeral Home Parham - Richmond on Dec. 11, 2012.
PERRY, Joseph Maynard III "Jay," 54, passed away suddenly in an automobile accident on December 8, 2012. JM, as he was known by old friends and family, is survived by his wife, Christina "Tina" P. Perry; his daughter, Sarah James Perry; stepsons, Philip B. Pendleton (Gretchen), Marshall M. Hall (Lyndsay) ; mother, Esther Perry; and sister, Brenda. Born in Portsmouth, Va., Jay attended Nansemond Suffolk Academy on full scholarship and played football, baseball and basketball, lettering in all three sports. He gained a full four-year scholarship in basketball to Randolph-Macon College, where he majored in Religious Studies with a minor in business. He was an active member of Sigma Alpha Epsilon Fraternity and a lifelong fan of RMC basketball and football; especially during the Hampden-Sydney rivalry. Jay was an avid outdoorsman and loved to spend time in the woods hunting or fishing. Jay was also a good carpenter, having learned the skill at an early age by his maternal grandfather. He was a devoted father to his daughter, Sarah, encouraging her along the way in her every interest and endeavor. He was loved mightily by his wife and family and will be missed greatly. A memorial service will be held on Wednesday, December 12, 2012 at 11 a.m. at Second Baptist Church, 9614 River Rd., Richmond, Va. 23238. A reception will follow at 10 Dahlgren Rd., Richmond, Va. 23238. Family and friends are invited. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in memory of Jay Perry to the Prayer Garden at Second Baptist Church.


This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.

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December 5, 2019

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December 26, 2012

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Beryl Perry

December 5, 2019

Wow. How time passes so fast..
It's hard to believe that it's been 7 years...
It also seems just like yesterday we were playing together as kids..
You are missed cousin JM...!!!
Beryl Perry...

Shawn Welch

January 18, 2013

I'm shocked of your sudden loss. Jay was one of the finest guys I knew. Jay trained me a the Richmond Hyatt in the late 80's as a room service waiter. He was so fun to work with, and he had patience, and that was a great quality Jay had. I'm so sorry, and I'll pray for your wonderful family. He also was a great friend of mine.

Carol Edwards

December 26, 2012

I just recently learned of Jay's untimely death. Tina, please accept our sincere condolences to you and your family. From: Becky & Carol Edwards

December 20, 2012

Your family has my deeply felt sympathy. JM was a joy to watch on the basketball court. JM was also a joy to know. Our lives have been blessed because we knew him as a person who made our hearts feel lighter with his smile, a hug, and a caring word. Marie Bowman

December 16, 2012

Tina, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your daughter, and extended family at this time. May all the loving memories of your life together bring you comfort during the days and weeks ahead. God will bring you strength. Dale Pruitt Wilkinson

Jim Sok

December 16, 2012

Tina,
I am so sorry to learn about your loss and cannot find any words that will provide you with comfort and solace. Only time will heal the grieving you are going through but as you face the lonieness of the days ahead may the wonderful memories of good times past ease the pain and suffering of this tragic event. Please know that all of your friends at Sheltering Arms are keeping you and Joe in their prayers.
God Bless!
Jim Sok

December 14, 2012

Tina,

John and I were so sorry to hear about Jay. You and your family are in our thoughts.

Kathy Barber

Maria Conron

December 14, 2012

Tina, I am so sorry for your loss. I remember meeting Jay when Sarah was born. Hugs and prayers for strength during this most difficult time.

Bruce & Bj Hobart

December 13, 2012

My wife and I offer our sincere sympathies in your loss and burden of grief

December 13, 2012

Tina, please know that you are in the thoughts and hearts of the SAH Spine Clinic today.

Debbie Yetman Larsen

December 12, 2012

My heart is heavy today hearing this sad news. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult of times. I have fond memories of JM's smile and wonderful personality while we attended RMC.

Janet Poulson (Class of 79)

December 12, 2012

Tina and Family,
I knew JM in high school at NSA. He was always so friendly and nice to everyone. I ran into him here in Richmond several years ago and he talked about how proud he was of his family. I am so sorry to hear of his passing and will keep your family in my prayers.

Barbara Waldron

December 12, 2012

Brenda, I am so sorry to hear of your brothers passing. You will be in our thoughts and prayers and also to your family.

Reid Smith

December 12, 2012

Tina:
Kerry and I are very saddened to hear of Jay's sudden passing. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Jody Bryant Blankenship

December 12, 2012

My deepest sympathy goes out to the entire family. Heaven has gained another angel but our memories will keep us until we meet again. Jody Bryant Blankenship (NSA Class of 77)

Ed Lewis

December 12, 2012

I'm very sorry to hear about JM. I have some great memories of growing up with him in Nansemond Shores and NSA. His family and friends are in my prayers.

Fleet Lynch Roberts

December 11, 2012

Tina and Sarah:
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with both of your during these difficult days ahead. I have so many fond memories of JM in high school. He never met a stranger, always had a smile on his face and was so thoughtful and kind to everyone. We will never forget this wonderful athletic skills. I can still see him on the NSA courts, hanging out in the nurses office and laughing on all our evening adventures. Your loss is our loss and our class has really rallied around his life. I know that he is smiling down on all of us now. He will be greatly missed. NSA CLASS OF 1977

Steve Long

December 11, 2012

I am so sad and already missing my suite mate at Randolph-Macon in 1978. Stuart, Steve M and I had such fun together in Irby! JM was always upbeat, laughing, concerned, and just fun to be with. Those memories will always be here even though he is with God. See you soon one day, JM!

Annette Toner

December 11, 2012

Tina and Sara,
I was so sorry to hear about JM. I have great memories of high school with JM. I'll keep your family in my prayers. We have lost a special man. Annette Bowman Toner (NSA Class of 77)

Greg Peete

December 11, 2012

May God comfort you and provide you strength. Your family is in my prayers.

Valerie Newman

December 11, 2012

Tina and Family,
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. There are really no words to express the sorrow when a loved one is lost so suddenly. I pray that you find peace and comfort knowing that God will not abandon you at your time of need and he will provide refuge and shelter in this darkness. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Emily Bosher

December 11, 2012

Tina,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Beryl Perry

December 11, 2012

So very sorry for your sudden loss..
My thoughts & prayers are with you at this most difficult time... May God comfort you in His loving arms...

December 11, 2012

Dear Tina and Sarah,
I am a friend of JM's from NSA, and I'm deeply saddened to learn of his passing. I saw JM one day in the 90's at NSA. We fondly recalled all the friends we both knew as well as some truly awesome moments in NSA's storied basketball history. But the thing I remember most was how much he loved his family. He said that being Sarah's father was the greatest joy he'd known. I'm truly sorry for your loss and hope you will be comforted by knowing how much he loved both of you. Kathy Bowman Rader, NSA '78.

Tina Gianoulis

December 11, 2012

Dear Tina and Sarah--I was so sad to hear about Jay--there are just no words to express it, but my heart is with you. Jay was such a generous and sweet person, I'm glad I got the chance to know him a little. all my love, Tina G.

December 11, 2012

Tina, please know that I am lifting you and yours in prayer that our Heavenly Father will keep you and hold you tightly. Reach out when you need to. I am here for you--that's what friends are for. Deb Foster DRW

Gina Owens Kent

December 11, 2012

Such sad news to hear of JM's passing. I was a good friend of his in high school and graduated with him at NSA. He was a sweetheart. My prayers go out to all of his family.

December 11, 2012

Dear Tina & Sarah, I send my deepest sympathy, love and prayers to you and family. We have truly lost a wonderful person here on earth but great memories at NSA will always be in all of our hearts. He was an awesome basketball player! Much love and we will see him in heaven one day. Carla Cage (Class of 1977 - NSA)

Carol Cummins

December 11, 2012

Tina,Sara James and family, I am deeply saddened to hear about Jay's sudden death. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. Remember all the good times and speak of him openly and freely. He is with you all in spirit. Much love to all of you and if there is anything I can do to help in any way, please do not hesitate to call me. Carol Cummins

Tali Denton

December 11, 2012

JM was a few classes ahead of me in high school and I remember thinking he was the coolest, nicest guy, tall and kind. He always had a warm smile for everyone and was friends with so many. I am deeply saddened for your loss and send love and prayers to you all as you heal.

Mary Eberwine-Corey

December 11, 2012

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Mary Eberwine Corey (NSA Class of 77)

Aleta Jones

December 11, 2012

Tina,
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Kirsten Sanderford

December 11, 2012

Tina and Sarah, We are holding you in our thoughts and prayers. Jay was a wonderful family man and always greeted us with a smile at the schools or at Ukrops. The Sanderford and Martin Family.

NSA, Senior Year, 1977

Missy (Moring) Hubbard

December 11, 2012

We are so shocked and saddened by this tragic loss! JM and my brother, Mark, were the best of friends throughout high school and college. I cannot remember a weekend, basketball game, vacation, etc... growing up that JM wasn't a part of. I will be attending tomorrow representing our family as Mark now lives outside Chicago and my mom is unable to make the trip. All our thoughts and prayers go out to JM's entire family!

Stacy Bebelheimer

December 11, 2012

Tina,
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Our high school team at Nansemond Suffolk. I'm to the right of JM. He carried us to the state championship!

Mark Moring

December 11, 2012

Tina and Sarah,

Our condolences and prayers are with you. JM was one of my best friends in high school; we were on the basketball team together, and often hung out together when we weren't in school. Though we lost touch over the years, I have many fond and fun memories of him. Such a great guy, and I know he will be missed by you and your children.

Grace and peace,

December 11, 2012

Tina,
I am so sorry for your loss. It was a pleasure to have known him. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Kelly Jenkins

December 11, 2012

Tina, so sorry to learn of Jay's death. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Bentley and Lisa Heese

Laura & Mark Thurston

December 11, 2012

Dear Tina,
We are so sad to hear about JM. He was such a wonderful and truly nice person. Our thoughts and many prayers are with you and your daughter.
Laura and Mark Thurston

Nan Perry Reeves

December 11, 2012

Brenda and Aunt Esther,
We were sorry to hear of JM's death. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

December 11, 2012

I was saddened by JM's death. our thought's and prayers are with you during this most difficut time. Brenda

December 11, 2012

our prayers and thoughts are with your family at this most difficult time. Brenda

Paul Feeley

December 11, 2012

Tina,
I was greatly saddened when I saw JM's obituary in the newspaper today. I have many fond memories of our times together at R-MC and in later years. He was one of those people about whom everyone always said "He is a really nice guy." As his photo here shows, he had a smile that could light up a room. Please know that we share in your sorrow and hope that memories of good times together can soften your grief.

Jim Laine

December 11, 2012

I knew J M in high school. He was a year ahead of me. He was a great athlete and an even better person. I'm sure he will be sorely missed by all.

December 11, 2012

Tina,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. Please know that we are thinking of you.

- Richard Peay

Maria Herber

December 11, 2012

Tina, I am so sorry about such a tragic loss. I have many fond memories of Jay, You, and Sarah. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

December 11, 2012

Tina,
David & I are deeply saddened by Jay passing. We never saw him without a smile on his handsome face. Love to you & Sarah,
Ann & David B. Moore

December 11, 2012

I'm so sorry for your loss.
Melissa Owens

December 11, 2012

Dear Tina, Sarah, Philip and Marshall and all the extended family: You are all in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. We are thinking of you all with lots of love.
Jan and Bob

December 11, 2012

I'm sorry for your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers in this most difficult time. I have not seen JM in a long time but I still loved him as my brother. You have my deepest sympathy. Brenda

John Bright

December 11, 2012

My prayers are with your family at this time. Pastor John Bright, Walmsley Blvd. UMC, Richmond - NSA'80

December 11, 2012

Tina, I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time. Deepest Sympathies, Kelly O'Brien

December 11, 2012

Tina and Family
I am so sad for your loss. God be with you all, keep you wrapped in his loving arms and comfort you as only he can.

Linda Lee

Kim Allan

December 11, 2012

Tina, I'm so saddened to hear about JM's passing. My prayers and thoughts are with you and Sarah. All of us in the Yellow Jacket family will miss him dearly.

Pam Smith

December 11, 2012

I am so sorry to hear about Joseph. He was so nice to me when he came to the doctor. My prayers are with you and your family, Pam

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