Dr. Harry F. "Mickey" HOKE Jr.

Dr. Harry F. "Mickey" HOKE Jr.

Harry HOKE Obituary

Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Nov. 4, 2009.
HOKE, Dr. Harry F. Jr. "Mickey," beloved husband of Catherine, died October 31, 2009 at the age of 76. Mickey was the only son of Nellie and Harry F. Hoke of Emporia, Virginia. He graduated from Hargrave Military Academy, Hampden-Sydney College, and the Medical College of Virginia. He returned to the Medical College of Virginia to complete a four-year residency and a fellowship in Pathology. He was a Captain in the United States Air Force serving as a flight surgeon. Dr. Hoke was a dedicated and caring physician who served the Richmond community for over 30 years, most of those years at Retreat Hospital. In addition to his love of medicine, Mickey was an avid tennis player and a lifelong golfer. At age 45, Mickey set his sites on the Boston Marathon. He began with the first Richmond Marathon in 1978 then qualified and ran the Boston Marathon at age 49. He was a wonderful storyteller with a keen wit. Mickey was a loyal and trusted friend and father providing sound counsel in times of need with sincerity, wisdom, and humor. Mickey and Cathy raised their four children in Richmond, Virginia creating many fond memories with friends and neighbors. They have happily spent their retirement in Vero Beach, Florida. Mickey is survived by his wife, Catherine; his children, Harry F. Hoke III "Chip" and his wife, Kathy, Michael Hoke and his wife, Mindy, Susan H. Gordon and her husband, John, Katie H. LaFiandra and her husband, Al; and 10 grandchildren, Jimmy, Michael, Harry, Susan, Kristin, Callahan, Madeleine, Kate, Jack and Tommy. A memorial will be held at 11 a.m. on Saturday, November 7, 2009 at First Presbyterian Church, Richmond, Virginia. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be sent to Hampden-Sydney College, 637 College Road, Hampden-Sydney, Virginia 23943.
This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.

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November 9, 2009

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November 7, 2009

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November 7, 2009

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Jean Green Rodenbough

November 9, 2009

Cathy: Please know my prayers remain with you and your family. I never met Mickey, but I see by the obituary that his gifts personally and professionally were exemplary. My father was also a pathologist, in the Army Medical Corps way back when. I look forward to seeing you in May at our R-M luncheon I hope!

Carolyn Hubbard Sowder

November 7, 2009

Dear Hoke family,

My deepest sympathy to you for your loss. I have very fond memories of all of you and spending time at your home on the river boating and swimming. Dr. Hoke was a wonderful man and will be missed by many. Cherish the many memories you have. We are thinking and praying for you during this difficult time. With sadness and love,

November 7, 2009

Just heard about Mickey's death. I am so sorry .My condolences to the whole family. Dr. and Mrs J.Thomas Bones (Betty and Tom)

Alice Guy Azzaro

November 6, 2009

Condolences on your great loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time.

Alice Guy Azzaro

John Gray

November 6, 2009

Perhaps Dr. Hoke's greatest legacy is his wonderful family. I met him only a few times, but went to school with three of his children, MIke, Katie and Susie, examples all of what a fine man their father must have been. I know I speak for my family and we grieve for your loss.

julie Urena

November 6, 2009

Dear Hoke family. I was sorry to hear about Dr. Hoke's passing. My heart and prayers go out to you all. Love, Julie Baroody Urena

Gina Williamson Fitch

November 6, 2009

Dear Hoke Family, Please accept fondest condolences in the loss of your beloved Husband and Dad. I know how very much you will all miss him. Cherish your many fun, loving and lifelong memories. It has been many years but I have lots of great swimming memories with your family. God bless you all, take care of each other.Sincerely, Gina Williamson Fitch and Jim Fitch

Karen Daniel

November 5, 2009

I worked with Mickey for years at the hospital. He could always make my day brighter and I could always count on him for a laugh and loved playing practical jokes on him. He was one of the finest men I have ever known. He did truly love his family and friends. It was a honor to know him.

Patricia Blackman

November 5, 2009

Susie,
It brought my heart when I heared of your father's passing. We love you and miss you very much. You are so special to our team.

Patricia

Barbara&Phil Christmas

November 4, 2009

Our prayers are with you all. We are all saddened by his death. Much love to you, Barbara & Phil Christmas and family

Lynn Williamson

November 4, 2009

Dan and I are so happy to have been a part of the Hoke family since Kathy married Chip more than 25 years ago. You are in our thoughts and prayers. All our love, Lynn

November 4, 2009

Mrs. Hoke and Family - I worked with Dr. Hoke in Pathology at Retreat Hospital many years ago, and have many wonderful memories of working with such a wonderful doctor. I remember how much he loved his family. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Janice Parr Funai

November 4, 2009

How very sad to lose such a great man, but I have great memories of years gone past when our "kids" were swimming and at Trinity.
Barbara Jeffrey (Wade's Mother)

Mary Lou Clarke

November 4, 2009

Cathy, Katie and all of Mickey's wonderful family, We were so sorry to hear the sad news. We all have many happy memories of time spent with the Hokes when we lived in Richmond. We remember Mickey as a very special guy and send our condolences to you all and we are thinking about you at this time. With affection, Whitey, Mary Lou and Krista Clarke

November 4, 2009

Mike and Family,
Maria and I send our sincere condolences. Please know you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers at this challenging time.
Dave and Maria Parisi

November 4, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time.

Sincerely,
Jane T. Collier (John Collier's widow?

November 4, 2009

Mrs. Hoke and Family,
We are so sorry to hear of Dr.Hokes passing. Our prayers and sympathy are with you.
Dr.Altieri & Staff

Sally &Ray Crocker

November 4, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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