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JUSTIN CREECH Memoriam
This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.
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Kelvin Jr, and Christopher Dilworth
January 9, 2021
To the family of Justin Creech. We hold special wonderful memories of Justin as he was special friend and classmate to our children at Mary Munford elementary school. Justin loved playing and coaching soccer with the students at Mary Munford elementary school. We also have special memories of the Creech family. My son Anthony* and Conner were classmates and great friends. Keeping your family in our prayers always.
The Dilworth Family
Robin Bresley Priddy
September 30, 2020
Justin I think of you often - in the fall especially when i see a group of kids playing soccer. I fondly remember the days at St. Joseph's Villa and you, Michael, Ethan - all the blond headed kids I could not tell apart if you got too far away! Those were wonderful afternoons. Whenever Michael has a birthday, or a holiday goes by or your birthday or January 5th, I think about who you might have been if you'd stayed here with us. I'm sad for all of us most especially your family at times; but I think of you being a light looking down on us. I'm grateful for memories and your friendship with Michael. Love, Robin
Melissa Dilworth
January 9, 2020
To the family of Justin Creech, please know that we hold special memories of Justin. Justin was an excellent student and friends to many at Mary Munford elementary school. Justin was also helpful and loved taking time to help teach my children how to play soccer while attending Mary Munford elementary school.
We will always remember and hold those special memories of Justin close to our hearts.
We also hold special memories of Anthony* and Conner as classmates and close friends during their time
at Mary Munford. Just remember we both have a special angel watching over us. Justin Creech and Anthony Dilworth.
The Dilworth Family ( Kelvin Jr, Christopher, Anthony* decease, and Justin Dilworth)
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holly
April 5, 2019
dear Justin its been so long I think about u all the time I miss u like crazy u were truly one of my best friends my biggest reget is not going to ur funeral and saying goodbye but I couldn't stand seeing u like that I love u and miss u so much Justin I know I will see u again someday sweet angel
Tina Clancey
April 7, 2016
Over 10 years has passed and you come to my mind. I know you are with my dad, and that both of you are here with me, from heavenly realms. Thank you for your angelic presence and comfort during my times of my prayer and trial. Well wishes to your family and loved ones.
Amber Bitzer
July 7, 2015
I seen your name in my email account and tears came to my eyes.I still reremember the phone call we recieved amd thought it was all a bad dream. We didn't really talk to much in school and when we did you always had a big smile on your face and was always so happy. God bless your family. And may god continue to see them through this.
June 28, 2015
Dear Creech Family, Had you on my mind for some reason today so I thought I would reach out and let you know. I hope you all are doing well and able to enjoy this absolutely beautiful summer day. Hugs! Shannon Fisher and family (past neighbors)
June 25, 2015
Thinking of you guys :) Love you.
sebri leah
February 11, 2015
Miss you, Lil dude. You hav been in my mind Quite frequently lately. Peace to u and your family. Sebri.
Renee Brown
July 3, 2013
Not a day goes by you are not thought about. You will forever be missed. Say hi to my dad im sure your one of the first persons he looked for when he arrived in heaven.
Cherie Hundley
June 2, 2012
I still remember the day when Justin, Tony Hawk was what i called him, said that he was going to teach me how to skaeboard a little bit. The last time I saw him, he said "I will meet you in front of the school and show you a little something before your bus leave." I waited for him, i even missed my bus thinking that he would be there but he didn't show. The day I found out that I would never see my Tony Hawk again was one of my darkest days that I ever had. I truly miss you Justin.Take care of my dad and brother up there and i will see you soon. I Love You Justin.
Reuben Shaw
September 23, 2011
Life, like a mist, appears for just a day,
Then disappears tomorrow.
All that we are can quickly fade away,
Replaced with tears and sorrow.
If a man should die, can he live again?
Hear the promise God has made:
Friends of our God, though they may pass away,
Will never be forsaken.
All those asleep who in God’s mem’ry stay,
From death he will awaken.
Then we’ll come to see all that life can be:
Paradise eternally.
He will call; The dead will answer.
They shall live at his command.
For he will have a longing
For the work of his own hand.
So have faith, and do not wonder,
For our God can make us stand.
And we shall live forever,
As the work of his own hand.
Susan Mossem
September 19, 2011
Justin will always be remembered by us. We think of him and your family often.To a bright light that can never be dimmed--Susan,Dietmar and Devin Mossem
Melissa Dilwortrh
September 18, 2011
To the family of Justin Creech,you are in our prayers today as we keep and hold all memories of Justin Creech on his 23rd Birthday. Just remember Justin and Anthony are in a better place, Thinking of your family today. Happy Birthday to Justin Creech, from the Dilworth's (Melissa, Kelvin.Jr, Christopher, and Justin Dilworth)
Irene Johnson
September 16, 2011
Happy 23rd Birthday to Justin, and may all the memories continue to bring comfort to family and friends!
Molly Guild
September 16, 2011
Happy birthday, Justin! Love/miss you! Thinking of you, Creeches...wishing you the best on this beautiful day.
suzanne BIRKELAND
September 16, 2011
Dear Family, Your son is fondly remembered by our family and we hold you in our prayers each time we think of him. John ,Suzanne, Corinne, John Henry ,Noah Birkeland
Bill Quirk
May 26, 2011
Deepest condolences from Jeanne & Bill Quirk & Family in Mishawaka, Indiana.
Karen Creech
May 20, 2011
Forever young, Forever Loved...
Son, brother and friend
Karen Creech
May 20, 2011
Dear Justin,
Only you, God and myself knows the pain I feel in my heart without you in our lives. I miss you so much and there is no one to I can tell about the hurt, pain and loss I feel because no one I know would understand and it only makes others uncomfortable. The weight of your life is carried on my shoulders so that you will never be forgotten. I am alone on this jorney to find peace and understanding where there is none. I feel you wherever I go and I see you in the smiles and tears of Kelsey and Connor but I cannot let them see the pain...it is so great that I can only pray I will not break beneath it and then other times I wish to be broken so I won't hurt so much. My first born child..the son I wanted so much...a brother for my children that would follow you...a brother I never had...The promise of seeing you as a great father..a father who would love and cherish the children he would have unlike the father who left me and whose love I never knew...perhaps I saw in you too much of what I never had...but I just wanted you..for who you were and who you would become. That was not to be so I grieve in my heart and soul for my beloved son. I just miss you Justin so much it hurts and there is nothing I can do to find peace amongst so much pain. Please help me...I need it now more than ever. You were and will always be the light, hope and happiness I once knew..forever young and forever loved.
Mom
January 6, 2011
i miss you so much and the pain of you being gone is sometime to much to handle you will always be in my heart
Amber Dean
December 5, 2010
I went to school with Justin, even though we didnt talk I think about how his family is coping with this. I hope that all is well.
October 29, 2010
You are still remembered all the time, Justin, even if we don't express in words or to anyone else. Even though we may seem to have forgotten, you are present everywhere, and every person I touch and make a connection with, somehow gets a little bit of the memory of your heart stuck on them too. Prayers are sent your way daily -Eunice
September 19, 2010
Your family is in our prayers. Much love and best wishes, Christie Knox
Aunt Rita
August 29, 2010
We miss you, Justin. Your cousins' lives are changing, with graduations, marriages and babies. And with every occasion, we wish you were here to share it with us. You are always missed.
Karen Creech
August 28, 2010
Dearest Justin,
Today I really missed you. I guess its getting close to your birthday...I keep thinking about what you would be doing now. I wonder about you getting married and the kids you would have had. I think about how tall you would be and how much more handsome you would be. So many hopes and dreams died with you. I keep going on to honor you and I know you know that. I pray that I was the best mother I could be to you. Next weekend Drew will be married and while I am so happy for Drew and his family, I will thinking about you. I love you so much!
Karen Creech
March 14, 2010
Dearest Son,
Ive been thinking about you alot lately....Your cousin Drew is getting married. I thought about your last visit with them, Aunt Rita, Uncle Darrell, Ted, Drew and Christinia....the last weekend of your life..How Ted drove you and Drew and he went over 100 mph....It scared me to death when you told me but I also saw how great it was...one of those crazy teen things...you are Invincible or you think so anyway. It was a wonderful time and memories with your cousins who you loved and who loved you. That bond the times you were together always showed. That's truly what is life is all about...u should try not to scare your mother though...haha. all three of your cousins are graduating this spring...Christina from High School and Ted and Drew from College. I know you are proud of them as we are..It made me think about how you would be gratudaing from college...You were incredibly intelligent..IQ of 140...You and getting would probably be talking about marriage.All those things I wish with all my heart you were here to do. I understand as best I can being a mother who lost her son. I know you are happy and loved and I know I will see you again and that more than anything you would want us all to be happy and live! I try to remember that since it is the only way to honor you because lived your life that way. You lived your life on your terms and you questioned and sometimes raged against the things you believed were not right. You were a good and honorable person with flaws just as we all have. I am proud to be your mom and Im grateful for the time I had you! Be with Kelsey this week because she is hurting and sad. It is so hard to say goodbye even if its temporary too as you know. I believe Aaron and Kelsey truly love each other and are good together. He is a respectful, kind, loving, fun loving, likes to laugh and is so good to your sister. They laugh so much just like you and Gigi. She is so happy when she is with him and he her.It's great to watch. He is like a son. I miss you Justin. Sometimes you have to grieve for a short while. It helps with the healing which will be life long. So my darling my tears are just water filled with wonderful memories. I love you with all my heart.
Karen Creech
January 6, 2010
Justin,
Yesterday was 6 years since someone took you from us. It is this time of year that all the pain and hurt comes flooding back. I miss you so much. I know though that you are at peace and there is no more sorrow or pain for you like there is for those of us you left behind. I will continue to try to celebrate your life rather than mourn your death. Please take care of your dad as he continues to recover from the heart attack. Also be with Kelsey and Connor as they miss their big brother so much. You will always be in my heart. I love you baby!
Mom
lindsy doyle
January 5, 2010
Justin-
I cannot believe it is 6 years today. It is crazy the rush of emotions that comes back with this day. You were an amazing person and I can't help but to stop and remember that today. You always had a smile on your face, always were trying to make everyone laugh, and always up to something. I remember snow days at Gigi's and you hiding behind the bushes before popping out and hitting us with snow balls. Snow days just aren't as much fun without you egging us on to be immature for just a little while. I hope you know you are in everybody's thoughts and prayers today Justin. We miss you and love you every day.
McKenzie Lambert
December 14, 2009
Justin Justin Justin.
I love you and miss you so much. 6 years is around the corner and it's so weird how everything has changed in 6 years. It seems like forever ago you were sittin on the couch sketching on hyour doodle pad and kels and i were eating snow pies. I thought about you a lot today and for the first time in a while I cried my eyes out. You were meant for something great and I guess God knew that and thought you were more special than anyone else cause he wanted you to come help him. I love you and I know you're looking down protecting your family and kickin the soccer ball around upstairs. I just wish i could get one more hug and one more metal mouth smile :)
love you always brudder.
Lindsy Doyle
November 27, 2009
Justin-
As the holidays approach I remember the last time I talked to you before you died that day and how I teased you because you had gone back to school earlier than us. You always had a way of making me laugh no matter how bored or upset I was. That day you kept sending me South Park quotes and I remember your favorite as if by heart "Whatever, whatever I do what I want". I now have it as a magnet on my fridge and think of you daily. In the short 3 years or so I knew you I cannot tell you how many good memories you brought to me, Gigi, and our friends that you met. You danced with me at homecoming freshman year because I did not have a date. You kept prank calling Gigi & I when we had a project and were miserable just to make us laugh. You were an amazing person and hope you are watching over us up in Heaven. We all love you and miss you every day!
Karen Creech
November 25, 2009
Justin Darling,
I was thinking about you tonight and I wasn't sad. I was thinking of all our times together and what a good person you were. You had my heart. I'm glad you got that from me. It doesn't always get you the results you want but you knew you had to follow your heart. I miss you so much, especially at holidays. You will always be missing and though nothing can change that you are never forgotten. Mrs. McKercher gave Allison from church 2 of your books from 2nd grade and of course they were about dinosaurs! You are always in my heart. Kelsey, Connor and dad miss you too. Everyone keeps it to themselves mostly. which is how they deal without you. Me I just talk about you to anyone that will listen...and I have alot of reasons to let them know that a tragedy could have been prevented and it will happen again unless changes are made. But mostly I talk about you because I love you and I want everyone to know about you and your life. You lived a good life that ended way too soon but you did make a difference in your short 15 years. I am proud of you and I love you with all my heart. Happy Thanksgiving my son. I know you are in good hands.
Karen Creech
September 30, 2009
Dearest Justin,
I just read your sister's entry and it breaks my heart. I know how much she and Connor miss you. I was actually at the beach on September 16th, your 21st birthday and thought about you and cried alot. I will always miss you and will never forget all the wonderful memories we shared. You are my heartstring as is Kelsey and Connor. I am thankful for the time we shared and count myself blessed to have had you. I love you my darling.
Mom
Kelsey Creech
September 15, 2009
Wow. i cant believe you wouldve been 21 tomorrow. i miss you so much justin not a day goes by that i dont think about you. and i wonder how i am supposed to go on with out my big brother. it just doesnt seem right. i miss you so much, everyday. i also cant believe im in college a very hard transition i must say but its probably harder on mom than me haha. i miss you so much. its so weird watching connor and he does some of the same things you do, it freaks me out almost but makes me smile all at the same time. i miss you so much brother and i always will. you made such an impact on many peoples lives, including mine. i love you. and hope that ill be able to see you again one day.
kelsey
Karen Creech
May 10, 2009
My Dearest Justin,
Another Mother's Day without you and it hurts so much. I just want you to come home and we can have our family back together again. I will always love you with all my heart and you will always be with me. I miss you baby.
Love Always,
Mom
Karen Creech
March 30, 2009
Dear Justin,
Kelsey got into VA Tech, JMU, VCU, College of Charleston and several others. I am so proud of her and know you are too! She hasn't decided yet but don't you know what a wild time it will be at the house when UVA plays Tech if she decides to go there. I know she misses you so much. You have been such an inspiration in her life! Connor will be 16 in a week. It's bittersweet in that you never made it till 16 but he is such a courageous young man. I know he still struggles without his big brother because he still can't talk about you. He has a girlfriend! She's older and drives. She is very pretty and sweet. Kelsey and Aaron are still head over heels in love. Aaron is a really great guy and really takes care of her. He will probably go to Notre Dame so it's going to be tough on both of them when they have to go away.
I miss you and think about you everyday. It still hurts really bad but I always know you are looking out for me and I will see you again one day. Dad still struggle so much. He lost a big part of himself when you died. I try to do what I can but most of the time he keeps it all bottled up inside. I have been working with him doing tax returns-can you believe it? I think overall it has been good for us. Our 24th anniversary is coming up and it is so hard to believe we have been together so long(27 years if you count the time we dated). So many people feel an emptiness where you were in their lives. I wish so much that you were still here. I had a dream the other night and you were 10 and we were talking about the dog. She has been sick lately and I have had to think about the time when she won't be around. She was such a comfort after you died. I cried so much on her it was as if she had been bathed but she just stared at me with those eyes asking what she could do to make me better.
I love you so much and please know you are always with me.
Love always,
mom
Maria
March 29, 2009
Justin,
I still can't believe your gone. I remember hearing the news that day and thinking "is Kelsey going to be alright?!" because I knew you were safe and at peace. I know your watching over your family everyday all the time. Rest peacefully.
March 6, 2009
hi son
I seem to hear all these songs that remind me of you. I wish I could tell someone when the words make me smile or cry but no one wants to think that I still hurt so much. After all you are suppose to get better and I guess that means not remembering to the point it still hurts. I just can not seem to get to that point. I want to because I know u dont want me to cry or be upset but I am sorry baby I just havent been able to find that place of peace I know have. Just one more day with you...Oh what I would give. We would talk about love, christmas pictures in pjs, snowmen we made, maybe even regrets...but it would all be so good just to talk. I would tell u that I would die so u could live. You still had so much to do and maybe no one knew that better than me cause a mom always knows what their children are capable of. In the end it is just still being able to talk to you and knowing that you still hear me. It snowed this week and I remembered the day u were buried and how it snowed just for you..or maybe it snowed for me so I could kmow you were telling me to remember the good times. I will always miss you when it snows especially. Thank you for letting me know how much the simple things in life can be and how truly happy I can be. You still teach me the greatest lessons in life. I don't know if you ever truly knew what a blessing you were and still are but I just hope you can see into my heart. There is so much to tell you about Kelsey and Connor but mostly how happy they seem now. I believe you know that and you actually have a part in that and they know too. I know they were so young but they always remember their brother. He was the best even when he was the worst. Please still help me...Knowing you are heaven looking out for us and especially helping your crazy mom makes all the difference in the world. You willl always be my son in every way no matter where your soul may be. I love you so much and the word miss doesn't even come close to how I feel now without you here. I think you are the only one that gets that though but knowing that makes most days ok. Juddybuddy I love you and miss you. You will always be forever young and in my heart you will stay...forever young.
Love ya,
MOM
Karen Creech
February 10, 2009
Dear Justin,
Always on my mind-your smiling face, you jumping around like there were ants in your pants, you saying I love you mom, you just being you. The pain will never go away but oh the memories-they keep me going. I will always love you with all my being and miss you even more.
Luv ya!!
mom
February 9, 2009
remember goalie wars?
gettin craazyy with dry ice?
walkin to the movie store and to wendys?
willow lawn?
your amazing hand sketches
fighting over what we watched on tv?
monopoly tournaments with the fam?
kabuto?
gahh rememberrrr the beach when you first got braces and your lips got caught in them somehow? haha
remember the day you got braces? i do..we had to wait in the car the entire time. :/ i think the colors were blue and orange...uva colors
remember big sleepovers and mattresses on the living room floor?
remember goin to the pool and jammin out to some eminem?
remember playin outside all the time and only comin in to eat some lunch?
remember cutting the grass for my mom?
remember being the best Juddy Buddy that you could possibly be ever?
dudeee these are just some of the things i think about when your face pops into my head.
missin you every day brotha.
xoxo
McKenzie
Karen Creech
December 24, 2008
Dear Justin,
Merry Christmas! This will be our 5th Christmas without you and it doesn't get any easier. I still remember that last Christmas when I gave you a loaf of french bread with these oils you could dip the bread in and you ate the whole loaf as we were unwrapping presents and wanted to know if I had any more bread! Your smile and laughter was as bright as any Christmas tree will ever be! I try really hard to think about what you would want for us now that you are in heaven instead of here and so I find happiness in the things that remind me of you. Connor is so much like you in that carefree love of life you had. He loves to skateboard(or long board as they call it now) and play video games just like you did at 15. You and he would have so much fun!! I know he and Kelsey miss you so much and that breaks my heart. They need their big brother so much but I know you are looking out for them. Kelsey is so beautiful and thinks of you often now that she is getting ready to go off to college. You would be proud of both of them for doing so well after all they have had to endure. Please look over us this Christmas and know that you are and will always be in our thoughts and hearts. I love you so very much and miss you too! I will forever be your proud mother!!! Please be with your dad as he still struggles so much with the loss of you in his life.
Love always,
Mom
Karen Creech
September 20, 2008
Dear Justin,
Happy 20th!! I know this is a few days late but the internet has been down at the house. Dad and I went to your grave on Tuesday and took flowers and thought about the wonderful young man you would be today. It is still so painful that you are not here with us today but you are always in my heart and with me. On your birthday I can't help but go back down memory lane and think about the day you were born and what a wonderful day that was! I miss you so much and no words can every convey the emptiness that is the place you belong in this world. I know you are with us and wish only our happiness so I keep you alive with all the wonderful times we had. I love you baby boy!
Forever your mom
Rita Haire
September 18, 2008
Dearest Justin, we remembered your 20th birthday this week and prayed many special prayers for your family as we all think of the young man you would have become. Thoughts of you are with us so many times, but especially on September 16. You are missed. We will always love you,
Darrell, Rita, Ted, Drew & Christina
Karen Creech
March 17, 2008
Dear Justin,
The poem I posted was for both of us. It reminded me of you because you wanted to make people smile and you wanted life to be happy and good for everyone. I remember our talks, our struggles and know now that their were lessons we both needed to learn. In many ways you were old beyond your years and yet still so very young to die. I will always struggle because no mother can understand why she must bury her child. However, I do know that God has a plan and though I may hate it right now, one day it will all make sense and I will be reunited with you. I miss you every day and my heart aches so much but please know that I am trying very hard to find happiness for you, Kelsey and Connor. Being a mother is the only thing that ever truly seemed important to me and I don't think I could ever find anything that brought me more happiness. You live on in my heart and soul and will forever be a part of my life. I love you Justin and just wish I could hug you and tell you so.
Mom
Karen Creech
March 17, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Sherry Johnson
March 15, 2008
Though I never had the honor to know Justin personally I have gotten to know him through his Mom who is a wonderful person. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Karen Creech
March 8, 2008
Justin,
Not a day goes by that I don't think of you. Something will happen and I want to share it with you. Kelsey was inducted in the National Honor Society at SGHS on 2/27/08. She has turned into such a beautiful young lady with so much ahead of her. She just asked a guy to the Junior prom and he is taking her. He is cute and nice. I know she misses you so much and would love to share this fun time of her life with you. It makes me sad that you three are not together. Connor will be 15 in less than a month. He is starting to look so much like you and boy does he act like you did!!! Always so silly and energetic-full of life,love and happiness. I look at him and it reminds me of how young you were when you were taken from us. You live on in so many ways and in so many people my son. I love you!
Mom
Lindsy Doyle
March 7, 2008
Justin-
I am having jaw surgery in 2 months and I have never been so nervous. You and I talked about this surgery way back when in 7th grade when my doctors first proposed the idea of it to me. You kept telling me that we were in a race to see who would get their braces off first. I guess I win by default, but I will share the honor with you ; ) It is so weird thinking that in June I will be 20. You would have been such a great person Justin. I can see you now with your curly brown hair and bright smile. You always looked the same as you got older. It is definitely weird looking at Connor because you can completely see you in him. We miss you with all of our hearts. I try to talk to you whenever I feel lost and it brings me some comfort, and even though you can't physically be with me or answer me, I can completely feel your presence around me. RIP Juddy Buddy. Keep looking out for us. We love you!
Karen Creech
January 6, 2008
Justin,
Yesterday was a tough one. I kept reliving that day 4 years ago and although I tried not to, I couldn't get the terrible events of that day out of my head....I don't think I ever will. I did spend most of the day remembering the child I love so much and how you brightened so many of the lives you touched. I went to the parking lot where you died and laid 4 roses at 1:12 p. m. the time you died. For the first time in 4 years I was there alone and I prayed that you did not feel alone when you took your last breath on this earth. Later in the afternoon I went to Hollywood and visited with you there. Several of your friends had been by and left notes or tributes. You are still remembered by so many. I miss you so much and the ache of that longing to see you again hurts so much but I know I will see you again. People say I am strong, but I am not...I am just trying to do what I know you would
want me to do and that is to take care of Kelsey, Connor and your Dad and be happy again. That is the biggest challenge of my life but I am able to do it more days than not. I want you to be proud of me. Justin your life was such a gift and I am so blessed to have had you! I will love you forever!!!!!
Mom
becca bandy
January 5, 2008
i turned 20 and you weren't here. some days i still can't believe we've come so far. i know you're proud of us, wherever you are, and that helps a little, but even now it's surreal to think that you aren't just a phone call away.
mckenzie Lambert
January 3, 2008
justin,
its hard to believe it will be 4 years on saturday. i still think about you often and try talking to you, but i dont know if you're with me or hear me. i miss you so much..you were full of love, life, and smiles, and when i describe you to friends, i refer to you as my "big brother". at one point, i was closer to your family then i was with my own. i can't help but cry when i read your mom's entries. Karen is such a strong woman justin... i dont know how she still holds her head up. i wish you were still here more than anything..if i could bring anyone back, including my grandpa, i'd choose you. you woulda grown into someone fantastic. you deserved to stay with us a little longer. i know this entry is a lot of babble and is all over the place, but this is how i feel right now. i miss your family too, and have a lot of regrets when it comes to some choices i made 2 years ago.
i'll come visit saturday and i love you and miss you more than anything juddy buddy.
McKenzie
Karen Creech
November 10, 2007
Justin,
I have been thinking about you and trying to remember our last Thanksgiving together. I can remember that you had dinner with Gigi and ate with us also. You should could eat alot! The holidays always make me miss you. I always feel like I should be buying you Christmas presents...I still hang your stocking. We still have the same traditions and yes Kelsey and Connor will be doing the pajama picture and will be until they get married!! Gigi was at church Sunday home from college for the weekend and she looked good, happy and I am glad and I know you are too. It is hard to believe its been almost 4 years. For me it doesn't seem like that long at all. It is like you were here just yesterday. I hope it will always be that way so I can remember what our last holidays together were like. I know they were happy because we always had fun! I have always loved when you, Kelsey and Connor were out of school on vacation. I was so lucky...I always knew how precious the time with my children was and I always did and still try to take full advantage of that. That helped alot when I lost you, that and knowing how much you loved all of us and that you knew how much we all loved you. I found a note you wrote when you were in 8th grade and you were mad at dad and me about something and you were writing about how clueless dad was and a few other choice things and then you said, "and my mom, well what can I say bad about my mom". I know you could have said plenty but I know what you meant. Connor is this tall,really goofy kid-remind you of any other 14 year old you know? He is alot of fun these days. You two have alot of the same genes yet he is his own person. You would be proud of your little brother except of course for the polo clothes! Kelsey runs the road all weekend now that she has her driver's license but she studies hard and is a great girl so what can I say except that I miss her sometimes and she has quite a mouth on her as in loud! Dad misses you. On his birthday, this past Thursday, he cried. It still hurts to see him cry but I am glad when he finally let some of it out. Justin please find your special way to be with him and take care of him he still needs you and we still need him. I love you and miss you so very much. I am thankful for the good days they seem to come more often than the bad. I know the pain will never go away-it is always there, hiding just below the surface and can strike at any time but I choose to live again. I know that is what I need to do for myself, Kelsey, Connor, your dad and for you. Thank you for still helping me find my place in the world again!
Love always,
mom
lindsy doyle
October 6, 2007
Justin! I sent your family a book filled with memories people left about you on our facebook group, "In Loving Memory of Justin Creech". I know things get hard at times, but hopefully they will be able to look back and see how many people you touched and how many people you made happy. I might be getting a tattoo in honor of you soon. I have two now---1 of 2 acorns for my great grandfather Arthur Korn (Akorn=acorn) and one of a compass...the outward bound symbol and to know that I am still finding my way in life. We miss you a lot and know you are watching over us!
October 5, 2007
Oh my gosh, just now Connor was walking outside away from me wearing a dark green T-shirt and baggy shorts showing his drawers(if not for the t-shirt) and he was walking EXACTLY like you. It was great watching him!
Thanks juddybuddy!
Love,
the crazy lady in the red wig
Karen Creech
October 5, 2007
Justin,
Today is my birthday eve-a holiday you, Kelsey, Connor and dad always said I made up to have one more tradition to add to the growing list we had. I can't help but feel a little sad because you are not here to celebrate with us. Last night I slept with your teddy bear. Sometimes it's just hard without you so today I will visit your grave and talk to you. Today I just want comfort in feeling your presence with me. Today I will be selfish and cry because the loss I feel is great but know that tomorrow I will laugh again because it is the best way to honor you. I love you Justin!
Mom
October 4, 2007
justin,
i never thought the day would come where i would be happy when i thought about you instead of being sad. your spirit runs through me whenever i think of your smile or remember how you laughed. i think about you often and wonder how close we would be if you were still be. i'd like to believe that we would still be very close and that i'd always have a big brother there to give me advice. you were the closest thing i had to a big brother and i apprecitate you and your family so much. i especcially appreciate your mother for giving me the same love that she gave you, and continues to give kelsey and connor...
i love you justin and you're always in my thoughts and prayers.
xox McKenzie
Karen Creech
October 3, 2007
Dear Justin,
Well my birthday is in 3 days but I don't get excited like I used to. I remember the last one I had when you were alive-my 50th! Dad surprised me by renting a limo for me and my friends and you and Connor got in and Connor didn't want to get out and chased after it down the street crying and you chased after to get him. I keep thinking about the 50 gladilios's you were going to get me but they were out of season. I miss you so much on my birthday and if I could have one present that I wanted the most it would be for you to walk through the door. Your dad told me tonight about one of his client's son's that died recently at college. You have a new friend in heaven-his name is Alan. I feel so sad for his parents and brother because I know how much it hurts but I also will pray for them. I know God has carried me since you died. He has given me the strength to make it until it is my time to join you in heaven. Until then I have all of these great pictures and wonderful memories that get me through. You are one of the great loves of my life and I know you know that! Thanks for being my son! I love you Justin Alexander Creech!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mom
Lindsy Doyle
September 19, 2007
Justin-
I put together a book of people's memories of you for your family so that they will be able to look back and be able to see other people's wonderful memories that your friends have of you. I am getting a tattoo for you soon. I got one of 2 acorns for my great grandfather Arthur Korn (A.Korn) this past spring and a compass for Outward Bound. While my parents dont love it, they know each means something special to me, but yours has been the hardest to design. I miss you every day and think of you as I pass Wendy's/Allen&Allen, when I drive by Mary Munford, when I hear certain songs. Every time I look at your pictures I can't help but smile. You had the best smile. You would look so good right now. I always had the biggest crush on you. Haha. Kelsey got her license...scary! Anyway, I just wanted to say hi and that I love and miss you.
I hope that you are looking over us
Karen Creech
September 18, 2007
Dearest Justin,
I often think of what you would look like at various times since you died but especially around your birthday. You would have been 19 this past Sunday. As we sat in church, the pastor asked a question and dad answered and the pastor made a remark that was funny back to Kelsey and Connor. It reminded me of the numerous times we were in church and you would be the ligurist and dad or Joey would try to make you laugh. So many bittersweet memories. I know you would be tall and so handsome with that curly hair.
Aunt Ruby died September 13th and was buried yesterday in Fayettevile. Kelsey and I went to the funeral. At the viewing I kissed her good-bye and told her to tell you how much I loved you and missed you. So many of my family members in heaven that it will be a glorious reunion when I get there! But the one I wish to see the most is you!!!!! Justin I know what a wonderful gift God gave me when he gave me you even if it was just for a little while and I am thankful everyday for you. Though my heart is broken now I know one day everything will be just fine. A mother's love is a wonderful gift and yet such a heavy burden at times. I wouldn't trade it for the world! I love you my precious boy!
mom
Lavonda Creech
September 17, 2007
When I awoke in the early hours of Sunday morning I couldn't stop thinking about the events of that sorrowful day in 1/04 when a flower was taken from our family. Karen, Steve, Connor and Kelsey, We weep with you today as we remember what has happended. It still seems so unreal. Being so far away, we can pretend that Justin is still in his home in Richmond Va but we know it isn't true. Our hearts goes out to you and pray that you are being comforted by the Lord as only He can. We love you all very much and pray that such a tradegy will never strike again. Love, MOM and DAD
Rita Haire
September 16, 2007
Our thoughts are with the Creech family today as we remember Justin's 19th birthday. We will always wish for what could have been, but we give our broken hearts to God and know that He is good and just and cares for us.
We love you, Justin, and we miss you.
Darrell, Rita, Ted, Drew & Christina
The Haires
Karen Creech
August 1, 2007
Justin,
I see a rainbow and I think of you. I see a butterfly and think of you. I watch the sunset and feel you close by. I sit at the ocean and know you are with me still. All the beautiful wonders in this world are reminders of the wonder, beauty and happiness you brought to so many people but none more than me. Our bond can never be broken not even by death. God cares for you now until the day we will be together again. Though I miss you so very much I will try to fill more of my days with joy and fewer days with grief. I will look all around me, pay attention and will find you. Love is not about holding on but about letting go and while it is so hard for me I am blessed to have had you in my life and to know where you are now. Be with us, your family and friends and help us on the difficult days. I will always love you and no one can ever take that away.
Mom
Lindsy Doyle
July 30, 2007
And I will walk with you
using the stars as guides
on a homeward path we go
knowing our time is nigh
I, I will walk... to be with you
so put your hand in mine
and lay your head to rest
we'll light the candles now
they won't be lit for long
we'll know our day was blessed
Karen Creech
July 20, 2007
Dear Justin,
As always there is a an emptiness in my heart that should be filled with your laughter, love, tears and life but instead is filled with a deep longing to hear your voice and to see your face one more time. I know how very blessed I am to have had you as my son on this earth for as long as I did-it just wasn't long enough for me. I was remembering the first time and you cried and I held you and tried to comfort you and I was wishing you were here now to do the same for Kelsey. It is times like these that she needs her big brother and your absence is felt so much and the normal pain of growing up is harder than than it should be. I am sure you would make her laugh in a way only you could and everything would seem better. Look after her please-she needs you Justin.
Connor is following in your footsteps in many ways. He was quite the comedian at ASAP last week when he and Kelsey went to Tennessee with the church youth group I'm told. Gigi didn't make it this year and Kelsey had a hard time without her there. The last day they were there Parks, the daugher of the parents who organize the trips, talked about how you were suppose to go on the first trip 4 years ago and never made it but how proud you would be to see your brother and sister there together. I wish it could of have been the 3 of you there.
Justin, I am learning how to find joy again in life-to honor you. It is probably the hardest thing I have ever done as crazy as that sounds. It is not because I don't want to be happy again because I do. Unless you have walked in someone's shoes that have lost a child you can never truly know how much is taken away. However, I am grateful that God has carried me when I could not walk and showed me light when all I could see was dark. I know you are in His care and you want me to be happy and for you and Kelsey and Connor I will be. You 3 are my life and my happiness forever. I will see you again one day and there will be no more sorrow or pain. I love you with all that is within me.
Mom
Karen Creech
May 22, 2007
Dear Justin,
I held onto today with the bittersweet knowledge that you had not made it to your 16th Birthday. But your little sister will 16 tomorrow. You would be very proud of her. She has beauty, grace, kindness, intelligent and a heart that has and will always guide her well. I bet if she could have one wish on her birthday it would be for you to come home. I know she misses you. Its hard to lose someone as important in your life as a big brother-you were the best! We are having the neighbors across the street over for dinner tommorrow night and Frances. It should be fun. Molly and Kelsey will have a pool party at Granite on June 9th. We have learned how to do celebrations without you but its not what we what to be doing because we remember all the fun we had with you. But we will keep trying for you and the more we try the more we feel you with us. I love you my son. You are the stars that shine in the sky and I know they are for me.
Thanks for all the dreams that came true!
Love you forever!!!!!
leelee roman
March 27, 2007
justin, just so you know..everytime i hear "there is" by box car racer and "i feel so" i think about you. the songs never fail to remind me of you. it's on my ipod...and it never fails to play the songs either....
your scream would make me the happiest person right now.. i remember when i would call you crying and you wouldn't be allowed on the phone, you'd hide it in your pocket and tell me you're hiding ME in your pocket.. haha and SCREAM..god i miss you. so much. i think about you a lot more when i drive up there...wishing i could just come scoop you up like i always told you i would once i started driving....would be so nice right now.
i miss you my love. and will always. love you.
McKenzie
March 20, 2007
Justin,
I'd like to say that now whenever i think of you, all I can do is smile and laugh when i remember the past. I was told, right after you died, that one day i would be able to listen to a song you liked or look at a picture of you, and instead of crying i would be really happy that i was left with these memories. Though i have many memories that I will cherish forever, i find myself still sad and teary-eyed. not a day goes by Justin where you don't cross my mind. I just wish that you would still be around and maybe our lives would be somehow different-- friendships that have been forgotten would still be connected.i don't know. i would love that more than anything, besides you being around still. you were that person everyone could rely on for some good advice, a big hug, or just that amazing smile that somehow warmed up everyone's heart.
I will be visiting you on Thursday, and it will be the first time since your funeral. I'm excited. maybe i'll get the same warm feeling i once did when i knew i could count on my "big brother". words cannot describe the tremendous love and happiness you gave us all!!
i love you and miss you so much bud.
Karen Creech
March 17, 2007
Dear Justin,
I miss you so much. Time goes on, life goes on and the dead are forgotten. But I am stuck in a time warp where you are still living, laughing and loving. I move forward and pretend everything is ok but I just want to talk about you. Not the part of your terrible death but of your wonderful life. But there is no one to talk to and that hurts because I don't want you to be forgotten. I wish so much I could talk to you and have you hug me and tell me one more time that you love me. I look at your pictures and it is so hard to believe that someone so full of life could be gone. I was putting out the Easter decorations the other day and I came across an Easter basket you made out of a milk carton. You must of been in kindergarten when you made it. Something I will treasure forever. Everywhere I turn there are reminders of your life. A life so treasured and a son who I loved with all my heart and soul but even that wasn't enough to save you. I know you want me to be happy but the pain is so great and though you may forget about it for a little while when it comes flooding back into your mind it is as fresh as it was when I heard your dad tell me that you were dead. Does a mother ever recover? I don't think so and no one can ever really know the depth of the pain. It is lonely now without you and though I pray somehow I will find a way through this I am afraid I may not. I will keep trying for you though because I know you don't want my tears only my smile and laughter. I love you with all my heart Justin and I always will.
Forever yours,
Mom
Karen Creech
January 6, 2007
Dearest Justin,
They say that time heals all things. Well that's not true. Nothing can heal the broken part of my heart that was you. Everyone says I have done so well but what I have done is because of the unwavering and immeasureable love I have for you, Kelsey and Connor. Being a parent is one of the greatest gift's God allows us but I believe the greatest gift is being a mom. It was 19 years ago this month that I found out I was going to be a mom for the first time and your dad and I were so happy. I still have the blue cermic bear that plays music that I bought as soon as I received the news. Your dad was the like a little kid in a candy store. He wanted to be able to experience every moment of the pregnancy and if he could have switched places with me, he would have. He loved you so much and his heart is hurting so much. I tell him that this is not what you want for him but he doesn't seem to hear me. I wish I could have done something to have saved you but I guess God had his own plam and while I don't like his plan right now I know one day I will understand and I will see you again I know we couldn't have loved you anymore than we did I just wish we would have had more time with you. I know there are so many people who love and miss you and that on this 3d annivesary many tears will be shed.
Yesterday dad stayed home with me and we went to the parking lot where you died and at 1:13 p. m. we laid flowers there. When we arrived Gigi and her parents were there. We all cried and hugged. Gigi still loves and misses you. Please help show her how to be happy again. Gigi and I walked to the median of Broad St. and laid a rose their in your honor. In the afternoon Kelsey, me and dad visited your grave. The Norris's had left flowers and a card that said "Justin, we will never forget you." There were other flowers there also but no note or card. Frances sent flowers and a card that said remembering your wonderful son Justin. Ronnie, Benny, Latane and Frances came over for dinner last night. Gigi was supposed to come but she was sick.
Justin, this is all so hard for me. I just want you home with us but I know no matter what it will never happen. I will always remember your beautful smile, you always jumping around and you hugging me even at 15 saying mommy I love you. Well baby I love you too forver and always.
Love ya!
mom
Rita and Darrell Haire
January 5, 2007
Justin, we miss you today.
We will always miss you and love you.
We still remember you as that tender, gentle boy who stayed with us during basketball camp in the summers and couldn't go to sleep without magic powder and loooonnng phone conversations with your Mom and Dad. I thought you'd never be able to go to sleep! We treasure every moment we had with you and wish we had more.
With all our love,
Rita and Darrell,
Ted, Drew & Christina
Aunt Susan
January 5, 2007
Dear
Justin,
It has been 3 years since you left us and we ALL miss you. Megan wants
to name her baby in memory of you if it is a boy and I think that is wonderful. It is a decision her and Scott made on the way home from
your funeral and have stuck with. I know that you feel all the love we
all have for you. You will always be in our hearts.
Molly
January 5, 2007
I thought about you all day today and you cross my mind everyday. I love and miss you so much.
Lindsy Doyle
January 5, 2007
Justin,
Today is the three year anniversary of your death. I cannot stop thinking about you today. I will never be able to forget that day. I had talked to you online right before you left to go to Wendy's. You said you would be right back to talk to me. If I had known it would be the last conversation we would have, I would have said so many things to you. I know you are always looking over us and watching out for us. I will never stop missing you Justin. Save a spot for me up there.
Love,
Lindsy
Megan Lafferty
January 4, 2007
Dear Justin,
In one more hour we will be once again facing the 5th of Jan. I remember the day so clearly. I started a new job, I called my mom to tell her about the day I had and before I could get it out she gave me the news. I remeber the night before I called your mom to see if Kelsey would be in my wedding. I couldnt believe what I had heard. I have never wrote in this book, but I think about u everyday. I know that I didnt get the chance to know you as well as I wish I would have, but I am thankful that I did know you. I am going to have a baby in June. I will find out what it is Jan 29th. My husband Scott(you met him once)and I have decided if it is a boy we will be naming him Scott Alexander after you and if it isnt when I finally do have a boy it will be that. I will let you know in time. We all miss you soooo much Justin. I hope Grandma is taking good care of you, Chris, and Kathy. I love you!
Love always
Megan
Lindsy Doyle
January 4, 2007
Tomorrow will be the three year anniversary of your death. I know that you are in your family's thoughts and prayers always, especially tomorrow. I will never forget the night I saw your face on the news.You made a big impact on so many people's lives, whether or not you knew it. I wish that you could be here with us right now.You would be midway through your first year of college.I can't believe your sister can drive now! Everyone is doing well, but never does a day go by where you aren't thought about and missed. I will be by to see you tomorrow. RIP Justin. I miss you.
-Lindsy-
Karen creech
December 15, 2006
I miss you so much and wish you were here for the holidays. Your little sister has her learners and is driving...scary for me! Connor is doing well. I keep hoping that one morning I will wake up and you will be home, here with us. I love you so much and you are always in my heart.
Mom
lil sis
December 14, 2006
miss and lovee youu, makingg an art projectt aboutt youu and think off you all the timee
Carrie Norris
December 10, 2006
hey, its been a long time, i know joey misses you, and everyone else.i dont really know what else to say. i stil remember all those fun times., like when you,joey,kirby,me and my mom went to go see that movie, a bugs life at virginia center commans. you were walking out of the movie theatre and you had your shoe laces tied together and you screamed "i'm a beautiful butterfly!!!" and then you jumped up and fell in the middle of the road. and that time right after christmas when you came to see joey and i was wearing one of those friendship necklaces that says friend on it and you told me you had the other one and it was red and black. those sorta things you did always made me laugh, and another time at VCC when they had just opened that new nordstoms or something and none of the manicans had clothes and everyone you saw you started laughing at it. and i remember somethign about pretzles. and some time when our parents were at like a party or something and you joey kirby kelsey connor and me were all at your house and we played hide n' seek and you told me to hide in the dryer, and i got locked in the bathroom. i really miss you and all those good times
Lindsy Doyle
November 8, 2006
As I was walking through the drill field of Virginia Tech with my boyfriend last weekend and all I could think about was where you would be, and what type of person would you be now.When I am at the football games I picture you there, cheering among your friends, or skateboarding around campus. As January comes closer I am getting sadder every day. I am going to go and visit you soon, and hopefully that will bring me some comfort. I love and miss you every day Justin. Save a spot for me up there. We will miss you a lot at Thanksgiving this year. It just won't be the same without you, but I know you will be looking down upon us, joining us in spirit.
Karen Creech
November 2, 2006
Dear son,
I know I am not the only one who misses you and my heart aches for all those who feel the pain your loss has caused. But I know you smile down on us all and shout "be happy". The love, understanding, compassionate and humor you showed shines through in all of us who loves you. Your legacy is our lives and how we live without you. This is the true measure of our love and it is truly the hardest part of living and loving. You are with us always and we are better for having known you. I thank God every day for allowing me to be your mom and you my son. Please keep me close to your heart as I keep you close to mine. You will be forever young.
I love you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mom
McKenzie
October 28, 2006
Justin,
geez...i miss you. i think about you often, especcially when i'm upset and i wish that i could call you and just vent. knowing that you would listen, and give advice just makes me a little more comforted. i'm listening to "Hear You Me", Justin, and I just cant stop tearing up. I wish with all my heart you were back here with all of us. I wish i could go over to your house on Fitzugh and watch TV with kelsey while fighting over the remote with connor, and then have you come stomping down the stairs. I think about what you would be like now. A big 18 year old, mature, working, graduated...my heart aches knowin you never had that...I just love you so much and miss you so much and i hope you still listen to me when i try talking to you. I can't wait to see you again...
Molly
October 27, 2006
I miss you so much, bud.
Lindsy Doyle
October 25, 2006
hey Justin. I was thinking about you yesterday because Gigi and I picked up my brother up at St. Chris and there was a kid who looked JUST like Conner. I went home and looked at pictures of you. It will be interesting to see if Conner turns out like you. From what I've heard he is well on his way. Skateboarding, being goofy, etc. I know that you are here with us every day and I can't wait until I see you again. Until them, take care of yourself, and don't change who you are, because you are the best person I have ever met. I miss you Juddy. You will always be in my heart!
Karen Creech
October 5, 2006
Dear Justin,
It's my Birthday eve and I reallly miss you. Birthday's are not quite as special as they were. I visited you at Hollywood today. You will always be my greatest gift! I sometimes still find it so hard to believe that you are gone. I keep expecting you to come through the door and give me that dopey grin, hug me and adk what's for dinner. Some people say it makes it easier if they think of it as the person they loved has gone away on a long journey but for me I know you could never stay away from home this long and especially my home cooked meals. Sometimes it jus hurts so much and I know you know it so I try really hard to stop the pain and most of the time it works but times like today I just let it go knowing some how you understand. I am so thankful that God gave you to me as a son. I had so much fun with you just being your mom-through the good times and bad we had a connection that is still there. You take care and I will too knowing that one day I WILL see that beautiful smile of yours again. I love you so very much Justin!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mom
Karen Creech
September 16, 2006
Dear Justin,
Happy Birthday! Today you would have been 18. Your dad told me the other night that I had invented a holiday and I had no idea what he was talking about and then he said birthday eve-the day before your birthday when you got to open up one of your presents. I always loved birthdays and tried to make them special for each one of you including the special birthday table cloth your aunt Kathy gave us. We would be going out to a restaurant of your choice tonight and I would make sure everyone sang happy birthday to you. Birthdays aren't the same without you. They have lost some of their magic. I no longer look forward to my own birhday the way I did before. For 15 years today was one of the happiest day of my life because on this day I first became a mom-now I mourn the loss of my first born son. I know you do not want me to cry or be upset- you would never want that so I am trying really hard not to but I miss you so much.
This morning dad I visited your grave and placed 18 red roses there with a balloon. Your dad is hurting so much. I try to be strong for him since I am the only one who knows the agony he is going through. He loves you so much. Kelsey and I went to her cross country meet near charloteesville. On the way there I play "Forever Young". It was and will always be my song to you. You would be proud of your little sis-she is an amazing young lady! She is doing great in school and sports and is beautiful inside and out. She misses you too. Late this afternoon while we were in the car it started raining and all of a sudden we saw the most amazing rainbow I have ever seen. It had a perfect arch and the colors were brillant. I know in my heart that it was a gift from you. I had Kelsey call your dad in hopes that he would be able to see it from the house but he couldn't. Justin I know you are and will always be with us and that I will be with you again one day. Until the day comes that we are together I will do my best to honor your memory by trying to be happy and give to others the way you did. You were one of the greatest gifts(Kelsey and Connor ere the others)I ever received. You gave me so much and taught me so much. Being you mom was and will always be an honor. Happy Birthday! I love you so much!!!!
Mom
lindsy doyle
September 16, 2006
Happy 18th birthday Justin! I got too nervous to actually come and see you today, so this will have to do. I wanted to call your mom, but decided to give her the space that she probably needed. Unfortunately, Gigi and I are not really friends any more, so I could not be there for her today, but I know that you were with her all day long. I drove by TJ the other day and thought of you. I really do miss you a lot. I know this would have been a good birthday! I miss you! HAPPY 18th. Save a spot up there for me buddy. xoxo
lindsy doyle
September 12, 2006
your birthday is on saturday and i kept thinking last night what i would have gotten you, now that i work at abercombie and fitch. it's wierd thinking that you would be eighteen. you would be a legal adult. wierd. i miss you a lot. i miss seeing you, and talking to you online when i'm bored. i know gigi sure does miss you. she's made friends with this other guy Justin, and I work with him now, so any time someone says his name, your face comes to mind. i am going to try to visit you on your birthday, if not on your birthday, a day or so afterwards. save a spot up there for me juddy. i miss you always. xoxo
-lindsy-
gigi degraff
August 25, 2006
Justin,
HEY BABY! im sorry i havent written in awhile. you know every day that passes i think of you. im getting my room re-done and while i was emptying everything out it was almost as if i went down memory lane, i found so many things that reminded me of you. i found songs you had written me and letters and pictures..and connect four =] i miss you so much baby.you will always have my heart..forever and for always. you touched my life in so many ways, i learned so much from you.Theres so many things i still wish we could have experienced together. I miss your wonderful smile and your loving self. you were so amazing, and i am the luckyest person for being loved by you. please never forget me, or the love and friendship we shared. i love you so much angel. save a place for me up there. <3
Karen Creech
August 24, 2006
Justin,
You are on my mind so much of the time lately. I miss you so much. I want to see your crazy antics and that bright beautiful smile. I can still picture you laughing and happy. It's how I will always remember you. I sure could use a hug from you but I guess I will have to settle for all the ones you gave me before you left us. You will always be loved and remembered for the wonderful kid that you were and for all the happiness you brought into ohter peoples lives!
Love you forever!!!!
Mom
karen creech
August 22, 2006
Justin,
A new school year is beginning and for you it would have been your first year of college! I know dad would have wanted you to have gone to UVA and that would have been fine with me because you would have been close to home. I keep wondering what you would have wanted for your 18th birthday which is coming up soon. I remember that we were always at the beach this time of the year and we would talk about you birthday.
Rita, Darrell and Christina came up for a visit a couple of weekends ago. We went to King's Dominion and had fun. Saturday night the kids stayed home and we went out to dinner. It was nice to see them. I feel closer to them, Vicky, Jimmy and their family and grandma and papa than to what's left of my family.
Connor, Kelsey and I saw your Aunt Vicky, Uncle Jimmy and your cousins(except for Steele who started college and Kaylan) last week. They let us stay at their condo at Carolna Beach-its really nice, I t was so great of them to do that for us. But it was even better spending time with them. I reaaly need to make more of an effort to see them. They are raising some fine kids! We also had some time with grandma and papa. It really meant alot to me. I love them both so much but don't do a good job of showing it. In trying to live with the pain of losing you and staying strong for your dad, Kelsey and Connor I forget that others miss you and hurt too.
I miss you so much and I know you're in God's hands and out of the pain and evil of this world but I still want you here with me. I know you don't want me to be sad and hurt and I try so hard to honor what I know you would want and find comfort in knowing that I will be in heaven with you one day but I am still human and still your mother and that part of me still aches and alway will.
I love you Justin and will always be thankful to God for the time we had together. Send your Uncle Steve a special blessing today-it was 4 years ago that Christopher died.
Love you forever!!!!
Mom
August 3, 2006
hey justin. i know i just wrote you a message but i want to write you another one. today i saw a kid running down patterson, right by superstars pizza where i work now, and he looked just like you. he ran up the stairs to the shop and for a minute my heart stopped and my stomach dropped. then i realized it wasn't you and he wasn't as cute as you are, but it made me remember you. you had the cutest smile. every time you smiled, the little boy in you came out. every time you saw gigi, you had this googly eye look on your face. you two were my inspiration that true love exists. i found love this year. i dated this guy bradley for 9 months. you would have approved. we broke up this past monday because he leaves for virginia tech in a week. it hurt so bad and i lied in bed crying, and wishing you were here. because i know if you were here, you would be on the phone or online listening to me, and telling how much better i am. how everything would be okay. well justin i can feel your love shining down on me, i can feel you and know you are here for me still. i will always remember you Justin. I will be going to your grave with your mom soon and have started to email her about things. Thank you for everything you did for me and continue to do for me. you are my north star, my hope, my inspiration. and in my mind, you're still here.
Karen Creech
August 3, 2006
Dear Son,
We just returned from a vacation in Cancun-the only thing missing was you! From the moment we boarded the airplane I was thinking about our last summer vacation togther when we flew to Orlando and drove all around the state having the times of our lives! And even when you, Kelsey and Connor drove me nuts with your bickering I wouldn't have changed a thing. We went snokling off a coral reef just like in Fla. One night in Cancun I walked out on the beack by myself and sat down and looked out at the water and just thought of you and our life together, our family. I am so thankful for the 15 years. 3 months and 20 days together. You were and are still so special in so many ways and you touched more lives than you could ever have imagined! Scott Ledford wrote a memorial to you in TJ's yearbook! It was so touching and wonderful and Peggy believes with all her heart that you made a big difference in his and her life. If at the end of all our lives the same can be said, then we all will have accomplished something good. Like I always said to you in so many ways I am proud of you. We went to MLWGS high school graduation and it was very special. We saw Michael, Jason, Samanta, Skylar, Faith, Jon and many other of your other friend's families before the service and your friends after at the reception. They all embraced so warmly! The two co-class senior class presidents spoke of the legacy that Alex(he died in the fall of 2003 of cancer and I don't know if you knew him) and you left behind. The kindness, the love of life and the desire to make this world a better place. I cried-imagine that--lol. The Maggie L. Walker Governor's School year book of 2006 was dedicated to the loving memory of Justin Creech and Alex Kalata. "They will alwys be a part of the Class of 2006." They included your picture in with the senior class! Justin, I know you have not been forgotten but the thoughtfulness of these 143 young people and Mr. Fleishman(I know you remember him) and other faculty members allowed Dad and me to be a part of what was suppose to be your high school graduation and for once in a long time rather than being on the outside looking in we were a part of something that was so very special and I am more grateful that words can express. Oh yeah, Mr. Fleishman even gave us a yearbook! The teachers at MLWGS cared about you so much and they still care about your family. Every senior has a quote underneath their names and this one guy that I don't know, Huberto Vazquez, quoted you. His quote was "Dude, gross. Please don't tell me you're crying....Men don't have tears." Ironic, don't you think? Especially since you and I both know that isn't true. I remember the first time you got into trouble with Michael and you were so scared and I held you and you and I were both crying and I told you that even if I wanted to, I could no longer fix things for you and that you had to answer for your actions and as hard as that day was, another, stronger bond was forged between us and you changed for the better. And then that spring when Gigi broke up with you and you were broken hearted and once again I comforted you as the tears spilled. But the worst came on August 22, 2002 when Christopher at 19 took his life. You were just a few days of turning 14 and you looked up to your older cousin and you couldn't understand how something like this could happen and in your young mind how God could let it happen. I watched as your heart broke and so many times I would walk in on you at the computer to find tears rolling down your cheeks. My darling, men do have tears-they have rivers of tears and there is nothing at all wrong with that. Sometimes I think that was a part of our struggle. You were such a mixture of me and your dad. And you got that part of me which involves compassion and tears and as you got older you didn't want to have tears. Connor's is the same way-maybe too much so. I know he is hurting because he misses you but he keeps it all inside. Please look out for your little brother from heaven. He needs you so much. Let him know somehow that it is ok to grieve for those who are no longer with us especailly if they were as close as you two. He doesn't physically look like you to me(others say he does) but the older he gets the more and more his mannerisms are just like yours. The walk, the way he shakes his head to keep his hair out of his head, pulling up his pants that are way too loose, etc. Kelsey is away this week is West Virginia with the Church youth group fixing homes(they have repaired a roof and will be working on another house today)and Gigi is with her. I wish you could see her-she is so pretty! You would be so amazed! She is as sweet as ever and she had a great 1st year at St. Gertrude's-all A's an B's! She also misses you so much. She doesn't talk to me too much about it because she doesn't want to make me sad but I know-sometimes I can even see it in her eyes. Dad and Connor went on their weeklong bike trip the week of 4th of July. They caught the train from Richmond to PA. and rode to Mt. Vernon where Kelsey and I picked them up. They were gone for 10 days. Ronnie, Alex and Ben didn't go because of Ronnie's work but Andrew(Kelsey's friend)went. We picked Alex and Ben up on our way back to Richmond and they stayed for 2 weeks. Alex still really misses you. He's a great kid(Ben too)and I can talk to him about you. Kelsey and I went to Nags Head the week Dad and Connor went on their bike trip. Rachel, Molly and Ellen joined us. Can you imagine me with 4 15 year old girls? It was a blast!!!!!
I miss you so much Justin. I should be thinking about what to get you for your 18th birthday. You should be preparing for your first year in college. God has helped me through this I know and I am so grateful to Him and I know you are in His care and that brings me comfort. But I am human and you are my son and there is nothing that can take away my pain, my longing to hug you, to see you, to tell you I love you, just to stare at you. In my dreams you come back and all this has been a nightmare.
Justin your dad was doing better but lately he isn't. Please look out for him. Let him know that you are still with him. He loves you so much.
I Love you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
MOM
Lindsy Doyle
August 1, 2006
Justin---I'm not sure why but lately you have been on my mind a lot. I have been thinking about what happened, how I talked to you just a few hours before about how much you love Gigi and how you were going to start getting your life back on track, especially with school. I remember the feeling of comfort I got knowing no matter how dumb or minimal my problems seemed, you were ALWAYS there to listen and give me advice without any BS. I could always count on you to tell people the truth no matter what. i almost feel as if you are our North Star. When we are lost, you show us the way home. Every time I walked into Gigi's room and see all the signitures and messages she and Kelsey wrote on her desk I think of you. She still has your boxers sitting on the edge of her bed and the stuffed animals you gave her and the pictures of you. You will never and could never be forgotten. I have began going to your church with Gigi on occasion. It makes me feel as if you are there with us most of the time. Conner really does remind me of you every time I see him, and Kelsey is doing great at St. Gertrudes. She played against me in soccer this year and did so well. I truly wish them the best and hope your family knows I'm always here, even though I'm not as close to them as I wish I was. Mason, Gianna's son, asked about you the other day. I had to tell him you were looking over us from Heaven. There are times where I can see you up there skateboarding and laughing and living on through others. I miss you terribly Justin and regret every day that I did not make the effort to see you more often, because we talked all the time, but we didn't hangout as much. I will always miss you and wish I or somebody could have prevented what happened, but as your mom says God has a plan for everyone. Save a spot for me in Heaven Juddy. I miss you with all of my heart.
love,
Lindsy
Karen Creech
June 12, 2006
Dear Justin,
You would have graduaed from high school right about now. Dad and I still have the wine we got in California when I was pregnant with you. We saved the bottles for your high school graduation. Even before you were born we planned for this major event in your and our lives. I was told that at TJ's graduation there was a moment of silence in your memory. I also saw the Maggie Walker year book and it was dedicated to you and another sudent who died in 2003. It read "you will always be a part of the class of 2006." They also put your picture in with the senior class pictures. You see you live on in so many ways. I am so sorry that you can't be here to live your dreams. But you will never be forgotten!!!!! I love you with all my heart and I miss you more with each passing day.
Love Always,
Mom
Peggy Leford
June 7, 2006
Dear Justin,
Scott graduates today!! It will be hard to watch my son get his diploma and the little boy that helped him get there won't be there to get his. I guess your spirit will be there and we will feel your presence, but that will not stop me from crying. I don't know what I will be crying more seeing him get his or not seeing you get yours. I know God has his reasons, and you are in a better place, but you are missed here on earth. I do thank God for giving us the opportunity to meet such a beautiful child that really only gave to people. Like I have said before I do not think you realize the effect you had on the people you touched, you are very much loved by many people.
Everyday I look at my son and I can't help, but think of YOU. You were his first true and everlasting friend. I still hear you laughing and running away from me when I try to give you a kiss on the cheek. I still see you and Scott acting and cutting up at the Christmas Program. You did have a way to keep my boy laughing.
Justin you will always be remembered and loved in our family.
Peggy
Karen Creech
March 23, 2006
Dear Justin,
I have been thinking about you alot lately. For awhile there I couldn't think about you without feeling unbearable pain. The pain is and will always be there without you here with your family, however, with God's help and yours I have found strenght and the courage to continue living without you. You were my first born son and until I had you I never could have imagined how much I could love and how much happiness life could hold. I was so blessed to have you for the 15 years 2months 2weeks and 4 days. We had more wonderful memories in that time than many people have in a lifetime. No matter the season, the weather, the place, the time or what is happening in my life I have a memory of you...of us...of our family. Your life and our love was the most precious gift God has given me. I cherished it when you were alive and I still cherish the gift of you. I see your smiling face, I hear you voice, remember you jumping down the stairs, flying on your skateboard, playing soccer with such skill and confidence. I remember you tears and me holding you...one time in particular when you had done something you sholdn't have and you were crying and I could see how scared you were and I told you that I could not fix it for you even if I wanted to. In that moment I realized how much it hurt to be a parentwhen you could no longer protect your child from choices they made. You were 13. I did what I could to reassure you and just held you as we both cried. I never wanted to see you hurt like that ever again. I remember the first time your heart was broken and as I watched the tears streaming down your face I would have done anything to take away your pain but once again I was helpless. I remember watching you as you grieved for your aunt Kathy and shortly after for her first born son, Christopher. You were so young to have had felt the awful pain of death. But I prouldy watched you as you found your way in such dark times. I remember that Monday, 2 weeks before you were murdered, talking to you about another death, one of a young mother and in trying to explain to you that sometimes all we had to go on in this life was "blind faith" and how I could not be the mother I was to you, Kelsey and Connor if I did not believe that one day we would see your aunt Kathy, Christopher and my mom-your grandmother again in heaven. I told you how sad life would be if there were no promise of an afterlife with God. You made a comment but when I turned to look at you I knew you got it. Little did I know that was the most important conversation we would ever have. Two weeks later I would have to live with that "blind faith" in a way I never ever wanted to. You struggled so much with life and growing up. I will always remember our talks and me trying to explaln to you how the world worked whether we liked it or not. I now know how important those life lessons were for both of us. I am so thankful for the relationship we had-the good times and the bad. I am thankful that we lived the love we had for each other. Now as Connor approaches the age of 13 i see so much of you in him-he is skateboarding like his big brother did and he has the passion and love of soccer just the way you did and he even has some of your mannerisms. You were his hero and I believe you always will be. He doesn't talk about you and I think he's angry because of what happened to you but I promise you I am and will always be here to help him and when he is ready to rmemember and talk about you. Kelsey is such a beautiful young lady and as she approaches her 15th birthday I wish you could be here to help her through these years as only a big brother can. We are so much better for having loved you and we cherish the love you had for us as the gift it is. You will always be remembered and loved by so many but most of all by me, your proud mohter.
I LOVE YOU!!
MOM
Forever smiling, forever young, forever loved...Son, brother, & friend
January 6, 2006
Karen Creech
January 6, 2006
Dear Son,
It has been two years since you were taken from us. The pain never stops. Yesterday your family and friends spent time honoring your life. I still see your great smile and hear you saying "mommie I love you". There are no words to express how much you are missed. I wish I could have just one more day with you. My heart is broken and I feel so lost without you. Your dad said today he tries to imagine you at 18. I will never understand why someone else would take another life. You were so full of love and happiness and no matter what I will always remember you that way. I love you Justin! You were the best son anyone could have hoped for.
Love forever,
Mom
Susan Quirk
January 5, 2006
Dearest Justin,
It has been 2 years since you left us to go to heaven. I know that you are looking down on all of us with that wonderful smile of yours. We all miss you so very much. You will always be loved very much by me and everyone else who ever knew you.
I love you,
Aunt Susan
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