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Gerald Glasper Obituary

Gerald Lance Glasper, 41 of Arlington Virginia died Friday October 15, 2010 from injuries sustained in a motorcycle accident. Born in Tacoma, Washington, he was the son of Adelanto Mayor Charley B. Glasper and the Late Daisy Mae Glasper.
Former Marine and Senior Construction Project Manager, Gerald was a devoted Son, brother, father, uncle and Friend. He touched the lives of many and always made time for his friends. He will be missed by all.
Those left to cherish his memory are his father Charley and his wife Evelyn Glasper, of Adelanto, California, brother Patrick and his wife Melissa Glasper of Arlington, Virginia, nephew Nicolai and his mother Carla Glasper of Fredricksburg, Virginia, and his beloved daughters Sariyah and Raine, and their mother Molly Glasper of Eureka, California. He also leaves to mourn him, his grandmother Mrs. Veola King of Shreveport, LA and a host of uncles, aunts, and cousins, from Illinois, Missouri, California, and Louisiana. He was loved by many, family and friends alike, and touched the lives of so many more. He was preceded in death by his beloved mother Daisy.
Visitation and viewing was held Friday, October 22 at Murphy's Funeral Home in Arlington, Virginia. A memorial service will be held at 11 A.M. on October 28, at the Gate Church of the High Desert, 11783 Amethyst Road, Victorville, CA. Gerald will be laid to rest at Desert View Memorial Park, in Victorville, California, a city he once called home.
A memorial fund is being established. Donations, in lieu of flowers, would greatly be appreciated. You may send your donations to the following address:
The Gerald Glasper Memorial Fund, c/o Potomac Construction Group, 1617 Swann Street NW Unit #2, Washington, DC 20009.
All inquiries concerning Gerald's memorial service should be directed to Hall Memorial Chapel, Phone: 760-245-6200.

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Published by Daily Press from Oct. 22 to Oct. 27, 2010.

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William Mays

October 14, 2024

It´s been awhile since I have written something to you Bro! I have gray hairs lol...I´m thinking about life it´s twists and turns, it´s ups and downs. I want you to know we will strive to be the very best we can be given our circumstances. I miss our conversations and laughter that above all. I´m thinking of Master´s Degree Bro? I know what you would say lol... It´s not to get a higher paying job! I guess it´s something that has been on the back of my mind lately. I´m still here in Temecula, Ca. I have picked up deep sea fishing and have caught some Bluefin Tuna and Yellow Tail. I like going out on the water it gives me peace of mind. I bagged one of these it was fun and a lot of work. You are missed Bro continue to watch over your family !

Will

Raine Glasper

September 21, 2024

I miss you so bad I can hardly breathe some days. I´m sorry it´s taken me this long to write to you. I struggle with the ability to feel that I´m making you proud and I find myself mourning that what if version of myself. The undamaged version that still has you to call for advice. The version that doesn´t feel so unbearably broken at times. I can´t believe it´s about to be 14 years without you. I love you forever dad. Love, your Doodle Bug

Matt Brisson

December 11, 2023

I got a notice someone had posted in your guest book and was so glad I checked and was able to read back to see how much your family still loves and thinks about you daily! Your girls are beautiful and doing so well and sound like they have so many of your qualities, you did well my friend. I still remember our talks when I was deployed to Iraq and you were in DC and how we talked about linking up when I got home, I really wish we were able to follow through on that. Loved seeing my old friend from high school turn into a Marine, father, and so much more but most of all I remember your smile and positive attitude and how infectious that was to everyone around you. EVERYONE loved you brother, you meant so much to so many and I can't wait to see you again in Eternity just to have another conversation with you and hear you laugh......I love you my friend.

Mel Glasper

December 8, 2023

Happy Heavenly Birthday Big G. Gone but NEVER forgotten! Not a day goes by we don´t talk about you.. You are so missed!!

Molly G

October 15, 2023

13 years without your physical presence. I thank God everyday you have such a giant soul. I always feel you here. I know you never really left. I'd sure love one of those Big G smiles. I'm sure you and Jesse have shared a couple of those big flashy smile sessions on some pub stool up there in Heaven. Keep watching over our beautiful girls I love you forever.

Joe Jackson

October 14, 2022

I know it's absurd to imagine there's an overall fairness to life, and I'm ridiculous for expecting it. But I still have the overall feeling of, "It's not fair" when I think about Gerald being gone. It's heartbreaking really, as is much of life from time to time.

Molly G

October 14, 2021

Hey you- I know you´re watching. I know you´re proud.. our girls are finding their way as "adults" ..one with a college degree now...one in college and working...and little Naiya is a freshman at UCSB...can you believe it? Yeah I can too lol.. they were all destined to be great! There have been so many changes this past year... you have both your mom and pops up there with you now; that must have been quite a reunion. The world is challenging down here in these times and I´m grateful knowing that we have so many angels watching over us all. I really miss you G. I love you till the end of time. Rest Easy and keep an eye on our girls xo

Brandon Smith

October 23, 2020

It’s still hard to think about this. You’ve had a positive impact on my life, even to this day, 23 years after I graduated boot camp. You made a lasting impression on every recruit in Plt. 1127, whether you know it or not. Thank you.

- Sgt. Smith

Sariyah Glasper

October 21, 2020

I love you forever! Thank you for being the best dad in the world.

Greg Maples

October 15, 2019

Missing you, brother. I still feel the impact you have had on me and others. It warms my heart on cold days like today. With love, admiration, and appreciation...Maples

Look at our babies G!! xoxo having some wedding fun!

molly glasper

October 14, 2019

Sariyah & Naiya... so beautiful!!

molly glasper

October 14, 2019

Raine Glasper! our girl is GORGEOUS xoxo

molly glasper

October 14, 2019

molly glasper

October 14, 2019

Our Beautiful girls!! Rest in love and know that the mark you left on this world resonates in these beautiful, intelligent and kind souls!

Molly glasper

October 14, 2019

Hey there G ~ It's been a minute since I've been by here... life has been crazy. Our girls are thriving, which I know you already see.. Sariyah is conquering the world..she got a 94% on her most recent accounting exam ...and she landed a job in the acounting department at the University... she is taking 18 units this semester. That girl is so disciplined and so beautiful... she is aiming for the big BIG leagues for grad school... possibly a JD MBA ...stay tuned..;) Raine just bought a new car..she is working for an animal hospital..and dear God that young woman is a super model...she still has your hilarious sense of humor and wit..and your stubborn streak lol but she has your winning smile and gentle soul..everyone loves her. Naiya is almost 6 ft tall...with a 4.18 GPA and an old kind soul...she's running for senior class president (in Sariyah's footprints) ..she makes us all laugh everyday and she is beautiful beyond words... I would give anything to see the four of you chopping it up in conversation.. I don't think the laughter would ever end.. nor the love. We miss you. ...Every.Single.Day. Tomorrow will be an emotional one for sure...as it always is... but rest easy "Rift" (lol) ...we've got this! Always in my heart ~ Red

Sariyah Glasper

February 22, 2018

I went and saw Black Panther on the opening day because I know how much you love Marvel. You would've loved it. I think about you every day and miss your guidance although often times the universe does things that make me realize you're still here helping me and I don't feel as alone. I love you, Dad.

Joe Jackson

December 31, 2016

This news was terribly sad. I just found out, and it's fresh, painful and raw for me. Who knew it would hit me so hard? I can only imagine how the people who were very close to Gerald feel. I'm so sorry for everyone who knows how big of a star we lost with his death. Keep the memories moving forward, and live some of his high standards so someone can emulate you too for decades to come. I know that's a tall order, but some of us can at least pretend we could fill those shoes.
Regardless of how well you knew him, we call all keep missing him and loving him and appreciating his positive influence in our lives. Sometimes bad things happen to good people, and it makes no sense. Some questions go unanswered, and we just have to flow with the confusion. If I had a chance, my first question would be, "How do you find shirts that your arms can fit in?" And I'd judge how many follow up questions he'd allow by his reaction to the first one. All my love brother, I'm sorry you had to go so soon.

Bill Marlowe

May 18, 2016

Big G......still think of you from time to time. Especially all those days on the PT field as hats teaching recruits pugil sticks, bayonet, confidence course, rappelling, and line training! But I think the best memories are going to you and Molly's house on Sunday mornings and eating those delicious waffles! Those were the best! Miss you man and hope to see you again someday! MCRD SD, DI School Class 4-96, Golf Co and ITC.

William Mays

May 17, 2016

You are missed Bro... I have finished what i set out to do bro. I will walk with a B.S. in Management from CaL State this week! What's next for us maybe an MBA...I miss your big smile to G!! Peace until we meet again....

MEL GLASPER

May 16, 2016

LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH! STILL SUCH A VOID MISS YOU!!CONTINUE TO WATCH OVER US~!!

Molly Glasper

February 21, 2016

They say that when your dreams become more peaceful and the ease of rest falls around you...that your loved ones are peacefully resting in heaven... i do not know for the life of me if that is true... but I would love to believe it.. I went to the funeral of a friend yesterday...like you she was a beautiful soul gone too soon..a mother.. and I saw the pain and anger in her childrens faces... I cried for them like I still cry for our girls...but I took comfort in the knowledge that grief is a wheel..and happy days will come back around for them.. it wont always be the sadness... though the sadness will always come. I miss you...forever. we love you G... p.s. can you believe that little Naiya will be a teenager this year? Oh my goodness she would make you laugh...xoxo

James Armstrong

February 15, 2016

Love you Bruh

MELISSA GLASPER

December 10, 2015

YOU HAVE BEEN ON MY MIND EVERY DAY THIS MONTH!! (YOUR BIRTHDAY MONTH) I GET SO SAD WHEN I LET MYSELF THINK ABOUT ALL WE HAVE MISSED WITH YOU!! LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!LIFE JUST ISN'T FAIR SOMETIMES... YOU ARE TRULY MISSED!!!

Sariyah Glasper

October 2, 2015

Love you more than any words could ever explain, Dad.

James Armstrong

July 9, 2015

Miss you Brother.

Molly Glasper

July 8, 2015

Loving you today as always our baby graduated and is going to college.... The other is becoming more gorgeous everyday.... And Naiya is taller than me and Sariyah now .... I know you are amazed and proud! We love you G

STACY

July 7, 2015

A RAINY DAY PRESENTED ITSELF TODAY IN COLORADO. IT MADE ME THINK OF YOU...LIGHTING A CANDLE IN MEMORY OF YOU. MISS OUR CONVERSATIONS.

T Sipes

October 1, 2014

Unpacking boxes at the new house and came across a box you gave me still with your name, rank etc. Had a lot of my Corps stuff in it that I thought had been lost or stolen. Thanks for keeping an eye on it for me...

Molly Glasper

September 30, 2014

I love and miss you. Everyday.

Molly Glasper

January 7, 2014

Hey you ?
Did you hear that our girl is going to be driving? I hope you aren't spread to thin Watching over folks...lol cause we're gonna need ya! Just playing. ..she's gonna be great! We miss you. ..Every single minute...?

Karuna and Steve Scire

September 18, 2013

Melissa: Sorry for your loss....He is watching over you and everyone he loves....Take care.

Melissa Glasper

September 18, 2013

can't believe 3 years ago u were the Best Man at our Wedding your brother and I were so Happy you were able to share in our special day and travel to Barbados with us.. I don't think u ever really got to know how truly greatful and thankful we were to have u share that day with us.. it meant the world to us and just 3 short weeks later u were stolen from our lives but never from our hearts u are my Angel above now and I miss u more and more every day!! love always your sister ( not in law but in love)

william mays

September 17, 2013

Hi Gmoney,
It's been a while since we last spoke bro. I'm doing well Yasmin will graduate high school this year. I will be attending Cal State in the fall of next year. I miss you bro the laughs and that infectious smile. Until we meet again....Semper Fi!!

Wallace White

July 24, 2013

Gerald was a true friend. G treated me like his little brother. I lost contact with Gerald a couple of years ago. I started an internet search see if I could find him. It took me a few minutes to finally click on the link for the obituary for my brother. We served together at 29 Palms. G would let me go to his parents Apple Valley on weekends. His mom Ms. Daisy treated me like her son. His house was like an oasis in the desert. Spending time there was like going home. Their house was so loving. Gerald and I took trips to Vegas, and Lake Havasu during spring break when MTV would broadcast there in the early 90s. I have nothing but good memories of Gerald. He will be missed greatly.

Molly Glasper

May 13, 2013

Going through it today G! I miss you so much it hurts. I think Ive cried for the last 2 hours.. just cant seem to shake it... you already know that though, huh? We leave in a few days ...taking our girl to Kauai for her sweet 16 gift. She was supposed to be in Europe with you... maybe that's why my heart is so broken right now.. I'm trying so hard to not be angry...but I am. I'm doing my best for our girlies...somedays are just harder than others. I need you now. I close my eyes and there you are..big wide smile...the signature sway that your shoulders move when you walk...the way you laugh and talk at the same time...I know you're here...I know you're still holding me up...I just miss you. xoxo Our girls miss you. :(

February 9, 2013

I love you Brother. Missing you dearly.

James Armstrong Jr. (Tacoma to Victorville)

Molly Glasper

February 4, 2013

The girls had their winter formal! They were beautiful! Rainey would take your breath away. ... she wore a butterfly in her hair. .. To take a piece of you along with her. Xoxo you're always here.. In everything we do. Missing ya lots xo

Molly Glasper

January 25, 2013

Today I took our daughter to see the venue I booked for her sweet sixteen! It's going to be amazing. ...just like her! We're doing a photo shoot for her invitations. .. Black and White. .. Breakfast at Tiffany's. ..Audrey Hepburn glamorous! ! You'd love it! Her theme is Tiffany's meets country chic! I know. ...I know. ..You're laughing and shaking your head saying of course. .. Only our little "princess Queen of the world! " would choose that! Lol I wish you were here G.... The party coordinator asked me if she was spoiled much?... I just smiled and said that it's what her daddy would give her if he was here. .. And don't you worry. .. I'm gonna play some Gypsy Kings and save her a special dance for you xoxo we miss you and we love you every single day! Xoxo

Mel Glasper

January 25, 2013

Not a day goes by that I dont think of u... some days are easier than others but it still hurts so much!! u were such an amazing spirit here on earth so I can only imagine how u are up in heaven.. I am so thankful for the short time I had with you just wish i had more... and I am so greatful that you were at our side in Barbados when I married your brother...love you so much!!

william mays

January 23, 2013

G-money,
I just finished a semester at college and guess what bro? I took five classes and recieved all A's. I made the Dean's list G!!I'll keep you posted I think this semester will be a little harder... I have to take college Algebra lol..take care G I miss you. I may have to take a road trip soon...

Jason Morton

January 17, 2013

Hey Devil Dog, I'm a bit upset, that I found you this way. You were truly an inspiration in my life. The last time I saw you was Boot Camp Graduation, Alpha Company PLT 1127. I just want to say God Bless you and your famiy!!!

-Jason Morton (Carney now)

Nick Ebben

October 15, 2012

Dear Staff sergeant, I haven't seen you since 1997 but somehow you popped into my dreams last night to say Hi. When someone has a big impact on you they really stick with you I guess. In my previous post I forgot to apologize. I know I let you down and I'm still ashamed to this day. After I saw you for the last time on October 10th '97, I went on to infantry school up in Pendleton. About half way thru I found out my recruiter wasn't 100% honest and I didn't get the MOS I wanted. I got mad and basically gave up. I should have looked to my time with you for strength at that time but I just got mad and quit. You had such confidence in me, pushing me to be a leader. I let you down... I guess I didn't (and probably still don't) have the confidence in myself that you had in me. I'm sorry. I still remember when you showed up to boot grad day on your day off and made a point to come find me and say goodbye. Thank you. Oh...and, I also miss that great big smile. When you would try to make me loose my composure in formation, I was always doomed, lol..every time! God bless you and your family Staff Sgt.

Molly Glasper

October 8, 2012

I'd give anything for one of those big smiles. I miss you so much it hurts... I can't believe its almost two years... Our hearts are still so broken.

October 7, 2012

I was one of the smallest Marines you ever trained. I was in Alpha 1127 in 1997. A time in my life that i will never forget. You never let me think of myself as being small treated me like one of the regulars. You will be missed.
Eric R. Mueller

William Mays

August 18, 2012

Lance, from MSG Duty to the Drill Field at MCRD San Diego... I still think of you bro.. I know you are looking at us with that big wide grin of yours. The memories shared on the Drill Field and MSG Duty will always be with me. You have had a profound impact on so many lives that I know someone somewhere is talking about that lean Marine Drill Instructor... Until we meet again Semper Fidelis

Molly Glasper

June 15, 2012

Well big guy....another milestone. Our Rainey girl graduated junior high today! And oh my was she beautiful! I felt you there...proud...beaming..with that mile wide smile! She knows you were watching! I put orchids in her hair...and some in her boquet..just like the ones you love. :) you never leave us! Sariyah got into AP world history and accelerated english...spanish 2 and student govt. ...varsity soccer....7 classes with zero period.... boy its gonna be a busy next year! We love you and we miss you....but know that your spirit is still urging us onward and upward! ~Butterfly

Molly Glasper

May 17, 2012

Hey You... the girls and I have been packing up ...getting ready to move into our new house....one not connected to the memory of the night that phone call came. The night you were taken from us...
We are bittersweet with leaving... as though we will be leaving behind the last place we were connected to you... but I just tell them it doesnt matter...that you live in our hearts. We miss you G :( everyday... They are flying out to your old place as soon as school gets out...gonna visit your brother and Melissa! It will be good for them... Well I hope Heaven is treating you well big guy! You are so so loved and missed down here! ~Butterfly

Melissa Glasper

May 9, 2012

NOT A DAY GOES BY THAT U AREN'T ON MIND! MY HEART ACHES FOR ALL THE MEMORIES WE DIDN'T GET TO MAKE AS A FAMILY! YOUR BROTHER IS STILL HEART BROKEN!! LOVE U SO MUCH!

Tina Williams

April 26, 2012

Missing You sooooo much my friend. I sure could use a good talking to right about now. It still doesn't feel real or maybe I just cannot accept it. I still have your phone number in my phone, as if I expect to see you pop up on my caller ID. I still think about our last conversation. As you already know, I will hold that close to my heart for eternity. Love you Lance!!

Chance Casas

April 24, 2012

Mr. Glasper. I was a young Marine recruit in 1997, A co. 1st RTB plt. 1089. I remember you well. I remember your leadership. I remember your sense of humore (although laughing at it would have caused me terrible pain and grief). I remember diamond pushups on the quarterdeck. Lots of them.

I was reading up on the internet, trying to find if any of my former Drill Instructors ever made the news. Unfortunately, I came upon this. I didn't know you for very long, but your impact on my life walks with me every moment. You have a direct influence on the Marine I eventually became, you have a direct influence on the man I am today. For your family, I grieve for the loss of an irreplaceable individual that changed, at least one, life. Words cannot express how thankful I am for you, and how sorry I am that you will not be able to further influence others.

January 29, 2012

I love and miss you, Dad.

Molly Glasper

January 29, 2012

Sariyah has her first high school winter formal this next weekend... her dress is amazing... just like her of course... I sat and cried for an hour after the girls were out of the house, imagining what you would say... how in awe of her you would be. I miss you everyday...but these days are the ones that break my heart over and over again.I want you to come back....

Nick Ebben

January 22, 2012

I'm sorry, I meant July 15 to Oct 10, not that it matters I guess. Gerald had just gotten bumped up to Staff Sgt while I was with him in 1127 Alpha Co. He kept pushing me to be a squad leader, and I'm sure my ADD attention span must have drove him nuts, but he didn't give up. I only knew him for those 10 weeks or so, but he made a possitive impact on my life and I will never forget him.

Nick Ebben

January 21, 2012

I am so sad to hear of the passing of Gearld Glasper. He was my drill instructor at MCRD San Diego in 1997, oct 10 thru july 15. He was a great man. I had such fond memories of him that I wanted to see how he was doing.
That's when I found out about the crash, and the news immediately brought tears to my eyes. It takes a lot to make a marine cry.... That's how great a man he was. I wish all the best for his family.
Semper Fi Staff Sgt, we will miss you.

molly glasper

January 4, 2012

Well, another new year has come and gone... and we still miss you like you just left. We watched a movie last night and cried at our memories of you... but the tears were more about how you were here in the room and laughing at Raine's jokes! LOL we are looking forward G... but I miss you sooo much.There was a halo around the moon last night... we love you too!

Tyler Sipes -- Semper Fi

November 10, 2011

Happy Birthday Marine! You are missed!

Miguel Lopez-Rosende

July 13, 2011

LG, I miss you everyday... The day the Lord took you was the day I lost my brother. I remember all the great times we had and all the good advice we shared together. God blessed us both by giving us the same birth date and allowing us to share it as good friends for so many years. I will see you again one day, for your love and guidance is greatly missed. Watch over me, and see me smile when I look up and think of you my friend. God Bless! Your brother, Miguel

Chris Lopez

June 28, 2011

Gerald, you were truly one of a kind. As your Company Commander, you cut me no slack, you made me laugh until it hurt, and were always so damn fun to be around. It kills me that you're no longer with us. Know that you helped me to never take life too seriously....you, in fact, helped me to be a better leader. Gerald, you were a big man with a big heart. And we Marines are so lucky that you were a part of our special clan. We will never forget you.

Dorothy Gemberling

March 18, 2011

Missing you

Molly Glasper

March 17, 2011

Happy St.Patty's Day G!! We love and miss you more than anything! I laughed today at the memory of you telling me about your kilt! :)

Robert Solano

March 16, 2011

I just found out, I cant believe it. I will miss you. You where a good Marine brother, and a friend. Semper Fi, you will be in my thoughts always, and your family in my prayers.

Molly Glasper

February 9, 2011

Missing You

Molly Glasper

January 9, 2011

Our New Year was hard....we miss you sooooo much. It was hard to go forward in time not having you here...but we want you to know that we carry you forward in our hearts forever! We love and miss you everyday G

Alicia Kopec

December 9, 2010

My dearest friend, Gerald. I am sad to not have you around, to hear from you and make those plans to see a Cubs game with me here in Chicago. April didn't come quick enough for those plans. I love you so much and my heart is torn without you here. I miss you and I wish you a peaceful birthday with the angels.

Dorothy Gemberling

December 8, 2010

Happy Birthday Lance. You are never far from my thoughts and i miss you dearly. You remain in my heart always and forever.

Sheri Albright

December 8, 2010

On this day you were born, on this day I honor your birth and on this day I tip my hat to you, my awesome friend! I know the Angels have baked you all those goodies you so enjoy! Happy Birthday My Honeyguns!

Molly Glasper

December 8, 2010

Happy Birthday Gerald! I hope they make chocolate chip cookies and cake in Heaven! We'll be having some for ya down here! We love and miss you!

Melissa & Patrick

December 8, 2010

HAPPY BIRTHDAY BIG G! ALWAYS IN OUR HEARTS AND NEVER FORGOTTEN..

Nathalie

December 6, 2010

I will never forget the first time I met Gerald. He came to pick me up, big strong and he was all nervous. Really cute! I was nervous too...but that disappeared very quickly. Your smile, the way you looked at me, made me feel wonderful and made everything alright. I remember and loved your jokes, loved how you kicked my butt with poker. I remember our long and deep conversations. What we shared made a large impact on both of us so I will never forget Gerald. I hope to have touched him as he has touched me...
I have looked into his eyes and saw a man with a beautiful heart, a wonderful dad whom will never be forgotten and is missed by many. Thanks to Gerald I met his wonderful brother and his fabulous wife! I am forever grateful for having met them. My condolences go out to his daughters, his brother, brother's wife, his father and the rest of his family, to his close friends and to everybody else who knew him and miss him. RIP Gerald. Baruch Hashem. Love

Molly Glasper

December 6, 2010

There isn't a day that passes that I don't think of you and cry...and for every moment of sadness I try and remember two things that make me smile. It's how I have figured out how to let the happy beat the sadness... I will spend the rest of my life fulfilling the promises I made to you Gerald. I will continue to raise our daughters with love, honesty, integrity and respect. I will never forget you. And I will never stop loving you. And I will always consider you in the choices I make for our beautiful children. You were the greatest father in this world... and the truest friend. The love we shared was ours...for only us to understand... and it will live eternally in my heart and I will always be your butterfly. I miss you so much. Rest In Peace G ...

Serge Wing

December 4, 2010

I got to know Gerald over the past few years, as someone I frequently ran into at Gold's Gym. When I first met him, he introduced himself and weeks went by and before he saw me again and I was impressed that he remembered my name. Yet, I was embarrassed at having forgot his and he knew it. He asked me, "What's my name?" after several bad guesses I apologized. So I actually wrote his name in my training diary so I would not forget it, since I did not regularly go to that gym. Over the years we'd talk some during our workouts and I was really impressed by Gerald the person. He was very personable and approachable person my only regret is that I did not take the time to get to know him better outside the gym. I was always took it for granted that there would be other opportunities to catch up as two vets would and talk about "back in the day" stories. I will forever regret not having that opportunity again and missing a friendship that was never given an opportunity to fully develop. There's a popular Irish blessing that I remember a few lines from that best describes my feelings. "May the road always rise up to meet you. May the warm sun always shine on your face. May the warm rain fall softly on your fields. May the wind be always at your back and may GOD always keep you in the palm of his hand Gerald. Until we meet again . . .

katy burke

November 20, 2010

I still think of you often and miss your smiles and words of inspiration, G. I continue to think of your family and pray for them. You were a wonderful man. Katy Burke

Melissa Glasper

November 17, 2010

I miss you so much my Heart is Heavy!! RIP my Angel

Melvin Bell

November 9, 2010

Though I never met my cousin Gerald, I extend my sincere condolences to his family & friends.
Melvin Bell & Family, Fairfield, CA

dianna mannone

November 2, 2010

Glasper Family,
my thoughts and prayers are with you all in this tough time! although i never met gerald i had heard such amazing things about him. we are truly sorry for you loss!
with love The Mannones

Toni Frazier-Jordan

October 31, 2010

Lance,
What moves through us is a silence, a quiet sadness, a longing for one more day, one more word, one more touch, we may not understand why you left this earth so soon, or why you left before we were ready to say good-bye, but little by little, we begin to remember not just that you died, but that you lived. And that your life gave us memories too beautiful to forget.
I recall being in biology with Lance at Hook Jr High and he had the stangest way of letting me know that he had a crush on me. Lance took the eyeball out of the frog that we had to dissect and threw it at me across the room. There was never a dull moment with Lance.
Mr.Glasper & Patrick,I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

October 29, 2010

Lance

Thank you for the opportunity to be called your friend. When you were around there was never a dull moment at Hook Jr High. You made my stay in Victorville a memorable one and for that I will always be greatful. Knowing you has made me a better person. I love you.

Alicesia Thomas (Rosemond) - Bossier City, Louisiana

Gregory Maples

October 29, 2010

Mr. Glasper and family,

Thank you for giving us such a great man. I am honored to have served with Lance in the Marines and to have continued our friendship after we left the service. Words simply can't describe the impact Lance had on the lives of his friends. I wish you all peace is knowing that Lance lived a great life and that he will be forever loved in the hearts of his friends. With such a great loss, we are reminded of how fortunate we are to have known him and to have loved him. Lance, you shall forever be my brother. Semper fidelis and thank you for your friendship.

Cynnthia Baker-Wray

October 28, 2010

The wonderful way your life has touched others will keep your memory alive forever.

Tammy Wimbush

October 28, 2010

You will be miss very much Lance, thanks for all the great advice you gave me on being healthy. My condolences go out to your family. GOD Bless you my brother, save a place for all of us in heaven and remember to look down on us once in a while and remember how loved you are. Mrs. Tammy Wimbush

October 28, 2010

Dear Charlie and Evelyn,
We just heard this afternoon. We extend our condolences on the loss of your son. We can hardly imagine your sorrow, not having been through such a tragic loss. May our good Lord comfort you and reassure you of his love.
Karen Etheridge Dearborn and Fred Dearborn

Brandy

October 28, 2010

Miss you so much Big G. Keep them smiling in heaven!

Cindy Blaylock

October 28, 2010

This candle is burning for you Mr Glasper....still thinking about you and missing you so much!

Theresa Williams

October 27, 2010

Lance,
I will miss your sense of humor.
I will miss your genuine personality.
I will love you forever.
My heartfelt sympathy for your family. May God bless and keep them in His care.

AnnMarie (Juarez) Sharp

October 27, 2010

Lance, my heart is so sad that you are gone. I am honored that you became my friend and I know you're watching over all of us now. Until then my friend I will miss you.. but we will see each other again.

Sheri Albright

October 27, 2010

Lance- my dear friend, I will always remember the smiles and the hugs (from way back in the day). We were both looking so forward to your next trip to Fort Walton Beach, Florida and getting to give each other that one big "swishy".
I cry tears of sorrow for your family, for your father, your brother and sister-in-law, and especially for the girls. They were extremely fortunate to have had you as their father - even for such a short time.
I will forever cherish your memory, I know you will keep The Gates well guarded - my "Honeyguns" - my friend- I can only hope that when my day comes - I will be granted the wish to see you again and you be there to greet me- I miss you...May You Rest Peacefully.

Tina Vasquez

October 27, 2010

It wasn't to long ago Shelly and I were talking about Lance. Like always we were smiling and laughing remembering Hook jr High. A person can not remember Hook and not remember Lance. You will be missed by many loved by all. The sun will shine brighter because of our Angel Lance. Love and Blessings to all his Family.

Ronnie Erdo-Rodriguez

October 27, 2010

Gerald u are loved by many, it was an honor and a privalge to call u my friend.
Im glad I got to see u again in VV over the summer! This is a tragic loss for ur family and friends, may GOD guide them threw this!! RIP partner :)

Lisa Denice ReddickLangford

October 27, 2010

My prayers and condolences to the Glasper Family.

Michelle Arredondo

October 27, 2010

My dear friend Lance, I truly miss you and your kindness...I still can't believe that this is real. My heart is in denial. You we're taken from this world far too soon. But I know the Angels are rejoicing in heaven to have someone such as you. I will always cherish our last visit a few months ago and the long talk and lots of laughs we had that day. And the laugh we always had, that no matter where we went we went to eat whatever you ordered it was never enough. Your food would come out and we would both look at it and say, thats it??? Lol...Good memories...So glad I signed the "Best Friends Forever Contract" in Jr. High, it was the best contract I ever signed!! I will truly miss you my friend. ?? XOXO ??

October 26, 2010

What a shock to me. Gerald was a great co-worker when we were together at Spaulding & Slye. I will miss him dearly. Dierdre Butts (Alexandria, VA)

Lynn Bartkowicz

October 26, 2010

I'm still in shock and my heart is broken for the loss of someone taken way before his time. My happiest moments working at Golds were while you were keeping me company up at the front desk. I will always cherish your insight on life and the best hugs ever. You've clearly touched a lot of lives ane hearts, and I'm thankful that I was one of those hearts this past year as well. Rest in peace my friend, you will be truly missed and always remembered fondly.

Cindy Blaylock

October 25, 2010

Lance, how could this happen to such a great person? We just got back in contact through facebook, you sent me some silly messeges and then you leave me again? I'm so mad at you right now! (No I am not!) I just wish you didn't have to leave us all so soon! I know I am your age and we are still so young that this just really breaks my heart. I know I will see you again soon, and this time it will always be forever. You so did not deserve to leave us, in such the way you did...and I am so sorry my friend! You will always be in my thoughts and I will never forget you! I miss you already so much!

Erik Ours

October 25, 2010

I served with Lance in the Corps in Iwakuni, Japan. He also knew my wife whom I was dating at the time we served together. We are both saddened by this sudden loss. Lance was a really good man, and I wish that I had more time to know him. The memories of serving together in Iwakuni will always be with me. Semper Fi Brother.

Debbie (Hill) White

October 25, 2010

I'm glad for the "chance" encounter of meeting again all the way across the country walking down the hallway at work here in DC. May the happy memories sustain your friends and family during this time of missing you.

Debbie King

October 25, 2010

Lance...what can I say? I miss you so much. Your texts always made me smile. You made my days brighter and better by a few simple words to show you cared. This world has lost a wonderful person and will never be the same. You were one in a million and I feel blessed and privileged to have called you my friend. Rest in peace and know that you were loved and will be forever missed.

Adrian Sidney

October 24, 2010

You were the biggest angel I've ever seen and you live on forever in our hearts and minds. We'll never forget you and all of your kindness.

Tony Portis

October 24, 2010

I'm still in shock that your are gone, we just kicked it at Pebble Beach park a few months ago at a mini VVHS reunion.I hadn't seen you in years and it was a pleasure seeing you again. I'm glad God gave me that opportunity to reunite with you again before your home going. I will miss you brotha...see you one day on the other side your friend.

April Szilagyi

October 24, 2010

I still cannot believe that you are gone!! I still owe you dinner G. I will miss your random texts throughout the day and the emails that we exchanged. You ALWAYS made me smile and I always loved spending time with you. I miss you terribly. I hope you are at peace my friend and I know that I will see you again...<3

Jimmy Lee Miller

October 24, 2010

United States Marine Corps Brother, you will be missed. I was proud to serve with Gerald in Hawaii. Guard the gates, Semper Fi.

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