John "Johnny" Duncan Ghee, Jr.
John "Johnny" Duncan Ghee, Jr.
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John "Johnny" Ghee, Jr. Obituary
John “Johnny” Duncan Ghee, Jr., 58, passed away on Saturday, August 12, 2023 at ARMC. A native of Virginia Beach, Virginia and the son of the John Duncan Ghee and the late Sue Charlotte Burton Ghee and was the husband of 34 years to Carmen Jewell Hurley Ghee, who survives.
It is with extreme sadness and heavy hearts to announce the passing of Johnny Duncan Ghee, Jr., an extraordinary husband, father and friend.
Johnny spent his childhood in Hawaii and Virginia Beach, Virginia and graduated from East Carolina University (1988) where he met his wife, Carmen Hurley of 34 years. Johnny began his career with Universal Forest Products 34 years ago and was promoted to National Vice President of Multifamily Construction in 2019. A man of unwavering loyalty, integrity, and kindness, he touched the lives of everyone who was fortunate enough to know him.
Of all the hats Johnny has worn, his friends and family know him best as a hunter, fisherman, coach, surfer, grill master, oyster shucker, farmer, comedian, mentor, PTA President, political fanatic, patriot, leader, and Christian, but the one word that describes Johnny the most, is “Legend”.
Johnny is survived by his wife, Carmen Jewell Hurley Ghee of the home; son, Noah Duncan Ghee of the home and his daughter, Hailey Jade Ghee of Atlanta, Georgia; father, John D. Ghee and step mother, Dorothy of Vero Beach, Florida; Father and mother-in-law, Brady and Rebecca Hurley of Garner, North Carolina and a sister, Jill Vendette and husband, Chad of Wisconsin.
A Celebration of his life will be held from 4:00-7:00pm on Friday, August 18 2023 at Alamance Country Club, located at 2402 Pineway Drive, Burlington, NC 27215.
In lieu of flowers, please send memorials to The Noah Duncan Ghee Special Needs Trust, 7128 Ludgate Road, Gibsonville, NC 27249.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
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C Manell
March 10, 2025
I am very saddened to hear of Johnnys passing. I knew Johnny back in the 80ties surfing in Va Beach and running around the Cavalier Hotel. My condolences to his family. "The Captain "
Carmen Garcia
August 20, 2023
Johnny-thanks for the good music and they even better bbq off the grill! You will be missed.
Jessica Comas
August 18, 2023
I only met Johnny when he got his truck done at Westcott Buick. He was light when he came in. He would talk about his fishing trip and ask how I was doing. My condolences. I don´t work there anymore. But he will truly missed.
Jim
August 18, 2023
My heart breaks for y´all.
Gonna miss the "Mayor of Ludgate"!!
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Meghan Morgan
August 17, 2023
Thinking of Carmen, Hailey, Noah and the rest of the family during these tough times. I had the privilege of working with and being friends with Johnny for almost 9 years. Johnny was such a kind, sweet soul. The most giving and caring person you would ever meet. His laugh and smile were so contagious, and his sense of humor was like no other. This is a HUGE loss for the UFP family, and he will be dearly missed. Prayers for all of you. RIP Johnny.
Jerry Theodorakis
August 17, 2023
Prayers to the Family, lots of Great memories with you two back in the Day at ECU. May the Lord be with you in this time of need!
Diane Bognich
August 16, 2023
Thinking of you Carmen, Noah and Hailey. Johnny was an amazing coach and taught me a lot. He was an inspiration to so many and his huge smile will be sorely missed. Prayers of peace to you all.
Kevin jr
August 16, 2023
My condolences for Carmen and her family. Johnny was a great family member to his family, and he was a great friend of ours. My condolences go out to him and his family.
Julie Leavel
August 16, 2023
First met Johnny in the building industry. Then the whole family while our kids were in Montessori school. Johnny was such a help to me with swim team in Colington! And with the traveling soccer team, OBX storm. I know Johnny and Scottie are having a beer together and watching over us! Love y´all
Lisa Winberry Claydon
August 16, 2023
my thoughts and prayers are with you all and will continue to be. I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your entire family are an inspiration to life and how it should be lived. Were an inspiration to many and to me in my childhood. God bless you all! I never got to meet Johnny but I know he had to be fantastic! God be with you!
Prayers flying up.
Bill
August 16, 2023
He will be greatly missed. We have to cherish the memories.
Griff
August 15, 2023
Johnny made everyone around him smile. Rest in peace my friend
Diana Lorditch
August 15, 2023
sending my deepest condolences to the entire family ....sending prayers that you will be wrapped in the arms of angels during this difficult time. Diana the Pirate (OBX)
Paula Jackson
August 15, 2023
My fondest memory about Johnny, is the grilling and of course him showing in his first horseshow! While I was announcing I laughed so hard at his antics. Love to Carmen, Noah and Hailey, and the rest of his family. Paula Jackson
Shana Shay
August 15, 2023
I am so sorry to this! The Ghee family is just so amazing and heartwarming! I have very found memories of them all with Noah! I was Noah´s teacher at EGHS when he first came to high school! The family is so close and I know this is heartbreaking but Johnny is with God and watching from above! Im praying for you all! I love you all Shana Shay
Tammy Fryar
August 15, 2023
You and your family are one in a million!!! You guys touched my heart and made me feel like family!! Noah will forever be my lil buddy!!! Rest easy til we meet again!!
Gene and Sue Ellen Johnson
August 15, 2023
Johnny was such a great guy! I found old pictures of us when we came to visit y'all in Kill Devil Hills. I remember when Carmen met him at ECU, and they were just meant to be together. He will be greatly missed by a lot of people. Take comfort in knowing that one day you will see him again. Love you!
Peter Santini
August 15, 2023
Saddened to hear the news of John's passing and sending deepest condolences to his family. I'll keep them in my thoughts and prayers during this trying time.
Cathy Ashley
August 15, 2023
I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with Johnny at UFP. He always put a smile on my face.
Sandra Fisher
August 15, 2023
I´m so sorry for your loss. I worked with Johnny At UFP. He was always happy and a joy when he called. Johnny will always be missed - he was always your friend.
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